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PREPARATION
D0 – It - Yourself
“CHECKLIST GUIDE FOR YOUR FUTURE
WEDDING PREPARATION
CONTENTS:
PERSONAL DETAILS
MAJOR WEDDING DETAILS
DOCUMENTS GUIDE
WEDDING PREPARATION GUIDE &
CHECKLIST
PRENUP GUIDE
INVITATION GUIDE
CHECKLIST FOR PREPARATION AREA
THINGS TO BRING ON YOUR WEDDING DAY
TIMELINE FOR AM/PM WEDDING – CALL
TIME
RECEPTION FLOW AM/PM WEDDING
PERSONAL ENDORSEMENTS TO YOUR ON –
THE – DAY COORDINATOR
WEDDING FLOOR PLAN ON RECEPTION
MUSIC AND SPEECHES
PERSONAL DETAILS
MAJOR WEDDING DETAILS
Est 2016
Note: this is not super 100 % perfect, this is just a
guide, a guide made based on experiences 😊 so i-
enjoy nyo lang 😊
The Wedding of
Name of Bride: Janel Rhoan C. Hermidilla
Name of Groom: Jasper John B. Del Mundo
Date of Wedding:
Ceremony:
Reception
Ceremony Time:
Dress up:
BRIDE
Janel Rhoan Cruz Hermidilla Janel /
Complete Name: Nickname/Age:
Blk 7 Lt 7 Greentown Villas 1, 09957947770
Address: Mambog 3 Bacoor Cavite Contact Number/s:
Name of Mother:
Jackilyn C. Hermidilla
Roman U. Hermidilla
Name of Father:
Note (do not take these too personal tips lang po):
1. If yung isa or both parents po eh wala na you can always assign a proxy
like kapatid, tito, tita. Then still pwede nyu po sila still ilagay sa
invitation nyu to give honor and respect sa kanila dahil kung wala sila
wala rin po kayong mag couple..
GROOM
Complete Name: Nickname:
Profession/Occupation: Birthplace:
Name of Company:
Contact person if
groom is residing
abroad
(contact number/s)
Name of Mother:
Name of Father:
MARRIAGE LICENSES
No. Particulars Person In-Charge Remarks
CHURCH – The church will surely provide a list wag kayo mag -alala,
wag mahihiyang magtanong sa in-charge ok?
1
2
3
4
5
GOVERNMENT – visit the LCR or Local Civil Registrar nasa munisipyo nyo lang
yan, yung list ko dito baka di updated at complete, nasa kanila ang accurate guide
lang tong sakin ok?
1 NSO Authenticated Birth
Certificate
2 Certificate of No
Marriage
3 Valid ID
4 Legal Capacity (Mixed
Marriage) – foreign National po
and isa
5 Divorce Paper (If
Divorced)
6 Passport – for foreigners
DOCUMENTS GUIDE – TANDAAN – BAGO NYU I-EXECUTE
LAHAT ABOUT YOUR DREAM WEDDING MAKE SURE UNAHIN NYO NAMAN
TO, SUBUKAN NYO TONG KALIMUTAN SASAKIT ULO NYO 😊😊:P
CATHOLIC CHURCH REQUIREMENTS – SAMPLE (Again Visit your Local parish)
Contact
REQUIREMENTS In-charge Remarks
Number/s
Note: The following may vary depending on the Church where the marriage rites will take place. - conditional
Schedule
Pre Cana
Marriage License
Baptismal Certificate
Confirmation Certificate
Interview with the Priest
Confession – scheduled
SCG – Small Christian Group Information Data
Sheet (for Parishioners)
Parish Permit (for Non-Parishioners)
Marriage Banns
Affidavit of Cohabitation
Note:
1. The couple is responsible for securing all requirements.
2. Talk and seat down with a pastor for a non - catholic wedding, the pastor will give you counseling
including the legal documents needed. For Islam wedding talk to your elder/Imam
Address
Date of prenup:
Call Time:
Number of Heads
Meeting Place
Address
Media Team:
Transportation
Gown/outfit
Make Up Artist
Food
Concept
Props Needed
Tips:
1. Enjoy God’s creature, free locations are wonderful 😊
2. Always bring enough water supply
3. Always plan your concept, style, outfit, etc
4. To plan, visit pinterest, and other wedding sites and pages.
5. Always consider these; meals, transportation; entrances; excesses; corkages,
distance, travel time, concept, story board & timeline.. wag yung suntok sa buwan.
