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Easy Minimalist Living. 30 Days To Declutter, Simplify and Organize Your Home
Easy Minimalist Living. 30 Days To Declutter, Simplify and Organize Your Home
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We all have stuff. Some of us may have more stuff than others but in the
grand scheme of things, we all have way more stuff than we realistically
need.
With that being said, we can all stand to get rid of some of our stuff. But
I get it. Your stuff is important to you. It’s not just a collection of random
items that have gathered in your space. Every item means something to you
or at least it meant something when you got it.
Rather than immediately launching into this long diatribe about why
you should get rid of your excess stuff (that’s going to come later with some
really helpful tips and tricks), I’m going to share my story first.
I was your typical 21st Century woman. I was busy juggling my career,
my social life and my family life. Things were going well but for some
reason my stress level was at an all-time high. My career was demanding
but I thought I had control over everything. All of my needs were met and I
enjoyed a very full life. I had a closet full of fabulous clothes, shoes and
purses. I had a wonderful apartment that was well decorated and I managed
to squeeze in regular massage appointments to ensure that I relaxed as
much as possible. But something was still off.
The massages weren’t actually working.
I still felt stressed and it wasn’t until I turned my attention to my home
that I realized the problem.
I had way too much stuff.
It was stuff that I had slowly amassed over the years. My home wasn’t
messy in any way, mind you. I cleaned regularly and kept everything in its
place. But one day I was sitting in my office trying to concentrate and I
looked around and noticed there was an overabundance of folders, boxes
and cabinets filled with stuff. Suddenly I felt it all closing in on me and I
knew I needed to make some changes.
I needed to clear out some of this stuff and ultimately clear my mind but
when I walked over to one of my cabinets and went to throw some things
out, I stopped. I couldn’t just start throwing things away like this. There was
a reason why I had kept everything. I needed it. I slowly took some things
out and looked at them, quickly realizing that the items were several years
old. I also realized that I hadn’t looked at it in several years.
Maybe I didn’t need it after all but I still couldn’t bring myself to just
start throwing things away en masse. I needed to separate from my stuff in a
way that honored my emotional tie to it. I did some brainstorming and came
up with a solution that I’m going to share with you.
I decided to write a goodbye letter to my stuff. That way I could give it
the send-off it deserved. If you have a hard time getting rid of your stuff,
give this tactic a try. It worked wonders for me.
Dear Stuff,
Please don’t take this wrong way. You are very important to me. I’ve
kept you around all this time because I just couldn’t part with you. I needed
you to be readily available at all times. I balked at putting you in storage
because that would be disrespectful to the relationship that we have.
But now that I look around and see that there is now so much of you I
realize that I’ve been unfair to both of us. I’ve been using you as a crutch.
You’ve been sitting here gathering dust and I’m not using you the way I’d
intended when I kept you.
This is not the type of relationship that we should have and with that in
mind, I have to say goodbye. I thank you wholeheartedly for what you’ve
meant to me and what you’ve done for me with your presence. But the time
has come for us to part ways.
Don’t worry. I’m not going to unceremoniously dump you in the nearest
trash bin that I see. I’m going to respect our relationship until the very end.
You’ve served me well but now it’s time for me to move on. I still
appreciate you as much as I did the day we met. I know you will go on to
provide some great value in your next life.
Goodbye Stuff.
Yours Truly,
Me
Feel free to edit your letter and make it as nice and loving or as gruff as
you’d like. The ultimate point is to honor the role your stuff has played in
your life while releasing it from being necessary. If you have a hard time
getting rid of your stuff, this is an important step. It’s your way of giving
yourself permission to move on to the next step which is identifying what
stuff can stay and what must definitely go. Writing the goodbye letter will
help you begin to make peace with ridding yourself of the extra stuff you
don’t need.
Once you’ve begun to make peace with it, you can start to adopt a more
minimalist mindset.
1
PHILOSOPHY
I n spite of what you may think, each room of your house requires a
different de-cluttering process. It’s not a good idea to approach your
house like one space when it’s really a combination of smaller spaces.
Rather than approaching it in one fell swoop, you should tackle each room
separately based on your relationship with that room. Everyone uses
different rooms of their homes differently so this distinction is important.
I’m going to help walk you through the different rooms of a house and offer
tips on how to de-clutter each room. The initial benefits of this walk
through will become immediately obvious. You will realize how much
easier each room will be to clean once you get rid of some of the stuff you
don’t need.
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LIVING ROOM
W e’ll start with your living room, family room or sitting room.
Regardless of what you call it, this is typically the large room
in your house where you gather with family, friends and
guests. There is most often a television in this room so people tend to spend
a lot of time in there. Because you tend to spend a lot of time in the living
room, it’s important that you take a moment and step away from the space.
Leave your house. Go run an errand or something. Clear your head. I
realize the thought of de-cluttering your space can be overwhelming but
you’re not just leaving for that purpose. Once you come back home, take a
breath before you walk back in and adjust your perspective.
You are going to enter your home as if you’ve never been inside before.
It’s important that you look at your space with a fresh perspective. If you
find this tough to do, enlist the help of a friend that’s capable of being fully
objective and honest. You need a fresh set of eyes on your living room.
Because you use the space on a regular basis, you have most likely grown
accustomed to the stuff that’s in it.
You need to be able to recognize what’s adding to the space and what’s
just taking up space. You should ask yourself if your living room looks
homey and inviting or if it looks cluttered? You should also look at the
different objects in the room and determine whether that object enhances
the feel of the room or if it detracts from it.
Your living room can be one of the easiest places to tackle because the
stuff that builds up there tends to be stuff that obviously doesn’t belong.
Things like magazines, books, toys, papers and tchotchkes can often be
removed with relative ease. Plus you can and should involve the rest of the
people who live in your home when clearing out the living room space.
