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FOCUS, is a lay movement formed in England in late nineties for laity of the Mar Thoma Church living around the world. At present it is an independent movement of the Diaspora laity of the various Christian denominations from India; and as such Focus is not an official publication of any denominations. FOCUS online magazine is first kind in the history of any Christian denominations from India.
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Dear Friends in Christ:
FOCUS, is a lay movement formed in England in late nineties for laity of the Mar Thoma Church living around the world. At present it is an independent movement of the Diaspora laity of the various Christian denominations from India; and as such Focus is not an official publication of any denominations. FOCUS online magazine is first kind in the history of any Christian denominations from India.
Editorial Board
FOCUS
Dear Friends in Christ:
FOCUS, is a lay movement formed in England in late nineties for laity of the Mar Thoma Church living around the world. At present it is an independent movement of the Diaspora laity of the various Christian denominations from India; and as such Focus is not an official publication of any denominations. FOCUS online magazine is first kind in the history of any Christian denominations from India.
Editorial Board
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FOR CHRISTIAN UNDERSTANDING AND SOLIDARITY
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preserving the timeless truth while adapting to the cultural shifts and times by
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Remembrances: ant:
A Message af Condolence:
MOST REND ERT. HON. JUSTIN WELBY, Archbishop of Canterbury -—
Mar Chrysostom - Revered Prelate of Humanism:
MOST REVO DR. THEDOSIUS MAR THOMA METROPOLITAN-—
Appreciation & Remembrance:
a REVD DR. EUYAKIM MAR CODRILOS -
Eulogy Preached at the Funeral Servic
RL RAD JOSEPH MAR BARNABAS -:
i Chrysostom - A Glittering Jewel - shined in beaut
RT. REVD DR. ISAAC MAR PHILUXENDS --—
Editor
Revd Dr. Abraham Philip
Articles:
MY UNCLE THE BISHOP - FAMILY REMINISCENCE:
Or. Sara Bhattacharje —~
METROPOLITAN COMPLETING NINETY-NINE YEAI
dustice KT. Thomas~~
CHRYSOSTOM THIRUMENI - REMINISCENCES & REFLECTIONS:
Dr. Pd. Alexander -—~
MAR CHRYSOSTOM - A SHEPHERD WHO FOCUSED HIS LIFE ON THE PERIPHE!
Revd Dr, Sunny George
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Gun CHRYSOSTOM - AN OPEN BOOK OF REVELATIONS:
Revd Dr. Joseph Daniel -—--
CHRYSOSTOM VALIYA METROPOLITAN - AN UNFORGETTABLE EXPERIENCE:
Revd SajuC. Pappachen ~~
WAR CHRYSOSTOM: JABEZ OF OLD IN THE MALANKARA CHUR
Revd Dr. M. J. Joseph--~
THE BIBLICAL VISION OF MAR CHRYSOST
Reve Dr. Abraham Philip
ATRIBUTE VALIVA METROPOLITAN... THE ICON OF UNITY:
Revd Dr. Jameson KP.
A FAMILY TRIBUTE TO CHRYSOSTOM VALIYA METROPOLITAN
Mr. Koshy Samuel Wr Abraham Samuel, and Mr. Cherian Samuel ~~
THE LIFE AND LEGACY OF A BISHOP WITH A GOLDEN TONGUE:
Lal Varghese, Esa. ~
WAR CHRYSOSTOM - THE COMMON MAN'S PHILOSOPHER.
Revd. Dr. Valson Thamgu
A BISHOP WITH CHRIST'S COMPASSION
Revd. Dr KV. Simon ~~
MAR CHRYSOSTOM - RECONCILIATION PRECEDES UNITY:
Prof. Chacko Koshy —-~
MEMORIES THAT NEVER FADE
Dr. Jacob Beorge--~
ATESTAMENT TO GOD'S GRACE:
Dr. Mathew T. Thomas ~~
POEM - A LOVING TRIBUTE:
Mr. Jacob Joseph=-~
TRIBUTES TO CHRYSOSTOM THIRUNEN:
Mr. Thomas Koshy
TRIBUTES TO CHRYSOSTOM THIRUMEN - END OF AN ERA:
Mr. Jacob Jaseph--~
JOURNEYING WITH VALIVA METROPOLITAN MAR CHRYSOSTOM:
Wrs. Nirmala Abraham-~
CHRYSOSTOM THIRUMENI - A LEGEND OF HUMANITY:
Very Revd Dr. Cherian Thomas
CHRYSOSTOM VALIVA METROPOLITAN ~ A TRIBUTE TO A VISIONARY:
Prof. PlamootiV. Cherian --~
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The Most Reverend and
Right Honourable Justin Welby
Archbishop of Canterbury
A Message of Condolence
Thirumeni, dear brother in Christ,
I was saddened to hear of the death of Valiya Met-
ropolitan, the Most Reverend Dr Philipose Mar
Chrysostom earlier today.
The Metropolitan played a significant role in the
life of the church in India and around the world,
His ministry as a Christian leader and teacher has
touched the lives of many, as has his commitment
to the poor and those on the margins. I rejoice in the
relationship of communion that exists between the
Mar Thoma Chureh and the Anglican Communion
and am grateful for all that he did to build up that
relationship.
Please be assured of my prayers for the Mar Thoma
Church in India and around the world as you mourn
the death of a spiritual father. I commend him to the
merciful embrace of God. I pray also for the nation
of India during the present pandemic and for you,
Thirumeni, in your ministry.
Yours in the peace of Christ,
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Dr. Theodosius Mar Thoma Metropolitan
Mar Chrysostom: Revered Prelate of Humanism
Mar Chrysostom Mar Thoma Valiya
Metropolitan Thirumeni represents
a century’s wisdom and experience. His
Grace’s life is illustrated as a phenomenon par
excellence. Thirumeni could view the whole
world as a united entity and communicate to
the world the diverse layers of the Kingdom
of God experience exemplified with his own
life. Thirumeni is considered as Malayali’s
common treasure. The world acknowledged
the pure love of God through Thirumeni’s
words, life, and mission, People could place
Thirumeni close to their heart. His Grace
‘matured as a global human being and a citizen
of the world, while being a Christian Prelate
No other epithets werenecessary fora Malayali
to recognize Mar Chrysostom when one
heard of the title Valiya Thirumeni, That was
because Thirumeni could relate to everyone
without any barrier or distinction based on
denomination, community, positions, or faith
traditions, The world cannot easily forget
Thirumeni’s words, vision, and involvements
since the wavelength of that charisma spread
all over the world. The world viewed Valiya
Pk Bhushan Most Revd Dr. Philipose
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Mar Thoma Metropolitan
Thirumeni not just as the Prelate of the Mar
Thoma Church, but as the great priest of the
society at large. Thirumeni can be portrayed
as the treasure that God gifted to our era.
