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Amicus Brief of Helen M. Alvare
Amicus Brief of Helen M. Alvare
Amicus Brief of Helen M. Alvare
On appeal from the United States District Court for the Eastern District of Virginia,
Norfolk Division
BRIEF OF AMICUS CURIAE HELEN M. ALVARÉ in Support of Defendants-
Appellants and Reversal
Henry P. Wall
1735 St. Julian Place, Suite 200
Columbia, South Carolina
Tel: (803) 252-7693
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
ARGUMENT .............................................................................................................4
I. The Supreme Court has regularly recognized with approval the
importance of states’ interests in the procreative aspects of opposite-
sex marriage. ....................................................................................................4
II. Redefining marriage in a way that de-links sex, marriage and children
threatens to harm the most vulnerable Americans and exacerbate the
“marriage gap” responsible for increasing levels of social inequality in
America..........................................................................................................17
CONCLUSION ........................................................................................................29
CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE………………………………………………........31
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TABLE OF AUTHORITIES
Cases
Smith v. Org. of Foster Families for Equal. & Reform, 431 U.S. 816 (1977) ... 8, 10
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Statutes
Other Authorities
Andrew Sullivan, Here Comes the Groom: A (Conservative) Case for Gay
Marriage, New Republic (Aug. 28, 1989, 1:00 AM),
http://www.tnr.com/article/79054/here-comes-the-groom#
(describing marriage as a “deeper and harder-to-extract-yourself from
commitment to another human being”) .........................................................14
Helen M. Alvaré, Curbing Its Enthusiasm: U.S. Federal Policy and the
Unitary Family, 2 Int’l J. Jurisprudence Fam., 107 (2011)...........................17
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John Witte, Jr., The Goods and Goals of Marriage, 76 Notre Dame L. Rev.
1019 (2001) ....................................................................................................28
Kathryn Edin & Joanna M. Reed, Why Don’t They Just Get Married?
Barriers to Marriage among the Disadvantaged, The Future of
Children, Fall 15(2) 2005 ....................................................................... 21, 25
Mark Regnerus, How different are the adult children of parents who have
same-sex relationships? Findings from the new family structures
study, 41 Soc. Sci. Research 752 (2012) ................................................ 15, 16
Pamela J. Smock, The Wax and Wane of Marriage: Prospects for Marriage
in the 21st Century, 66 J. of Marriage & Fam. 966 (2004) ...........................25
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Talking about Marriage Equality With Your Friends and Family, Human
Rights Campaign, www.hrc.org/resources/entry /talking-about-
marriage-equality-with-your-friends-and-family (last visited Jan. 24,
2013) ..............................................................................................................14
The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families, Pew Research Center
(Nov. 18, 2010), http://www. pewsocialtrends.org/2010/11/18/the-
decline-of-marriage-and-rise-of-new-families/ .............................................20
The National Marriage Project and the Institute for American Values, When
Marriage Disappears: The Retreat from Marriage in Middle America,
State of Our Unions(2010), http://stateofourunions.org/2010/when-
marriage-disappears. ......................................................................... 20, 22, 28
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about family law, with a special focus on issues involving legislative and judicial
treatment of marriage and parenting. She is committed to the public interest and in
Americans. Based upon her research into the history of constitutional marriage law
SUMMARY OF ARGUMENT
between opposite-sex pairs of adults who commit to one another for exclusive,
intrinsically procreative capacity, and their fitness for childrearing. At the same
time, the state has a substantial state interest in disclaiming a similar interest in
1
No party’s counsel authored the brief in whole or in part, and no one other than
the amicus curiae, or her counsel contributed money intended to fund the
preparation or submission of this brief. This brief is filed with the consent of all
parties, and therefore no motion for leave to file is required. See Fed. R. App. P.
29(a).
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intimate relationships, but who explicitly deny the link between marriage and
children, and who seek to portray marriage as merely a “capstone” for adults’
emotional connection. To hold otherwise would not only undercut the state’s
important interests in marriage, but would undermine the common good and
perpetuate a “retreat from marriage” that is already apparent among the most
vulnerable Americans.
