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YOUR GO-TO GUIDE TO KNOWING

WHAT TO SAY IN ANY SITUATION
In this guide, you’re going to discover:

• Exactly what to say to girls in ANY situation... no matter where she is,
what time of day it is, or how beautiful she looks.

• How to spontaneously spark effortless conversations – and unique

tricks to maintain those conversations for as long as you want.

• Easy methods that SPIKE her attraction for you. Doesn’t matter if you’re
introverted, reserved, or naturally shy... these methods work for any man.

• 4 ways to move the relationship to the next level.

• Simple banter lines that will get girls giggling, blushing, and deeply
intrigued (warning: use these on ONLY women you’re interested in)!

• And so much more...

Matt Artisan
CEO & Lead Dating Instructor,
The Attractive Man

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Look man, here’s the truth:

Beautiful women DON’T want to have a boring conversation with you.

It’s why they’re uncontrollably attracted to special men who have a way with words.
These kinds of men don’t hesitate to approach a girl because they know exactly what
to say and how to say it in a charming and charismatic way.

Unlike 97% of most guys, men who possess attractive social skills know how to spark
instant chemistry with a girl when they start a conversation with her. In fact, they
knowingly deepen that chemistry the longer they hold a conversation.

You can possess attractive social skills too.

That’s what this guide aims to give you. I wrote this guide to show you exactly how
easy and simple it is to confidently talk with and introduce yourself to beautiful girls.
You won’t find any cheesy pick-up lines here. You won’t discover any gimmicky moves
that make you feel uncomfortable. And, you especially won’t find any “pick-up tricks”
that force you to be manipulative or act like someone you’re not.

Really, what you find in this small but powerful guide will point you in the right
direction with women.

You’ll quickly know what to say and what not to say...and after you see just how simple
creating attraction with women truly is, you’ll no longer experience those awkward
silences or stomach-churning rejections that happen after you slip up and say
something that kills your chances with her.

I wish I knew this stuff over a decade ago. It would’ve saved me from a world of
rejection, turmoil, and straight-up BAD luck with girls.

But, I’m still here. So my goal with this guide is to cut your learning curve by at least
90%... and help you know exactly what to say to any beautiful woman in any situation.

Cheers!
Matt Artisan

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 ABOUT MATT ARTISAN
Matt Artisan is the leading expert in
transforming the lives of men and
empowering them to create authentic
relationships.

He was voted World’s Best New Dating

Coach and, since 2008, has personally
coached men in 40 different countries
including the U.S., Australia, Europe,
Qatar, Japan, China, Hong Kong, India,
Qatar, Dubai, and the list goes on.

He is the President and CEO of The

Attractive Man Inc., the legendary dating coach company, based on his
groundbreaking understanding of psychology.

Matt Artisan is the creator of the Unleashed Mentoring Program. This is an

exclusive, invite-only group where Matt and his team personally show men how to
attract their versions of a “Perfect 10” woman through lifestyle, charisma, and self-
growth.

As one of the preeminent gurus in the dating community, Artisan’s specialties range
from overcoming social anxiety and meeting women in any situation to inner mindset
transformation and identity change work. Artisan takes a very unique approach that
combines natural flow with extremely potent structured skills to generate deep
attraction and personal growth mastery.

Matt and his team have been interviewed by Fox 13, ABC News Nightline, ESPN,
CNN, Tedx, Vice, MTV, and more. He’s is extremely passionate about teaching men
how to have authentic relationships with women and will make sure you get the
success that you want. He won’t stop until your dating life is completely transformed.

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 IMPORTANT:
7 RULES TO REMEMBER IF YOU
WANT MAXIMUM RESULTS FROM
THIS CONVERSATION CHEAT SHEET
Now, before I share with you these simple yet powerful words that work with almost
any girl, any time, and in any situation... I need to lay a few fundamental ground rules.

These rules are the FOUNDATION of possessing charismatic social skills that
make beautiful women hang on your every word... AND... see you as a
confident, superior man.

So, if you want maximum results from this guide, make sure to tattoo the following
rules into your brain so you never forget them:

1) Change It Up

If you keep doing the same thing over and over again, it will lose effect. For example, if
you tease her three times in a row, she might think you are being mean. If you are
constantly playing games and doing role plays, then she will think you are an
entertaining guy (A.K.A. a dancing monkey) and may not feel attraction towards you.
So make sure to mix in normal, getting-to-know-her, type conversation and keep
moving the interaction forward.