Thirumeni passed across the curtain of eternity
after making exceptional interventions in
Church and society in various capacities as
lay person, evangelist, clergy, and bishop.
Let us praise God and be joyful for our
existence in an epoch in which Thirumeni
lived. Thirumeni lived as a mark of delight,
a blessing to the global Christian Chureh, a
pride to India and of its the sages— a supreme
guru to the secular society. Since 1944 His
Grace served the Church in various capacities:
such as evangelist, deacon, presbyter,
Ramban, Episcopa, Suffragan Metropolitan,
Officiating Metropolitan, Metropolitan, and
Valiya Metropolitan. Thirumeni believed that
God’s call reflects one’s stances towards the
challenges in life. Thirumeni viewed every
space, may it be any position of responsibility
or harsh life experiences, as opportunities of
God’s call when one takes up full responsibility
with willful submission acknowledging that as
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one’s mission, Thirumeni taught that there are
dimensions of God’s call not only in clergy or
celibate orders but in all spaces of activity and
workplaces, As and when one identifies one’s
own call and mission, Thirumeni thought that it
is the responsibility of a true disciple of Christ
to enhance the ministry of others as well. His
Grace became more active in society after
delegating administrative responsibilities of
the Church to his successor. Mar Chrysostom
was unmatched as a great shepherd with
charisma, sense of humour, profound thoughts,
articulation, rhetoric, _oratorical skills,
extensive vision, accomplished leadership,
power of observation, and empathy towards
fellow beings.
The late Dr. Alexander Mar Thoma Metropolitan
elevated the three of us (Mar Athanasius, Mar
Theodosius, and Mar Coorilos) as Episcopas
on December 9%, 1989. Dr. Philipose Mar
Chrysostom was Suffragan Metropolitan
then, When I began my service as an Episcopa
at Malabar in Kerala and South Indian
States, Chrysostom Thirumeni was very
attentive to give nurture and instructions
that I needed. Thirumeni strengthened us,
the younger generation, by encouraging
and creating opportunities. After becoming
the Metropolitan, Thirumeni delivered
opportunities and gave encouragement by
sharing responsibilities at the Sabha Council
and other committees. Thirumeni empowered
the fellow bishops by stepping down from
the chair and delegating responsibilities like
chairing sessions. Thirumeni always found
time for collective discussion on the complex
subjects related to Church and society.
It is not an exaggeration to call Thirumeni
as the ‘prophet of divine love.” Chrysostom
Thirumeni had the heart of Christ. Thirumeni
saw everyone as siblings without any
segregation and hence could embrace them
all. This great shepherd discovered mission
frontiers among the poor, beggars, headload-
workers, nomads and labourers. Valiya
Thirumeni was standing beside Christ and
with those who were likely to stumble amidst
Struggles in life.
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The unique style and witty speech helped to
facilitate the uninterrupted communication
of the Gospel. Thirumeni never used wit and
humour to inflict pain upon or belittle the
other. Often shared jokes by placing himself
at the receiving end, This was a reminder to
society, which included himself, that there is
Gill space and opportunities for re-evaluation
and reformation. This was to teach us the great
message that self-criticism and reformation
must begin within oneself, Through laughter,
Thirumeni communicated that joke is not
something to be laughed at, but requires
a search for meaning through reflection,
Thirumeni had an inner sense of himself being
an ordinary person. His Grace was never after
honour or fame, After receiving the news of
being awarded Padma Bhushan, Thirumeni
responded: “This is an honour for an ordinary
person.” Thirumeni taught at various Stages
that the wise are not those who presume to
know everything but those who know that
their knowledge is imperfect.
For most of the time during Chrysostom
Thirumeni’s tenure as Metropolitan I was
serving at the Thiruvanathapuram-Kollam
Diocese. I could then sense how deep-rooted
was Thirumeni’s leadership in that Diocese
as a predecessor. Everyone fondly called
him Appachen (father). Thirumeni formed
an organization named STARD aimed at the
rural development of South Travancore. The
formation of Thiruyananthapuram Hospital
Guidance Centre is a fulfilment of Thirumeni’s
vision, Within the jurisdiction of the Diocese,
when Thirumeni reached out to two children
affected with AIDS and spent time with them,
it helped alleviate fear and social stigma
associated with the disease during those
times. Thirumeni exhorted to maintain a
biotic relationship with the society outside the
periphery of the Chureh. Thirumeni viewed
kitchen-gardening, nature conservation, bird
and animal nurture as part of spirituality and
implemented them in his backyard. Lived a
life of indebtedness to all and everything.
We must preach God’s love to neighbours
through our actions. All people must become‘truly human beings. Try to fulfil the needs of
others as if they are our own needs. Thirumeni
urges us not to lament over the social evils, but
find out our share in those and offer correctives.
One of the main themes of Thirumeni’s
sermons was the integrity of God’s creation.
His Grace repeatedly affirmed that disasters
are not part of God’s agenda and that God
expects no one to perish. That the world
would become a better place when we fulfil
our duties without forgetting our obligations
‘towards nature, fellow beings, and the cosmos
can be viewed as the foundation of his Eco
Theology. At the Maramon Convention held
in 2018, Thirumeni addressed the meeting
organized to combat social evils: “The
ministry of the Church becomes meaningful
when others are nurtured like us. Skin-deep
ointments cannot solve deep-rooted decay.
Church and the faithful must find the root
cause and confront them.”
His Grace Mar Chrysostom Thirumeni’s
valuable directives were indeed helpful
during the period of my Episcopal ministry
in the Dioceses of Thiruvananthapuram-
Kollam, Chennai-Bangalore, and Malaysia-
Singapore. Thirumeni tried out new methods
of doing mission and encouraged us to do so.