This is a great time to incorporate them and get them to participate in the
minimalizing of your space.
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BEDROOMS
T he closet is the one space that most women, and some men, find
themselves needing to purge even if nothing else in your home is
de-cluttered. It’s very easy to quickly build up a closet full of
clothes, many of which you may not wear very often. But de-cluttering your
closet should not be done the same time that you do your bedroom. This
will require you to create piles of clothes and it can be overwhelming on its
own. Depending on the size of your closet, it may need to be done in
sections. Be realistic but give yourself a definitive time frame. Then when
you’re going through your closet or the different sections (including your
shoes) ask yourself these questions. Be honest with yourself.
1. Does it fit?
This doesn’t just mean that you can put it on zip or button it up. Fit
means that you can wear it comfortably without it creating any unflattering
bulges, puckers or rolls. This applies to your “fat” clothes as well as those
“skinny” clothes. If you find yourself gaining or losing weight, go
shopping. Don’t keep clothes in your closet on the off chance that your size
will change. This is another way of holding on to your past. Your “fat”
clothes represent a size that you once were and want to be prepared in case
you become that size again. Your “skinny” clothes represent a size that you
once were and are hoping you’ll become again. Don’t live in the past. Live
in the size clothes that you’re wearing now.
1. Does it flatter?
There are some pieces of clothing that fit comfortably but they don’t
flatter you. Not everyone can wear everything. Some styles, cuts and shapes
of clothes simply do not flatter you. Be honest with yourself. Don’t keep a
dress you love if it makes you look unflattering. Try things on in a full
length mirror and look at your front, back and sides in the piece. It should
flatter you in 360 degrees.
1. When was the last time I wore this?
If you haven’t worn it in the last year, get rid of it. Lots of people have
pieces in their closets that they haven’t worn in years. If you can’t figure
out a way to take that piece and immediately incorporate into your everyday
wear, it shouldn’t stay in your closet.
1. Does this color look good on me?
You should focus on colors that flatter you and get rid of colors that
don’t. No matter how versatile you are, there will always be colors that
don’t make you look your best. If the piece of clothing makes you look
washed out in any way when you hold it up to your face, get rid of it.
Don’t be afraid to drastically pare down your closet. Focus on the pieces
you wear most often and get rid of the things that you don’t. This may seem
daunting. I realize that many of us keep closets full of clothes to feel like
we have options. But in spite of those options, you most likely end up
reaching around them to choose the same pieces on a rotating basis. The
best thing to do is clear out the extra clothing and focus on a few key
pieces. If you have these key pieces, you’ll have the ability to create
wonderful outfits by rotating those pieces and you won’t miss all of your
other clothes.
1. Dark jeans
You should have at least one to three pairs of dark jeans. These are great
for dressing up or dressing down and can be very versatile.
1. Two classic button up shirts; white and colored
If you own a basic, button up white shirt, you can wear it in a variety of
situations. It can be thrown on with some classic sneakers or boots and
worn casually. It can be paired with a classic black slack in a dressy or
business oriented situation. You can explore so many options with a classic
white shirt that your wardrobe would really benefit from it. Once you find
this classic white shirt, look for the same cut in another color or pattern.
Benefit from this great fit but with some added variety.
1. Pair of khakis
You can either have a pair of dark khakis or light khakis but either way,
these are great versatile pieces that can also be worn casually or dressed up.
Plus, khaki is a great neutral that can be paired with almost any color with
relative ease.
1. Pencil skirt
A classic pencil skirt in either a black or a neutral color like gray, tan or
brown is a great piece to own. It’s an easy way to look dolled up without
having to put in a lot of effort. There are always occasions where you need
to ramp up your look but don’t have a lot of time to do so. Pull on a pencil
skirt and a t-shirt and you will automatically look really pulled together.
1. Blazer
You’d be surprised at how valuable a well-fitting blazer can be to your
wardrobe. I suggest you have a neutral color like black, navy blue or tan. If
you put on a blazer, solid colored t-shirt and jeans, you quickly look very
pulled together.
1. Cardigan
A cardigan can be worn over pants, jeans, a skirt or a dress. It can be
worn with a belt cinched at the waist or more casually. You can either do a
print (as long as it’s versatile) or a solid color.
1. White t-shirt and Black t-shirt
A classic t-shirt that fits well is also very versatile. Plus they’re very
easy to wear and can be quite comfortable. Take some time to find a good t-
shirt then get one in black and white.
1. Black slacks
You always need a pair of black slacks to put on when you need to dress
things up or go for a more professional look. Get a classic slack. Don’t get
anything too trendy like wide legs or pencil pants. You want a pair of slacks
that can last for several years.
1. Black dress
Any woman’s closet is incomplete until she owns at least one little
black dress. Ideally this dress will be fairly simple to add to the versatility
but it’s a wardrobe must have. A simple, black shift dress can go from day
to night with the switch of a pair of shoes and a change of jewelry.
If you notice, versatility is the most important word in this list. You
want classic pieces that can be worn in a variety of ways. This list works
quite well for guys too. They can just remove the pencil skirt and black
dress. These pieces are also investment pieces. You should be willing to
take the time or spend the money to find pieces that are of high quality and
will last. You also want pieces that fit well and compliment your body type.
Once you’ve pared your wardrobe down to these key pieces, you can
focus on accessorizing. Accessories are much smaller and take up a lot less
space than a lot of clothes while providing the versatility you need. Plus,
accessories can be used to inject your personal style and attitude into your
outfit with relative ease.
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SHOES
I f you have a dining room it may be one of the least cluttered areas of
your house, which is largely because the dining area tends not to have
a lot of storage areas in it but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t deserve a
de-cluttering once over. This is a good room to do as a respite from the
other, more intense rooms because it will probably not require a lot of work.