The Supreme Court has repeatedly described the state’s interests in marriage
intimate, opposite-sex pairs of adults, (2) the procreation and rearing of children,
and (3) the formation of a decentralized, democratic society. These holdings derive
from historical observations about the shape and functions of the marital family. In
For nearly two thousand years, the Western legal tradition reserved
the legal category of marriage to monogamous, heterosexual couples
who had reached the age of consent, who had the physical capacity to
join together in one flesh, and whose joining served the goods and
goals of procreation, companionship and stability at once.2
This “core understanding of the form and function of sex and marriage” appeared
not only in various religious doctrines, but also in the works of the Greek Platonists
2
John Witte, Jr., Response to Mark Strasser, in Marriage and Same-Sex Unions
43, 45 (Lynn Wardle et al., eds., 2003).
3
Id. at 45–46.
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than ever. New empirical studies reveal the consequences of diminishing the
In the United States, especially over the last 50 years, the links between sex,
marriage, and procreation have weakened considerably in both law and culture,
understood less as the gateway to adult responsibilities, centered most often upon
the needs of children, and more as the “capstone” for establishing a “soulmate”
have not been equally distributed across society. Rather, the most vulnerable
have suffered more: they marry less, divorce more, experience lower marital
quality, and have far more nonmarital births. Both adults and children suffer, as
does the social fabric generally, with the “marriage gap” acting as a major engine
of social inequality.
Plaintiffs ask this Court to declare that Utah has no interest in the procreative
They ask the Court (and Utah) to re-frame marriage simply as the government’s
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and society’s stamp of approval for two persons’ mutual emotional and romantic
associated in a substantial body of literature with the retreat from marriage among
the poor, the less-educated, and minority groups. States have a strong interest in
affirming opposite-sex marriage, without any animus toward gays and lesbians, in
order to preserve the vital link between sex, marriage, and children, and to avoid
further harm to the common good and rupture of the social fabric between the
ARGUMENT
The Supreme Court has written a great deal on the nature of the states’
interests in the context of evaluating state laws affecting entry into or exit from
marriage furthers the common good by affording advantages not only to adults
but also to children and to the larger society. Children replenish communities, and
communities benefit when children are reared by their biological parents because
those parents best assist children to become well-functioning citizens. The Court
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does not give special attention to adults’ interests or accord them extra weight.
Nor does the Court vault the interests of some children over the interests of all
children generally.
society.
One central theme in the Supreme Court’s cases discussing marriage focuses
refusing to allow polygamy on the grounds of the Free Exercise Clause, Reynolds
v. United States, the Court explained states’ interests in regulating marriage with
the simple declaration: “Upon [marriage] society may be said to be built.”4 Nearly
law, the Court referred to marriage as “fundamental to our very existence and
through childbearing.5
4
98 U.S. 145, 165 (1879).
5
388 U.S. 1, 12 (1967).
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Even in cases where only marriage or childbearing was at issue, but not both,
the Court has referred to “marriage and childbirth” together in the same phrase,
marriage for certain child support debtors, the Court wrote: “[I]t
other matters of family life and not with respect to the decision to
6
262 U.S. 390, 399 (1923).
7
361 U.S. 535, 541 (1942).
8
434 U.S. 374, 386 (1978).
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setting.”10
pass down many of our most cherished values, moral and cultural.”11
marriage is the unique importance of the marital family for forming and educating
9
Id. at 383.
10
Id. at 386.
11
431 U.S. 494, 503-04 (1977).
12
442 U.S. 584, 602 (1979).
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children’s upbringing have conflicted with the claims of another, the Court has
approvingly noted the importance of the bond between parents and their natural
children. This is found in its observations that states presume that biological
parents’ “natural bonds of affection” lead them to make decisions for their children
that are in the children’s best interests. Statements in this vein have been made in
Parham v. J.R. (“historically [the law] has recognized that natural bonds of
affection lead parents to act in the best interests of their children”13), in Smith v.
individuals involved and to the society”14), and in the “grandparents’ rights” case
Troxel v. Granville (“there is a presumption that fit parents act in the best interests
of their children”15).
