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he Torah tells us in Parshas that would take place for a couple
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Pinchas how Pinchas, rec- who was about to get married in Ye-
ognizing the illicit act be- men. A donkey would lead them to IN THIS ISSUE
ing publicly committed by Zimri their wedding, during which they
and Cozbi, avenged G-d’s name and would wave to bystanders and wish Rabbi Yaniv Meirov
killed them. How is it that Pinchas each other well. However, the cave- Like You, Don’t Like You
had the courage to kill them, espe- at was that the donkey held only one Rabbi Uri Lati
cially Zimri who was a leader of the passenger at a time. Either the bride The Secret of 120 Years
tribe of Shimon? What gave Pinchas or the groom could sit atop the don- Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff
that inner strength and conviction? key, but not both at the same time. The Store of Shabbos
The commentaries explain that So what were they to do? Rabbi Yitzchak Fanger
Pinchas looked at Zimri, who was For one couple, the groom sat on Be Like a River
a leader in his own right and pub- the donkey, as the bride walked be- Rabbi Label Lam
licly rebelling against God’s will and side him. But soon enough, people Obsessed with the Boo Boo
said to himself, “If Zimri is putting began rumoring that the couple is
his reputation on the line, and not not even married yet and the hus-
caring what other people say, how band is already controlling the wife.
much more so should I do what is So the future husband and wife de- DEDICATIONS
honorable and right. With that, cided to switch places. The bride sat
L’iluy Nishmat
Pinchas killed him, which brought atop the donkey as the groom strode
a halt to the plague decimating beside. But, yet again, it was not long Meir Eliyahu ben Yaakov Dov
24,000 people. before people began whispering that Bechor ben Rivkah
Second to this is that Pinchas they are not even married yet and
garnered criticism from what he the wife is asserting her power and L’refuah Sheleima
did, after which Hashem came to trying to dominate the husband.
Deena bat Shoshana
his defense. Now they were at an impasse.
Yerachmiel Eliyahu Ben Esther Riva
Reflecting on this prompts the So they both remained off the
question as to how we can best deal donkey, walking beside it. But this Reuven ben Rochel
with criticism that we receive. didn’t stop people from clamoring Menachem Moshe Ben Chana Gittel
The mashal is told of the practice and talking to one another about the
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Watch what comes out of your
t the conclusion of Shem- ous, degrading speech of others. No- mouth. Be careful with the words
onah Esrei, we say, “N’tzor tably, the first letter of each of these you say to another, ensuring that they
le’shoncha mei’ra… - Let us words (nun, lamed and mem) add up come across with respect and care.
guard our tongue from evil…” We to the gematria (numerical value) of And you’ll be on your way to living a
bring home to ourselves the impor- 120. One-hundred-and-twenty is the life of 120 years.
tance of staying away from slander- optimum life span we wish for oth-
Rabbi Moshe Tuvia Lieff day from 12 – 1 p.m. You then come
a month later, and you discover that
The Store of Shabbos the store is closed yet again, and this
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time, as the sign reads, it’s for a family
he Chofetz Chaim paints the flated, as you can still buy from the occasion for two weeks. So now you
following analogy. You want store on a different day of the week. know that as long as you don’t come
to purchase furniture, and so, You come to the store a few weeks on a Tuesday or during lunch hours
you head to a furniture store on a later at 12:15 p.m. and the sign says or during these two weeks, you can
Tuesday, only to find out that there that they’re closed. Now you know buy furniture.
is a posted sign which says, “Closed that they’re closed during lunchtime. But how do you know that you can
on Tuesday.” While today is off limits So you decide that you won’t head to never buy furniture there? When the
for any purchasing, you are not de- the store on a Tuesday or any other sign comes down. When the store is
Rabbi Yitzchak Fanger give me…” The rabbi looked up. “The
truth is that I forgave you yesterday.
Be Like a River And in fact, I am not today who I was
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yesterday.
ears ago, in the early years gaze. “If somebody wants to give you “If, in example,” continued the rab-
of the Enlightenment Era, a a present and you decline the present, bi, “you see a river and you throw
young man began degrading the person who wanted to give the stones into the river, will you see any
one of the local rabbis studying in present away still keeps it. You want- remaining effect tomorrow? No, be-
the synagogue. But even with all the ed to give me your words and I decid- cause they fell into the river and ei-
taunts and jeers, the rabbi remained ed not to receive them. So you’re kept ther sunk or were washed away. A
unfazed and undeterred from break- with your own degrading words.” person needs to be like a river. Let
ing away from his studying. So the The fellow walked away, ponder- things flow. Let things roll off you.
young man amped up, raising his ing these words of the rabbi. He had The person you are today is a differ-
voice to an even higher decibel and wanted to tell the rabbi off, and all ent person than you were yesterday.
adding even more ferocity to his that happened is that he himself was What happened in the past is in the
condescending remarks. kept with the bad feeling of frustra- past and doesn’t need to be carried
But the rabbi stayed still. Not a tion. And it certainly didn’t feel good. over into the future. It’s all up to you
word. Not a move. He wanted to get that off his chest, how you want to react.
At this point, the fellow grew ex- and here he was, stewing in his own The events we experience in life
asperated. “Rabbi, what’s going on? emotional chaos. are shape and toned by our reaction.
Why are you not disturbed by what The next day, the man returned And we can react in any way we want.
I’m doing? Is it not bothering you?” to the rabbi and said that he felt Choose your reactions and choose
Hearing this, the rabbi picked up his ashamed. “Rabbi, can you please for- your life.
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a meeting with a fellow, and had
here is debate among psy- are quite impish and know a lot. But parked my car next to a meter. After
chologists if children are lit- there is an aspect to our behavior to I finished the meeting, and realizing
tle adults or if adults are big focus on. It is what what children my time was running low, I darted
children. Sometimes, it can seem as call, “Boo Boos.” back to my car. But as I approached
if an adult just has more keys on his I remember that for my daughter’s it, I wasn’t too happy to see that an
ring and he is playing with bigger fifth birthday, she received two box- officer was standing right beside,
trucks and bigger blocks from 5th es of band aids. Boo Boos were a big readying herself to place a ticket on
to 7th Avenue. And sometimes, kids deal and band aids were used even on my dashboard.
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