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DEDICATION
Preface
My book “WhatsApp Messages of LIFE Lessons” for
free distribution was published in early 2020. The
feedback for this book that contains my WhatsApp
Messages of Dhamma/Life Lessons, was quite
encouraging. This has motivated me to come out with
“WhatsApp Messages of LIFE Lessons 2” for free
distribution. It is a selection and compilation of 60
WhatsApp Messages ( with attached documents of
useful Dhamma/Motivation/Inspiration and Humor
material that aims to help us develop the mind to grow in
Virtue, Metta, Compassion, Peace and Wisdom.
In this book I have done some editing, correction and
adjusting to the original WhatsApp Messages that were
sent to Dhamma friends and posted in certain WhatsApp
Groups , my Facebook Page and the Facebook Page of
Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak. The 60 WhatsApp
Messages with their attachment files in this book do not
follow exactly the chronological order - for reasons of
manuscript composing/typesetting and also from the
perspective of content suitability.
At a time where not many read voluminous Dhamma
books, it is hoped that the presentation used in this book
can help to (a) share and promote the most important
Dhamma teachings (b) provide material for constant
reflection and contemplation on the Dhamma (c) remind
Buddhists to practice the Buddha-Dhamma diligently.
“May we all walk The Noble 8-Fold Path ardently.
May our Compassion and Wisdom grow most steadily.”
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin ohteikbin@gmail.com Oct. 2021
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CONTENTS
CONTENTS
CONTENTS
CONTENTS
Message Main Contents of Message Attachments Page
44 Retrospecting; Conditioning Motivation 158 – 160
1 Message 13.12.2019
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
Good and Peaceful Morning!
I do hope you are feeling in the pink.
May there be good in what you do or think.
May there be for you many a Blessing!
For this week, I’d like to pen some good wishes for you.
My Wish for You…
* Where there is sickness or undue pain,
may you be calm with health soon regained.
* Where there is any worry or anxiety,
may you SEE the futility of worry.
* Where there is much self-doubting in the mind,
may your faith or confidence grow with time.
* Where there is sheer exhaustion or tiredness,
may you rest and sleep well to curb weariness.
* Where there is setback, failure or a loss,
may you be patient and learn from the cause.
* Where there is a feeling of being so down,
may you note and KNOW that things will turn around.
* Where there is a negative encounter,
may you SEE that transient is this matter.
* Where there is any mental state of dis-ease,
may you strengthen your Dhamma practice for peace.
SELF-CONTROL
One day there was an earthquake that shook the entire Zen temple.
Attachment
Parts of it even for Message
collapsed. 1 (of
Many Story: Self- were
the monks Control )
terrified. When
the earthquake stopped the teacher said, "Now you have had the
opportunity to see how a Zen man behaves in a crisis situation. You
may have noticed that I did not panic. I was quite aware of what
was happening and what to do. I led you all to the kitchen, the
strongest part of the temple. It was a good decision, because you
see we have all survived without any injuries. However, despite my
self-control and composure, I did feel a little bit tense - which you
may have deduced from the fact that I drank a large glass of water,
something I never do under ordinary circumstances. "One of the
monks smiled, but didn't say anything. "What are you laughing
at?" asked the teacher. "That wasn't water," the monk replied, "it
was a large glass of soy sauce."
Reflections
* “Though one may conquer a thousand times a thousand
men in battle, yet he indeed is the noblest victor who
conquers himself.*
The Buddha in Dhammapada Verse 103
* To conquer one's mind is the greatest challenge. To have a
mind that is truly calm, composed and equanimous requires
continuous and ardent training and development of the mind."
* The Self or Ego in us is very strong – it is a root cause of
our Dukkha – our greed, anger/hatred, delusion and fear.
* One without a well-cultivated mind, when facing stressful
situations, loses mindfulness and mental clarity. He can then
speak or act foolishly.
* May we practice diligently the Dhamma ( Sila, Samadhi
and Panna ) to develop the mind and eventually be liberated
from all the forces of Dukkha.
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2 Message 31.1.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
The New Year Celebrations came and will soon go.
Hope your mind remains peaceful in this flux or flow.
The mind settles when the Dhamma
we SEE and KNOW.
May your good Dhamma practice continue to grow.
BREATHE (“Mindfully”)
B reak all conditioned bad habits.
( “Bad habits hinder us in spiritual improvement.
They’re an obstacle on our Path to Enlightenment.” )
R emember to practice mindfulness.
( “Mindfulness is the Practice to Deathlessness.
Right Mindfulness leads to states of Peacefulness.” )
E ase your body and mind.
( “The body needs movement, the mind needs stillness.
Then you’ll be more free from dis-ease and sickness.” )
A ttend to things that matter truly.
( “Fools engage in sensual pursuits endlessly.
The wise practice Dhamma conscientiously.” )
T ake time to meditate and reflect mindfully.
( “Mental Development is called Bhavana in Pali.
Without Bhavana we’ll suffer in pain and misery.” )
H elp selflessly the needy.
( “Dana or charity is an integral Dhamma Practice.
This praiseworthy deed leads to joy, happiness and mental peace.” )
E mbrace conditioned happenings peacefully.
( “The 8 worldly winds all beings are certainly subjected to.
Cultivated ones brace life’s ups and downs calmly and wisely too.” )
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3 Message 7.2.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
Hope you are keeping well in body and mind.
Practice to be peaceful, contented and kind.
