Has Love Disappointed you (Bakit masakit magmahal?

If there is one word that surfaces in the gospel for today it is disappointment
more than dissapointment it is frustraition

when you give your very best and then you harvest nothing
when you give your very best and harvets a whirlwind
when you give your very best and you harvest terrror violence against you

sino di nakaranas ng disappointment,

who has never been frustrated
who has never been hurt after loving
who has never been hurt after giving so much
and then not expecting very much what we reap is gossip, or intrigue or
backstabbing or even worst attemps on our lives

can we love without getting disappointed?

can we serve without getting disappointed?
the answer is =* we cannot love, and not not be disappointed
kase part of loving, while we are still here on earth is the reality of being
disappointed

THAT IS WHY THE LORD NA NAGKATAWANG TAO (FULLY HUMAN) ALLOWED HIMSELF TO BE
DISAPPOINTED, TO BE FRUSTRAITED, TO BE HURT BY THE VERY SAME PEOPLE HE LOVED, TO
THE VERY SAME PEOPLE HE WANTED TO SAVE
And to choose say "Father For give them, they do not know what they are doing (Luke
23:24)
kahit na we do not ask for forgiveness, even if they have not yet acknowledge their
sins

can we love without getting disappointed?

=*NO

Maybe we should Stop loving so that we will not be disappointed?

= still no!
bakit ba tayo palaging na didisappoint here on earth
why do we have to suffer rejection while we are alive
why are our dreams frustrated
why do our friend become traitors
why?
because we are living in this world!
EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD IS LIMITED
Everything in this world is Blemished
Everything in this world is imperfect, and so it is with the way we love with the
way we love here on earth
we are blemished,we r weak, we r subject to temptation
we carry the roots of original sin in our love

BAKIT MASAKIT MAGMAHAL?

Kasi wala ka pa sa LANGIT
SAKIT, DISAPPOINTMENT, HATERED
habang tayo ay nasa lupa, mayroong sakit ang pagmamahal, mayroong disappointment
ang pagmamahal
at hindi pwedeng mapuno ng kahit sinumang TAO, BAGAY, HAYOP, LUGAR, PAGKAIN,
PANGYAYARI yung feeling natin ng loved
THERE IS NO ONE, THERE IS NOTHING HERE ON EARTH WHO WILL EVER BE ABLE TO SATISFY
OuR LONGING TO BE LOVED
WHAT SHOULD WE DO?
1. you have to ACCEPT that the part of loving is being disappointed by your
beloved, you just have to accept.
and you have to be honest also that you, yourself you have disappointed those who
have loved you, you must be humble enough to acknowlede that you also have
disappointed others,
you've been hurt, and you hurt also
blemished, nadungisan mo din sila
we have been hurt when we loved, we olso hurt others
we ACCEPT that our love is imperfect, and the love we receive to humans are
imperfect BACAUSE THIS IS STILL EARTH, WE ARE NOT YET IN HEAVEN

2. GRIEVE, CRY
hindi masamang umiyak
because if you pretend that everything is allright
your going to build resentments, going to build the attraction of revenge
that sooner or later you will just get cynical and not love at all

3. TRY AGAIN
never give up