INVITATION GUIDE & OTHERS
ENTOURAGE LIST
(you can also attach a printed copy of the your invitation but please provide the contact details as well)
Role Complete Name Contact Number/s
Groom
Bride
Best man
Maid/Matron of Honor
1.
Groomsmen
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Bridesmaids 1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Candle Sponsors Male –
Female –
Veil Sponsors Male –
Female –
Cord Sponsors Male –
Female –
Bearers Ring –
Coin/Arrhae –
Bible –
Flower girls/Adult FG 1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Ninongs 1.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Ninangs 1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Church/Commentator
During Pictorial
1st Reading
Responsorial Psalm
2nd Reading (if any)
Prayers of the Faithful
Offerers 1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
EXTRA CLOTHES
STUFF OF YOUR ENTOURAGE SUCH AS GIFT FOT THE BRIDE, PARENTS,
ROBE, SLIPPERS, ETC ENTOURAGE - MALE
CHURCH ITEMS RECEPTION ITEMS
BIBLE WINE
CORD DOVES OR POPPING BALLOON
VEIL 1 & 2 REGISTRATION AREA GUEST – GUEST
BOOK
COINS PEN
MATCH STICKS ENVELOP/AMPAO/PIN
CANDLES ASK THE CHURCH IF HOW DEDICATION FRAME
MANY
PILLOWS FOR THE RING & BIBLE SOUVENIRS
BEARER
GARTER, SAFETY PINS POUCH
CHURCH OFFERING SAFETY PINS
WEDDING RINGS WITH DUMMY RING TAPE/SCISSORS
NOTE:
1. BRING ANYTHING THAT WILL HELP YOU ON YOUR WEDDING DAY, MAKE SURE TO PLACE
ALL YOUR STUFFS IN A SEPARATE BAG, LUGGAGE OR PAPER BAG SO IT WILL BE EASY FOR
YOUR COORDINATOR ON THE DAY TO FIND STUFFS NEEDED FOR THE PREP AND PHOTO
SHOOT.OK? MAKE SURE THAT EVERYTING WAS PROPERLY ARRANGED AND CLEANED
2. THESE ITEMS ARE NOT 100% ACCURATE, IT MAY VARY ACCORDINGLY TO RELIGION,
CEREMONY TYPE, LOCALITY, ETC.
1. Di kailangang bilhin lahat, pwede manghiram para di magastos, may mga bagay jan na pang pictorial
purposes lamang so wag na bumili ng bago ok?
2. May mga bagay na nakakatawa at nakakpagtaka bakit anjan, like candies, min, deodorant, napkin, etc,
pero sa panahon ng pangangailangan maapreciate nyu rin 😊
3. Sa church details pwede nyu iopa supply yan sa magus-supply ng gowns nyu except sa bible, kandila, aras at
posporo the rest meron sila nyan 😊
4. Assign someone to take responsibiltyon these items, siguraduhing naka separate sya ha kundi
magkakagulo kayo 😊
5. Wag ma-pressure sa VOW di nyuyan need i-memorize, di nyu need i-english kung san kayo comfortable dun kayo..
TIME OF EXPECTED
ARRIVAL PERSON/SUPPLIERS
_________________ Couple & Entourage
_________________ Make up & Hair Artist & Coordinators
Flowers – florist
_________________ Media Team ( photo/Video)
_________________ Crew Meal Bfast
_________________ Parents and Siblings
_________________ Kids and Guardians – optional
_________________ Bridal Car
_________________ Others
_________________
Strict observance of call time is a key to timeliness,. So be sensitive sa time, wag kayu
papayag na mas late pa yung bridesmaids nyu sa inyu, o mas mabagal pa kumilos yunggroom
squad sa groom, remember kasal nyu yan wag sila yung aarte sa finals, dapat kayo ang
maarte kayu lang ang dyosa… unless theyinform na ma-lalate sila for some reasons,. Sa
lahat ng supplier dapat on time, isang late lang uusog lahat yan maniwala ka..