Moreover, for over 100 years, the Supreme Court has reiterated the
13
Id. at 602.
14
431 U.S. 816, 844 (1977).
15
530 U.S. 57, 68 (2000).
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man and one woman in the holy estate of matrimony; the sure
foundation of all that is stable and noble in our civilization; the best
guaranty of that reverent morality which is the source of all beneficent
progress in social and political improvement.16
to do with the morals and civilization of a people than any other institution,” and
1943, in the course of an opinion affirming parents’ authority over their children
within the limits of child labor laws, the Supreme Court explicitly linked good
its continuance, upon the healthy well-rounded growth of young people into full
Connecticut asserted that: “The States provide for the stability of their social order,
for the good morals of all their citizens and for the needs of children from broken
homes. The States, therefore, have particular interests in the kinds of laws
regulating their citizens when they enter into, maintain and dissolve marriages.”19
16
114 U.S. 15, 45 (1885).
17
125 U.S. 190, 205 (1888).
18
Prince v. Massachusetts, 321 U.S. 158, 168 (1944).
19
401 U.S. 371, 389 (1971) (Black, J., dissenting).
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In the 1977 case in which the Supreme Court refused to extend equal
parental rights to foster parents, the Court wrote about the relationships between
family life and the common good, stating: “[T]he importance of the familial
relationship, to the individuals involved and to the society, stems from the
emotional attachments that derive from the intimacy of daily association, and from
the role it plays in ‘promot[ing] a way of life’ through the instruction of children,
And in the 1983 single father’s rights case, Lehr v. Robertson, the Court
referenced the social purposes of the family explicitly in terms of states’ legitimate
interest in maintaining the link between marriage and procreation. Refusing to treat
the child, the Court wrote: “marriage has played a critical role . . . in developing
and as part of their general overarching concern for serving the best interests of
children, state laws almost universally express an appropriate preference for the
formal family.”21
20
Org. of Foster Families, 431 U.S. at 844 (citation omitted).
21
463 U.S. 248, 257 (1983).
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marriage have been both recognized by the Court and affirmed to be not only
the contrary. There, the majority did not devote even a single line of its opinion to
any state’s interests in marriage recognition. Instead, the Court disclaimed what it
marriage, a subject within the states’ “virtually exclusive province” and over which
they “possess[] full power.”23 Stated differently, Windsor did not grapple with the
states’ interest in adopting one marriage policy over another, but rather “confined”
its “opinion and its holding” to the federal government’s interest in refusing to
thus does not undo the Supreme Court’s persistent affirmation of states’ interest in
happiness, mutual commitment, increased stability, and social esteem. Yet a view
of marriage that focuses solely on these personal adult interests is incomplete and
denies the Court’s decisions affirming the states’ interests in procreation and
22
133 S. Ct. 2675 (2013)
23
Id. at 2691.
24
Id. at 2696.
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whole. It also risks institutionalizing, in law and culture, a notion of marriage that
Americans.
children when quoting the Supreme Court’s family law opinions. Plaintiffs, for
example, quote Cleveland Board of Education v. La Fleur25 without noting that the
freedom at issue there was a married teacher’s “deciding to bear a child.”26 Perhaps
the most egregious example of Plaintiffs’ selectively quoting from the Supreme
Court’s opinions addressing marriage is their misuse of Turner v. Safley, the case
in which the Court held that certain prisoners were required to have access to state-
recognized marriage.27 Plaintiffs cite Turner for the proposition that civil marriage
Turner explicitly acknowledged, in two ways, both the adults’ and the procreative
interests in marriage. First, Turner concluded that adults’ interests were only
25
Pls.’ Mot. for Summary Judgment at 4, ECF No. 32 (quoting Cleveland Bd. of
Educ. v. LaFleur, 414 U.S. 632, 639-40 (1974) (discussing the “freedom of
personal choice in matters of marriage and family life”)).