But a functional dining room should only have the main dining essentials in
it. If it has room for a table and chairs that would most likely be the main
thing in the room. The main area you’ll likely have to tackle is the actual
table which probably attracts lots of miscellaneous items. You should clean
those items off and get rid of them.
Obviously everyone’s dining room area is different and you know your
space better than me. The point is for you not to forget it while you’re de-
cluttering your home.
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BATHROOMS
O nce your home office has been de-cluttered and organized, you
may be inspired to carry this over into the rest of your life. If you
also work outside of your home office, you should definitely
organize your work office in the same way. But one of the reasons why we
have so much paper in our home is because we get it while outside of the
home. You have to make a decision to go paperless across the board. It can
take some time but once you do it, you will find everything is much more
efficient and easier to maintain.
1. Cancel your subscriptions to all printed publications.
I know I suggested this for your office space but you should do it for
your entire household. Sit down with your family, significant other and
roommates and determine which magazines, newspapers and other paper
subscriptions are really necessary. The point is to keep the number down to
one or two subscriptions that come every month. Not only will this reduce
the paper in your life, it will also save you some money. This is a win-win
scenario. Plus, many publications have digital versions so you can sign up
for those…if you absolutely have to.
1. Purchase a scanner.
Some of the papers that you have are valuable and should be kept but
you can keep them in digital form rather than as papers in a box, file cabinet
or stack on your desk. If you have an all in one scanner in your office, you
can use that but it may be better to purchase a separate scanner that
everyone in the house can use together. You may not want your kids or
roommate making it a habit of going into your office to handle tasks. That
could cause some of your things to end up moved around and out of place.
There are small scanners that you can put in a central place in your home
with the central computer. If you want your roommate to contribute to
keeping your home paperless, it could be very beneficial to purchase one
for him/her as an organizational gift. You can purchase a desk scanner for
less than $100.
Once you acquire a scanner, make it a point to scan in all important
paper documents that you need to save for later. Be discerning in the types
of papers that you scan. You don’t want your computer to become cluttered
with a lot of documents you don’t need. But I realize that there are some
papers that you need the information from but don’t necessarily need to
keep the papers. Those would be scanned. A scanner that can do double
sides would save a lot of time but if you have a budget to consider, start
with the basics.
1. Purchase a shredder.
As you may have noticed, I’m a big fan of shredding paperwork. This is
largely for security purposes. With so many instances of identity theft we
have to be very diligent about protecting our information even the stuff that
seems inconsequential. You should have at least two shredders in your
home. You definitely need one in your home office but you should also put
one in your living room near the place where you keep your mail. This is so
that you can easily shred all of the pieces of paper that come into your home
that don’t belong there.
The best type of shredder to get is one that is large enough to shred an
8.5 x 11 inch piece of paper and will allow you to feed several sheets at one
time. It should also cross shred rather than shred in one long strip. You want
to ensure that your important documents aren’t easily pieced back together
by some overzealous identity thief. Don’t get a shredder that is so small that
you spend hours on end sitting and shredding one piece of paper at a time.
That is not a time saver at all. If shredding becomes a time consuming task
you’ll be much less likely to do it regularly.
1. Create a junk mail bin.
Don’t let junk mail into your house at all. I have a stack of mail that sits
in my foyer that sometimes grows much taller than I care to admit. Most of
it is junk mail that I didn’t want to deal with at the time so I tossed it on the
stack. Rather than tossing it on the stack, I should have tossed it in a
recycling bin. Junk mail is largely paper. If you make a habit of looking at it
as soon as you receive it and discarding it right away, it won’t have an
opportunity to pile up on you. If you’re concerned about identify theft, you
should simply peel off or tear off any areas of the junk mail that has your
name on it and shred those. In the most ideal set up you’d have a shredder
right next to your junk mail bin which should be near where you keep your
mail.
1. Sign up for online accounts.
This largely applies to companies that send you regular bills or
statements. Create an online account with your bank, credit card, utilities,
cable provider, internet provider and any other organization you make
regular payments to. This will provide a lot of extra benefits. You’ll be able
to monitor your accounts more quickly without having to make time
consuming phone calls. You’ll also be able to make payments without
having to drive somewhere and stand in line. But the main thing you’ll be
able to do is control the amount of important paper sent to your home.
1. Sign up for electronic notifications.
Sign up to receive your bills, statements and other notifications
electronically. This will go a long way towards reducing much of the
important papers that come into your home. This way you won’t feel
compelled to hold on to bills when you receive them. By reducing your
amount of mail, you’ll be able to manage your paper even more effectively.
If you’re concerned about missing bill payments because you’re no longer
getting a hard copy, you can sign up for bill reminder services from those
same companies. You can also simply set a reminder on your own calendar
to keep track of bills so you don’t forget to pay them when you go
electronic.
1. Don’t delay dealing with paper when you do get it.
Make it a point to address paper when it first enters your hands. Don’t
make it a habit of setting paper aside to deal with later. This is how you end
up with a lot of extra papers lying around in unattractive piles. If you
address it as soon as you touch it, you’re much more likely to move on it
and get rid of than have it in a pile somewhere.
It’s not impossible to go paperless but it does take some effort and
attention to detail. You will have to create some new habits so it’s important
that you put processes in place as soon as possible. It’s going to take some
adjusting but once you get used to it, you will marvel at how much less
paper you have in your life overall. You may even find yourself advising
others about how to go paperless themselves.
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ORGANIZE YOUR COMPUTER
W hen you go paperless you may find yourself with a lot more
digital files than you’re used to. Don’t fret. It is possible to get
control over your new influx of digital files. You need to
organize your digital space with the same attention to detail that you’re
organizing your personal space. I know I mentioned organizing your
computer desktop briefly in the section about your home office but now I’m
going to dive in more deeply. Many of you are walking around carrying
these disorganized devices that hold lots of valuable content. We keep so
much on our computer I find it amazing how little time people put into
keeping it organized.