4 Message 28.2.2020
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-NDdfWus5I
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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5 Message 3.4.2020
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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6 Message 17.4.2020
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I would like to pen some Dhamma thoughts on
Right Thought.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wopLAvSSBPI&feature
=youtu.be
With Metta,
Bro Oh Teik Bin
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7 Message 1.5.2020
8 Message 20.3.2020
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_Vkxls5PQA
9 Message 24.1.2020
One who does not understand and realize the true nature of
things will experience even more Dukkha. We merely react
according to our conditioning, habits, “muddled thinking”
and our ego and delusion.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Recently I cam upon a teaching by Tulku Thondup , a
Tibetan monk, scholar and writer. There is much Dhamma in
it for reflection:
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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11 Message 17.1.2020
Dearest Brother in the Sublime Dhamma,
I hope you’re coping well
when there’s Dukkha.
Dukkha … no worldling
can escape this lah!
To check Dukkha, Dhamma’s the best by far.
May we all cross soon the Sea of Samsara.
“Goodbye Samsara”
• ‘Samsara’ refers to the Realms of Birth and Death or
the Cycle of rebirths.
• As long as we are in Samsara, there is Dukkha –
Suffering, Unsatisfactoriness, Problems, Conflict, Pain,
Stress etc.
• The Buddha essentially taught the Four Noble Truths :
* The First Noble Truth - The Fact of Dukkha.
* The Second Noble Truth – The Cause of Dukkha which is
craving and attachment.
* The Third Noble Truth – The Cessation of Dukkha
* The Fourth Noble Truth – The Path leading to the
cessation of Dukkha.
• As long as we are in Samsaric existence, we will
have the mental defilements of Greed, Hatred and Delusion.
• Unless and until we free ourselves from Samsara by
getting rid of Greed, Hatred and Delusion, we will
experience Dukkha in all its forms.
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“Hello Nibbana”
• Nibbana is the final goal of all Buddhists.
• Nibbana is the unconditioned state of perfect
happiness, peace and freedom.
• The Buddha taught that Dukkha ceases when
Nibbana is attained.
• The Way to Nibbana lies in the Noble Eightfold Path
of Right Understanding, Right Thought, Right Speech,
Right Action, Right Livelihood, Right Effort, Right
Mindfulness and Right Concentration.
• Nibbana is realized when we completely free our
mind from any greed, anger or hatred and delusion. The
Cycle of Birth and Death then comes to a stop ... we become
Enlightened.
• Let us walk The Path to Nibbana. Practice the Noble
Eightfold Path. Observe the 5 Precepts of ‘No Killing. No
Stealing. No Sexual Misconduct. No Lying. No
Intoxicants.’ Practice Dana ( Charity ), Sila ( Morality )
and Bhavana ( Mental Cultivation ) . With this, we will be on
the way to Nibbana.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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12 Message 10.1.2020
13 Message 21.2.2020
Dukkha.
Dis-ease like worry, fear and grief prevails in
Samsara.
The mind is so trapped by the evil forces of Mara.
How can we all escape from Suffering through
the Dhamma?
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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14 Message 10.4.2020
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‘Seeking Truth …’
• More than 2500 years ago, Siddhartha Gautama left
his worldly material possessions, wealth and luxuries in
search of Truth …a Truth that will end all suffering, a Truth
that leads man to perfect happiness, peace and freedom.
15 Message 6 . 3 . 2020
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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16 Message 24.4.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
It’s been more than a month
since the MCO
Hope your mind is good and
your spirits not low.
You must not take this as life’s terrible blow.
Wise Ones SEE the 8 Worldly Winds in Life’s flow.
Calmness, acceptance and peacefulness they show.
How long CORONA will live, no one can know.
Worry not of the past, future, let it go.
Be in the PRESENT in sunshine , rain or snow.
Practice Dhamma well, don’t just drift to and fro,
May your Compassion and Wisdom grow and grow.
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Virtue
Mindfulness
* Wisdom is not attained through mere study.
It comes from SEEING Dhamma mindfully.
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The Theme for Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak
7th Dhamma Youth Camp 1997 was:
“Living Virtuously, Acting Mindfully”
17 Message 29.5.2020
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For too long we have taken things for granted, sad to say.
For too long we value not the good things that come our way.
For too long we have not been grateful in our work and play.
For too long we have not thanked those that keep danger at
bay.
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For too long we think not of those who for our welfare pray.
For too long we forget our parents who care night and day.
For too long the great Gifts of Mother Nature we downplay.
For too long we don’t appreciate things wise ones convey.
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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18 Message 5.6.2020
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I would like to reflect on the 8 Worldly Winds
mindfully.
SEEING things as they are, we can accept the 8
Winds calmly.
Worldly pleasure and happiness comes but so does
misery.
Times of misery and pain will pass away
undoubtedly.
There can be no gain without loss striking
unexpectedly.
The trained mind will have a good degree of
equanimity.
We like praises but can we accept blame from
anybody?
KNOW that we’ll grieve if we get angry or react
adversely.
Many crave for status, power, name and fame
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unceasingly.
The Wise SEE that these things don’t last, they
don’t attach foolishly.
May we KNOW the Truth through practicing
Dhamma diligently.
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Some years ago I did a lesson on ‘The 8 Worldly Winds’ in
my Hokkien Dhamma Class based on a PowerPoint and
Video using Hokkien Couplets ( with rhyme and rhythm ).
You might want to check out ( and reflect upon the contents )
the Video ( Hokkien Narration with Texts in English ) at the
following link :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31PNbNSXDwc&list=P
LG0g2uh5wk8hFG4VHomooO_jzrK7JeiXT&index=2&t=0s
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We must keep practicing DANA or GIVING.