26
414 U.S. at 640.
27
482 U.S. 78 (1987).
28
Pls.’ Mot. for Summary Judgment at 4, ECF No. 32 (citing Turner v. Safley, 482
U.S. 78, 95-96 (1987)).
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“elements” or “an aspect” of marriage,29 and that marriage had other “incidents”
situation of prisoners who would someday be free, from that of prisoners who were
imprisoned for life and thus were foreclosed from parenting children.31 Turner
noted that in Butler v. Wilson32 the Supreme Court had summarily affirmed the
case of Johnson v. Rockefeller,33 in which inmates imprisoned for life were denied
marriage, in part upon the rationale that they would not have the opportunity to
procreate or rear children. Said the Johnson court: “In actuality the effect of the
statute is to deny to Butler only the right to go through the formal ceremony of
marriage. Those aspects of marriage which make it ‘one of the basic civil rights of
incarceration.”34
In reality, Plaintiffs ask this Court to insist that Utah enact and convey a new
understanding of marriage. This new understanding would signify that what the
state values about sexually intimate couples is their emotional happiness and
29
482 U.S. at 95–96.
30
See id. at 96.
31
Id.
32
415 U.S. 953 (1974).
33
365 F. Supp. 377 (S.D.N.Y. 1973).
34
Id. at 380 (citation omitted).
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willingness to commit to one another, exclusively, for a long time.35 However, this
Supreme Court has recognized as vital to the common good. At the same time, it
paints a picture of marriage closely associated with a retreat from marriage among
to further any social good beyond the purely personal interests of the spouses.
households. Plaintiffs claim that these children will be helped, indirectly, via the
social approval that would flow to the same-sex partners in the children’s
35
Well-known same-sex marriage advocates urge a similar understanding of
marriage. See, e.g., Andrew Sullivan, Here Comes the Groom: A (Conservative)
Case for Gay Marriage, New Republic (Aug. 28, 1989, 1:00 AM),
http://www.tnr.com/article/79054/here-comes-the-groom# (describing marriage as
a “deeper and harder-to-extract-yourself from commitment to another human
being”); Talking about Marriage Equality With Your Friends and Family, Human
Rights Campaign, www.hrc.org/resources/entry /talking-about-marriage-equality-
with-your-friends-and-family (last visited Jan. 24, 2013) (describing marriage as
“the highest possible commitment that can be made between two adults”).
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flawed.
First, it is not at all clear that granting marriage to same-sex partners equates
with bringing marriage into the lives of such children’s “parents.” It appears from
households before the age of 18,36 and a recent analysis of the U.S. Census,37 that
heterosexual relationships and are presently living with one biological parent and
follow.
36
Mark Regnerus, How different are the adult children of parents who have same-
sex relationships? Findings from the new family structures study, 41 Soc. Sci.
Research 752 (2012).
37
Gary J. Gates, Family Focus on . . . LGBT Families: Family formation and
raising children among same-sex couples, National Council on Family Relations
Report, Issue FF51, 2011.
38
Daphne Lofquist, Same-Sex Couple Households, American Community Survey
Briefs, U.S. Census Bureau, Sept. 2011, available at http://www.census.gov/
prod/2011pubs/acsbr10-03.pdf.
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stable marriage. The author of the study acknowledged that the question of
relationship by one of the adults later entering a same-sex relationship. The latter
possibility raises further questions about the overall stability of same-sex couples
and about the role played by bisexuality. This is relevant to child well-being given
that a consensus is emerging among social scientists that many poor outcomes for
have responded to the data. In fact, over the past 20 years, the legislatures in all 50
states have introduced bills to reform their marriage and divorce laws to better
39
See Mark Regnerus, supra.
40
Pamela J. Smock & Wendy D. Manning, Living Together Unmarried in the
United States: Demographic Perspectives and Implications for Family Policy, 26
Law & Policy 87, 94 (2004).