Organize your files
1. Create a broad filing system
Choose a home folder where you keep all of your documents and
organize them into files. You should keep all of your documents in one
main folder. This makes it easier to back up your files and keep track of
where they all are.
This is an example of a main folder that can hold all of your files. You
can take advantage of the default file system created by the operating
system on your computer. There is often a My Documents folder of some
kind. You can use that as your base. From this point forward all of your files
will be stored in this folder.
2. Create large sub topics inside of this main folder. These should be
very broad topics that are going to house more specific sub topics.
This image illustrates the types of broad categories you can create to
begin organizing things more specifically. These categories should be as
broad as possible because you’re going to create folders within these that
are more specific.
3. Create more specific categories within the broad categories.
This image shows how you can further break down the broad topic
folders using the Financials folder as an example. If you notice you have a
very clear path for when you want to save or access your bank statements,
for example.
Once you’ve created the basis for an overarching organizational system
on your computer, you should keep this going. Whenever you come across
a situation where you need to add a new folder, create one. Try not to make
it so specific that you have thousands of folders and end up overwhelmed
by the sheer number of folders on your computer. But you do need some
level of organization for your files and once you go through all of the steps
to go paperless, you will need to organize those digital files in a meaningful
fashion. This may seem like a lot of up front work but once the system is in
place it will be virtually seamless. Spending many minutes searching on
your computer for important documents is a poor use of your time. This
way you will know exactly where to go every time and in those situations
where you have to do some searching, it will be very targeted searching and
yield much quicker results than if everything is spread everywhere.
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CLEAN YOUR DESKTOP
You just click “yes” and the icon will disappear but the program will
remain on your computer.
1. On a Mac
The cool thing about Mac computers is that it automatically puts your
icons in one place on the desktop to make your viewing experience more
streamlined. However, there are times when that area, called a Dock may
become more full than you prefer.
When you want to move icons from your Mac desktop, drag them to
another area. In fact, there may very well already be an Applications folder
you can drop it into without worrying about losing the program as shown
below:
When you’re clearing your desktop make sure the icon you’re removing
can be accessed somewhere else. Check your program menu for programs
and make sure you move all files to an appropriately labeled folder.
Make sure you de-clutter your computer desktop. It’s not a good idea to
have a clean office and then see a cluttered desktop on your computer. It has
just as much of an effect on your organization as a cluttered desk.
Once you’ve created a file system to organize your files and cleaned off
your desktop, your computer should be a much more organized place to
spend time. Think of how much more productive you could be if you knew
exactly where everything was at the time you needed it?
It never ceases to amaze me how much a moment of organization can
benefit me over time.
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ORGANIZE YOUR EMAIL
I t seems like our schedules have gotten busier and busier. People have
so much going on in their lives that they are running on fumes on a
regular basis. This is unhealthy and should be changed. It’s ok to have
down time where you can just sit and watch a movie with your friends,
family or significant other without having to schedule it in. Your kids won’t
grow up to be negative members of society if they aren’t scheduled to the
hilt.
This may be an unpopular tactic to do with your kids, especially if they
have grown up doing multiple activities simultaneously but it’s necessary.
Cut out some activities
Sit down and make a list of all of the things that you and your family
are currently committed to doing. I’m not talking about casual social things
that may come up occasionally but don’t necessarily happen every week.
I’m talking about classes, sports leagues and other regular activities that
you commit to do for an extended period of time. Look at all of these
different activities and choose one or two to keep and remove the excess.
This is a good way to involve your kids and empower them to take control
over the schedule as well. Let them know you won’t be mad if they don’t
want to play that sport any more or be a cheerleader any more. After you
make a list of their activities, tell them to choose two of their favorites.
Then cut out the excess.
Learn to say no
I know I discussed saying no without feeling guilty early on but I think
it needs to be mentioned again. You have to practice saying no to people
and things as it relates to your stuff but also your time. People will ask for
things all the time. It doesn’t mean you have to agree to it. But I completely
understand how tough this may be for some of you. You don’t want to
disappoint people and saying no is a surefire way to do that.
I used to be a notorious people pleaser because I couldn’t bear to see the
disappointment in the eyes of my friends and family when I said no. Soon
people picked up on this quality and began to exploit it. Yes there were
some people who were rude about it but most people just did it because
they could. They weren’t trying to use me but they knew that if they asked
me for something or to do something, I would. So they’d ask and I’d say
yes.
I knew I needed to start saying no but I wasn’t comfortable with going
from zero to no. I took baby steps. When I didn’t want to do something but
didn’t want to say no right away, I’d say, “Let me check my schedule and
get back to you.”
That gave me permission to hold off the request until I could check my
calendar. Then if I didn’t want to do it, I could follow up and say that my
schedule wasn’t free or something along those lines. It worked like a charm.
It made the people making the requests of me stop thinking that I would just
automatically yes to all of their requests but most importantly it made me
more comfortable saying no. Eventually I got the point where I could just
say no in the moment but there are still occasions where I am not
comfortable and I can use my schedule excuse comfortably. It works like a
charm.
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ORGANIZE YOUR DAILY ROUTINE
O ne of the areas in our lives where we often need the most help is
organizing our daily routines. The reason this area is so tough to
fix is because we often do things on autopilot so we don’t realize
how much time they may take. We also tend to presume that the things we
do on a daily basis have to happen for our day to go according to plan. If for
some reason our daily routine is disrupted, we’re often irritated.
This is a natural response because as human beings we prefer routine
but just because we’ve been doing something every day for an extended
period of time doesn’t mean we have to keep doing it. When you want to
organize your daily routine, tackle it like you did your schedule.
