Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Transactional Analysis: Managing People
Transactional Analysis: Managing People
Transactional Analysis: Managing People
Transactional Analysis
C Jalasayanan
1
What is T.A.?
2
REASONS FOR POPULARITY OF T.A. IN
MANAGEMENT
SIMPLE
LANGUAGE BUILT-IN HUMOR
APPROPRIATE
NON-THREATENING FOR “NORMAL
SELF-ANALYSIS PEOPLE”
DEMONSTRATED
SUCCESS IN BUS. USEFUL AT WORK &
ORGANIZATIONS AT HOME
3
TEXTS ON TA
• DR ERIC BERNE
– Psychotherapy
– „TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS IN
PSYCHOTHERAPY‟ EVERGREEN 1961
– „GAMES PEOPLE PLAY‟ PENGUIN 1964
• DR THOMAS HARRIS
– DIRECTOR OF THE INTERNATIONAL T.A.
ASSOCIATION
– „I‟M OK – YOU‟RE OK‟ PAN 1973
• „STAYING OK‟ - PAN
4
VERY BASIC HUMAN EGO STATES
(PERSONALITY STATES)
• PARENT
– RESEMBLE PARENTAL FIGURES
– EXTEROPSYCHIC
• ADULT
– DIRECTED TOWARDS OBJECTIVE APPRAISAL OF
REALITY
– NEOPSYCHIC
• CHILD
– ARCHAIC RELICS, FIXATED IN EARLY CHILDHOOD
– ARCHAEOPSYCHIC
5
Typical Behaviors
CP NP A NC AC
9
TYPES OF INTERPERSONAL TRANSACTIONS
P P P P P P
A A A A A A
C C C C C C
COMPLEMENTARY CROSSED ULTERIOR
P P P P P P
A A A A A A
C C C C C C
EXPECTED PRODUCE CONFLICT, STOP VERBAL COMMUNICATION
RESPONSE, NO CONFLICT COMMUNICATION, HURT FEELINGS
NON-VERBAL HIDDEN MEANING
10
EXAMPLES OF COMPLEMENTARY TRANSACTIONS
ON THE JOB
(1) ACS: “CAN I GET YOU (1) MANAGER: “WHAT (1) FIRST PTL: “GEE, I
ANYTHING FROM COULD WE DO TO WISH I WERE OUT ON
DOWN STAIRS?” MEET THE DEADLINE THE GOLF COURSE
ON THIS PROJECT?” RIGHT NOW.”
(2) MANAGER: “YOU
SURE KNOW HOW TO (2) EMPLOYEE: “WE (2) SECOND PTL: “LET’S
TAKE CARE OF ME, ” COULD TAKE A TAKE OFF. WHO
COUPLE OF PEOPLE WANTS TO LISTEN TO
OFF THE OTHER THE VP ANYWAY?’
PROJECT FOR A
WHILE AND PUT
THEM ON THIS ONE.”
P P P P P P
(1)
(1)
A A A A A A
(2) (2) (1)
C C C C C C
(2)
P P P P P P P P
(1) (1)
(1)
(1)
A A A A A A A A
(2) (2) (2) (2)
C C C C
C C C C
(1) EMPLOYEE: “SORRY, I WON’T HAVE THE (1) SALESMAN: “THIS CAR HAS GOT
PROJECT DOCUMENT READY FOR EVERYTHING YOU’D EVER WANT
TOMORROW’S DEADLINE.” FROM A PERFROMANCE SPORTS CAR
– BUT IT MAY BE TOO EXPENSIVE
(2) MANAGER: “IT’S O.K. I’VE BEEN THINKING FOR YOU.”
OF ASSIGNING THE JOB TO SOMEONE ELSE
ANYWAY.” (2) CUSTOMER: “WELL LET’S GIVE IT A
TEST DRIVE..” (HIDDEN MEANING:
“WHO DOES HE THINK I AM?”)
