1. Cite the impact it had on you.

- As i go back sa childhood memories ko, pinaka mahirap na situation ay nung umalis si

mama para mag abroad. I was still in grade 3 at that time. Shempre impact sakin, i was
longing for mother’s love and attention physically up until now naman. But at the same
time there was a time na tuwing uuwi siya, napansin ko na lagi ako nagagalit sakaniya.
Siguro para magpapansin lang and shempre dahil dun mas close ko si papa since i was
young. Pinaka impact talaga yung naging uhaw ako sa atensyon hanggang ngayon i am
like that.
2. Identify the mitigations you took to address the problem.
- Habang tumatanda ako, mas narealize ko yung reason kung bakit kailangan maging
ganun yung sitwasyon. Iniisip ko lagi na for future namin to and hindi lang ako yung
nalulungkot. I always say to myself na kung malungkot ako, mas malungkot sila. I just
learn to enjoy life kahit minsan lang kami magkasama sama. May internet naman kaya i
make sure na may bond parin ako sa kanila kahit online. Pumunta na din kasi si papa sa
abroad since i was in highschool. Lagi ko iniisip na without their sacrifices, i will not be
able to go sa magandang paaralan.
3. Specify the support that you got from those concerned or from people who have helped you.
● Since then na umalis si mama, lumaki ako na kasama ang lola ko. Sobrang laking tulong
ng lola ko sakin kasi kung hindi dahil sa kanya i think baka napabayaan ko ang sarili ko.
I remembered, kahit elementary palang ako, tinuturuan niya na ako ng mga gawain
bahay kahit mga basic cooking at paglalaba. Lagi niya sinabi sakin na dapat marunong
ako kumilos kahit mag-isa ako. Without my lola, tingin ko di ko maranasan or
mararamdaman ang pagmamahal ng isang ina. Yes my mom loves me so much but my
lola helped her to make me feel love kahit wala siya.
● Auntie. They are like my second parents. Like my lola, they give me life lessons and
mental support. Up until now my auntie wants us to be open and talk to those problems
that we have.
● My Father. Kahit na malayo si mama nung time na yun, tinuturuan niya ko araw araw
kung paano mag message kay mama. Naalala ko araw araw pinapa message niya ako
kay mama ng We love you we miss you. I have the same message everyday but I'm
sure my mother was happy with that kind of message. Tinutulungan din ako ni papa sa
studies ko since wala nga si mama sa tabi ko. Kapag may di ako alam sa assignments,
he makes time for me.

4. If that critical situation happened today, will you still apply the same mitigations? Why?
- Yes. Reason? Because yun ang tamang isipin. When we are sad at merong tampo sa
magulang, we should think first kung ano ang nararamdaman nila. If we are tired, mas
pagod na sila. Kung malungkot tayo, mas malungkot sila. Also, wala silang ginawa na
hindi para satin. Kung lumayo man sila, panigurado that’s for the future. Parents want
the best for their child and we need to be mature for that everyday.