Thirumeni celebrated communion in Kannada
language and reached even to the remote
villages in Kamataka and interacted with
one and all. Thirumeni encouraged arranging
worship services in the vernacular for the
native believers. Thirumeni could step aside
from positions and power and become a co-
traveller with the common folk. Thirumeni
believed that true incarnation is to become a
commoner among the common people. This
indicates the broad-heartedness of Thirumeni.
Through his actions Thirumeni illustrated that
no one should ever be neglected. Thirumeni
thought that there is something to lea
from everyone. Everyone felt that they too
have become celebrities with Thirumeni’s
presence and conversations when he would
raise questions, extend greetings, listen to the
answers, and crack jokes both with the little
ones and the great ones of society. It was
always joyful and encouraging to spend time
with Thirumeni.
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The ecumenical vision of Thirumeni gives
new dimensions, opportunities and challenges
to churches and societies. The eminent
shepherd, Mar Chrysostom, taught us that
reaching beyond certain bare frameworks, a
broad vision could be evolved not solely in
terms of words, but through praxis. Thirumeni
had a clear vision about the Word of God and
the method of approach towards it. It was on
this basis that ‘Conventions’ were viewed and
evaluated. Thirumeni taught that the human
beings must enter into a deep relationship
with God and sharing of God’s Word must
be helpful to build up a community deeply
rooted in the Word of God. What is required
is not mere readers and hearers of the Word of
God, Thirumeni wished and insisted to create
practitioners of the Word who could seriously
learn the Scriptures and thereby themselves
get reformed and readily incorporate the
contemporary challenges of the Scripture.
Word of God tums out to be meaningful and
dynamic beyond the puzzles of time and place
when one knows, experience, obey, and boldly
proclaim God’s loving message.
Thirumeni’s presence and conversations
instilled positive energy upon others. The
visitors felt Thirumeni’s presence like how a
cooling tree shade, which provides comfort to
a road traveller who approaches it with burning
experiences ofa very hot summer. Thirumeni’s
words comforted and strengthened those who
came with travails and concerns, Thirumeni
ed an unmatched life. Thirumeni, a religious
Prelate, lived as a secular leader.
When one refers to the world as created by
God and that itis when God’s life entered the
form moulded from the dust that it became a
human being, we are reminded of the image
of God that gets illuminated in the world and
human beings. Basic human needs must reach
all. The call not to hurt the humanhood of
the other human beings can be viewed as the
definition Thirumeni gives to new humanity
that has to be realized today. We cannot see
God when we are unable to see God in others.
Thirumeni repeatedly prompted his listeners
to envision the needs of others as their own,
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Thirumeni believed and taught that a human
being is one who converts hell into heaven
and human life attains fullness when one leads
society towards transformation,
His Grace believed that the ‘Kingdom of God’
gets established in the world when God’s
will and human will turn out to be one and
Thirumeni urged people to do so. Thirumeni
taught that the ministry of the Church turns
significant when others are taken care of as
fellow travellers with an ‘all ofus nit together’
attitude, As aresult, the Church could construct
2500 houses for the homeless, irrespective
of caste or creed, on his 90th birthday. This
specific venture can be viewed as the practical
dimension of the definition that Thirumeni
could impart to the notion of new humanity.
Thirumeni expressed concern towards all of
God’s creation, Thus, Thirumeni’s thoughts
always expressed a wider humanity as the
locus. Therefore, everyone got enriched with
fresh reflective thoughts,
Thirumeni departed the world very calmly
and peacefully. Thirumeni maintained
clear and sure conviction about etemal life.
Thirumeni told many a times through his
sermons regarding what his parents in heaven
would talk about him. On May Sth, on his
journey from the Believer’s Church Hospital
to the Kumbanad Fellowship Hospital, His
Grace greeted everyone who served him with
a pleasant face as he reached the ambulance
in wheelchair. Upon reaching the Fellowship
Hospital, Thirumeni gladly ate the food
with fish fry prepared at the residence of the
Hospital Administrator Rev. Thomas John.
Talked happily with Dr. Raju P. George, the
medical staff, Rev. Binu Varghese, Santhosh,
Avarachan, and other care-givers. Thirumeni
again took food when Rt. Revd Thomas Mar
Timotheos Thirumeni visited in the evening.
Shortness of breath was felt after 10 pm that
night,
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Abbey who served as the driver was a middle-
aged person. Once Thirumeni who already
passed 100 years of age asked him: “Who
will look after me after you are gone?” When
I visited Thirumeni on a fine morning at 7.30
am, Thirumeni appeared to be dressed up as
if he had to travel somewhere. I was asked to
sit down. After a short while a minister of the
Kerala State along with family came to visit
Thirumeni, They came to meet Thirumeni
and receive blessings, While talking to them
Thirumeni said: “Now I do not have any
thoughts about anything to be acquired or
accomplished. If God appears this moming
and say: “Be prepared, I desire to take you
today,” then, even though I cannot refute
that, I will tell God: “Let it be not today, but
sometime tomorrow.” “This is what every
human think . . .” Thirumeni’s words were
thought-provoking to all who sat there.
Thirumeni talked such thoughtful words
laced with humour. Himself as an early bird,
Thirumeni was willing to meet everyone and
converse with them from morning till 10 pm
at night. The doors remained open.
At Maramon, the place where Thirumeni
lived, he chose to enjoy life alongside soil,
plants, and all that are living and immovable,
and delighted in growing plants and grooming
birds and animals, It was a regular sight at the
courtyard to see him watch with a meditative
mood the river Pampa flowing close by. Just
as the waters of the river flows downstream,
Thirumeni’s life flowed from this world and
departed to the other shore,
The revered Prelate of humanism passed away.