1. Write down everything you do on a daily basis.
This will require some mindfulness where you go off of autopilot and
pay attention to what you do on a daily basis. You should make notes of
everything you do for a week straight. This is important because sometimes
you do things on certain days that you don’t do on others. You need to keep
those things in mind. It may look a little like this:
a. Wake up
b. Shower
c. Walk the dog
d. Put the dog in her room with food and water
e. Go to work
f. Leave work
g. Stop by the grocery store
h. Get home
i. Walk the dog
j. Cook dinner
k. Watch television
l. Surf the web
m. Talk on the phone
n. Go to bed
This is just an example of one day, but you should get an idea of what I
mean by writing down your daily activities. Be as detailed as is necessary.
After you’ve done this for a week, you will have a good snapshot of what
you spend your time doing on a daily basis.
1. Review and analyze the list.
Look at the different activities you do over the course of a week. Make
a note of the things that are essential for each day. Things like showering,
walking the dog, waking up and eating dinner are essentials. Things like
watching television, surfing the web and talking on the phone are not
essentials and may not happen every day.
1. Look for areas that you can save time or replace with something else.
Many people complain about not having enough time but if you really
look at your schedule, you will see that there are places where you can
make time. If you need to allot time to work out but can’t ever seem to,
maybe you could take some time away from watching television or surfing
the web. You could also try working out while you watch television. There
are some things you can do at the same time that won’t detract from each
other. Feel free to multi-task those things.
Your daily routine is definitely important and while there are some
things that must happen every day there are other things that can be
substituted. Look for ways to get the most out of your day and live a more
efficient, fulfilling life. You should also make it a point to be mindful of
what you’re doing with your time. Don’t obsess about it but try not to live
on auto pilot.
Living a minimalist lifestyle requires that you be aware and alert to how
you’re doing different things. Lifestyle changes mean making a series of
smaller habit changes and these can be tough to do. It takes dedication and
determination. You have to decide that you want to live a minimalist
lifestyle then actively pursue it. Eventually you will adopt those new habits
as your own. They say it takes 21 days for something to become a habit. If
you can commit to making these changes over the course of 30 days, you
will be on the right track.
21
CHECKLISTS
A s you can see from this book, I’m a big fan of lists. They’re so
helpful in organizing information and communicating tasks in a
fashion that’s easy to follow. Plus, there’s nothing more satisfying
than checking something off of a checklist. I make to do lists, shopping
lists, and organizational lists for when I travel and task lists for lots of other
things. I think I’m a natural list maker but it is very helpful to see samples
of lists to make sure I’m covering all of my bases.
Some people miss out on the value of creating lists. Not only does it
help to have something to refer to as you go about your day, it also provides
an outline for what you need to accomplish. When you are making major
life changes, it’s important to keep track of what needs to be done
differently. Lists can be helpful especially when you are working to change
old habits.
It’s so easy to go on autopilot and go about your day without really
thinking about what you’re doing. Adopting the minimalist lifestyle
requires an increased level of mindfulness that can be maintained by using
lists. If you have something written to reference, you can stay on track
while you work to change your habits.
I’m going to provide some lists for you to help you get started.
Feel free to adapt these lists to best fit your needs.
Daily Task To Do Lists
Figure 6-1
Figure 6-2
Sample Grocery Shopping Lists
Figure 6-3
Figure 6-4
Packing Lists
Figure 6-5
Figure 6-6
Those are just a few different types of checklists you can use for
different things. But the ultimate goal and value of checklists is to ensure
that you don’t forget anything. Time management is a common issue among
many people and one way to better manage your time is to keep track of
what needs to be done and what is completed. As you start adopting the
minimalist lifestyle more over time you will find your lists becoming
smaller.
The point of becoming a minimalist and practicing this lifestyle is to de-
emphasize the value you place on stuff and focus on placing value on
people, time and experiences. When you reflect back on the times in your
life that are most memorable, it’s not about the things you had it’s about the
way you felt. Cut back on your things and focus on enhancing the moments
you experience.
So far I’ve given you tips on how to ease into the minimalist lifestyle
but in some situations you may need to go whole hog and take the more
drastic route. That’s perfectly fine. However, I do suggest if you decide to
take drastic measures look for things you can do that won’t negatively
affect others. For example if you have three kids, a mortgage and a car note
to pay every month it’s not a good idea to quit your job and move to a
desert island to live the ultimate minimalist lifestyle. However, if you are in
a position where you can quit your job and go back to school by all means,
do it. You can use these tips to not only live with less stuff but to cut back
on your life expenses.
If you notice, many of the tips I’ve shared suggest you stop paying for
different things in your life like subscriptions. You’d be surprised at how
much money people spend on things like monthly subscriptions.
The most important thing to remember about minimalism is that it’s up
to you to define what works for you under your terms. You can’t take
someone else’s minimalist experience and duplicate it.
Let me tell you a little secret. This isn’t my first time adopting a
minimalist lifestyle. When I was in college, I was like a fish out of water.
I’d grown up in a very loving environment that was reflected in my home
life and school life. I wasn’t one of the popular kids but my high school was
fairly close knit. Everyone pretty much got along with each other even if
they didn’t hang out together on the weekends.
This made my high school experience pretty warm and fuzzy when
compared to some other people’s experiences. When I got to college, I was
excited to be exposed to a whole new world but I didn’t know what to
expect. I’d chosen a school where only a few of my high school classmates
were and we were quickly separated by the hierarchy of college. It was nice
to see an occasional familiar face on campus but I was essentially in a sea
of strangers.
My roommate was this girl named Alycia. She was from a different city
and so different from anyone I’d ever met before. She was a nice girl but
she had some interesting ideas about how to live your life to be happy and
enjoy yourself. Her parents were yogis who visited a nudist resort every
summer for a month and practiced minimalism.
