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Activity 1: Reflection Paper
Activity 1: Reflection Paper
Activity 1: Reflection Paper
B. Directions: Write a reflective essay of the moment when you felt discouraged and
disappointed by something that someone said. Your essay must compose of 2
paragraphs and it should also have a title.
When I was highschool I remember this time that I have been in one of my
biggest disappointments in life. I had a best friend and I treated him almost like a
brother, his name was Paul. He was one of the top students in our school and he also
known in our school for being multi-talented because he was singer, dancer, and
representative for math and science competitions. We were just same age level and
almost have the same passions. In this point let me start to tell you how we met. This
was what happened before when we had never met before. I only encountered him for
the first time during enrollment day for upcoming grade 10. That time I didn’t have
anyone with me when I went to school to enroll. I was little surprised when I entered in
school and saw too many students were enrolling on the first day of enrollment. When I
was about to enroll myself, I forgot to bring a ballpen that was the thing strictly required
of school to be used for enrollment. During that time every student lined up in order and
were waiting to be acknowledged to fill out the enrollment form and when I was the next
one to fill out on it. I still haven’t borrowed a ballpen because I ashamed to borrow from
somebody who has, thus I almost panicked about who I could borrow a ballpen from.
Fortunately, there was a student behind me and immediately lent me his ballpen. I was
feeling embarrassed then because I didn’t know what to do. However, I was thankful
that there was someone immediately respond to lend me his ballpen. After that I gave
him thank for that I was able to fill out the enrollment forms because he lent me his
ballpen. At the same time I asked what his name was, he answered me that he was
Paul. And then he also began to ask me if I was new at this school and I said yes. In
this point where we started exchanging questions with each other within a few hours as
we finishing enrollment. After a few hours we were both finally enrolled and it came to
pass. Next week was when the class will begin, I was so excited to meet my new
classmates and new teachers.
After a week, the day I have been waiting for has come, I woke up early and
prepared myself for admission. A few minutes later, I arrived at school and searched for
my room. A moment later, I saw Paul and he saw me too. He called me and he said that
we would be classmates, I was so glad and feeling excited because we have met again
and moreover we would become classmates. After a few months, we became best
friends due to he was the one I always talk with and help one another to answer our
school activities. Aside from that, we always participated in whatever competition was at
school although he was the one who often got higher reward than me, we were both still
happy with each other in whatever we have achieved. A few months passed and all the
fun that had happened changed when he had a new friend and according to those who
said their assumption was that I was insulting Paul and I didn’t know how to get along
with him that were some reasons why he didn’t pay much attention to me anymore
whenever I noticed him. The next day he came to me and told me that I was destroying
his reputation to other people, and at the same time he immediately asked why I was
jealous of him since I couldn’t beat him before in any competition. I tried to explain
immediately but he immediately walked away from me. I used to wonder and I thought if
I had done these bad things to him but I had strong feeling that I had done nothing
wrong with him before. I used to be annoyed with him for why he became like that. I was
so discouraged to befriend him again because of what he said. I used to think that he
would be my symphatizer in everything, he would leave me too at the end. What the hell
he became was. That day I felt myself utterly dissapointed because I really treated him
almost like a brother and he was the only one I can tell with whenever I have a problem
and now he is gone he has left me. Hence, I was really hurt so bad by this incident.
After a few days later, I began to ignore him, I also had no intention of apologizing to
him then, and I no longer even recognize him as a friend, because I was so
disappointed, not only because I lost that my brother but also because of what other
students were saying about me. Their assumption was that I was worthless friend, since
I haven’t been a real friend to Paul. However, I just ignored them because I knew the
truth better. People say a lot of things and most of them are discouraging for the other
person. A little bit of discourage can shatter years of hard work of that person. I mostly
didn't mind what people said. People said it was my golden quality which outshined
every time I was in these situations. The skill of moving on or ignoring the bad part of
the day is God gifted to me. As a supporter of peace I felt that it was always good to see
the brighter side of the situation.