‘The virtues of the Gospel filled that lengthy life
with fragrance. As Christ belongs to everyone,
so too was Chrysostom Thirumeni, a great
shepherd to a world with no boundaries. For
everyone, Thirumeni was a father as well as
a friend. May that great accomplished legacy
which blessed us with his life, presence, and
blessings make us more dynamic, and let that
be our prayer.— 10
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Rt. Rev. Dr. Euyakim Mar Cooritos Episcopa
Diosesan Bishop of Kottarakara - Punalur
Oorsalem Aramana, Kottarakara
Appreciation & Remembrance
Paying appropriate tribute to a person, who
was admired by the whole world, is not an
easy task, It is even more difficult to define
the life of a versatile genius, Therefore, it is a
difficult task to pay befitting homage to Valiya
Metropolitan. He may not have authored
many books, but scholars and common people
all over the world have read his life well
through his words and actions, People were
eager to give their ears to his messages which
are written in their hearts and the effect of
which have been written about, He did not
build high-rise structures but created bridges
between different religions and cultures. He
redefined the boundaries of different religions
and brought out the goodness in each. His
words were eye opening and his actions were
always filled with compassion. He always
asked questions but never gave answers, thus
prompted people to find out new avenues and
answers
Thirumeni was a man who rowed across many
different streams of faith but never embarked
on any except his strong faith in Christ Jesus
While advancing through his journey into new
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horizons, he challenged parochialism and
encouraged people to respect other faiths
without sacrificing their own. Through that he
created a new awareness for searching for the
truth, He Started the last phase of his career
at the age of ninety after relinquishing his
official responsibilities as the Metropolitan of
the Mar Thoma Church. Thirumeni travelled
far and wide and addressed different segments
of people of society ranging from the lower
class to the elite class. Thirumeni used
humour to communicate the truth just like
Jesus used parables and miracles to explain
his messages. He never hurt anyone with his
humour but attracted everyone to his world,
He interacted with people of all walks of life
without any inhibition and became the Valiya
Thirumeni of all. The nation honoured him
by awarding him the Padma Bhushan and
the Kerala Government has honoured him by
instituting the 'Mar Chrysostom Chair’ at the
Mahatma Gandhi University. The chair will
definitely help to propagate the ideologies of
inter religious harmony and the meaning of
coexistence of human beings in the midst of
fast spreading religious fanaticism.
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I remember how I was astonished by
Thirumeni's noble approach to extending
charity. When I was the President of the
Yuvajana Sakhyam, the Sakhyam decided to
conduct sixty marriages for poor girls and the
fund for it had been sent to different dioceses.
Wherever it was planned. it had been done in
its own tum except in the diocese of Valiya
Thirumeni, When I approached Thirumeni to
ask him about this, he asked me why we were
conducting the marriages: whether they were
to help the poor families or for the publicity
of the Yuvajana Sakhyam. He then told me
that we should not use our charitable acts
for the poor and helpless for our publicity
and fame. He corrected my misconception
about giving to charity. He taught me that
charity is the expression of God's grace and
that we are only instruments to channelize
God's grace to our fellow beings. Thirumeni
had opened the doors of the 'Aramana’ for
a group of youngsters who had nowhere to
go. These youngsters were from the Punalur
Boys' Home. It is the rule of the home that
boys who have completed eighteen years of
age should find their own food and shelter. At
this juncture, Thirumeni asked them to come
and Slay with him till they got jobs. He silently
communicated to the community around him
that everybody should be taken care of and
their dignity should be honoured. He used to
celebrate Christmas with people who were
ing on the streets.
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The Diocese of North America and Europe
honoured Thirumeni on his 90* Birthday by
providing ninety houses to the fisher folk
community in Mexico, When handing over
the keys to the people, Thirumeni said, that
day was the happiest day in his life. He found
joy in serving the people with Christ's love
and compassion.
Valiya Thirumeni became the bishop of
our church when I was a child and in time,
God gave me an opportunity to become his
colleague. I have experienced his comforting
presence in my sorrows and his encouragement
in my failures.‘Collegiality’ the buzzword
for successful team accomplishment. As a
colleague of Thirumeni, in the episcopacy of
the Mar Thoma Church, I have experienced
Thirumeni's support and encouragement
wherever and whenever it was necessary. His
leadership style could be defined as one with
absolute inclusive collegiality and team work.
When we analyse the word ‘gif’, we
understand that i's a thing ora service given to
someone without expecting anything in return
and it also defines as a natural ability. We can
definitely conclude that Valiya Thirumeni was
truly a gift from God to our church and the
community around us, He had a natural ability
to give to others without expecting anything
in return. He offered his services to edify
others thus glorifying the God he served. We
believe that now he is enjoying his gift from
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Rt. Rev. Joseph Mar Barnabas Episcopa
Diosesan Bishop of Thiruvananthapuram - Kollam,
A Eulogy preached at the Funeral Service of Mar
Chrysostom Valiya Metropolitan
In one way or other we were looking forward
to this day — to sce the departure of 103-year-
old Metropolitan Thirumeni — when and how
would it be? These days I had been thinking,
how Chrysostom Thirumeni’s departure will
be—we all would have thought about it. What
‘would be the reason for us to think, like this?
Every Sunday the celebrant Achen prays
the mids of Holy Qurbana service, “Lord
make us all worthy of the blessed end that
is for the children of peace. That is what has
been fulfilled in Valiya Thirumeni’s Life.
This Blessed end is the fruit of 75 years of
priesily service, which Started in 1945. A
Blessed end will helps us to distinguish
blessed people. We have received this virtuous
life, without asking, Our Parents, our family,
when-where-what time to be born, language,
faith, all these things God created for us, like a
computer program everything is meticulously
arranged. Our only duty is to live well and be
grateful to God,
About 25 years ago, together with Coorilos
Thirumeni, we went to Kurishumala Ashram,
We retumed via Bharananganam. We desired
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to visit the convent of Sister Alphonsa. There
we met Sister Salamma, She was 93 at that
time, She was a teacher, a Marthomite from
Kozhencherry. Sister Salamma said, “sight
is poor; hearing has halved; I am 93 years
old; I do ask God, why am I not dead, why
am T not dying? I might be lacking something
not to go to heaven, That may be the reason
for this extended life”. During the 90* and
100% birthday celebrations, Chrysostom
Thirumeni also said the same thing. “Why am
I not dying? God must be having some intent.
‘There might be some shortcoming to correct.”
Once I asked Thirumeni, “Are you afraid to
die? Thirumeni replied, “hey, me afraid?
Never! But the thought, ‘should I die?’ does
reign.” Those who loved death for the Lord’s
sake are called martyrs. Like winged termites
coming out before a rain shower searching for
light and then falling dead, the church always
remembers those who loved death for Christ.
At the age 33, when Jesus was dying on the
cross, He said to His Father, “It is finished.”
