Name: Regodon, Shyra F.

Date: September 23, 2021

Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Communication

Interview
Have an interview (online/physical) with two people (family members, friends, classmates, etc.)
to know their perception of you. Use the guiding questions below. Ask them to explain their
answers thoroughly.

First Interviewee
1. What is your general perception of me?
As we have known each other for a long period of time, my general perception about you is
that you are a hardworking person. You always do your utmost best to do the tasks that are
assigned to you. You are also a very dedicated person. Once you like doing something, you
make sure that you do your best to excel in it. I think that is evident in a way that you are still
into writing stuffs. And I really admire it when you write poems. Other than that, you are a
great companion and is someone who people can rely on. It is because you give off the vibe of
someone who is approachable and easy to talk to.
2. What are my negative attitudes that you think I must be aware of?
I don’t really think I have noticed any negative attitudes towards you but if I have to state one
then maybe it would be the fact that sometimes you tend to go with the flow when it comes to
people giving their suggestions, ideas, or opinions. In short, you just go with what the majority
of the people agreed to. However, as we don’t really see each other these past few years, I am
not sure if what I am saying is still relevant.
3. How do you think can I avoid developing those attitudes? 
As for me, to be able to avoid developing this attitude, I hope that you will be always open
when it comes to sharing your ideas, suggestions, or opinions. Sometimes your ideas are much
better than what others think. Don’t let all your brainstorming go to waste just because you
think that what others say are better than yours. Always believe in yourself and don’t get
ahead of yourself. Although your ideas might get rejected but at least you were able to let them
hear your side than just merely agreeing to everything they say.

Second Interviewee
1. What is your general perception of me?
My general perception of you is that you are a soft spoken person and well mannered. Also,
you are caring, kind and thoughtful.
2. What are my negative attitudes that you think I must be aware of?
The negative attitude that you should be aware of is that you're kind of shy and this attitude
may greatly affect your relationship with others as well as opportunities that may come to you.
3. How do you think I show avoid developing those attitudes? 
I think you can avoid them by interacting more with your peers or with others. Moreover, by
taking advantage of the opportunities that may come might as well grab them as it can help
you to avoid developing those attitude.
Self-Talk
Ask the following questions to yourself. Explain your answer.
1. How do I see myself?
I see myself as a person still hanging and silently fighting amidst of hardships and
complications that life hurling to me. I discern myself for being a girl who used to do, to
follow and yet to sacrifice everything just for the sake and favor of others as I have the
fear to neglect them. I see myself as a person that I should not be.

2. Do I like what I see?

At some point and honestly speaking I don't like what I envision to see myself at this
moment. Though I'm the type of person who can't say no to everyone because I don't
want to hurt them and to feel that I refuse to help them as I know what it feels also.

3. How do I wish to see myself? How do I present myself to others? 

I wish to see myself as a person who can voice out what I truly feel and go through. I
want to have the urge to tell with everybody that I can make mistakes and I get sick and
tired of. But then again, I present myself to others as a fighter that I can do and manage
everything no matter how difficult and time consuming the situation is.

4. Who do others say I am? What do I imagine others say about me?
Other people say that I always do with my utmost best, I work hard, a very dedicated one
and a person whom you can lean on. They also stated that I am a shy type of person and I
just go along with the ideas of others. I imagined how I used to give my very best in
every situation I'm in and how I am as a friend to someone. Also, it allows me to
reminisce the moments that we've shared before.

5. How does this affect me?  

This really had a great impact to me as it made me to feel loved and appreciated. The
perceptions that I've got to them brings me realizations and grants me the chance for self
reflection. It opens up a door for improvements and betterment as these perceptions are
seems to be a strong foundation to discover and to know myself even more. I am grateful
enough by having their words and I will sincerely treasure it.