You can insert more speech, intermissions, messages, AVP’S etc as many as you want, just consider your
time and your crowd. Ok? Goodluck
Tips to have a successful reception: HIRE A LEGIT WEDDING HOST, wag yung kaibigan na nagvolunteer,
wag yung kaibigan ng tatay mo na teacher ng English Major for 12 years, wag yung pinsan mong atty. Wag
yung pinsan mo na host sa MOR 101.9 for life,.. maawa ka sa sarili mo. Kumuha ka ng legit na emcee.
You can insert more speech, intermissions, messages, AVP’S etc as many as you want, just consider your
time and your crowd. Ok? Goodluck
Tips to have a successful reception: HIRE A LEGIT WEDDING HOST, wag yung kaibigan na nagvolunteer,
wag yung kaibigan ng tatay mo na teacher ng English Major for 12 years, wag yung pinsan mong atty. Wag
yung pinsan mo na host sa MOR 101.9 for life,.. maawa ka sa sarili mo. Kumuha ka ng legit na emcee.
1 VIP TABLE
MUSICIANS /
SCREEN COUPLE CAK SOUND SYSTEM
E
5 3 1 6
2 4
DANCE
FLOOR
9 7 8 1
0
VIP
1 1 1 1 1
1
5 3 2 4 6
1
ENTRANCE
REGISTRATION
COKTAIL AREA
2 VIP TABLES
MUSICIANS /
SCREEN COUPLE CAK SOUND SYSTEM
E
5 3 1 6
VIP VIP 2 4
1 DANCE 2
9 7 FLOOR 8 1
0
1 1 1 1 1
1
5 3 2 4 6
1
ENTRANCE
REGISTRATION
COKTAIL AREA
17
3
2 lay outs samples are the horizontal vip table and parallen vip vertical tables.. pero..
Note:
This is just a sample, floor plans and lay outs are always based kung anung physical attributes ng venue ng
reception. basta importante entrance is wide wag masikip, vip sa gitna o sa harap, couple and family may
sariling table, may dance area or dance floor, always know where your LCD projector will be placed, your
cake sa left o right goes opposite with your souvenirs & others to give balance, always plan where to put
your technical group including the media mahalaga yun. Tapos yung buffet and cocktail station nyu di
alanganin at masikip,. So always double check walk flow and traffic .. ok walang specific lay out depende
pa rin po sa trip nyo..
SEAT PLANNING – To organize a well seated guest, mas ok na may seatplan lalo na sa small weddings,. Pero
pag big events di na sya masyadong applicable, sigurokaya sya hanggang 150 to 200 naka seat plan.. actually di
nyo naman need I seat plan lahat focus lang kayo sa vip at secondary sponsors the rest pwede na free seated or if
you want tohave specific individuals to surely to be seated together seat plan is the key 😊 so you assign your seat
plan accordingly, make a master list, ask the venue kung ilang seaters ba tables nila, always inform the venue or
decorator how many ninongs and ninangs abays and family you have para may intended seats talaga. Ok? If you
know the seating capacity per table mas madali mag-plot ng tao sa seats.. gets na ? so ex. If 8 seaters ang table
then assign 8 persons dun then make it table 1 names under ok? Alam ko gets mon a ikaw pa 😊 goodluck
22 21 20 19 18 16 15 14 13 12 11 10
23 9
24 8
29 30 1 2 4 5
25 26 27 28 6 7
See example on top and below sa figure 1 – 30 sa table may 1 – 30 din, so gets na no?
1. 16.
2. 17.
3. 18.
4. 19.
5. 20.
6. 21.
7. 22.
8. 23.
9. 24.
10. 25.
11. 26.
12. 27.
13. 28.
14. 29.
15. 30.
Note: pag may absent o dumating, pwede nyo naman sya I fill in, di naman bawal, always let the adult or elders
lolo and lola avail the seat plan kawawa naman po also the buntis 😊
STAGE
18 14 13
14 13
14 13
15 12 15 12
16 11 16 11
17 V 10 17 V 10
18
I 9
I 9
DANCE
P P
19 8 19 8
20 7
FLOOR 20 7
6 21 21 6
1 1
22 5 22 5
23 4 23 4
3 24 24 3
1 2 1 2
1. 1.