This is a most important spiritual thing.
GIVING cuts the SELF that causes suffering.
Selfless Dana is indeed Liberating.
Much joy arises through serving or helping.
With a decreasing ‘I’, ‘My’ and ‘Mine’ feeling,
Calm, Love, Insights and Wisdom will grow within.
20 Message 8.5.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
Life is not the same now
and will not ever be.
Hope you are getting along
at home peacefully.
The Corona Virus will change lifestyles greatly.
Good Dhamma practitioners can adapt wisely.
Their minds can still be free from dis-ease certainly.
Fools can’t leave comfort zones … they’ll be in misery.
Do not chase for the sensual things unceasingly.
Practice Metta to slay anger and enmity.
Check restlessness by stilling your mind constantly.
Learn to SEE Dhamma clearly to conquer worry.
Meditate, stay alert, mindful … don’t be lazy.
Take Refuge in the Triple Gem most sincerely.
Let Buddha-Dhamma be your Guide, Your Light daily.
You would have then lived your life most meaningfully.
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The Theme for the 7th Dhamma Youth Camp (DYC) 1999
of Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak (PBHP) was:
Buddha My Guide
* I accept the Buddha as the highest ideal in life.
* I honor and pay homage to the Buddha, The Blessed One,
The Worthy One, The Fully Enlightened One.
* The Buddha is the Perfect Guide, the Perfect Teacher of
gods and men.
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Dhamma My Light
* The Dhamma, The Teachings of The Buddha, is the Light
that dispels the darkness of Ignorance or Delusion.
* I follow the Dhamma in my life. The Dhamma will lead
me to overcome all problems, conflicts and suffering.
* Through my learning, understanding, practicing and
realizing the Four Noble Truths, I will attain Perfect
Happiness and Bliss – NIBBANA.
You can check out the Theme Song for the PBHP 7th DYC
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqux23OZ2YU
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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21 Message 15.5.2020
“Am I A Buddhist?”
Many people declare themselves to be ‘Buddhists’ when in
actual fact they do not know what being Buddhists actually
means.
Today we still see so many different ‘Brands’ of “Buddhists”.
Let us look at them and do some reflection.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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22 Message 22.5.2020
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The Theme for PBHP 16th Dhamma Youth Camp 2008 was:
Noble Thoughts, Righteous Ways.
Below are the Lyrics for the Theme Song and also the
explanatory write-up on the Theme:
Noble Thoughts, Righteous Ways
( Lyrics for Theme Song )
In noble thoughts
And righteous ways
Live by the Dhamma
The Noble Truths
The Eightfold Way
Are the guiding stars
( The Write-up for the Theme, the Lyrics and music for the
Theme were all done by Bro. Kee Joo Sun, a PBHP teacher )
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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23 Message 26.6.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
A new month of July will soon begin
before long,
Hope you are keeping
in body and mind very strong.
With the true Dhamma, what you do will seldom go wrong.
For you and your family may Blessings come along!
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Spiritual practice requires much disciplined training.
Be earnest in your Dhamma learning and understanding.
The Dhamma practice is important, not merely praying.
Effort and diligence must never ever be failing.
Perseverance and patience within must be kept growing.
Never give up, spiritual Masters keep on reminding.
Ask yourself, ‘Am I entrapped in sensual pleasure chasing?’
Beware, Mara pushes you to attachment and craving.
It is so easy to find your moral conduct shaking.
To check all the mental defilements so fast arising,
Always be mindful, watching what the mind is creating.
Walk the Noble Eight-Fold Path without ever backsliding.
The happiness and peace you’ll attain will be amazing!
All the best to you on your Path to Full Awakening!
You might want to check out the Video Presentation
“Scriptural Readings on ‘The Training’ for Reflections.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLooal6RNpY
24 Message 19.6.2020
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Do remember to watch the mind every time.
Never ever let negative things fill the mind.
Make Dhamma things in your mind strongly shine.
With good Dhamma practice, things will turn out fine.
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Too often we dwell on unpleasant happenings.
These weaken the mind … remorse,
guilt from thoughts of ‘sins’.
Learn from mistakes and do more meritorious things.
Contemplate wisely and let go of all cravings.
With this will arise a thousand and one Blessings!
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You might want to follow and reflect on the Verses in The
Mangala Sutta,
The Discourse on Blessings. The link for the Video is at:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adPKHzpbq-s
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLf1EfHzhEPxvZ-
MO7TK-hTI7l6I7xSTaG
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLf1EfHzhEPxvFN
VFmlYhDnC-rImG760M3
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25 Message 17.7.2020
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Many do not think about and reflect upon ageing.
Many do not SEE that sickness is a natural thing.
Many forget that with people we love there’d be parting.
Many don’t realize that things we ‘own’ are never lasting.
Many shun the fact that anytime Death will come knocking.
Few can SEE that only KAMMA we’ll be inheriting.
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On Transience, Uncertainty, wise ones keep on reflecting.
They live righteously, NO grasping, attaching and clinging.
They all walk The Noble 8-Fold Path with no backsliding.
Their life is one of happiness, joy, peace and much meaning.
May we live by The Dhamma with love and wisdom
growing.
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For some good spiritual contemplation,
please check out the Video
“5 Subjects For Frequent Recollection” at the link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iETtQ3fK9Q4
( Texts in English and Chinese; the Audio Reading is in
English )
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Transient
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26 Message 10.7.2020
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There are two important Teachings of the Buddha.
We must all learn, KNOW, practice and spread the Dhamma.
