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Develop The Skill of Active Listening
Develop The Skill of Active Listening
ing is the most effective and easiest ment. The second step in active lis-
learned skill that can enable lawyers tening is really a communication skill
to improve their communication and rather than a listening skill. In this
rapport with their clients, increase stage, a lawyer must communicate
their clients' satisfaction, and im- back to the client what the lawyer
prove the preparation of cases. has heard from the client. This is
Active listening is the lawyer's ver- called the active listening response.
bal response that reflects back to the Research has shown that active lis-
client, in different words, what the tening improves rapport between a
client has just said. Lawyers can use lawyer and his client and encourages
the skill of active listening during in- clients to talk. Thus, a lawyer is likely
terviews, counseling sessions, negoti- to learn more from the client and
ations, conferences with judges, jury have more facts to work with in the
selections, and office meetings. case by employing this technique.
The purpose of this article is to Active listening, however, is not
describe the process of active listen- easy. Hearing a speaker accurately
ing, discuss its benefits, and provide and then immediately verbalizing, in
a step-by-step approach for making different words, the content or the
active listening responses. Although speaker's feelings is a difficult and
examples from typical legal situa- analytic task. In this respect, active
tions will be used, the technique of listening embraces what many peo-
active listening can be employed ple consider the essence of being a
almost any time two people com- lawyer-the ability to think on one's
municate. feet or, in this case, in one's seat
while interviewing.
T HE TECHNIQUE 9 To employ ef-
fectively the technique of active Content and Feelings
listening, lawyers must develop two A client's statement can be ana-
distinct skills: discrimination and lyzed either from the perspective of
communication. content or of feelings.
car) and feelings (frustration). The derlying these legal situations and
client is clear about what the lawyer tried to empathize with the parties,
understands and is given implicit little time would be left for learning
permission to discuss content, feel- the law or the process of legal rea-
ings, or both. The client probably soning.
senses greater rapport with Lawyer In the practice of law, however, an
#2 and is encouraged to talk fully attorney is confronted with living
about the problem. persons, not paper plaintiffs and
Experimental evidence has shown defendants, and remaining a detached
that speakers who receive active fact finder is no longer enough. Facts
listening responses tend to divulge and emotions are intertwined. Effec-
more information. Talking about tive legal counseling should include
feelings may also be a good way to empathetic understanding to help
obtain information about the under- the client communicate better. This
lying facts, which may be of legal is especially important to lawyers
significance to the case. In addition, who must rely on as few as one or
a client who is preoccupied with feel- two interviews with a client to learn
ings often cannot listen well to the about the client's problem.
lawyer and may give the lawyer inac-
curate or incomplete information. LIENTS' EMOTIONS * Having a
Nevertheless, many lawyers fail to legal problem is an emotionally
recognize that emotions are also trying experience. Plaintiffs volun-
critical to a client's case. These tarily come to lawyers when they feel
lawyers see the practice of law as a they have been cheated, physically
series of legal problems to be solved injured, discriminated against, or
like puzzles, not as a means of assist- otherwise wronged. Defendants in-
ing people whose problems have both voluntarily come to lawyers with
factual and emotional dimensions. feelings that someone wants their
This is partly explained by a law- money or wishes to restrain their
yer's legal training. In law school, liberty. They feel unjustly accused,
human beings who have been involved harassed, tormented, or, in some
in legal problems are reduced to cases, that they were in the wrong.
anonymous defendants and plain- Any party to a suit might be embar-
tiffs. A law student is exposed to so rassed about the situation or feel
many legal predicaments that these foolish for allowing himself to get in-
plaintiffs and defendants have got- to the situation in the first place.
ten themselves into that he has no Most people are probably more
time to worry about their emotional reluctant to see a lawyer than to see a
experiences. Indeed, if the student doctor. Potential clients may fear
did concentrate on the feelings un- that a lawyer will take advantage of
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them. Even a business client who be made until after the client has
may trust his lawyer may be embar- evaluated the lawyer in this first in-
rassed to have a problem he cannot terview. Active listening, since it in-
handle himself or to have caused the creases rapport, also increases the
problem through an oversight or probability that the client will want
mistake. to hire the lawyer.