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government has done the same via the marriage-promotion sections of the
landmark “welfare reform” law passed in 1996 by bipartisan majorities and signed
fatherhood.43
In sum, the Supreme Court has repeatedly supported the states’ interests in
marriages. That states may have ignored children’s interests too much in the past is
not a reason to prevent states from legislating to better account for both children’s
II. Redefining marriage in a way that de-links sex, marriage and children
threatens to harm the most vulnerable Americans and exacerbate the
“marriage gap” responsible for increasing levels of social inequality in
America.
culture, and the vaulting of adults’ emotional and status interests, are associated
41
See, e.g., Lynn D. Wardle, Divorce Reform at the Turn of the Millennium:
Certainties and Possibilities, 33 Fam. L.Q. 783, 790 (1999); Karen Gardiner et al.,
State Policies to Promote Marriage: Preliminary Report, The Lewin Group (Mar.
2002).
42
The Personal Responsibility and Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act of 1996,
Pub. L. No. 104-193 (1996).
43
See Helen M. Alvaré, Curbing Its Enthusiasm: U.S. Federal Policy and the
Unitary Family, 2 Int’l J. Jurisprudence Fam. 107, 121-24 (2011).
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with a great deal of harm to the common good, particularly among the most
vulnerable Americans. This, in turn, has led to a growing gap between the more
and less privileged, threatening our social fabric. Recognizing same-sex marriage
would confirm and exacerbate these trends. Consequently, states legitimately may
Speaking quite generally, law and culture before the 1960s normatively held
together sex, marriage, and children. Obviously, this was not true in the life of
every citizen or family, but social and legal norms widely reflected it. In the
First, the link between sex and children weakened with the introduction of
more advanced birth control technology and abortion, both of which came to the
fore in the 1960s and were announced to be constitutional rights by the Supreme
Court in the 1960s and 1970s. Then, the link between marriage and children was
substantially weakened by the passage of no-fault divorce laws during the 1970s.
The transcripts of debates concerning the uniform no-fault divorce law reveal the
sometimes with mistaken beliefs about children’s resiliency and sometimes on the
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false assertion that most failing marriages were acrimonious such that divorce
sex from children. Since the creation of the first “test tube baby” in 1978, which
government nor any states have passed meaningful restraints on such practices.
There are today, still, almost no laws affecting who may access these technologies
psychological difficulties.46
sex, and even nonmarital pregnancies and births, which further separate sex from
marriage.
The effects of these legal and social developments are not evenly distributed
across all segments of the population. A robust and growing literature indicates
44
See Helen M. Alvaré, The Turn Toward the Self in Marriage: Same-Sex
Marriage and its Predecessors in Family Law, 16 Stan. L. & Pol’y Rev. 101, 137-
53 (2005).
45
See The President’s Council on Bioethics, Reproduction and Responsibility: The
Regulation of New Biotechnologies (2003).
46
See Elizabeth Marquardt et al., My Daddy’s Name is Donor: A New Study of
Young Adults Conceived through Sperm Donation, Commission on Parenthood's
Future (2010); Jennifer J. Kurinczuk & Carol Bower, Birth defects in infants
conceived by intracytoplasmic sperm injection: an alternative explanation, 315
Brit. Med. J. 1260 (1997).
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Cherlin:
By the numbers, Americans with no more than a high school degree, African
Americans, and some groups of Hispanic Americans, cohabit more, marry less
often, divorce more, have lower marital quality, and have more nonmarital births
47
See, e.g., The Decline of Marriage and Rise of New Families, Pew Research
Center (Nov. 18, 2010), http://www. pewsocialtrends.org/2010/11/18/the-decline-
of-marriage-and-rise-of-new-families/; Richard Fry, No Reversal in Decline of
Marriage, Pew Research Center (Nov. 20, 2012),
http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2012/11/20/no-reversal-in decline-of-marriage/;
Pamela J. Smock & Wendy D Manning, Living Together Unmarried in the United
States: Demographic Perspectives and Implications for Family Policy, 26 Law &
Pol’y 87 (2004); The National Marriage Project and the Institute for American
Values, When Marriage Disappears: The Retreat from Marriage in Middle
America, State of Our Unions (2010), http://stateofourunions.org/2010/when-
marriage-disappears.php (last visited Jan. 24, 2013).