2) Confident Body Language

Body language is either going to make or break your conversations. How you say
something is more important than the words that fly out of your mouth. Make sure to
stand tall with open, relaxed, confident body language.

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3) Calm Voice

Make sure to speak slowly, articulating what you are saying with long pauses and deep
tonality. Speaking fast will make you appear nervous, while pausing makes you appear
more confident, draws her in, and makes her more interested.

4) Deep Eye Contact

If you constantly look down, you will appear scared, and a woman cannot be attracted
to a man who is afraid of her. Keep at least 80 - 90% eye contact throughout the
interaction. It’s okay to look away sometimes, as to not appear overly interested or
invested; however, I recommend 100% eye contact when you give her a genuine
compliment.

5) Stay Grounded

These techniques will not have a powerful effect if you are nervous and overanalyzing
what to say. Instead, you must be calm and grounded. Some refer to this as being in a
mindful or present state, where you are not thinking about the past or future, but fully
in tune with the present moment. Mindful practitioners suggest taking deep breaths,
focusing your awareness on your body, and paying full attention to your environment
to get into the present state. Meditation can also help you become more grounded in
your everyday life, as well as exercise, sports, and anything that involves your body.

6) Escalate Physically, Logistically and Verbally

The words you say have a lot less influence on her attraction towards you versus what
you do. A woman needs an experience to feel attracted and connected to someone, not
just a conversation. To create a romantically charged experience, make sure to move
things forward physically (touching), logistically (moving from place to place), and
verbally (talking about intimate subjects). More information on this later.

7) Always Make Her Feel Safe

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A woman’s number one concern is her safety. If she isn’t comfortable with anything
you are doing or saying, then stop. Do not try to move things further if she doesn’t
want you to. Always respect her wishes and make sure everything is consensual.

Let’s dive in!

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TOP 5 DAYTIME OPENERS

It’s usually best to give a genuine compliment and try to make her day. Stating
your interest right away usually works best during the day because women are in
a hurry and don’t have time for long-winded conversation starters. Also, women
generally don’t get as many compliments during the daytime when compared to
nighttime, so they will greatly appreciate a sincere compliment from a confident
and grounded man. This shows that you believe she should like you (confidence)
and that you don’t need to beat around the bush or hide your intentions
(masculine).

"Hey real quick, this is totally random, but I just saw you over here,
and I thought you were absolutely stunning. I had to come over and
risk embarrassment and say ‘hi.’"

Say this slowly with a deep tonality. You can replace the word, “stunning,” with a
compliment of your choice.

“Do you know where Starbucks is?” [she answers] “Actually, I’m not
even looking for Starbucks. I just thought you were absolutely
adorable and wanted to meet you.”

Great to use if you are experiencing anxiety because you can trick your mind by
thinking, “I’m just going to ask her for directions.” Then, if she seems friendly when
she gives you directions, you can take it further and give her a compliment.

“Can you help me with something? [she answers] Okay, let’s say you
are this (describe yourself) tall rocker guy with blue eyes and you are

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talking to a (describe her) cute green-eyed blonde girl about 5’6”,
what would you say to her if you wanted to flirt with her?”

I have to credit Robbie Kramer for this great original opener. If she says, “I don’t
know,” you can say, “But you’re a girl, you’re supposed to be good at this whole
flirting thing.” Remember not to rush the opener. Speaking slowly, pausing for effect
creates a lot of suspense, anticipation, confusion, and romantic tension. Maintain
good eye contact.

“Hi, I don’t believe we’ve met yet. I’m Matt.”

This works really well at social events, meet-up groups, classes, seminars, etc. It also
presupposes that you must know a lot of people there.

“I was just walking out of the store, and you stopped me dead in my
tracks. So I figured I’d say ‘hi.’”

This is considered an implied compliment. It will still flatter her and make her day,
even though you didn’t actually give her a compliment.

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TOP 10 NIGHTTIME OPENERS

Girls go to bars to have fun so make sure you start the conversation with a fun
and positive vibe.

“Hi, I’m Matt. I just think fun people should know each other. You are
fun, right?”

Every woman wants to think of herself as fun, so it is a subtle challenge. You can
replace the word “fun” with “cool,” “friendly,” “awesome,” etc.

“Have you noticed that you and I are like the coolest people in this
entire place? It’s true, so I figured we should meet.”

Creates an “Us VS. Them” vibe that you and her are the coolest or best-looking people
there. It also conveys your interest while being slightly cheeky.