Finally, some clients may fear that Lawyers are likely to discover that
they, their family, and friends will active listening saves time. The few
receive unwanted publicity if a suit is extra minutes spent with a client are
filed or the case goes to court. The likely to produce a wealth of addi-
possibility of having to testify in tional information.
court and being subject to cross-ex- Client rapport and improved law-
amination may upset otherwise com- yer-client relations are beneficial in
petent and capable professionals. another business sense. Many clients
are unaware that most legal cases
Counseling end in negotiated, compromise set-
Active listening also can be useful tlements and that even a substantial
to the lawyer with a sincere personal judgment won in a civil case will be
desire to help clients through coun- diminished by high legal expenses
seling. Indeed, lawyers should be and contingent fees. In other words,
counselors in the broad sense of all clients are likely to be dissatisfied
helping clients choose between various to some degree with the result. If
possible alternatives. Only through rapport between the lawyer and
good counseling, which allows a client remains strong, however, the
client to express his feelings, can the client is likely to be satisfied with his
lawyer adequately assist him in lawyer. A satisfied client brings a
evaluating the social, economic, and lawyer repeat business and sends him
personal consequences of available referrals. Furthermore, a satisfied
alternatives to his legal problem. client does not file a grievance claim
or institute a spurious malpractice
E CONOMIC BENEFITS 0 Lawyers action against his lawyer.
must be businessmen as well as
lawyers, and active listening makes A CCURACY, INTENSITY, AND
good business sense. In the market- FORM e Active listening re-
ing of legal services, the first inter- sponses can be viewed from three
view with a prospective client has perspectives:
changed considerably during the last
decade and is often free of charge. * Accuracy-whether the listener
Whether to hire a particular lawyer is correctly identified the content or the
the client's decision, which will not feeling expressed by the speaker;
HOW TO DEVELOP THE SKILL OFACTIVE LISTENING 79
tion on fault. The response encour- blocked the emotions from being ex-
ages the client to keep talking but pressed. A lawyer should consider
does not agree directly with the his and the client's reactions before
client's position. In addition, if Law- using this technique, since a client
yer #2 must later tell the client that generally feels much better after be-
the accident was his fault, the client ing given a chance to release the
is more likely to accept the lawyer's emotional tension. Allowing clients
view because he can be sure that he to express emotions or remaining
was understood by the lawyer. silent during part of an interview
Techniques that are roadblocks in while the client responds can be an
one situation can be useful in com- effective interviewing technique.
munication when the desired effect is
to create a roadblock. For example,
a question can be consciously used in
C technique of active
ONCLUSION By using the
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listening
this fashion, as when a lawyer might and applying the simple checks of
decide not to allow the client's feel- accuracy, intensity, and form, law-
ings to be expressed. yers can elicit more and better infor-
Client: "Every time I think about mation from a client and also be sure
it, I just almost can't stand it. I go to that the information obtained is cor-
pieces. I just-just. . ." (hangs head rect. Furthermore, active listening
and is close to crying). can help build rapport between law-
Lawyer: "Now, where were you yer and client and contribute to the
on the morning just before the acci- improvement of the lawyer's practice.
dent?" Active listening, however, is not
Client: "Let's see." (Regaining an invitation for lawyers to act as
composure.) "I think I had just amateur psychiatrists or do some-
stopped by the drug store to .... " thing that is totally out of their prov-
ince. If a client seems to have a
In the above example, the lawyer's significant emotional problem, he
question required the client to shift should be referred to a mental health
to a less emotional topic and thereby professional.
If the lawyer notices that the client's emotional condition is affecting their
communication, it is best to comment on the client's emotional state rather
than ignore it. You can easily show a client that you relate to his or her crisis
simply by repeating the problem back to the client.
Clawar & Rivlin, Are Your Clients Getting the Most Out of You?
Wis. B. BuLL., May 1983, at 17, 18.
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