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Parents Making Change
Parents Making Change
Parents Making Change
Who
Change the
World
From City Hall to the corridors of
Congress, moms and dads just
like you are making children’s
lives safer and happier.
by Elizabeth Foy Larsen
On an easy summer evening
in June 2007, Scott and Katey Taylor decided to take three of their four young daughters
for dinner and an evening swim at their suburban Minneapolis golf course. An active family,
the Taylors loved the water and took every opportunity to spend time together outside.
As the daylight faded, Scott took one of their and pass the Virginia Graeme Baker Pool & Spa
daughters, Christina, 2, home while Katey ushered Safety Act, a federal law named for a 7-year-old
Grace, 8, and some pals to the shower. That’s when girl—Graeme, to her family—who drowned after
she looked back and saw 6-year-old Abbey in the being pinned underwater by hundreds of pounds
wading pool sitting down with a strange look on her of suction force from a hot-tub drain. The bill,
face. Katey called to her to join them. passed in 2008, bans the manufacture, sale, or
She knew something was wrong the minute her distribution of drain covers that don’t meet
daughter stood up. Obviously dizzy, Abbey took a anti-entrapment safety standards and requires the
few sideways steps and fell, knocking out her front use of less powerful drainage systems. It had
tooth and hitting her head on the pool deck before originally been championed by Nancy Baker,
plunging into the adult pool. Graeme’s mother, who had lobbied for three years
Several hours and one emergency surgery later, to get the bill passed. When it stalled, Katey and
doctors told the Taylors news that no parent could Scott’s support gave the legislation the final push it
ever prepare for, much less imagine. Despite the needed to be signed into law.
fact that there had been not a speck of blood at The Taylors also successfully lobbied for the
the site of the accident, Abbey’s small intestine had state-level Abigail Taylor Pool Safety Act. It
been ripped from her body by the suction from an requires all existing pools and spas that are open
uncovered pool drain in the kiddie pool. to the public to bring their drain covers up to
In those panic-stricken days of her first hospital standards. Those pools are also now required to
stay, Abbey asked Katey if she was going to be be licensed and inspected by the Minnesota
on television. Abbey was a showgirl—the kind of Department of Health.
child who could belt out all the lyrics to High Getting those laws passed wasn’t easy. The
School Musical—so her parents figured she was Taylors spent countless hours meeting with
dreaming about being famous. But Abbey politicians, and learning the legislative process. They
wasn’t focused on her beloved Hanna Montana. graciously told their heartbreaking story to the
Lying in her hospital bed, the 6-year-old showed media and anyone else who would listen.
she was wise beyond her years. “I need to make The Taylors aren’t as unique as you might
sure that what happened to me doesn’t happen imagine. Across the United States, parents, many
to someone else,” she said. Her words would of whom are coping with unfathomable losses,
change the course of the Taylors’ lives. become citizen lobbyists in the hope that other
Abbey died nine months later, after 16 surgeries families won’t have to suffer the same senseless
including a triple organ transplant to replace her tragedies. Whether they’re fighting for food safety,
liver, small intestine, and pancreas. But her parents improved car standards, bullying prevention, or
never forgot that conversation with their cherished autism-insurance reform, these mothers and
little girl. With the support of Minnesota’s U.S. fathers claw their way through the tangle of politics
Senator Amy Klobuchar, the Taylors helped revive and bureaucracy, all in the name of their children.
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were when Alec died, but it helps us to help others.” realize the depth of that inner strength,” says Heather
Kim and Ken Hansen, of West Seneca, New York, Vandenberghe, of New York City, whose 3-year-old
understand intimately what motivates the Nelsons to keep daughter, Elle, was injured, almost fatally, when she was hit by
pushing for improved safety laws. The couple lost their a reckless driver who was reversing into a parking space while
16-year-old daughter and only child, Amanda, when she was Elle and her nanny were walking to her preschool.
1903 1948
No work, more play RIGHTS FOR ALL KIDS
1821 Labor rights activist and mom As the most influential member
SCHOOL FOR GIRLS of four “Mother” Mary Harris of the United Nations’ 1951
Women’s-rights advocate and Jones leads striking children Commission on Human Rights, ANTI-SEGREGATION RULING
mom of one Emma Willard from the textile mills of former First Lady and mother of Oliver Brown tries
opens the Troy Female Kensington, Pennsylvania, to six Eleanor Roosevelt cheers unsuccessfully to enroll his
Seminary (now the Emma President Theodore Roosevelt’s when the General Assembly 7-year-old daughter, Linda, in a
Willard School) in Troy, New home on Long Island, New adopts The Universal white school in Topeka, Kansas.
York. It’s the first school in the York. They carry banners saying Declaration of Human Rights, In 1954, the Supreme Court
United States to offer girls an “We want time to play!” and Among its features: giving rights rules that it is unconstitutional
education equal to that for boys. “We want to go to school!” to kids born to single moms. to segregate children in schools.