2. 2.
3. 3.
4. 4.
5. 5.
6. 6.
7. 7.
8. 8.
9. 9.
10. 10.
11. 11.
12. 12.
13. 13.
14. 14.
15. 15.
16. 16.
17. 17.
18. 18.
19. 19.
20. 20.
21. 21.
22. 22.
23. 23.
24. 24.
The couple may opt to have a specific seating plan per table. It should be in soft copies and
emailed to your hired organizer on the day at least three (3) days before the wedding day.
Example below:
1. Alphabetical
2. Per Table
SPEECHES, etc.:
OTHER DETAILS:
SOME ADDITIONALS
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Note: this is a must 😊 baka may mag walk out pag di nabanggit na mayor sya hehehe 😊
MALE PRINCIPAL SPONSORS
Name Contact Numbers Description (1-3 sentences)
1.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Note: Ayusin ang pag-tawag at pag-banggit ng names nila baka magtampo 😊 at biglang umuwi,.
MEAL ARRANGEMENTS
Couple will provide BREAKFAST OR LUNCH/DINNER for the following members of Entourage
and Crew Members:
Kindly filled-in number of Pax Entourage covered for the pack lunch.
OVER-ALL TOTAL
NOTE:
1, Wag na wag nyu sila kakalimutan pakainin ha 😊 sila ang key para maging
successful yung kasal mo sis, alagaan nyo sila, painumin kung nauuhaw,
pakainin kung nagugutom, laging tandaan 😊 at, yung pagkaing di naman
kailangang mahal basta sapat na mahibsan yung pagod nila, para di ka
mastress mag food panda ka or Jollibee mcdo delivery etc..
DINNER- you can include them sa buffet pero para mas kmakatipid ka order na lang sila sa
iba na mas mura imagine baka 350 to 550 per head sa venue bili ka ng pack lunch na 150 to 200
makakatipid ka nun busog kayo lahat.
If the couple will prefer packed meals, the Coordinators will take charge of making orders &
distributing the food to the suppliers.
…………………………………………………………
CEREMONY
Best Man
Parents of the Groom
Groom
Principal Sponsors
Secondary Sponsors
Groomsmen & Bridesmaids
Bible Bearer
Ring Bearer
Coin Bearer
Flower Girls
Maid of Honor
Bride’s Parents
Bride
SEQUENCE OF PICTORIALS - standard
Recessional: Emcee will ask all the Principal Sponsors, Parents of the Newly Wed and Entourage to go
outside for the releasing of balloons or flower petals (optional).
REMINDERS
BRIDE
- Check-in at the hotel and stay there until the wedding day
- Jewelry and other valuables must be kept in a secure place or endorsed to
someone from your family wag sa photographer or coordinator para iwas
malisya, baka may mawala magconflict pa kayo
- Gowns must be delivered at the bride’s room the day bfore mas ok para di na
nagmamadali.
- Bride’s gown must be set up at a body form
- No party the night before the wedding; Go to bed early or else di didikit make
up ni bride pag-stress ka, wag ka mag-parebond, relux, etc useless yan lahat,
last ligo girls wag na wag mag co-conditioner para mas madaling I hair-do
- Bride’s things (should be at the bride’s room for pictorials)
- Dasal dasal
GROOM
- Check-in at the hotel and stay there until the wedding day or right after
- Jewelry and other valuables must be kept in a secure place or endorsed to
someone from your family wag sa photographer or coordinator para iwas
malisya, baka may mawala magconflict pa kayo
- No party the night before the wedding; Go to bed early
- Groom’s things (should be at the groom’s room for pictorials)
- Pray
Suit /Barong & Slacks (body form if any)
Shoes
Socks
Handkerchief
Boutonniere
Accessories (watch, jewelry)
Perfume
Refer to the list above andun na lahat 😊
Reminder:
There is no such thing as perfect wedding, sa movies lang yan
like crazy rich Asian, abangan nyo yung part 2 😊 may mga
biglaang problema a-arise yan pero chill ka lang. ok? Salamat ha
nagtiwala ka sakin. Sana natulungan kita, may kasunod pa to.. abangan
mo, galingan nyo ha…
-admin
Best wishes 😊
DIY WEDDING GUIDE - EST June 2016