The mission I was sent for has been completed,
After one week we will be celebrating the
feast of Ascension, It is the day that a mission
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was accomplished, the day when the job was
completed. All our fathers, the Metropolitans,
departed similarly from this world, joyfully
bidding farewell. Alexander Mar Thoma
Thirumeni relinquished his charges,
consecrated his successor, handed over his
responsibilities, settled financial matters,
accepted unction, prepared and started his
joumey. When Thirumeni was about to die,
‘when he could not speak, he raised 2 fingers of
his right hand. Many have doubts about what
he was trying to say — win 2 people for Christ
was the message. Thirumeni was a missionary
from the beginning to the end, faithful unto
death — wining people for Christ.
Joseph Mar Thoma Thirumeni on 2 Oct,
at the last synod meeting under Thirumeni’s
leadership did the opening and closing
messages. In the concluding message, when
we were at his bedside he told us bishops,
“After Maramon Convention in Feb 2020
I had a burden in my heart, how should
we celebrate the 103" birthday of Valiya
Thirumeni on April 27? When it was March
and covid -19 spread all over the world, and
in our native place also, I thought, how can we
protect Valiya Thirumeni from covid. Later
in the following month, I realised that the
103-year-old will send off the 90-year-old.”
Then Thirumeni said to all of us, “Now I am
ready to be with my Lord,” Itwas Thirumeni’s
faith proclamation - this dependence on the
Lord and a desire to join Him. Chrysostom
Thirumeni also received the same providence
from God,
In Genesis 5:21, it talks about Enoch of the
7 generation of Adam, 365 years old. But
300 years of this he was with the Lord. It is
said that they both usually went for walks
together. One day God said to Enoch, “Today
you need not go back. We can live together.”
Chrysostom Thirumeni’s end was also similar.
Relinquished his charges at 90 and for 13
years shaped and led an active life of service,
walking in a new path instructed by God.
The day he was discharged from Believers
Hospital and returned to Fellowship Hospital
Kumbanad, God said, “Come here.” Thus, this
great God helped Thirumeni with a blessed
Slate and experience
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Chrysostom Thirumeni__was someone
who imparted vitality. Thirumeni was an
amazement to this land. Thirumeni is a pride
of the nation, Only one who has fire inside can
blaze. That is the Strength of the Holy Spirit.
Thirumeni was a fountain of fire and living
water, a source which encourages many to
live,
This is the time of death. When we read
Jeremiah 16, we might think it was written
for times such as these. The Blue Whale
game inspired youngsters and kids to commit
suicide. Chrysostom Thirumeni’s life was a
gift which sheds light in the dark times. Dan
12:3 says ~ And they that be wise shall shine
as brightness in the firmament; and they that
turn many to righteousness as the Sars forever
and ever. Live forever — become immortal
beings. This isa time of ungratefulness, a time
of ungraciousness, a time when ‘thanks? is
not said. Whenever we go back after visiting,
Thirumeni in his deep voice will say, “Thank
you very much.” Those words will follow us.
These words are sufficient to encourage us
for a week. Joy and peace was embedded in
that ‘thank you.’ Two days ago God gave me
the good fortune to visit Thirumeni. As usual,
when I visited Thirumeni in the hospital, I
took a Cadbury chocolate for him. I broke a
piece and put it in his mouth, I also gave a little
soft drink which liked to drink. Itis a treat that
makes Thirumeni happy. Even though it was
difficult to utter words Thirumeni raised his
hands and blessed me. I accept it as a great
blessing and a sign of ‘thank you’, Mother
Teresa say “Kind words can be short and easy
to speak, but their echoes are truly endless”.
Righteousness is the nature of God. There
is righteousness of God and righteousness
of man, That is why the Lord taught ‘your
righteousness must exceed that of the scribes
and Pharisees’. Righteousness is ‘doing
good without expecting anything in return.’
Thirumeni was always burdened about those
who did not have houses to shelter, For
Thirumeni’s 90 birthday the church built
over 1000 houses at a cost of Rs 60000/- each.
His life was always shared for the well being
of others.Thirumeni is a man of scripture, who
understood the word of God and the spirit of
the Scripture. His meditation started at 4 am,
everyday. The whole family of Kalamannil
was like that, It is because the way of Christ
deeply touched his life that Thirumeni was
able to reach out, without any borders, to
everyone. His ability to see man above religion
was his great goodness. When we show our
respect and love to Thirumeni by kissing
his hands, those at Malliyoor Mana kiss his
feet to honour the divine grace in this man.
Thirumeni had great certainty about eternal
life. Only those who are prepared to die can
live well. Yes, only those who are sure about
eternity can progress in spiritual life. Once the
Atheist, Walter, said, “Ihave a chair in heaven;
I-can give to whoever wants it.” A Christian
advocate who heard it said, “Only thieves sell
what does not belong to them.” That is when
Walter understood his foolishness.
Jesus said, “Iam the resurrection. Lam the life.
He that believeth, though he were dead, yet
shall he live.” The Lord who rose and who is
able to resurrect is our hope, He prepared us a
world without death; an unimaginable heaven
— only a Christian can teach about a world
without death, Priests are called to preach this
truth and Strengthen the Chureh. Psalms 90:12
says, “So teach us to number our days that we
may apply our hearts unto wisdom.”
I remember the eulogy given by Rt. Revd
T. B. Benchamin, the then Bishop of the
North Kerala Diocese at the funeral service
of Juhanon Mar Thoma Metropolitan, In his
message, he shared the story of a football
player, Jim. Jim always comes with his father to
play football matches. His father was enjoying
the game from the gallery. One day Jim lost
his father and unfortunately he had a match on
the same day. Everyone thought that Jim will
not play the match as he lost his dear father.
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But everyone amazed watching the arrival
of Jim to play his match and he played well.
All started asking why did you come to play
today? Jim told my father was a blind man; he
‘was not able to witness my match through his
sight. But today, as he departs from this earth,
the faith that he is watching my match for the
first time from heaven strengthens me to come
today and play.
In the Indian Nithisara it says, “When the sun
hides each day, know that it is going away with
a part of your life.” Therefore, with contrition
do good and live. The length of our days is
a handbreadth. It is a gift of God. Discem
that, do good and live. Chrysostom Thirumeni
taught us and requests us to do that. A world
with no death, The secret of Christ’s Church is
that God Himself became a man to unite him
in the bond of love, this world that endures
into eternity. To make progress in this, God has
appointed Church fathers, clergy, evangelists.