P P P P
(1)
(1)
(1)
A A A (2) A
(2) (1)
(2)
C C C C
(2)
13
STROKING
THE TYPES OF STROKES YOU SEEK DEPEND ON YOUR OKAYNESS
14
BASIC PSYCHOLOGICAL (LIFE) POSITIONS: YOUR
SELF IMAGE
15
CONFLICT AT WORK: I
POOR ME KICK ME
• EMPLOYEE LOOKING FOR “SORRY, I COULDN’T
NURTURING PARENT TO FINISH THAT DAMN JOB
SOOTH HIS/HER I’M NOT OK OF YOURS… TOO MANY
FEELING LOVES TO PLAY
INTERUPTIONS”
VICTIM. SELF-PITY, MARTYR
COMPLEX FREQUENT (ULTERIOR MESSAGE: “PLEASE
SYMPTOMS KICK ME!”)
“WHY IS
EVERYBODY
ALWAYS PICKING
“I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN…”
ON ME?”
(ULTERIOR MESSAGE: “HERE’S
THE KICK YOU ASKED FOR…
GLAD TO COMPLY!”)
17
CONFLICT AT WORK: III
STUPID NIGYSOB
“NOW, I’VE GOT YOU, YOU S.O.B”
“HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO
STUPID, THROWING THAT CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF PERSECUTOR SETTING
PHONE MESSAGE AWAY!” UP HIS VICTIM. LOVES TO ACTIVATE HIS
CRITICAL PARENT EGO STATE. OFTEN SETS
IMPOSSIBLE TASKS FOR SUBORDINATES, GIVES
INCOMPLETE INSTRUCTIONS, THEN GETS
READY TO GIVE A KICK.
EXAMPLE:
20
CONFLICT AT WORK: VI
LET’S YOU AND RAPO
“THAT NO-
HIM FIGHT GOOD
SO-&-SO!” “KHALED IS ALEX IN YET?”
21
CONFLICT AT WORK: VII
That’s His Job Amnesia
“OH, I’M SORRY I TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT
“I’M ALWAYS WHAT YOU ASKED ME TO DO.”
“MY JOB, YOUR
DOING HIS
NOT EVEN
JOB” DOING YOURS”
22
CONFLICT AT WORK: VIII
COMPLEMENTARY
TRANSACTIONS BETWEEN MANAGER WHO ALL OF A SUDDEN
PARENT AND CHILD EGO STATES. WANTS TO BE FORMAL. MAY BE
POPULAR GAME IN COMMITTEES. PLAYING CRITICAL PARENT
23
Transactional Analysis
• The 80/20 rule: 80 percent of your success is in
managing people and 20 percent relates to doing
your job well.
• If this is true, what is the level of “okayness” with
your subordinates, peers, supervisors and most
important clients?
• It is important to take the following self test to
determine where you stand.
24
Transactional Analysis
25
Transactional Analysis
26
Transactional Analysis
27
Transactional Analysis
28
Transactional Analysis
29
Transactional Analysis: Understanding others through
Simple Classification
30
Transactional Analysis
31
Transactional Analysis:
32
Transactional Analysis: Role Playing
34
Transactional Analysis: role playing
36
Transactional Analysis: role playing
37
Transactional Analysis: role playing
38
Transactional Analysis: role playing
39
Transactional Analysis: role playing
40
Transactional Analysis: role playing
41
Transactional Analysis: role playing
42
Transactional Analysis: role playing
43
Transactional Analysis: role playing
44
HOW TO STOP THE GAME PLAY
45
BASIC GUIDES WHICH CAN HELP YOU IN WORKING WITH
PEOPLE
46
REVIEW OF BUZZ WORDS
(BUT THEY CAN ALSO BE TOOLS FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING)
47
PITFALLS OF T.A.
IN MANAGEMENT
48
Contact me
jalasayanan@gmail.com
49