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Power of Thanks A Dialogue
Power of Thanks A Dialogue
What is important in life? Money, relations, religion or assets? Fareeha took a sip of coffee
and asked this question to me and my wife. Fareeha was a 56 years old Aunt of my wife.
We were confused to reply. I said money and my wife replied relations, simultaneously.
Fareeha smiled and said you both are right but I am afraid your incompatibility may harm
“If you don’t have money how can you deal with wishes of your relations?” I replied.
“Relations doesn’t need money, they need attention, emotions and love with respect” argued
my wife”
Fareeha cut our conversation and shared her experience! “I think a man should lose all to get
all”. We couldn’t understand the claim of that old lady. Fareeha explained that in her young
age early after her marriage a time came when she losed all and then spent her whole life to
again gain that assets of life. She worked hard and earned money. Once upon in her life due
to a misery life she loosed her all relations. She forgot her religion. For the education of her
three children and treatments of her ill husband she sold all her assets like jewelry and home.
We astonished and were looking her with surprised sights. Fareeha told her husband was an
addict and never worked after marriage. This led her and her family towards a very miserable
life. She faced a lot of challenges in her life. But stood up with courage.
“The life is not meant for blaming, it is meant for solving.” Fareeha took a sigh of relief and
said that she is wonderful for herself, only because she never thought to blame. She just
for his drugs, he used to beat me. I hide a little money for my children’s education health and
living. In start people in my relations used to help me but with a time they started to ignore
me. For them my recognition was just like the beggars. So I decided to do something in life.
I purchased a candle maker machine, some raw material and started to make candles and
selling them on shops. This made me busy 16 hours a day. Whenever I went to shops the
asked the brands. By time my earning increased and my children got admissions in
universities. I employed 15 working women who used to sell candles. After coming out from
bad times I again started to participate in family functions. I saw now with the power of
Why you don’t left her?. I mean he has no role in your life, your success even grooming your
children.
Fareeha smiled! And took a sigh of relief for a while, and then said Yes!. You might be right.
How! I said.
Fareeha replied whenever I helped him, he say Thanks, I am happy with the power of this
Thanks.