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people questioned whether the pool-safety laws the Taylors engaged juggling her career as a flight attendant with raising
backed would be effective, the criticisms cut deep. “It’s the couple’s five other children. “Just because we’re still talking
incredibly personal,” says Katey Taylor, who admits that their about our child doesn’t mean we aren’t moving on,” she says.
advocacy may have strained some friendships. “I used to feel “We are moving on and taking him with us.”
1975 1978
1972 Battling guns Superfund’s supermom
A mother’s pride After his 23-year-old son is fatally shot, Lois Gibbs finds out that not only is her 7-year-old son’s
Jeanne Manford marches with her Nelson “Pete” Shields III becomes the elementary school in Niagara Falls, New York,
adult son in what is now called the New spokesperson for Handgun Control Inc. built on a toxic waste dump but her entire Love Canal
York City Gay Pride Parade. She holds and turns the organization into neighborhood is too. With no experience in activism,
the first formal meeting of Parents, the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Gibbs lobbies for the creation of the Superfund,
Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Violence, the most prominent a federal act passed in 1980 and designed to locate and
Gays (PFLAG) the following year. gun-control lobby in the country. clean up toxic-waste sites throughout the United States.
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other people.” When Cushing Kiernat spearheaded ‘yes,’ ” advises Fennell. “But if you are doing
a tax referendum campaign—a yes-or-no ballot something that comes from your own life
vote—to benefit the Minneapolis Public Schools, experience, you have the truth on your side.”
the country was deep in the grip of the 2008 Don’t stop with laws. Legislation is nothing
recession and only 18 percent of the district’s without education. Each year since Alec’s death, the
voting population had children. “I knew what was Nelson family has sponsored Alec’s Run (alecsrunli
happening at my own kids’ elementary school, but I .com) to raise awareness about car safety. Proceeds
needed to hear what was going on in all the other go to KidsandCars.org and other nonprofits.
1991 2006
1980 1988 Taking on Toxins Moms act up
Mad (and effective) AIDS Activist After daughter Colette dies MoveOn.org cofounder and
Candace Lightner founds Hollywood wife of David Glaser, of a rare cancer, Nancy and president Joan Blades and
Mothers Against Drunk Driving Elizabeth Glaser, who contracted Jim Chuda, of Connecticut, journalist Kristin Rowe-
(MADD) in her den four days HIV from a blood infusion while start Healthy Child, Healthy Finkbeiner start MomsRising,
after one of her 13-year-old twin giving birth to her daughter in World. It becomes a global a grassroots network of
daughters is killed by a drunk 1981, launches the Pediatric AIDS leader in educating the public mothers lobbying for laws
driver in Fair Oaks, California. Foundation with two friends. about environmental hazards. making it easier to raise kids.
Courteney
Cox
The Cougar Town
star and mom of
Coco, 6, is an
advocate for
OmniPeace, an
L.A.–based
Halle Berry Julia Roberts Heidi Klum fashion brand. It
As a diabetic herself, Oscar Oscar winner and mother Supermodel and mother of donates profits to
winner and mom of Nahla, of three, Roberts supports four, Klum assists the promoting peace,
3, Berry has a personal Hole in the Wall Gang Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric human rights,
connection to the work of Camp, for children AIDS Foundation, and education,
Diabetes Aware, which suffering from cancer, providing HIV prevention and to ending
helps those with the sickle cell anemia, HIV/ and treatment for women, poverty in
disease manage it. AIDS, and other diseases. children, and families. Africa.
marcia Cross
She plays a desperate housewife on
TV, but she’s also joined forces
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with Feeding America, which
distributes food through a
nationwide network of food
providers and seeks to
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increase public
Christina applegate awareness about jennifer lopez
After being diagnosed with breast the issue of Lopez created The Maribel
cancer in 2008, Applegate created hunger in Foundation, funding
Right Action for Women, a America. telemedicine clinics
foundation that educates women connecting children in
about breast cancer and provides underprivileged
aid to those who can’t afford communities with top
insurance to cover screenings. pediatric specialists.
reese
witherspoon
Oscar winner and
mother of two,
Witherspoon serves as
honorary chairperson of
the Avon Foundation, a
nonprofit that tackles
breast cancer and
Jennifer Garner Katherine Heigl ALICIA KEYS
domestic violence.
This star lends a hand to When Heigl was a kid her The singer and new
Milk + Bookies, where older brother died in a mom is a cofounder and
children select, car accident and her global ambassador for
purchase, and inscribe family donated his Keep a Child Alive. The
books that are donated organs. Heigl now works organization provides
to peers who don’t have with Donate Life treatment and support
books. Garner has two America to inspire to children and families
daughters, Violet, 5, people to sign up to be affected by HIV/AIDS
and Seraphina, 2. organ donors. in Africa and India.
—Josh Helmin