Sharing Dhamma can help lessen others’ Dukkha.
A Sublime State is loving-kindness or Metta.
Radiate Metta to ourselves and all near or far.
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The Theme for PBHP 10th Dhamma Youth Camp 2002 was:
“Sharing Dhamma, Spreading Metta”.
I penned the following write-up on the Theme:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlOboSPtr8o
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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27 Message 7. 8. 2020
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Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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29 Message 29 . 8. 2020
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The forerunner of all things is the mind certainly.
We need to introspect and reflect most constantly.
We need to watch our mind without fail most mindfully.
All that’s unwholesome we need to discard speedily.
Let not unwholesome things enter our mind easily.
All that’s wholesome in the mind don’t lose it heedlessly.
Let more wholesome things enter our mind most readily.
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Dhamma contemplation is a most important thing.
Inspiring Words of Wisdom can help our well-being.
When actualized they’ll bring us much happiness within.
Vipassana Meditation needs contemplating.
With a still, focused mind wisdom can then start growing.
With Wisdom arising we will see Dukkha ending.
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One interesting Quora question I attempted to answer some
years ago was this:
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Last week I answered a question on Quora.
The Question was:
“How do I know if the advice or teachings of motivators
and 'spiritual' leaders are truly wise and to be followed?”
https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/check-it-out-
wisely
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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All over, different people live life differently.
Some are caught in amassing money greedily.
Some pursue status or titles unceasingly.
Some indulge in sensual pleasures most foolishly.
Some focus on possessions that are just worldly.
Some seek hard to get fame albeit immorally.
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When will we SEE the Truth of impermanence or transiency?
When will we SEE that worldly things are unsatisfactory?
When will SEE that there’s no Self that goes on eternally?
When will we SEE that craving leads to Dukkha and misery?
When will we come to know the things that matter ultimately?
When will we truly live our life most righteously and wisely?
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The Theme for PBHP 3rd Dhamma Youth Camp 1995 was:
“Walk The Dhamma Way”
For the Theme, I wrote the following for Reflection:
‘Walk The Dhamma Way’
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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More than a year ago, I penned an answer to the Quora
question that went like this:
“What are Life Lessons and what are some good
ones that have benefited you?”
Below is the answer I wrote:
“ To me, Life Lessons are great lessons / messages / advice
given by spiritual masters /teachers or good motivators or
virtuous, happy, experienced people that have helped to
develop the mind to be more peaceful, happy, calm,
wise/insightful into the true nature of things. Life Lessons
help us to rid the mind of the defilements that cause much
pain, sorrow, grief and suffering. These defilements include
Greed, Covetousness, Anger, Ill-will, Hatred, Ego, Delusion
and Fear.
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https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/100-instagram-posts-
of-life-lessons-2
I attach a File of an inspiration piece for your reflection.
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The Theme for PBHP 15th Dhamma Youth Camp 2007 was
‘Ehipassiko – Life’s Lessons To Know’.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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36 Message 25.12.2020
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
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http://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/wisdom-in-less-than-
10-words
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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These days I find not that many people, young and old alike
do that much reading. A lack of patience, a higher degree of
restlessness and the many sensual distractions might have
brought about this sad state of affairs.
Over the years, I have noted that not many people read
Dhamma books of many pages, understand, digest and
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https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/10-favorite-instagram-
posts-of-life-lessons-140795771
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Affirmations
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Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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I would like to share an important teaching on
Impermanence based just on a mundane happening.
‘Many Buddhists think that Impermanence is such an easy
teaching to understand. Yes, intellectually they know that
nothing is permanent, everything must come to pass,
conditioned and compounded things cannot remain constant
- they ultimately decay, disintegrate or break down into their
components or elements. But then a book knowledge or
intellectual understanding of Anicca is one thing, actual
realization in the mind is another thing altogether. When the
changing world conditions sometimes bring much pain and
suffering, can the mind embrace it calmly, patiently and
peacefully?
Although we know that nothing remains permanent, how
well do we cope when we face with relationship trouble, lose
money, our jobs, possessions, loved ones, or when we fall
terribly sick, or when we get blame and verbal assaults or
encounter situations that threaten our lives, our families and
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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So much misery and pain comes from wrong view and
thinking.
The Dhamma runs opposite to the likes of the worldling.
We crave for riches, status and many a sensual thing.
When will we realize or SEE that all these are not lasting?
The impermanence of all things will lead to suffering.
What is wise to do is Dhamma learning and mind training.
In these troubles times, do step up Dhamma understanding?
States of peacefulness arise when our Wisdom keeps
growing.
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I would like to share an experience which I wrote about in
one of my earlier free Dhamma books. I titled it
“Of 5 C’s and the Dhamma”.
‘ One of the interesting things in our Buddhist Association’s
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• CASH
• CAREER
• CAR
• CONDOMINIUM
• CREDIT CARD
• Spends one’s life chasing the 5 C’s with little time for
Dhamma. (Many of us would say: Well, we’ll wait until
we are older when we have more material comfort before
we learn and practice Dhamma. But we forget this
IMPORTANT POINT: We can’t be sure that there’ll be a
time and opportunity in the future for us to learn and
practice Dhamma. Life is Uncertain but Death is
Certain. Reflecting on this, wouldn’t it be wiser for us to
integrate Dhamma into our life, work and our family
NOW?)
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• Calmness Group
• Charity Group
• Compassion Group
• Clarity Group
• Confidence Group
Calmness
A big problem today among the young and old alike is that
there is a greater and greater degree of restlessness, agitation
and boredom in our mind. When will we learn to tame this
mind of ours so that it is more concentrated, calm, mindful,
peaceful and wise? It is urgent that we start NOW and the
best way is The Dhamma Way.