I was intrigued at the entire concept of minimalism. She seemed to live
her life so freely. Her parents made a good living running their yoga studio
but they didn’t have a lot of material possessions. She drove an older model
car and shopped at the thrift store. But she was beautiful and all of her
clothes looked great. She seemed to breeze through campus like a breath of
fresh air.
Her side of the dorm room was virtually empty with the exception of a
beautiful comforter and her school supplies. It got to the point where my
stuff started to creep over to her side of the room but she didn’t seem to
mind. One night we both ended up in the room for the evening with no
plans. She invited me to go for a walk with her to enjoy the starlight.
It sounded so magical and enlightening that I jumped at the chance. I
was in the process of deciding if I was going to rush a sorority and I thought
she might have some insight to share. We headed out across the campus.
She was right. The stars were beautiful. We walked in silence before I asked
her about rushing.
She looked at me and said that she wasn’t really interested in being a
part of any organization that glorified any type of social climbing and paid
unnecessary attention to status. I had never considered joining a sorority in
that way. I was going to do it to make friends. But after talking to her about
it, I wasn’t so sure any more.
She suggested that I give minimalism a try and see if it’s something I’d
be interested in doing. She told me about a group that she was involved in
at school that was about living your best life and pursuing what made you
most happy. I was intrigued about anything that was about pursuing
happiness so I agreed to go the next meeting with her.
I went to the meeting and thought that the people were a little different
but cool. The vibe was all about non judgment and doing what makes you
happy. I decided to follow Alycia’s lead and give minimalism a try.
When I got back to my room that night, I threw out most of my clothes
and shoes. I gave my extra linens to some of my new friends and was
pleased to see that my side of the room looked a lot more like hers. For the
next week I tried to consume less.
Unfortunately I didn’t really know what that meant so I ended up sitting
in my room studying afraid to go outside for fear that I’d consume
something and not be a good minimalist. I was more stressed out than I’d
ever been. I wasn’t happy at all. I asked Alycia why I was so stressed out
and she said that maybe I was doing it wrong.
She didn’t understand why I didn’t feel as peaceful as she did. After a
week of giving minimalism a try, I quit. Rush week had started at school
and I began to participate in the rush activities. I joined a sorority and
moved to the house leaving my minimalist roommate Alycia behind.
I never had any negative feelings towards her. I realized that living that
lifestyle wasn’t best for me. I needed to have stuff. I continued through my
college experience. I would see Alycia and smile and wave but we never
really talked again.
When I embarked on the path to a minimalist lifestyle years later I
realized the error of my ways. I was trying to adopt Alycia’s minimalist
lifestyle that had been defined for her since she was a child. I wasn’t
equipped to jump in with both feet in that way. I had to make minimalism
work for me. When I did it again, I was much more successful but it still
looks a lot different than the lifestyle Alycia was living. In fact, I can almost
bet that her lifestyle now probably looks a lot different as well.
The point of that story is to drive home the fact that minimalism is a
lifestyle choice. With any lifestyle choice, you have to do what works best
for you. You can’t adopt someone else’s version of the lifestyle. This will
increase your chances of failure.
When you begin to practice minimalism you will quickly realize that the
joy of life comes from moments and the people that help you create them,
not the stuff you have. It alters your focus and makes you take it inward.
The effort that you were previously putting towards getting things and
creating a lifestyle that looks nice is directed at you. Now you can focus
that energy on loving yourself as much as possible and creating a lifestyle
that honors who you are and what makes you special.
I don’t know about you but I’m a big fan of any lifestyle that gives me
an excuse to focus my energies on myself in such a positive way.
If you follow the tips I’ve shared in this book, you could realistically be
practicing the minimalist lifestyle in 30 days with relative ease. In fact, I
suggest that you aim to do it in 30 days. If you give yourself too much time
to ease in it you run the risk of going back on auto pilot and not making and
definitive changes. But this doesn’t mean you should do anything sudden or
hasty.
As long as you make sure to do what works best for you and don’t make
any drastic changes that will put you in a bad situation, you will be able to
reap the positive benefits of this lifestyle. Remember that minimalism isn’t
about living like a hermit in the woods with no electricity. It’s about
focusing on what’s most important and eliminating or reducing what is less
important.
The important stuff is up to you to decide and define. Good luck with
your minimalist practice.
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DAY 30
N ow that I’ve given you some insight and tips into what it will take
to practice the minimalist lifestyle, I’m going to give you a 30 day
plan to begin implementing these changes. This plan is based on a
home with six rooms; living room, dining room, kitchen, two bedrooms,
one bathroom. You should review the plan before you start it to make
adjustments for your space.
Before you start, go out and get a few de-cluttering tools. You’ll need to
purchase a scanner and shredder. You will encounter so much paper that
will need to be shredded as you de-clutter your way through your house.
This is an important tool to have on hand throughout the process. Don’t
wait until you are knee deep in de-cluttering to have to stop and buy a
scanner.
Remember, when you are going through your stuff, you should have
three piles: throw away, giveaway, sell.
This is a fairly rigorous de-cluttering schedule that will take some effort
especially during the week when you’ll be de-cluttering after work. It’s not
going to be easy but it will be worth it in the end.
Remember that I have made a special calender that you can pin to your
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Day 1
Write a letter breaking up with your stuff then make a list of the reasons
why you’re breaking up with your stuff.
Take some time to say goodbye to all of your stuff while mentally
preparing yourself to begin de-cluttering your life. Once you've written your
letter and come to terms with getting rid of your stuff, organize the process.
Make a list of the rooms you're going to tackle. Start with a room that
requires the least amount of de-cluttering. You want your initial process to
be easily attainable so you can experience the success of clearing a room
without it taking a long time.
Decide where you're going to take the stuff that you’ll be getting rid of.