“Are you shy? Because I’ve been here for a while and you haven’t
talked to me yet, flirted with me, or bought me a drink...you must be
shy.”

This is a great role reversal and is slightly meant to be said in a cheeky tone.

“Listen girls, I have this rule that I have to say ‘hi’ to the cutest girls in
the entire bar (long pause), so will you help me go say ‘hi’ to those
girls over there?”

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This is a “Bait & Switch” opener that works really well in making the girls laugh;
especially very attractive girls in a high-energy bar or club.

“Sorry I’m late girls, traffic was horrible. Did you order me a drink
yet?”

If the girls are sitting, then as soon as you say it, sit down next to them. It usually gets
a laugh. You can follow up with, “Actually, I just thought you girls were cute. So
anyways, what kind of trouble are you ladies getting into tonight?”

You: “I just wanted to tell you that you are the second sexiest person
here.”
Her: “Thanks! Who’s the first?”
You: “Me, of course!”

This creates great banter back and forth. The only problem is that if she doesn’t ask
‘who’s the first?’ then the joke often falls flat.

“Hi, I’m Matt. I don’t believe we’ve met yet.”

This is probably my favorite opener at night because it conveys confidence by showing

that I don’t need a witty line or excuse to go talk to her. It also shows your interest
without giving a compliment.

“You’re kinda cute. What’s your name?”

It’s direct, but the word “kinda” makes it slightly challenging.

“I was going to wear that same outfit tonight.”

Make sure she’s wearing something girly like a dress or skirt.

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“Did you just undress me with your eyes? Oh my God, you are so bad.
You can’t just visually molest me like that without at least saying ‘hi.’”

A funny role reversal that will make her want to banter back and role-play along.
Another variation is to jokingly accuse her of grabbing your butt.

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KEEPING THE CONVERSATION GOING

Qualification Questions
There are many ways to keep the conversation going. During the daytime, I
recommend asking a qualification question soon after the opener because you don’t
want to waste your time or her time. Plus, you’ve already shown your interest, so now,
it’s time to make her work for your attraction towards her. This keeps a good balance
between showing interest and being a challenge. It also shows that you are not needy
and have standards for people in your life.

The key is not to just use it as some “technique,” but to actually care about the
question you ask and her answer. Have real standards and find out if she’s the type of
girl you want to invite into your world.

Examples:

“Tell me something interesting about you, besides your looks.”

“I’m really picky about who I hang out with, so tell me something cool about you.”

“I like women who like to travel, so tell me your favorite place to go.”

“I’m really into fitness, do you work out?”

“I don’t know if we can go on a hot date yet, answer this question first. What is
something you’ve done that you are proud of?”

Fun Conversation
I recommend going into fun conversation very quickly if you are at a bar or club
because the number one reason women go to these places is to have a good time. If

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you start asking too many typical questions like, “where are you from?”, “what do you
do?” and “do you come here often?” or even Qualification Questions, then she will
likely lose interested because the conversation isn’t all that fun. There are many
examples in the following sections.

Getting to Know Each Other

Instead of asking typical interview-style questions, ask interesting questions like:

“If you had any superpower, what would it be?”

“If we could wake up together anywhere in the world, where would it be?”

“Would you rather have a man that is a great lover or a man who has a lot of money?

“When you were a little girl, what did you want to be when you grew up?”

“If you could meet anyone, dead or alive, who would it be?”

Cold Reading
Cold reading is making a perceptive statement about another person. This can be
more interesting than asking questions because people love to know how others
perceive them. The only thing people like more than “talking” about themselves is
“hearing” about themselves. Even if you are wrong, it still makes for interesting
conversation because she will wonder how you came up with that perception.

Examples:

“I can tell you are a deep person. I bet you have some pretty big ambitions.”

“You are totally a West Coast girl. You have it written all over you.” This is more
interesting than just asking, “Where are you from?”

“You have this really artistic vibe. I bet you are an artist. Come on, show me some of
your work.”

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Emotionally Charged Follow-Up Questions
Most guys ask logical follow-up questions like, “How long have you done that?” or
“Where do you do that?” Instead, ask emotionally charged follow-up questions that
get her to talk more about her motivations and emotions.

Examples:

“That’s so interesting. How did you get into hip-hop dancing?”

“I bet you feel really alive and free when you are dancing on stage?”

“What is it about dancing that you love so much?”