Christ is risen; therefore, I live. It is the Holy
Church and the Holy Scriptures that give us
the assurance that though we are dead, yet we
will live.
Our Dear father who taught us to be good
people, go in peace. Our respected father who
tuned many into the path of righteousness, go
in peace. The Good shepherd who imparted
fire, warmth and light to us, who were dark
chunks of coal and showed us the path of
righteousness, go in peace,
Nithyatha Thannil Njan Ethum
‘Ninte Sthuthya padangal Njan Muthum
Bhakthiyil Anandha Kannuneer Veechthum
Njan Ennum Sthuthikkum
En Parane Thirumana Sudhane
Anandha Janangal Padi Pukazhthi
Njan enum Sthuthikkum
(Kristheeya Keerthanangal — 107)
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‘A life lived in fullness sharing the joy
of salvation’, this is true with the Most
beloved, the late lamented, Dr. Philipose Mar
Chrysostom Mar Thoma Valiya Metropolitan.
Itis with sadness we learnt on the 5" of May,
2021, that our Valiya Metropolitan Thirumeni,
the long-lived bishop in Asia, received home
call to be with the Lord. We could very
well say that it was a well-prepared journey
= a mission accomplished. To breathe his
last at his native village was a divine plan
which Thirumeni longed for. As he often
reminded, in everything there is a divine
will which everyone should understand.
Bom in a devoted Christian family, brought
up with church discipline imbibing basic
biblical values, associated with wide range of
people with different faith as well as cultural
orientations, he was moulded to assume a
special role in keeping both spiritual maturity
and harmonious living,
Before he was born, his parents dedicated
the child for the service of the Lord, which
resembles with the word of the Lord that came
to Jeremiah saying, “before you were born, I
consecrated you.” At his birth, parents named
him ‘Dharmishtan’, meaning one who loves
Dharmum, doing the duty that is right in the
eyes of God.
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Rt. Revd Dr. Isaac Mar Philoxenos
Diosesan Bishop of North America - Europe
Mar Chrysostom — a glittering Jewel — shined in beauty
Rt. Revd Dr. Isaac Mar Philoxenos
The church gave him the name ‘Philipose
Mar Chrysostom’, while he was consecrated
as a bishop of the church, which well suited
to his life and witness. Philipose (Philip),
the disciple, who interpreted the word of God
in everyday parlance by journeying together
with the Ethiopian eunuch and later with many
thousands of people in Greece, Syria, and
Phrygia led them to a commitment in Christ;
Chrysostom, the early church father, also did
the same. Chrysostom Thirumeni’s clarity of
thought, skills as an orator resembled the third
century Eastern church father Archbishop
John Chrysostom. Thirumeni was well known
as an eloquent speaker with wit and humor
which earned him the qualification ‘bishop
with a golden tongue’.
‘As a church leader Thirumeni was well
respected and revered not only by the
members of the Mar Thoma church, but the
wider society irrespective of religious and
ideological backgrounds. He achieved his
greatness through his exemplary life, actions,
relationships and reflections.
Love that
barriers:
transcended borders and
The commendable contributions of Thirumeni
and his special quality of sharing love to
people of all walks of life is well known, He
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was amazingly brilliant in making everyone
happy through his words and actions. One
could experience the overflowing love and
care, which surely will come only from a
spirit-filled heart and through the ‘fruit of the
spirit’. Personally speaking, the fatherly love
that I could experience for the last twenty-
eight years, as a bishop in the church, was
unimaginable. As the senior Metropolitan, he
hada say in everything and all listened to him,
it was a leaming experience. He was very
much concemed in keeping the collegiality
of bishops and could respect every person
irrespective of his/her age or status. He was
particular to make himself available to discuss
matters of concem and give good advices.
His words of encouragement, necessary
corrections — sometimes cautions, all these
were shared with good intentions — with much
love and kindness, That was why in whatever
he said, no one felt disappointed or hurt. It
always helped everyone to think loudly and
act wisely. This affectionate and loving nature
added the array of admirers, cutting across
all human barriers. The words of Abraham
Lincoln come to our mind “I’m a success
today because I had a friend who believed
in me and I didn’t have the heart to let him
down.” Yes, Thirumeni had a heart to love
everyone and the kindness to value the dignity
of the other person.
Ecumenical vision with inclusive nature:
The ecumenical vision practiced by Thirumeni
is broad-based that exhibited respect to the
other human beings. It reflects the inclusive
approach of Christ to culture and community,
and in locating the place of the individual
within the society. Chrysostom Thirumeni
used to say, “Ecumenism should not be seen
as the pruning of our differences but as the
pooling together of our resources. Ecumenism
is not agreeing on the minimum on which all of
us can come together, but everybody sharing
the riches of the heritage of ail people.” He
often argued that disunity is the main obstacle
of Christian witness today. His contribution as
president of the Kerala Council of Churches
and National Council of Churches will ever
be remembered in bringing reconciliation
and unity among churches. As a member of
the Central Committee of World Council
of Churches Thirumeni’s contribution was
well appreciated. His presence in the Second
Vatican council and Lambeth Conference
were occasions for wider acceptance of the
Mar Thoma Church in the global ecumenical
circle, He had a say in every burning issue
people faced and gave practical suggestions
for keeping peace and harmony among the
communities.
‘Towards embracing a common humanity:
The oneness of all in Christ and the pursuit of
happiness in embracing a common humanity
become more relevant whenever we associate
with Chrysostom Thirumeni. His approach
to humanity is well explained through his
discourses. To find the real humanness in
every person is essential for keeping the right
relationship. The true humanity that we find
in Jesus Christ will help every individual to
keep the image of God as we live in the world
created by God. It was Thirumeni’s opennes
that attracted everyone who came in contact
irrespective of differences in age.
His whole life was committed to building
communities and the nation, breaking down
barriers and narrow religious and domestic
walls. His life drew great love and respect
from across communities. In 2018, the
republic of India bestowed Mar Chrysostom
the Padma Bhushan, a distinguished civilian
award, for his exemplary service to humanity
and the nation. His unique way of dealings
was his own, which no one could imitate. He
left a legacy among us, a legacy of addressing
human issues with clear understanding, a
legacy of sharing the love of God to all people
who came in contact with him, a legacy of
crossing the borders of separation and strive
for an inclusive society.