Charity
Reaching out to others is an integral and essential aspect of
Dhamma practice. It is indeed sad to see people becoming
more greedy, selfish, self-centered and “Kiasu”. The practice
of Dana or Charity is greatly emphasized by the Buddha and
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Compassion
Karuna or Compassion is one of the 4 Brahma Viharas (The
Four Sublime States or Divine Abodes). The cultivation and
growth of compassion leads one on the Path to liberation of
the mind and perfect bliss. The world would be a better,
happier and more peaceful place if more people show
compassion to all living beings.
Clarity
To develop a clear and wise mind is one of the most
important objectives of a good Buddhist. One walks the
Buddha-Dhamma Path cultivating compassion and wisdom
until the goal of Nibbana is realized.
Confidence
Saddha or Confidence is one of the Five Spiritual Powers.
One must have confidence in the Triple Gem – The Buddha,
Dhamma and Sangha. The only true Refuge is Refuge in the
Triple Gem.
* Confusion
* Conflict
* Calamity
* Chaos
* Clashes
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*Calmness
*Charity
*Compassion
*Clarity
* Confidence ’
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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“What are some of the short bits of wise advice you have
received?:
I wrote and submitted the following answer:
Here are some of the very short bits of advice I consider wise:
* Be in the NOW.
* Do not Procrastinate.
* Have Quiet Time.
* Have Enough Rest.
* You Must Exercise.
* Help The Needy.
* Learn To Meditate.
* Read Very Widely.
* Always Be Polite.
* Be Always Mindful.
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* Do Not Worry.
* Learn From Mistakes.
* Use Time Wisely.
* Work With Diligence.
* Shun All Vices.
* Lead By Example.
* Radiate Constantly Loving-Kindness.
* Earn People’s Respect.
* Be Very Responsible.
* Do Dhamma Contemplation.
* Do Good, Avoid Evil and Purify The Mind.
https://www2.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/3word-wisdom-
reflections
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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In the past and perhaps more so now many are facing stress.
Covid-19 has given us many challenges and tests.
Loss of jobs, poverty, sickness … many have become
depressed.
This happens all over the world , in the East and in the West.
To relieve their pain, some seek out foolish ways, they are
hard pressed.
Some fall victims of scams and con men who know how to
impress.
Some seek out cultist groups and they get into a greater mess.
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Many years ago I wrote and published a book titled “Every
Student’s Companion”. One of the Chapters was “Coping
with Stress” to address the issue of Stress that many
students (and even adults today!) face. From the contents of
the Chapters I made a PowerPoint Presentation and uploaded
it into one of my Web sites some years ago. I believe much
of the material can be of benefit to the young, ‘not-so-young’
and the old. You can check out the Presentation at the Link:
https://www2.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/coping-with-stress
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Much Dukkha comes from our negative conditioning.
Our foolish mental views and attitude are binding.
Our wrong speech and wrong actions we keep on repeating.
Our unwholesome traits and habits keep on surfacing.
Oh we are trapped in many a ‘conditioning’ thing.
This can be due to past lives or present upbringing.
Are we always unpunctual, keeping people waiting?
Are we always in the bad habit of postponing?
Are we always fond of empty talk or gossiping?
Do we so often take others’ things without asking?
Do we so often use words that are unbecoming?
Do we so often commit the deed of slandering?
Have we been often, complaining, condemning, cursing?
Have we been often unmindful playing or working?
Have we been often doing things without good thinking?
Alas! So many live their lives auto-piloting!
We do lack attention and mindfulness in living.
We do lack spending time for Dhamma contemplating.
Hence we do unskillful things as a human being!
It’s time we overcome negative conditioning.
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Firstly we must retrospect very constantly.
Note all our bad conditioned ways most mindfully.
To cut our unwholesome ways , we resolve strongly.
Then we take steps to do the good deeds frequently.
The mind must be watched clearly and unfailingly.
Dana, Sila, Bhavana we must continue ardently.
Listen to or read the true Dhamma attentively.
Go over important Discourses repeatedly.
Have Dhamma dialogs or discussion regularly.
Contemplate on The Buddha’s Teachings very clearly.
Radiate Metta to all beings with sincerity.
Do Samatha and Vipassana diligently.
Before long, Enlightenment can be reached certainly!
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You might want to check out the Slide Presentation
“The Conditioned Mind” at the Link:
https://www2.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/the-conditioned-mind
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Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
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In 2015, I did a Lesson on “The 8 Worldly Winds or
Vicissitudes” in my Hokkien Dhamma Class at our local
Buddhist Association, Persatuan Buddhist Hilir Perak.
I composed a Hokkien Rhyming poem and did a video
presentation on it … having the narration in Hokkien
accompanied by a textual translation in English.
If you wish to view the video, you can check it out at the
Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31PNbNSXDwc
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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46 Message 29.1.2021
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In this worldly life Dukkha we will face inevitably.
However we can lessen Dukkha and end it finally.
Let us take steps to conquer the forces that bring misery.
Overcome Ignorance by developing Right View firstly.
The 4 Noble Truths must be studied and understood clearly.
The Noble 8-Fold Path must be followed most diligently.
We need to watch the mind mindfully and very constantly.
Beware of the poison of craving that attacks us strongly.
Attach not to worldly things that hinder spirituality.
Gradually cultivate ‘Letting Go’, living contentedly.