Follow-Up Statements
To avoid asking too many questions in a row, interject with some follow-up
statements. They can be about your own experience, a friend’s experience, or even
having no experience. After the statement, you can turn it back to her with a follow-up
question. I recommend having a flow of question, comment, question, comment, etc.,
instead of what most guys do: question, question, question, question, etc.

Examples:

Own Experience: “I used to do break dancing for 5 years, and I felt so proud of myself
after each performance. Is it like that for you?”

Friend’s Experience: “My best friend is a dancer, and she really loves it. What do you
love the most about dancing?”

No Experience: “I’ve never tried dancing, but it seems so fun. Do you do it because it’s
fun or for the challenge?”

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FUN GAMES TO PLAY

The following are some great games you can play at a bar, club, or on a date to
keep things fun and playful, increase the flirty vibe, and help establish more
physical rapport.

Shag, Marry, Kill

Fun game to slightly escalate the conversation.

“I’m going to pick 3 people in this place. One of them you have to shag, one you have
to marry, and one you have to kill.”

Then you pick 3 people and she tells you what she would do to each. Make sure she
tells you why she would do it.

Staring Contest
Great way to go for a kiss or get a free drink. Tell her she’s allowed to blink but she
can’t move her head, laugh, or smile.

Thumb War
A fast game that allows for some light touching and can bring back fun childhood
memories.

5-Questions Game

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Great game to play at a bar. You can tell her that if she loses, she has to buy you a
drink or cook you dinner.

You: “Have you ever played 5 Questions?”

Her: “No.”
You: “Okay, I’m going to ask you 5 questions in a row, and you have to get all of them
wrong.”
Her: “Okay, sounds easy.”
You: “It is. Here we go. Question number one, what is my name?”
Her: “Oprah.”
You: “Haha okay, what planet are we on?”
Her: “Jupiter.”
You: “Who was the first president of the US?”
Her: “Obama.”
You: “Haha, hmmm…wait…how many questions have I asked so far?”
Her: “Nice try, you’ve asked 10 questions!”
You: “Oh wow! Dammit! Have you played this before?!?” (act like you lost)
Her: “No!”
You: “Got you on the 5th question!”

Oftentimes, girls lose on the 4th question, “How many questions have I asked so far?”
They usually get it “right” and say “three.” But, if she says any other number than
three, your 5th question, “Oh wow! Damn! Have you played this before!?” will usually
stump her because she will already think she won the game.

3, 2, 1, Game
“I’m going to count down from 3 to 1, and when I get to 1, you either have to kiss me
on the lips or slap me on the face. Ready here we go 3 2 1…”

The countdown should be really fast. This is a fun game for going for a kiss. Make sure
to lean in and go for the kiss as soon as you start counting down. If she slaps you,
that’s not bad because it’s an emotionally charged event for a woman to slap a man.
And, remember, women need an emotional experience, not just a conversation.

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Two Truths and a Lie
Take turns revealing 3 things about your life. Two should be true, and one should be a
lie. The other person has to guess the lie.

Never Have I Ever

This is a great group-drinking game. Each person says something they have never
done and anyone in the group who has done it has to take a drink. It usually gets very
sexual.

“Never have I ever had a threesome.” Anyone in the group who has had a threesome
would drink.

Truth or Dare
Classics never die. This is a great group game in which you will usually get dared to
kiss or do other physical activities with the girl(s) you like. Ask a participant, “Truth or
dare?” If she says “truth,” then ask a question and she has to tell the truth. If she says
“dare,” then dare her to do something like stripping an article of clothing, kissing the
person next to her, or flashing the group.

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TOP 12 FLIRTY, BANTER & TEASING

LINES
Mix in some flirting to show your interest in a fun way. For example, bantering
helps to keep things playful and upbeat, and teasing can help you maintain being
a challenge in a way that is fun for her. Some of these examples use a technique
called “push-pull,” which allows you to show interest and then slightly take it
away.

"Hmm, you are starting to win me over…too bad you are X.”

X = such a dork, aren’t my type, too short for me, a model, blonde, etc.
Say it with a playful tone. For height, I recommend saying the opposite of what she is.
Say “tall” if she is really short or “short” if she is really tall. Do not tease a girl about
her weight, even if she is skinny.

“I’m starting to like you, but don’t get any ideas I’m not going to X”

X = start making out with you, go home with you that easily, make you my
girlfriend yet, etc.

“Were you just staring at my crotch?” OR “Wow, stop staring at my

chest/package. I have a brain too, you know!”