The good memories and personal experiences
on Thirumeni will reverberate our hearts and
minds. To many he was a glittering jewel,
always shining with smile and glowing with
beauty and newness. Along with the Psalmist
he could pray: “Make your face shine upon
your servant, and teach me your statutes” (Ps
119135). The very purpose of life to be with
the divine and to reflect the divine in order to
transform the human life was clearly depicted
in the life of Thirumeni. Making the face
shine with the divine glory and radiating the
grace that is received transforms a life with
a difference in giving glory to God. At every
time in the life journey of Thirumeni, with
absolute confidence he could say, “the Lord
is my helper, I will not be afraid.” To make
this Lord known to the fellow humanity is the
mission that God has given him. Till the end,
he was faithful in fulfilling this divine plan
through his committed actions. Let the beauty
of his life be emulated in sharing the goodness
in the world.
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Editorial
Mar Chrysostom: A Legend Beyond
Measure
The late, lamented, Padma Bhushan Dr,
Philipose Mar Chrysostom (1918-2021) was
the 20" Mar Thoma Metropolitan (1999-
2008) of the Mar Thoma Church with its
headquarters at Kerala, South India, The Mar
‘Thoma Church has at present a membership
of over a million people spread all over the
world, Half a century ago, this Church did
not have a single parish in the USA, Canada,
the UK, Europe or Africa except for small
congregations in a few cities. There were a
few parishes in Malaysia, Singapore and some
countries in the Arabian Gulf region. In those
days, there was only one bishop who was in
charge of all parishes outside Kerala including
all overseas parishes and congregations. My
earliest memories go back to when I first saw
and remembered Chrysostom Thirumeni as
the Bahya (Outside) Kerala Bishop of our
Church
A brief biographical sketch: His parents
were Vicar General, Very Revd K. E. Oommen
(1881-1984), and Smt. Sosamma Kochamma.
K. E, Oommen achen was a towering figure
in the Mar Thoma Church and I remember
him conducting my interview at the
Vaidecka Selection Committee, where I was
selected for theological Studies in December
1975. Thomas Mar Athanasius Suffragan
Metropolitan was the president of the Vaideeka
Selection Committee. Dharmishtan Achen
(who became Mar Chrysostom later on) had
two brothers and two sisters: Eapen Abraham,
Dr Jacob Oommen, Mary John and Susy
Jacob. The following story about Thirumeni’s
birth is very significant. At the Maramon
Convention, when Sadhu Sundar Singh gave
a call to the listeners to commit themselves
for missionary work in North India, one of the
listeners was Thirumeni’s pregnant mother,
she was carrying Thirumeni in her womb. She
dedicated the child within her and prayed: If
the child is a boy, she would give him for the
Lord’s ministry. Then a boy was born to them
on the 27% April, 1918 — just before the close
of the First World War and the parents named
their son as Dharmishtan (officially Philip
Oommen)
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Afier his high school education, Philip
‘Oommen graduated from the Union Christian
College, Aluva, in 1937; then he wanted to
become a member of ‘Servants of India’, a
Society under Gopala Krishna Gokhale, as
it was the time of the Indian Independence
Struggle. However, his father wanted him to
be a missionary first. Hence Dharmishtan left
for Ankola in North Karnataka and began his
ministry along with Very Revd P. J. Thomas
(1904-1990) and others. He became involved
with the fisher folk in Karwar coast and also
with porters at Jolarpet Railway Station.
His interest was to work for the welfare of
the Adivasis, Dalits and the marginalized
sections of society. After this he joined the
United Theological College, Bangalore —
and after his ordination as a priest, he was
appointed as the vicar of the Mar Thoma
parish at Bangalore. He then served in
parishes at Kottarakkara (Pattamala, Mylom
and Kalayapuram), Manganam in Kottayam,
and Trivandrum. In 1953 he was consecrated
as an episcopa (bishop) of the Mar Thoma
Church along with two others: Alexander Mar
Theophilus (1913 -2000) who became the
Metropolitan from 1976-1999 and Thomas
Mar Athanasius (1913-84) who became
Suffragan Metropolitan, Mar Chrysostom
was a participant at the WCC General
Assemblies at Evanston (1954) and Uppsala
(1968) and the Second Vatican (1962). He
holds the record of being the longest serving
bishop in the history of the Indian churches,
being a bishop for 68 years. Revd Dr. Sunny
George has thrown light into his biographical
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details in his recent book, ‘Life World of Mar
Chrysostom’ (Tiruvalla: CSS, 2021).
As this memorial issue of the FOCUS has
numerous articles written by a wide spectrum
of eminent people from across the world
dealing with a variety of personal experiences
with Mar Chrysostom, I do not want to touch
any of them as they have their own vitality and
splendour nor my own personal experiences
here, though my marriage with Dr. Desy was
solemnized and the baptism of our daughter
Ramya was conducted by him at Trivandrum,
T have vivid memories of the various jokes
and statements by him on those occasions in
the presence of Vicar General Very Rev A. A.
Pylee (1918-1991), Revd Jolly Thomas, Revd
Oommen V. Varkey and others. However, [
would just like to point out only two important
characteristics of his outstanding personality.
First of all, he had the ability to identify with
anybody in any situation. He could transcend
all barriers of racial, caste, class and religious
differences in his life and identify with anyone.
This ability could also be called adaptability
(1 Corinthian 9:19-27). With the board of
directors of Calcutta Hindustan Motors, the
builders of Ambassador Cars, he had the ability
to speak of theology by taking the different
parts of a car as examples. Similarly, I have
heard him speaking to hundreds of convicted
prisoners at Trivandrum Poojappura Central
Jail by totally identifying with them. It was
nothing but the message of incarnation. Jesus
Christ, who became human two millenniums
back, could identify with the sinners, tax
collectors, women and the socially ostracized.
Inthe same way, Mar Chrysostom would never
stand aloof from the suffering and ostracized;
he wanted always to be one among them
and work with and for them. He challenged
the church to take seriously the small, the
minority, those struggling to have a voice, and
those on the margins of society. He believed
that Jesus Christ was to be identified in the
market place and not in temples, synagogues
or churches. Thirumeni reminded the church
to remain ever open and up-to-date with the
intellectual, social and cultural advancement
of the time for preaching the gospel. He
‘thought that theology between close doors of
the church will be no more relevant for the
21® century. Chrysostom Thirumeni became
younger in mind than the youths to whom
he was communicating with and he could
also speak easily and joyfully to children at
Sunday school even in his nineties.