48
W. Bradford Wilcox & Andrew J. Cherlin, The Marginalization of Marriage in
Middle America, Brookings, Aug. 10, 2011, at 2.
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(sometimes by very large margins) than those possessing a college degree. A few
mere 6%. Among those with only a high school degree, the rate is
44%, and among those without a high school degree, the rate is 54%.49
Poor men and women are only half as likely to marry as those with
living with both their mother and their father, more likely to have a
Experts analyzing this retreat from marriage have considered the impact of
economic factors, such as the decline in adequately paying work for men, and a
belief by both sexes that a man should have a stable job before entering marriage.
But economic factors cannot explain the entire retreat, given that prior severe
49
Id.
50
Kathryn Edin & Joanna M. Reed, Why Don’t They Just Get Married? Barriers to
Marriage among the Disadvantaged, The Future of Children, Fall 15(2) 2005, at
117-18.
51
Wilcox & Cherlin, supra, at 6; The National Marriage Project, supra, at 10–11,
17 (citing Ron Haskins & Isabel Sawhill, Creating an Opportunity Society (2009);
Nicholas H. Wolfinger, Understanding the Divorce Cycle: The Children of Divorce
in Their Own Marriages (2005)).
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economic downturns in the United States were not accompanied by the same
Evaluating this issue, Law professor Amy Wax has observed that “the
limited research available suggests that men who were once regarded as
the lower end of the distributions—are now more likely to remain single than in
the past.” Furthermore, she points out that even though marriage brings certain
What best explains these trends among the disadvantaged are changes in
norms regarding the relationships between sexual activity, births and marriage.
Among these, researchers note legal changes emphasizing parenthood but not
individual rights as distinguished from marriage. They also point to the declining
stigma of nonmarital sex, particularly among the lesser educated, and the
availability of the pill for separating sex and children.54 As Professor Cherlin has
52
See Wilcox & Cherlin, supra, at 3.
53
Amy L. Wax, Diverging family structure and “rational” behavior: the decline in
marriage as a disorder of choice, in Research Handbook on the Economics of
Family Law 29-30, 31, 33 (Lloyd R. Cohen & Joshua D. Wright, eds., 2011).
54
Wilcox & Cherlin, supra, at 3-4.
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noted, law and culture have made living arrangements other than marriage more
Among the lesser privileged, a love relationship and stable employment for
the man are the precursors for marriage. The disadvantaged are far less concerned
than the more privileged about having and raising children outside of marriage.
Other evidence shows that this disconnect between marriage and children is
becoming characteristic not only of the disadvantaged, but also of the “millennial
generation.”56 Professor Cherlin confirms that among young adults who are not
married Millennials report that “when you marry, your [sic] want your spouse to be
your soul mate, first and foremost.” They hope for a “super relationship,” an
55
Andrew J. Cherlin, American Marriage in the Early Twenty-First Century, The
Future of Children, Fall 15(2) 2005, at 41.
56
See Wendy Wang & Paul Taylor, For Millennials, Parenthood Trumps
Marriage, Pew Research Center, 2 (Mar. 9, 2011),
http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2011/03/09/for-millennials-parenthood-trumps-
marriage/ (on the question of a child’s need for two, married parents, 51% of
Millennials disagreed in 2008, compared to 39% of Generation Xers in 1997).
57
Andrew J. Cherlin, The Deinstitutionalization of American Marriage, 66 J. of
Marriage & Fam. 848, 856 (2004).
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Edin and Joanna Reed: “Marriage has become a luxury, rather than a necessity, a
status symbol in the true meaning of the phrase.” These authors explain that the
within marriage. “If this interpretation is correct, the poor may marry at a lower
rate simply because they are not able to meet this higher marital standard.” And
there is a sense among the disadvantaged that marriage is reserved to those who
observes that in the later 20th century, “an even more individualistic perspective on
the rewards of marriage took root.” It was about the “development of their own
sense of self and the expression of their feelings, as opposed to the satisfaction they
gained through building a family and playing the roles of spouse and parent. The
58
Edin & Reed, supra, at 117, 121-22; see also Pamela J. Smock, The Wax and
Wane of Marriage: Prospects for Marriage in the 21st Century, 66 J. of Marriage
& Fam. 966, 971 (2004) (“[C]urrent thinking [is] . . . that our high expectations for
marriage are part of what is behind the retreat from marriage”).