Remember to practice Dana and observe Morality.
With Dhamma practiced so well, Dukkha will fall most
certainly.
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The Theme for PBHP 17th Dhamma Youth Camp 2009 was
“Open Heart, Radiant Mind”. One of our Buddhist
Association members, Bro. Kee composed the Theme Song
“Open Heart, Radiant Mind” … both the musical score and
the song lyrics. He also did a write-up on the meanings in the
lyrics. I reproduce here Bro. Kee’s write-up for the Theme
“Open Heart, Radiant Mind” ( with reference to the lyrics of
the song).
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wI2bkg7SbV4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQmowja6tJs
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One question many have asked is this: “How Can I Be
Happy?”
Some years ago I came upon this most beautiful story.
From where, not sure… what matters is the Dhamma for you
and me.
Let me now narrate this story to you all very briefly.
‘A man went to see an Enlightened One living so simply.
He was so troubled, wanting to seek Happiness mentally.
He asked the Awakened One this question, quite impatiently.
He yelled out, “I WANT HAPPINESS … how do I get it
quickly?”
The Awakened One serene and calm, looked at the man
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kindly.
“I WANT HAPPINESS” – He repeated this to the man
clearly.
“Just cut the ‘I’ and the ‘WANT’ away, what’s left to
KNOW and SEE?”
“What remains is HAPPINESS!” the man answered
excitedly.
The Enlightened One then explained the root cause of misery.
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Let’s now reflect on the root cause of Dukkha and misery.
Greed, Wanting, Craving and Clinging – this stops you from
being truly happy.
Craving, attaching to sensual things – you can’t live
peacefully.
Chasing and grasping at the external ‘delights’ endlessly
will for sure cause you lots of Dukkha and ‘dis-ease’
mentally.
Happiness is not outside, it’s in your mind internally.
Fools crave for ‘Outside Sukha’, it’s fleeting pleasure
actually.
These sensual delights end up in suffering eventually.
Let us Awake to the One Way to truly live happily.
Do Strive on along the Noble 8-Fold Path diligently.
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The delusion of a Self, an ‘I’, ‘Me’, ‘Mine’ traps us strongly.
This brings untold Dukkha or Suffering inevitably.
The ‘I’, and “My’ clings to people, things, fame and power
foolishly.
Not SEEING Anatta, it’s a challenge to LET GO wisely.
The EGO in us has caused us pain for ages needlessly.
When others have it bad, we do not feel for them seriously.
When ‘bad’ befalls us, the pain in us drags on unceasingly.
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More than 5 years ago, I posted on the Net a very profound
article by Ven. Dr. Matthieu Ricard. The article in excellent
English is titled "Why Can't 'I' Be Happy?"
( Venerable Dr Matthieu Ricard has been called the
"happiest person in the world" by several popular media.
You can Google for more info.)
The article touches on the deep Dhamma Teaching of the
Buddha on 'Dukkha'. It is an insightful account into the root
of unhappiness. Many may not understand or comprehend
the deep Dhamma let alone SEE the truth of the Dhamma as
explained by the Venerable. There is a profound analysis of
Atta, the 'I', 'Me', 'Mine', 'Ego' and Self which lies at the root
of our suffering. I like the article very much.
You can check out the Link to the article at:
https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/why-cant-i-be-happy-
67823373
I attach a file of “Humor Matters” for your Edutainment.
Take Care. Stay safe.
Have a Peaceful and Meaningful Weekend.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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( The Suttas are: The Adhammika Sutta (AN 4.70) and The
Paloka Sutta (AN 3.56) )
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Troubled Times
* We are living in an age where there is much Dukkha –
Suffering, Trouble, Conflicts, Problems, Physical and Mental
Pain
* Dukkha arises due to the Greed, Hatred and Delusion of
Man
* In the world today we can see or hear about so many
negative happenings: natural calamities, wars and political
conflicts, fatal diseases, stress and suicides, criminal and
violent acts that besiege society, social ills like drug abuse
etc.
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Dhamma Chimes
* Dhamma refers to the Teachings of the Buddha or the
understanding and realization of the true nature of all things
– both physical and mental phenomena
* ‘Chimes’ connotes ‘sweet ringing sounds’
* In such troubled times, all the more we need the ‘soothing’
messages of Dhamma – to learn, understand, practice and
realize the Dhamma
* Unless and until we follow the “Dhamma Chimes”, we
cannot be really calm, peaceful and happy especially in these
Troubled Times.
You can check out the Theme Song for the PBHP 11th DYC
“Troubled Times, Dhamma Chimes” at the Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n3uqgUTIefM
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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“He that can’t endure the bad, will not live to see the good.”
Yiddish Proverb
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AoB6RN_VkZk
( There are some good Dhamma teachings for Reflection. )
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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Wise and compassionate ones are more peaceful and happy.
They think of the needy, not much on the ‘I’, and ‘Me’.
They do Dana, charity and reach out selflessly.
This spiritual practice is really most praiseworthy.
Of the Perfections, Dana is the first Parami.
Dana practice helps to cut the Self most steadily.
Dana can be practiced in many ways, think and see.
Through the mind, have kind thoughts, practice Metta
constantly.
Through speech, speak kindly with words that benefit many.
Through action show compassion and generosity.
When we practice Dhamma well, Dukkha will fall surely.
May we strive along the Middle Way confidently.
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I would like to share two Dhamma-based posts I did some
years ago. They have a bearing on the subject of Happiness.
You can check out the Video “Happiness – A Beautiful
Story” at the Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NbhiT5oWL7s
https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/16-favorite-happiness-
quotes
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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The 8-Fold Path is The Way to end Dukkha completely.