Great playful role reversal.

“Don't fall in love with me.”

You can say this after you kiss her.

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“You are going to have the best time of your life.....because I'm going
to be there.”

Meant to be cheeky. Great to say after you’ve invited her somewhere with you.

“Bad girl...go to my room.”

Shows your romantic interest in a funny way.

“I don't hit girls, but I will tickle you until you pee your pants.”

Great comeback after she teases you or gives you a “Tension Test.”

“Do you treat all guys like this or just guys you’re really attracted to?”

Another great comeback after she teases you or gives you a “tension test.”

“I'm not just some trophy boyfriend you can use to show off to your
friends.”

Great role reversal that you can use during a marriage role play.

“High five. Foot five. Mouth five. Crotch five.”

Funny quote from the show, How I Met Your Mother.

“You are cute. I'm taking you home with me.”

Say this after she does something you like. Hug her while you say it.

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“I get that a lot, but girls that say that usually sleep with me shortly
after, so I never learn my lesson.”

Say this if she calls you an asshole, jerk, too cocky, a player, etc.

* Remember to say all of these with a sly smile so she knows you are being playful and
not 100% serious and just being cheeky.

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HOW TO BE FUNNY
It is not a prerequisite to be funny in order to be successful with women. What is more
important is being positive, having a good personality, and having a sense of humor.
That being said, it definitely doesn’t hurt if you can make her laugh. Laughter releases
endorphins and serotonin (feel-good chemicals) that can make the girl like you even
more.

Misinterpretations
Her: “It’s so hot. I’m burning up in here.”
You: “I have that effect on women.”

Her: “I’ll buy you a drink.”

You: “You are just trying to get in my pants.”

Her: “Well, it’s getting late I have to go to bed.”

You: “I’m so sorry I can’t. I mean you are great and everything, but it’s just too soon.”

* Make sure to say these with a smile.

Ridiculous Statements
• “I would totally take you home tonight, but I'm married with 13 kids.”

Say this if you are a young guy.

• “I would take you home right now, but I live with my mom, and she would get mad
at me.”

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Say this if you are an older guy.

• “I live in a van down by the river, and I eat a steady diet of government cheese.”

You could say this when she asks where you live. It works great if you are dressed
really nice and classy. This is also a quote from Saturday Night. Bonus points if she
gets the reference.

• “I think I’m pregnant and it’s yours.”

Movie Quotes
• "I called her up and she gave me a bunch of crap about me not listenin' to her
enough or somethin'. I don't know, I wasn't really payin' attention."
- Dumb & Dumber

Say this if she asks you why you broke up with your girlfriend.

• “You sound like a cross between Fergie and Jesus.”

- Step Brothers

Say this if she sings for you.

• “I’m kind of a big deal, people know me.”

- Anchorman

Fun to say if she asks you, “Who do you know at this party?”

• “Please give me back my Van Halen T-shirt before you jinx the band, and they break
up!"
- The Wedding Singer

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Fun to use during a divorce role play.

• “I'm glad you are single because I'm gonna climb that like a tree."
- Bridesmaids

Great way to joke about sex and poke fun at gender roles. Say it after you ask her if
she’s single and she says yes. If she looks at you in a weird way after you say the line,
simply tease her for not knowing the reference, “Really! You’ve never seen the movie
Bridesmaids! Hmm, that’s minus 3 cool points for you.”

• “I wake up in the morning, and I piss excellence. And nobody can handle my stuff.
Uh, you know, I'm just a, just a big hairy American winnin' machine.”
- Talladega Nights

Bait & Switch

• “Has anyone ever told you how beautiful (long pause) my eyes are?”

• “I’m just trying to get into your pants (long pause). What size are they?”

• “I just wanted to say hi to the best-looking girls in here (long pause). Can you help
me find them?”

* These are meant to get a laugh.

Crazy Exaggerations

• After you get her number say, “Don’t worry, I will only call you 57 times a day.”

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• If she’s from the South, say, “I bet you married your first cousin and the two of you
go cow tipping every Tuesday and then drink moonshine before you doe-see-doe
down at the local hee haw.”

Any ridiculous stereotype will do.

• “Listen, we would just go home together, have really good sex, but then I’d get
bored and start cheating on you with your best friend...so maybe we should just
break up now.”

Call-Back Humor

Reference a past joke or funny moments. Nicknames can often be used as call-back
humor.