Thave seen him communicating with people
from all Strata of society, Stations of life or
castes while walking through the streets of
Bombay and Trivandrum, He could casily
be in dialogue with eminent Malayalam
film stars like Mammootty or Mohanlal, or
any religious persons like Mata Amrtananda
Mayi, Bhagavathahamsom Malliyur Sankaran
Namboothiri or with Abdussamath Samadani.
Blessy, the well-known Malayalam film
director, has covered a hundred distinguished
persons conversing with Mar Chrysostom in
his 72-hour long documentary.
Secondly, when I remember Chrysostom
Thirumeni, the sublime Hindu concept of
Niskamakarma comes to mind. What is
‘Niskamakarama? It is found in the Bhagavath
Gita as the advice of Sri Krishna to Arjuna in
the battle field of Kurukshetra. Kauravas and
Pandavas were there in the field to confront
each other. The Kauravas had a great army;
Kauravas’ army had Dronacharya, their guru
(teacher), all relatives like Bheeshmacharya,
Karan, several other elders and relatives.
But Lord Krishna was with the Pandavas
and he was leading the chariot of Arjuna.
When they reached the battle field, Arjuna
fainted on the chariot after seeing the great
army of the Kauravas before him consisting
of all his gurus, elders and cousins on the
opposite side. At this juncture, Krishna gave
this great teaching of Niskamakarma. He said:
Everyone has to perform one’s own duty. One
shouid not be bothered about the results or
consequences. Selfless or desireless action
is the action performed without expectation
of fruits or results. It is a central tenet for
achieving liberation or moksha. A Kshatriya’s
(warrior’s) duty is to fight wars. Arjuna need
not be worried as to whom he is fighting
against, His duty is to be given the priority.
In Chrysostom Thirumeni I have seen this
great quality, Niskamakarma, being practiced.
He did not have any over-attachment to
anything or even any person, which prevented
him from doing his duty. Money was never
a hindrance to him. He had a lot of personal
staff over the years as secretary/chaplain,
clerk, cook, driver, gardener and so on, Many
of them would serve for short or long periods
because by then Thirumeni would find some
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better posvemployment for them either in
government or private sector in some school
or college or some other institution, He did
not have too much affinity to any of them, but
he cared for the well-being of all of them. No
one could prevent him from doing his duty
or what he considered to be the right action
before the Lord. Therefore, he would visit any
religious person and also receive Saravana
payasam from Sabarimala. Moreover, he was
able to treat everyone as a fellow human being
irrespective of their status, wealth, position,
education, caste, colour, race, gender, etc.
He could also engage with programmes’
appointments even six or seven a day, big or
small and numbers did not matter to him. When.
T invited him for a convention at Kottayam,
when he was at Ranni, he wrote to me that
he would not go for programmes outside his
diocese. He gave great priority to programmes.
in his diocese and in the vicinity where he
lived, After becoming Valiya Metropolitan he
was very much engaged in the needs of people
in his own Panchayath (County) and in the
nearby two Panchayaths (Counties). He also
undertook the work among the autorickshaw
drivers at Nedumprayar Junction near his
residence at Maramon, Niskamakarma refers
to the welfare and well-being of the entire
world which comprises of humans, animals
and the environment. Serving the whole
inhabited earth (Oikumene) for him was akin
to serving God.
Conclusion: When [ heard about his demise
on the early moming of the 5* May, the words
that came to my mind were the words of Pandit
Jawaharlal Nehru at the death of Mahatma
Gandhi: “A Glory has departed.’ Iremembered
the last occasions when I visited him at
Maramon and also at Kumbanad Fellowship
Hospital. I visited him at Maramon to give him
one of my books which had been dedicated
to him—the second one (An Introduction to
the New Testament—Tiruvalla: CSS, 2017).
After words of appreciation, he told me that I
should not give any copy of the book free of
cost to anyone, Charge at least a very small
cost and then only give; otherwise, the person
who receives it will not realize its value. [ also
have a nice memory of being a scribe for him
to write a message for a fesischrift volume.
The last visit to him was made when he was at
the Kumbanad Fellowship Hospital before the
breaking of COVID-19 pandemic. Whenever I
used to meet him, he used to enquire about my
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wife, brother and father-in-law as they were
all known and dear to him, He had a sharp
‘memory till his last breath, I gather that he had
a very clear knowledge that his last days were
near. I could listen to his last speech personally
at the demise of our earlier Metropolitan (late
and lamented) Dr. Joseph Mar Thoma a few
months back. Chrysostom Thirumeni gave a
touching eulogy and pointed out that his own
end was not very far and that without waiting
for long the Church will have to conduct
his own funeral eventually. From the words:
spoken by the present Sabha Secretary, Rev
K. G, Joseph, I understand that Chrysostom
Thirumeni had even asked his cook, Mr.
Abraham, to tell our present Metropolitan
Dr. Theodosius Mar Thoma that the funeral
arrangements for him should commence on
the 5% May 2021. The Church and the State
gave him a befitting funeral and the name of
God was glorified through the solemn service
‘on the 6" May 2021
Let me conclude this summarizing by stating
that Mar Chrysostom was a humanitarian, an
orator par excellence and Thirumeni applied
his rhetorical skills in his homilies to present
what is often dense and complex theology
in remarkably simple ways. He was indeed
a man for all seasons of life and a legend
beyond measure. It is very heartening to
see that the contributors to this issue have
considered it as a wide canvas and used
their memory and skills by using beautiful
colours to paint various contours, shapes and
shades for depicting various outstanding and
memorable portraits of this humble servant of
God. I sincerely thank all the contributors to
this memorial issue of the FOCUS.
On behalf of the editorial board, may I
express our deepest condolences to The
Most Revd Dr. Geevarghese Mar Theodosius
Metropolitan, the Episcopal Synod, our
clergy, the members of the world-wide Mar
Thoma Church and all others who are grieving
at the loss of Mar Chrysostom Thirumeni.
The title of this memorial issue, ‘A Legend
Beyond Measure’, speaks volumes about this
towering personality. May God’s blessing be
with everyone to keep afresh the memory of
this blessed servant of God.
Revd Dr. Abraham Philip Parolil,
‘Manganam, Kottayam,
For the Editorial Board
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