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Judgement Day Why We Shouldn't Be Scared of Judging or Being Judged
Judgement Day Why We Shouldn't Be Scared of Judging or Being Judged
Somebody should have warned us that in the jungle that is social media,
judgement is unavoidable. While the word originally doesn’t have to
equate criticism, it has now acquired a definite negative connotation
implying the person judging you is somewhat doing so from a higher
standpoint.
But here’s the catch: when someone negatively evaluates you, what
makes you feel they are doing so from a place of superiority? If you
value your own actions and opinions, which you should strive to do, how
come the views of another end up making you feel so vulnerable and …
wrong? Surely, if you are confident enough to share your ideas and
experiences on social media, you must be convinced it has some value,
otherwise, why bother ? 123
On the other side of the coin, have you ever been accused of being
judgmental? Such painful insult (I bet most of us would rather be tagged
ignorant…)! Well, maybe you were and the judgement is being thrown
back at you, and it doesn’t feel good, does it? Lesson learned.