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Student Power and Abuse
Student Power and Abuse
the fire and then expect It not to be burnt! Having (c) The fast changing SOCial conditions, eVils of
forced a negative and soulless education down the industrialization, the Impact of materialiStiC culture and
throats of these students, having been infected with political ideologies and the gradually increasing
the contagion of politics In ali its departments of life, economic difficulties In many countries are no less
haVing forgotten how a true teacher or a parent or a responsible for this deterioration of the once sweet
political leader or a member of the society is to conduct relationship between the parents and the children.
himself, haVing placed inordinate emphasIs upon What are the remedies then?
money and other material values, if the society stili Since the last-mentioned cause IS beyond the
dreams of 'controlling' the 'student power', It is hugging capacity of the parents, they can only concentrate on
a fond Illusion! the fl rst two.
So, If we are to survive we have to return to the First, the parents have to assiduously cultivate
SPIrit of our great sCriptures and our great forefathers certain baSIC moral, ethical and spiritual values which
who discovered great unrversalldeals. To bUild a strong alone can give strength and stability to their character.
VIrile new nation on the bedrock of CIVilization and They should translate these virtues In their own life.
culture, not forgetting at the same time, to borrow the They must practise what they preach to their children.
best from others If and when necessary, IS the task we Secondly, they must maintain a close and
have to undertake urgently. StudYing the maladies that intimate contact With their children, acting as their
all our student population and finding out SUitable friend, philosopher and gUide. They should try
remedies so that we can train them porperly Sincerely to understand their thoughts and feelings.
and bring out the best In them are part and parcel of They should always act With prudence and never try
thiS task. to Impose solutions. As regards the grownup children,
they should be treated II ke friends. They should appeal
STUDENTS AND PARENTS to their mi nd through reason and touch their hearts
The Indian national heritage has given a very With love. That will do the trick!
high place to the sacred and sweet relationship that How should the children respond? They should
should eXist between the parents and the children. In also try to understand the feelings of their parents who
the ancient days, the children used to be taught to have brought them up and who are after all their best
look upon their parents as God. And this spirit had well-Wishers. They should know that the parent-chlld
been kept up for centuries. relationship IS God-made and natural. A deliberate
But things are changing fast. The parents are Violation of the Spirit of thiS relationship by either Side
complaining that their children do not respect them will spell disaster. The chances are more that the
or obey them ... The children are lamenting the lack of Violation comes from the Side of children. The children
understanding on the part of their parents. should realize that nature Will pay them back In their
It has therefore become extremely necessary to own coin when they In turn become parents! The law
coolly and carefully analyze this problem and find a of retribution does eXist In nature and IS Inexorable.
solution at the earliest.
IMITATION OF AFflUENT SOCIETIES
From thiS analYSIS some plain facts emerge:
(a) The parents demand respect and obedience Though affluence has brought many material
from their children, without commanding II. They do comforts, it has also wrought untold miseries for the
not command It since they often do not practise what affluent society. Material enjoyment has an optimum
they say. The young people have a very keen power limit beyond which It proves boring and even harmful.
of observation and note thiS lacuna Immediately. So It IS a well-known fact of economics that when the
they not only lose respect for their parents but also production In a factory exceeds the Optl mum level, It
come to the conclUSion that hypocriSY IS a matter of results in a loss!
course In this world! The same prinCiple holds good In the field of
(b) Bringing up children IS both a science and material enjoyment too.
an art. Strange as It may seem, many parents do not Once the basIC needs of the body are met and
know how to bring up their children and make them even enjoyment obtained, man does not know what to
useful members of the family and the society. The do with himself, unless he has a high Ideal before him
children Just grow up by themselves! so that he can channelize all his energies towards ItS