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Engagement and The Therapeutic Relationship
Engagement and The Therapeutic Relationship
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Journal of Family Therapy (1997) 19: 263–282
0163–4445 3.00
Carmel Flaskasa
a
Senior Lecturer, School of Social Work, University of NSW, Sydney 2052,
Australia.
1
Some of the themes in this paper develop earlier ideas in Flaskas, 1994, 1996,
and Flaskas and Perlesz, 1996a.
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the more general topic of the therapeutic relationship, and the
focus on engagement. This fluidity reflects the way in which the
process of engagement constructs and ‘shows’ the therapeutic rela-
tionship. Highlighting engagement thus allows a more specific
exploration of the therapeutic relationship.
I will begin by outlining some fragments of ‘ordinary’ practice
which underscore the complexities of the process of engagement.
These examples will be used to comment on the historical failure
of systemic therapy to theorize engagement as a relational process,
and to advocate the need for the development of a much broader
understanding of engagement. The idea of a ‘good-enough’
engagement providing the ‘frame’ or ‘environment’ of therapy
will be explored first, and the paper will then consider the
systemic concept of sequences and the psychoanalytic ideas of
transference, countertransference and projective identification.
This theory discussion will then be used to reflect back on the
practice examples.
2
This idea of extending the concept of sequences to mapping the therapeutic
relationship is not common within the systemic literature. The more general idea
of including the therapist’s role in thinking about the family’s sequences is not new
however. It appears mainly within the earlier strategic literature – for example, Jay
Haley (1976) in his discussion of sequences gives a number of examples of family
sequences in which the therapist’s role has become embedded.
3
See Flaskas (1996) for a much fuller discussion of the different environments
of analytic and systemic therapies, and of the concepts of transference, counter-
transference and projective identification.
Conclusion
In order to develop thinking about engagement, I have discussed
two sets of ideas. The notion of the good-enough engagement and
the importance of therapeutic fit were explored as the environ-
ment or frame of the therapeutic work. In the second set of ideas,
the systemic concept of sequences, broadened to include the recur-
sive linking of patterns of emotion, meaning and behaviour, was
held alongside the psychoanalytic ideas of transference, counter-
transference and projective identification. This second set of ideas
addressed the fluidity of interaction in the therapeutic relation-
ship, and the way in which different levels of time – past and
present – can show themselves in the pattern of engagement in
therapy.
The final exploration of the practice examples is not an attempt
to ‘apply’ the theory ideas in any neat way. Instead, it was a reflec-
tion which intertwined the theory ideas as they seemed useful. In
the discussion that followed, it was argued that the first set of ideas
is applicable in a general way to the therapeutic relationship, while
the second set of ideas is more likely to have a strategic usefulness
in understanding engagement sequences which have the potential
to be problematic in therapeutic work.
All this is by way of summary. The theory ideas developed here
provide one way of enquiring into the process of engagement in
specific examples. But of course, there are many ways of being curi-
ous about something, and I am optimistic enough to think that in
the current milieu of systemic therapy there will continue to be the
development of different kinds of enquiry into both the process of
engagement and the therapeutic relationship.
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