Right View or Right Vision is Samma Ditthi in Pali
It’s also stated as Right Understanding by many.
This is needed to enter the Path to be Dukkha-free.
Much Dukkha arises because of Wrong View certainly.
If Right View is SEEN to a greater and greater degree,
we will all KNOW how to live life much more meaningfully.
And our mental suffering will lessen undoubtedly.
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Let us contemplate on Right View with proper attention.
The Noble Right View is this insightful comprehension:
Understanding The 4 Noble Truths for Liberation.
The First Truth: Dukkha, Suffering, Sorrow, Stress and
Tension.
The Second Truth: Cause of Dukkha, that is, the Causation.
The Third Truth: The End of Dukkha, that is, the Cessation.
The Fourth Truth: The Path to End Dukkha – the One
Direction.
In solitude, in mental silence, do this reflection:
“Life’s meaning and purpose for us is to have this Mission-
To strive on this Noble 8-Fold Path with dedication.”
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Worldlings with Wrong View suffer a long time in Samsara.
They do not believe in the fact of Kamma-Vipaka.
They don’t believe there’re Noble Ones who have conquered
Mara.
They don’t believe in rebirths till we attain Nibbana.
Those with Wrong View often breach morality or Sila.
They indulge in much sensual pursuit to enjoy Sukha.
They don’t believe in and don’t do Dana or Bhavana.
They do not practice to cut Loba, Dosa and Moha.
With Wrong View, beings will meet with lots of stress or
Dukkha.
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The only Way to end Dukkha is The Noble 8-Fold Way.
As we practice along the Way, much Dukkha is kept at bay.
Our mind can remain more calm, steady and peaceful come
what may.
We will find happiness and wisdom rising, needless to say.
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The Theme for PBHP 6th Dhamma Youth Camp 1998 was
“Right Vision, Good Action”.
I penned the following write-up for the Theme – some basic
important Dhamma teachings for the young participants:
“Right Vision”
* This is Right Understanding in the Buddha’s Teaching.
Primarily, it is an understanding of the Four Noble Truths:
1 The First Noble Truth of Dukkha or Unsatisfactoriness
2 The Second Noble Truth of the Cause of Dukkha
3 The Third Noble Truth of the Cessation of Dukkha
4 The Fourth Noble Truth of the Path leading to the cessation
of Dukkha
* Right Vision or View is the first aspect of the Noble
Eightfold Path
* In the practice of Dhamma, we must have Right
Understanding of the basic things for example, The 3 Signs
of Suffering, Impermanence, Non-Self; The Law of Kamma
and Rebirth.
“Good Action”
* When we have Right Vision, then we will practice GOOD.
We will lead a life of virtue.
* As lay Buddhists, we should observe the Five Precepts:
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You might want to check out the Theme Song “Right Vision,
Good Action” at the Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3gbyGSrnx4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9176gb0cpg
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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54 Message 2. 4. 2021
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
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In April is the period of Cheng Beng or All Souls’ Day.
At this time we show respect to loved ones who’ve passed
away.
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* It’s kind of sad that many do not realize this: What’s more
important than ‘praying’ to the departed ones is to practice
filial piety, Metta, and Compassion to our loved ones when
they are still alive. It’s quite meaningless to just show filial
piety and make offerings to our departed loved ones once a
year during Cheng Beng.
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I have just published my latest free Dhamma / LIFE Lessons
book “100 Instagram Posts of LIFE Lessons 3” in digital
pdf format (a virtual book ). It is a full color 115-page book.
I have uploaded it into a few of my Websites the primary one
being my Slideshare site. The Link is at:
https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/100-
instagram-posts-of-life-lessons-3-a-free-pdf-book
https://www.scribd.com/document/501117678/10
0-Instagram-Posts-of-LIFE-Lessons
The Preface of the book lists the objectives of the book and
some other useful info.
The book can be viewed / read online through the Website.
You can also download the pdf book to read offline.
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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1 Buddhist Humor 1
A Zen student asked his Master , “Is it alright to use
Emails?”
The Master replied, “Yes, but with no attachments.”
Attachment
‘Attachment’ in Pali is Upadana.
Beware, this will lead you to lots of Dukkha.
‘Craving’ we all know in Pali as Tanha.
This will spin you on and on in Samsara.
Cut Craving and you’ll soon be in Nibbana!
2 Buddhist Humor 2
Someone sent the Buddha a Gift box tied with a ribbon.
Buddha opened it to find it empty.
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3 Buddhist Humor 3
One day a so-called Buddhist said to the Pizza Chef,
“Make me one with everything.”
The Pizza Chef prepared it and gave in to the so-called
Buddhist.
The ‘Buddhist’ paid for the Pizza and asked for the
change.
The Pizza Vendor said, “Change comes from within.”
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I have a great passion for matters that pertain to Humor and
Wisdom or Life Lessons. I have worked quite a lot on
these … books, power points and documents
that are posted over some web sites and social media
platforms.
Humor and things in lighter vein not only serve to ‘Edutain’
but can impart or teach useful Life Lessons or Dhamma
messages.
These upon reflection, contemplation and actualization can
help us reduce stress and grow in peace, compassion and
wisdom.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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56 Message 9. 4. 2021
Dear Friend in the Dhamma,
Upon everyone of us once again
comes Friday.
Hope you are well and peaceful
with the dawn of each day.
With Dhamma you can handle things
better come what may.
When good kammic fruits ripen, more Dukkha’s kept at bay.