59
Cherlin, The Deinstitutionalization of American Marriage, supra, at 851.
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result was a transition from the companionate marriage to what we might call the
individualized marriage.”60
If this is all marriage means, why then do people continue to marry at all?
Professor Cherlin opines that they may be seeking what he calls “enforceable
trust,” a lowering of the risk that one’s partner will renege on agreements.61 Rather
than a foundation on which to build a family life, marriage becomes the “capstone”
the couple’s financial status and of their level of self development.62 Yet marriage
lesser privileged. Expert literature thus confirms that shifting cultural norms about
notions of role responsibilities affect the least advantaged to a greater degree than
role for traditional institutions in guiding behavior.”64 In short, they require the
kind of robust, external affirmation about the importance of linking marriage and
60
Id. at 852.
61
Id. at 854.
62
Id. at 855, 857.
63
See, e.g., Wax, supra, at 15, 59-60.
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Id. at 60.
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while also reducing the need for individuals to perform the complicated
responsibilities and to caring for the next generation would therefore likely
biological parents, ready and able to prepare children for responsible citizenship.
Simple rules and norms “place[] less of a burden on the deliberative capacities and
will of ordinary individuals.” If, however, individuals are left to guide sexual and
options engage in a personal calculus of choice. Many will default to a local [short-
65
Id.
66
Id.
67
Id. at 61.
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The “retreat from marriage” and marital childbearing affects not only
individuals and their communities; there is evidence that its problematic effects on
the common good are being felt even at the national level. Largely as a
gap in the United States among the least educated, the moderately educated, and
structure changes accounted for 50% to 100% of the increase in child poverty
during the 1980s, and for 41% of the increase in inequality between Americans
from 1976 to 2000.68 The National Marriage Project even suggests that “it is not
too far-fetched to imagine that the United States could be heading toward a 21st
century version of a traditional Latin American model of family life, where only a
The new social science data present older prudential insights about
marriage with more statistical precision. They present ancient
avuncular observations about marital benefits with more inductive
generalization. They reduce common Western observations about
marital health into more precise and measurable categories. These
68
Molly A. Martin, Family Structure and Income Inequality in Families With
Children, 1976-2000, 43 Demography 421, 423-24, 440 (2006).
69
The National Marriage Project and the Institute for American Values, supra, at
17.
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describing, and demanding from this Court and from the State of Utah, closely
resembles the adult-centric view of marriage associated with the “retreat from
separate sex and children from marriage, for every marriage and every couple and
interests understood and embraced by Supreme Court precedents (and every prior
the procreational aspects of marriage are not explicitly preserved and highlighted,
additional harm will come upon vulnerable Americans and our social fabric itself.
70
John Witte, Jr., The Goods and Goals of Marriage, 76 Notre Dame L. Rev.
1019, 1070 (2001).
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step, not a leap, away. But in its essence, and in the arguments used to promote it,
same-sex marriage would be the coup de grâce to the procreative meanings and
social roles of marriage. It is hoped that the necessary movement for equality and
nondiscrimination for gays and lesbians will choose a new path, and leave
CONCLUSION
For the foregoing reasons, the Court should reverse the judgment of the
district court.
Respectfully submitted,
s/
Henry P. Wall
1735 St. Julian Place, Suite 200
Columbia, South Carolina
Tel: (803) 252-7693
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2. This brief complies with the typeface requirements of Fed. R. App. P. 32(a)(5)
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CERTIFICATE OF SERVICE
I certify that on April 4, 2014, the foregoing document was served on all
parties or their counsel of record through the CM/ECF system if they are registered
users or, if they are not, by serving a true and correct copy at the addresses listed
below:
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