Choose a place for the sell, giveaway and throw away categories. The throw
away category may be easy. It's just a matter of identifying where the items
can go until the trash run happens or taking it to the closest dumpster. The
giveaway category could go to your local Goodwill or homeless shelter.
The sell category may be more of a challenge. You should come up with a
plan for the sell category in advance. If you're going to take the items to a
consignment shop, do that. If you're going to hold a garage sale, figure out
where you will store everything until the sale. You may have to choose a
holding place for all of your sale stuff to be addressed later. This is fine as
long as you address it within 10 to 15 days of the 30 day change.
Then go out and buy a box of big, black trash bags. You're going to
need them.
Day 2
De-clutter the first room.
Choose a room that is easy to fully de-clutter in one day like the dining
room. Aim to get rid of as much as possible. Don't leave anything to be
sorted later. Deal with it in one sitting. This is important to give you a push
to keep going. You need to experience some initial success to help support
your journey into minimalism.
Put everything you're getting rid of in a black trash bag and put it in
another room to be removed the next day.
Day 3
Make a minimalist shopping plan for the next 30 days.
You should only buy foods and goods that you will consume
completely. This means no buying clothes, electronics, shoes, jewelry,
trinkets, knick knacks, etc. Focus on food, drinks and cleaning supplies, if
necessary. Take your first minimalist shopping trip. Even if you don't have
to buy a lot of things, this is a good way to get accustomed to shopping in
this way with your new minimalist mind set.
Day 4
De-clutter the second room.
If you don't have a room that can be de-cluttered in one day, choose a
section of a room and do that area. Aim to get rid of as much as possible
and put it into a black bag. Don't leave anything to be sorted for later. Deal
with it in this moment. Put the trash bag(s) in another room to be removed
the next day.
Day 5
Reach out for support.
If you have a family that you live with, schedule a family meeting and
tell them about minimalism and what you're doing. Your purpose isn't to
force them to join you on this journey. Your purpose is to educate them
about what you're doing and why and to ask for their support. This may be
tough if you have children under 18 but if you think they can be empathetic
to your cause, include them. You don't want to try to force them to go on the
initial journey with you because you will have ups and downs and you need
to experience them on your own. If your husband, boyfriend or fiancé is
willing to do it with you, let him know what you've done so far. Show him
your room de-clutter plan and involve him in the next one.
If you live alone, invite your close friends over and tell them what
you're doing. Explain to them the importance of it and why you need their
support. You're not trying to force them to do it with you but if any of them
decide to join you, that's great. Show them your letter breaking up with your
stuff and encourage them to write one too. Share your room de-cluttering
plan and encourage them to make their own. Then make an agreement to
check in with each other regularly throughout the next 25 days.
Day 6
Create a plan to tackle your larger rooms.
Expand your room plan by mapping out the items you will put in these
three categories: sell, throw away, giveaway. Walk from room to room and
do a quick survey of what's in each one and pre-plan what you put in these
three categories. Since you've done two rooms so far you should have an
idea of what may come up in each room and be able to guess what that
would look like. This won't be exact since you're not actually pulling things
out but it's important that you plan what you will do with your stuff before
you're knee deep in it. Take this day to really plan. Don't take it easy on
yourself. You should be really getting rid of a lot of stuff.
Day 7
De-clutter another room.
This time you should tackle one of the more involved rooms like the
living room. Commit the day to fully cleaning it out. Take everything out,
sort it into piles sell, giveaway, throw away. Keep only the essentials and
get rid of the rest. Take your room plan list and sort things based on what
you determined in advance. As you find new things, work hard to add them
to one of the three lists. Your keep pile should be tiny compared to the other
three piles.
If possible, involve your friends and family in this process. If you have
a friend that's going minimal with you, make a deal that you'll help him/her
with some of his/her big cleanings if he/she helps you with yours. Involve
your family in this cleaning whether they're becoming minimalists or not.
They should be involved with the purge and sorting of stuff. This will help
show them minimalism in action.
Put the bags of stuff in another room to be removed from the house the
very next day.
Day 8
Rest
Don't de-clutter any rooms today. Take some time to walk around your
house and notice the difference. You should have de-cluttered two or three
whole rooms by now. There will be a marked difference in those rooms. Sit
in the space and breathe in the change. Appreciate what living with less
really looks like.
Remove the bags that you filled up the day before.
Day 9
Take a step away from your home.
If you work outside of the house, start de-cluttering your office or work
space. This may take a few passes since you can't just dedicate an entire day
to it. You can take this day to map out your process.
Divide the space into sections and make a plan to tackle a different
section each day. After you map out a plan, choose the smallest section and
de-clutter it. This shouldn't take a lot of time out of your work day so you
can still get work done.
Day 10
De-clutter another part of your home.
You may not be up for doing an entire room so choose a section of a
room and do that one. You could tackle your closet, starting with your
shoes. Streamline your shoe collection. I know this will be hard for us shoe
lovers but you can do it. Pull out all of the shoes that you wear on a regular
basis. In this case regular means at least two to three times in a week's time.
Put those shoes in a stack.
If you're like most women you may have three to four pairs in this stack.
Now go through the rest of them and sort them into piles: special occasion,
functional and everything else. Sort out the shoes that were purchased just
for an occasion like a wedding, ball or event. Then sort out the ones you
wear for specific purposes like hiking boots, rock climbing shoes, running
shoes, etc. You'll likely not get rid of these because they serve a distinct
purpose. Now if you haven't been hiking in several years or seen the side of
a mountain since you were in college, put those shoes in the pile to be
gotten rid of. De-cluttering isn’t a time for wishful thinking.
Put the shoes that you actually use and wear on a regular basis back in
your closet along with the functional ones. Then sort the rest.
Put the sorted shoes into the black garbage bags to be removed the next
day.
Day 11
De-clutter your bathroom.