Be diligent in Dhamma practice, needless to say.
The Path we must take …it is the Noble 8-Fold Way!
To this, focus, attention we must ardently pay.
Before long we’ll cross the Sea of Samsara, yeah, yeah!
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Many of us know quite well the core teachings of Dhamma.
However sad to say we keep doing the foolish or
unwholesome things that generate the negative Kamma. This
we do via the doors of the mind, speech and body. We fall
easy victims to the Mara forces of Greed, Hatred, Delusion
and Fear. So we see Dhamma is not merely academic study
and intellectualism. The practice entails the following levels:
1 Studying or learning the Buddha’s Discourses again and
again with proper and thorough attention.
2 Reflecting or contemplating on the Dhamma constantly.
3 Practicing the Dhamma – through Dana, Sila, Bhavana
4 Doing both Samatha and Vipassana Meditation
When we through ardent, diligent and mindful Dhamma
practice SEE the true nature of all things – Anicca, Dukkha
and Anatta, then we attain Liberation of the mind – with no
more mental defilements, all Dukkha ceases – we reach
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Unlike followers of theistic religions who pray in
supplication ( a request or petition ) to an external
supernatural all-powerful Being , Buddhists make good and
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Many years ago, I did a set of Buddhist Aspirations we can
make constantly as a form of Buddhist prayer. I list here the
Aspirations I wrote in rhyming couplets.
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At our local Buddhist Association, Persatuan Buddhist Hilir
Perak, we incorporate into our New Moon/Full Moon
Buddha Puja Services and the Wake Service Chanting a set
of Aspirations.
You can check out the Link:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvA_V2LtGPM
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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* WHO AM I REALLY?
Just Rupa and Nama – body and mind.
Body will die, mind goes on over time.
So train the mind to cross Samsara’s line.
You’ll then attain joy, peace and Bliss Sublime.
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To my mind among the most important Dhamma practices
are these two :
1 Mindfulness ( and particularly Right Mindfulness leading
to insight and wisdom.)
2 Compassion
Today we can see more and more Dukkha arising all over in
so many situations and circumstances due to a lack of
mindfulness and compassion / a lack of consideration for the
welfare and well-being of others. Greed, covetousness,
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0kQyK_brkQ
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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The Covid situation none can predict for our country.
Better or worse, it depends on conditions undoubtedly.
Needless to say we must adhere to the prescribed SOP.
Sad to say many flout the SOP irresponsibly.
Let us take a look at the various reasons reflectively.
Heedlessness and mindlessness cause people to act foolishly.
Selfishness and self-centeredness cause suffering needlessly.
We need Compassion, Wisdom to stop things turning out
badly.
Religious delusions drive hordes to gather dangerously.
Restless ones cannot stay at home, they venture out
recklessly.
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The uncle took the terrapin into the house and set it near the
fireplace. It wasn't but a few minutes when it began to get
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warm. Then the turtle pushed out its head, gently stretched
out all its legs and began steadily to crawl.
"Turtles are like that," said the uncle, "and people, too. You
can't force them into anything. But if you first warm them
up with some real kindness, more than likely, they will do
what you want them to do."
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
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With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
You might want to check out a very short video clip that
touches on some important aspects of Karma.
(How to overcome Bad Karma …by Monk LP John)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Et6bZ
Gb_RKo
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1 Generosity ( Dana )
May my generosity grow.
May I be more able to LET GO.
2 Morality ( Sila )
May I keep my precepts well.
May my thoughts, words and deeds tell.
3 Renunciation ( Nekkhama )
May I realize that things ‘are not mine’.
May I grow in selflessness with time.
4 Wisdom ( Panna )
May I see things in their reality.
May my mind be calm, peaceful and free.
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5 Energy ( Viriya )
May I strive on in the Dhamma diligently
May I serve to the best of my ability.
6 Patience ( Khanti )
May I be understanding and patient.
May I give others my kind attention.
7 Truthfulness ( Sacca )
May I always be honest and truthful.
May my mind always be clear and mindful.
8 Determination ( Adhitthana )
May I be firm and determined in my practice.
May I not swerve from the Path to Nibbanic Bliss.
9 Loving-Kindness ( Metta )
May I be kind, friendly and compassionate.
May I be free from anger, ill-will and hate.
10 Equanimity ( Upekkha )
May I attain calmness, peace and serenity.
May I strive on for equanimity.
With Metta,
Bro. Oh Teik Bin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdarjEv7Vyc
https://www.slideshare.net/ohteikbin/the-10-perfections-
hokkien-with-english-captions
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Unwise use of social media and internet sites can have negative
effects leading to mental states like unwholesome desires, greed,
craving, attachment, anger, aggression, aversion, ill will, stress,
anxiety, obsession, addiction and other states of mental dis-ease.
In an age of so many things that stimulate the senses, not many
are into reading and reflection on matters of Dhamma and life
lessons. Very few people read thick or voluminous books or texts.
I have used social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram,
YouTube and WhatsApp to post Dhamma material with visual
illustrations for a greater impact. I have also written a few
Dhamma / Life Lessons books for free distribution using posts of
Instagram and WhatsApp Messaging with attachments.
WhatsApp Messages of LIFE Lessons 2 essentially follows the
format of the earlier ‘WhatsApp Messages’ book published in
2020. It aims to share and promote the Dhamma, provide
important Dhamma teachings for reflection and practice and to
serve as a reminder to practice the Buddha-Dhamma constantly.
May this book help one and all to enrich the mind
with the Dhamma that is beautiful and sublime.