This document contains example questions for couple therapy sessions from the Wroclaw Institut for Psychotherapy in Poland. The questions are grouped into 8 categories: 1) building alliance, 2) defining goals, 3) relational questions, 4) questions about exceptions, 5) emphasizing influence and agency, 6) emphasizing adaptability, 7) scaling questions about hope/motivation/progress, and 8) questions about partnership. The questions are meant to help therapists guide conversations with couples to better understand relationship dynamics and set goals for improvement.
This document contains example questions for couple therapy sessions from the Wroclaw Institut for Psychotherapy in Poland. The questions are grouped into 8 categories: 1) building alliance, 2) defining goals, 3) relational questions, 4) questions about exceptions, 5) emphasizing influence and agency, 6) emphasizing adaptability, 7) scaling questions about hope/motivation/progress, and 8) questions about partnership. The questions are meant to help therapists guide conversations with couples to better understand relationship dynamics and set goals for improvement.
This document contains example questions for couple therapy sessions from the Wroclaw Institut for Psychotherapy in Poland. The questions are grouped into 8 categories: 1) building alliance, 2) defining goals, 3) relational questions, 4) questions about exceptions, 5) emphasizing influence and agency, 6) emphasizing adaptability, 7) scaling questions about hope/motivation/progress, and 8) questions about partnership. The questions are meant to help therapists guide conversations with couples to better understand relationship dynamics and set goals for improvement.
COUPLE THERAPY – EXAMPLE QUESTIONS (R. Ciesielski)
1. For building the alliance What brings you here? How can I help you? What changes have occurred since the phone call? What do you need at this meeting to be satisfied with its course? 2. Questions to help define goals A. Miracle question - What are your partner's first changes, and what will they do differently? What will your partner notice about when you make changes? B. Concreting questions What specific behaviors will you notice when you have solved your problems? What will be the first noticeable signal of change? C. Questions for details What will tell you that you are on the right track? How will it look like? What else? What observations will give you a sense of strength to keep changing? 3. Relational questions When your partner changes in the direction you want, how will you know it is having a positive effect on you? What is new about your partner? What change could it trigger for him? What changes will children and friends notice? 4. Questions about exceptions What is the difference between the times when your problems do not arise? What happens when you see that the problem is having less of an impact on you? 5. Questions to emphasize influence and agency What was the difference in your behavior? WROCLAW INSTITUT FOR PSYCHOTHERAPY 51-168 Wroclaw, Poland Soltysowicka 65 a www.wip.wroclaw.pl
What encouraged your partner to change your behavior?
How can you encourage your partner to do similar things? 6. Questions to emphasize adaptability How did you go through so many together? How did you manage to avoid getting into more trouble? 7. Scaling questions hope / motivation / progress Where on the scale do you put your hopes for a solution to your situation? How will the level be good enough for you to find the strength to work hard? How do you find that your hopes have risen one level? 8. Questions about partnership What does that say about you as a couple? What else should your partner notice to see how hard you are trying to get your relationship? How can you ensure that your partner persists in his new beliefs? How did you do it?
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