Professional Documents
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Opener
Opener
Opener
Direct
Hey I know this is random, but I had to tell you you are kinda cute
I just saw you, and I knew I’d be kicking myself if I didn’t (come over and) talk to you.
Hey, you’re almost as cute as me. (What’s your name?)
Hey trouble. Hey troublemaker. Hey you look like trouble
You don’t look Miami at all.
You think it’s okay to look at me like that, so cute and mess up my plans to go to my friends.
I love the dress, it looks like it’s from the 80s.
I love your style (it’s sporty, eloquent, simple, cool)
I love the way you walk,
I love the way you smile
I love how X fits/match to Y (shoes, jeans, top, hair, trousers, pants, bracelet, necklace // color of your shoes color of your top, hair, etc.)
…how your shoes fit to your jeans…
…how your shoes fit to the color of your hair…
…how your trousers fit to the color of your top…
Indirect
What are you drinking
What’s that purse/shirt/shoes/top you are wearing
Sorry I’m late. You know the uber just, anyway forget about. So how are you guys doing? (CALM as FUCK)
I’m sorr. I’m just kidding, nice to meet you.
(HOLD EYE CONTACT & SMILE AT HER) Why you smiling at me? You smiled at me.
(EC/SMILE - WAVE HER IN) Had to say hi. Would have regretted it if I didn’t.
Can I be honest?
What is up bitches?
Who of you bitches is getting married?
Follow Up
Cold Read/Just assume stuff
You look like…
I bet you are…
I love the way you walk, it’s so energetic, I bet you are a person who has a clear goal in life, knows what she wants, got a little a bit of elbows
going on, that’s cool
I bet you are a very energetic person
I bet you are a very fashionable person
I can see that you are a girl who has a sweet tooth/takes her time picking her outfit
You are cute and short. I like it -> You know the hobbit? You are like my little hobbit. Let’s go on an adventure together
DISQUALIFYING/SELF AMUSEMENT
Dorky white boy from europe. I think that is the last thing you guys need
I’m allowed to do that. I’m from the country side, I don’t have manners.
Someone nice -> Unlike me
I’m sober and I have a job.
I have inner values
OVERCROSSING/ZU VIEL
I’m sorry, If I crossed the line I apologize, bitch mit mademoiselle ersetzen -> Französisch
QUESTIONS FOR ME
How old are you? I’m 16. Is that a problem?
Why are you single? I’m hard to handle. I’m crazy look at me
Why are you asking? I wanna get to know you better.
What about your friend/s? Oh, he’s drunk.
babystep
Where do you live Can’t hear you, let’s talk outside I know a really cool food place it’s like 5 minutes away from
here. Let’s go.
(food place/bar/restaurant is closed -> we can cook at mine)
Poke her (no big deal) and smile at her Do you own a cellular device?
Cause I’m funny and sweet Okay Marie, you are pretty fun so far. Are you that fun over text as
well? Cool, let’s find out.
Cause I’m cool
I have a boyfriend. Oh oh, yeah me too. Don’t worry. Anyway, what’s
Are you hitting on my boyfriend? your number
Excuse me sir, are these two girls molesting you?
KEY principles: By the way + isolate her
That’s how we do it in Germany. It’s tradition