Take everything out including the cleaning products and any easy to
remove decorations. Put everything in a pile/stack in another room. Then
put back only the things you use to get dressed in the morning. Next put
back only the things you use before you go to bed. After that put back the
cleaning supplies you used the last time you cleaned. Be honest with
yourself. If you haven't used something in the last week, it shouldn't go
back in. Sort through everything else and put it in give away and throw
away piles. It's very likely your bathroom won't have anything to sell in it
but if it does set that stuff aside.
Put everything in black plastic bags and sit them in another room to be
removed the next day.
Day 12
Create an organizational plan for your computer.
You're not going to dive in and start moving things around yet. Set up
your organizational system like I outlined in Chapter 5. Do this for your
work computer and your home computer if the two are separate.
Day 13
De-clutter your kitchen.
Start with one cabinet and empty it completely before going through the
sorting process. Since you'll be starting after you're done with work you
should aim for one cabinet.
Sort everything in another room but don't put it in the plastic bags just
yet. You'll be adding to those piles the next day.
Day 14
Finish de-cluttering your kitchen.
Tackle each cabinet one at a time. Take everything out, sort it and keep
only what is absolutely essential. Those cabinets should be fairly empty
when you're done.
Put the black plastic bags in another room to be removed the next day.
Day 15
De-clutter the bedroom that has the least amount of stuff in it.
If you have a child or two using the second bedroom you should de-
clutter your bedroom first. Leave the child's room for last so you can work
with him/her during the process. That may slow things down since he/she
will have an opinion about the things you decide to get rid of, regardless of
age.
If you don't have a child and your second bedroom is a guest room or
your office, it's time to tackle it.
Day 16
Start de-cluttering your computer.
Now that you have the file system in place, you should start moving
things into those folders. Don't try to open every file on your computer and
review it. Just move things into folders. You will return to your computer at
a later date but this is a good way to start with the de-cluttering process.
Day 17
Start de-cluttering your bedroom.
Section it into zones and do a zone at a time. Sort everything in another
room. You want to experience the stuff actually leaving your room rather
than piling up on the floor. Do two zones a day.
Day 18
Continue to de-clutter your bedroom.
Do two more zones. Add to the sorted pile in the other room.
Day 19
Finish de-cluttering your room.
If you have more than six zones, it may take another day. Put the items
in the sorted piles into the black garbage bags and put them in another room
to be removed the next day.
Day 20
Stop all paper from coming into your house.
Cancel all magazine subscriptions. Request and sign up for electronic
statements from your credit card, bank, investment accounts and anyone
else that sends paper statements of any kind to your house. Visit the Direct
Marketing Association website to stop catalogs and junk mail from coming
to your house. You should also opt out of pre-approved credit card
applications by visiting optoutprescreen.com. Visit the World Privacy
Forum for more information and tips on how to stop the paper from being
sent to your home.
Day 21
Finish de-cluttering your computer.
Now that you've started this process and gotten most things into folders,
you can start going through them and looking for things to delete. Go one
folder at a time. This may take more time than you prefer spending but it
will be beneficial in the long run.
Day 22
Digitize the paper that's already in your house.
You may have to take a few passes at this. You'd be surprised at how
much paper we have in our house that has accumulated over time. Start
with any bills or papers that you may be keeping around. Use the scanner
and scan them into your computer then shred them.
Day 23
Take a break.
Don't de-clutter anything. Spend some time in your newly de-cluttered
house. Take it all in. Enjoy your hard work.
Day 24
De-clutter your car.
Now that you've done your home, you should clear out your car. Take
everything out of your car and put it on the driveway or the grass near the
car. This includes stuff in your glove compartment and center console if you
have one. Don't take the stuff into the house at this point. Sort everything.
You should work to get rid of as much stuff as possible. You should really
only have one black plastic bag for your car. Most of the stuff we keep in
our car shouldn’t be there.
Day 25
Reduce your expenses.
Sit down and review all of the expenses that you pay for on a regular
basis. Look for ways to cut those expenses down. Ask yourself if you really
need everything that you currently pay for. This will require some blunt
honesty with yourself. You may need to enlist the help of a trustworthy and
honest friend. You need someone to level with you about everything that
you're paying for and play devil's advocate. This won't be an easy process
but it's important.
Day 26
Reflect
Now that you've de-cluttered several spaces in your life, take some time
and reflect on your feelings during the process. How has your opinion
changed as it relates to stuff and the things you thought you needed? How
do you plan to maintain your new perspective going forward?
Day 27
Have another family meeting and check in with your family members.
You want to ask how they feel seeing the changes you've been making.
Explain that you're making a lifestyle change and this is just the beginning.
Ask them for their continued support.
If you don't live with family, invite your friends over for dinner in your
newly de-cluttered space. Talk to them about what you've learned in the last
26 days. Thank anyone who's supported you for that support.
Day 28
Re-read the letter you wrote saying good bye to your stuff.
Even though you’ve successfully de-cluttered your home, car and office
this is just the beginning. Minimalism is a lifestyle and if you don’t begin to
incorporate the philosophy and perspective discussed in this book, you will
find yourself back at square one before you know it. This letter is a great
tool to reconnect with the feelings that led you to write the letter in the first
place. Keep it somewhere you can easily get to it or post it somewhere you
can see it on a regular basis.
Day 29
Create your future plans.
Now that you’re changing your perspective about the stuff that you
have, you can think of things to do with the extra time and money that
getting rid of all of that stuff will bring. Make a list of the things you’ve
always wanted to do but never felt you could.
Day 30
Review the list you made detailing why you wanted to de-clutter your
life.
Reflect on those reasons. Were they all met by the time you finished?
Now make a list giving all of the reasons why you want to continue to
actively practice minimalism. Post these reasons somewhere. This will help
keep you on track.
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