Examples:

If you teased her about being a Smurf because of her blue hoodie, and then an hour
later you tease, “Come Smurfette, you are going home with Papa Smurf tonight.”

If you did a marriage role play, then you text her, “Hey wifey, I hope you got home
safe....the divorce hearing is tomorrow. I want my CD collection back! lol”

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RANDOM RESPONSES TO
COMMON QUESTIONS

We all get asked the common questions like, “Where are you from?” and “What
do you do?” Instead of answering her questions with boring one-word answers
like, “Delaware” or “I’m an accountant,” mix in some humor to surprise her and
make her laugh. This will set you apart from all the other guys who answer her
questions with logical answers that bore her to tears.

What Is Your Name?

Her: “What’s your name?”
You: “Matt, but my stage name is Hercules.”
Her: “Oh yeah?”
You: “Yeah, I dance at the Peppermint Hippo. I think I’ve seen you there!”

Her: “What’s your name?”

You: “Tom….Tom Cruise.”
Her: “No, it’s not!”
You: “Yes, it is!”
Her: “No, I don’t believe you.”
You: “Okay, that was a test to make sure you are smart.”

Where Are You from?

Her: “Where are you from?”
You: “I’m from your imagination, I’m not even real.”
Her: “Hahaha.”
You: “I can do anything I want and it wouldn’t matter because it’s just your
imagination. You have a pretty naughty imagination.”

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Her: “Where are you from?”
You: “Well, I shouldn’t tell you, but I’m from the future!”
Her: “Oh really!?”
You: “Yeah, in the future there is a horrible robo-apocalypse, and our unborn child is
the only hope for humanity.”
Her: “Haha, you are crazy.”
You: “Come, we have to make our son so he can save the world!”

What Do You Do?

Her: “What do you do?”
You: “I’m an ass model.”
Her: “Haha no way!”
You: “Yeah, check it out, but no touching.”

Her: “What do you do?”

You: “I’m the janitor at an adult movie theater.”
Her: “Ewww, gross, haha.”
You: “Yeah, it’s a dirty job, but someone has to do it.”

Her: “What do you do?”

You: “I’m a porn star. I’m known in the industry as Connell Lingus”
Her: “I don’t believe you.”
You: “If you were a porn star, what would your name be?”

*Make sure not to overdo the jokes because she may genuinely want to get to know
you. Mix in genuine answers with the humor.

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TOPICS THAT TURN HER ON

It’s important to turn the conversation to intimacy in a smooth, non-creepy way

to show her that you are comfortable with your sexuality. Because women will
often lose interest in a guy if they can sense he’s not comfortable with his own
masculine sexuality. When you turn the conversation sexual the right way, it can
get her to start thinking about intimate scenarios and associate those arousing
feelings with you. It can also help move the relationship forward in a way that
she’ll enjoy.

Tell Her What You Are Going To Do To Her

“If you continue to look at me in that sexy way, I’m going to kiss you.”

“When I take you back to my place, I am going to kiss you from head to toe.”

“I’m going to tease you until you can’t stand it anymore.”

Find Out What Turns Her On

“What turns you on? Like, do you prefer a guy to be gentle and soft with you or do you
prefer a man who is dominant and has his way with you?”

*Note: Even if she says she prefers a dominant man, always be respectful and slow
down or stop if she doesn’t seem comfortable. Always veer on the side of safety and
respect her wishes.

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Tell Her To Describe Her Hottest Sexual Experience

When she describes it to you, she can’t help but feel turned on as she relives some of
those emotions.

Desire And Craving What We Want

“What makes you say, ‘fuck it, I want this now (do a subtle self-point)’” “Is it ice-
cream, shopping, or a hot guy (self-point)?” “I don’t know about you, but when I crave
something, I have to have it”

Role-Playing

I gave you this example before: “You are awesome we are so getting married. But we
can only have sex 8 times a day. I mean, I’m not just a piece of meat you know. I’ll be
your trophy husband, I suppose.” Then describe the honeymoon and the passionate
night consummating the marriage.

Her Sensuality And Views Of Sex

“How well in tune with your sexuality would you say you are? Because so many
women are so out of tune with their own sexuality, it’s really sad. They let society,
family or their friends decide for them instead of listening to your own body and what
you really desire and deserve. Me (self-point) I think for a woman to more fully
blossom into her true sexual fulfillment, she must first set aside the judgment society
makes on powerful independent women like yourself, and become the ruler of her own
sexuality.” - Vince Kelvin

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