Life Cycle: You and The Family

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Child rearing
i Continue to learn about children. You and the Family
i Adjust financial plans and housing to meet
needs of children.
y Assume responsibility for school and com-
Life Cycle
munity betterment. ROBERTA C. FRASIER
i Become alert to particular needs of chil- Extension Family Life Specialist
dren at different ages.

Child launching
i Discard folklore about love and marriage;
gain insight and knowledge to help chil-
o NE WAY to look at yourself and your family
is through the concept of the family life cycle.
dren. The family life cycle denotes the stages a
i Enlarge child's vocational choice by learn- family goes through during its lifetime. Mod-
ing about new opportunities. ern day families have a life span of 50 to 60
/ Give emotional support to children as they years.
leave home for work, military service, Most families go through five stages: 1)
school, or marriage. family founding; 2) child bearing; 3) child
y Release children to live their own lives. rearing; 4) child launching; and 5) empty nest.
If you imagine your life in the family as an
Empty nest on-going cycle, it looks about like this. The cir-
y Adjust to life as a couple after years as cle represents a life span of about 50 years.
parents.
i Accept the reality of your life's accom- •"Family founding
plishments.
" Child bearing
y Learn about modern methods of child
rearing to improve skills as grandparents.
y Prepare for and adjust to retirement.
y Prepare for living alone.
-t-Child rearing

Information about various stages of the family life


cycle and developmental tasks for each stage is available
from your County Extension Office.
--Child launching
Empty nest
Extension Circular 709
Reprinted January 1963
Cooperative
F. E. Price,
Extension work in Agriculture and Home Economics,
director, Oregon State University, and the United States
Cooperative Extension Service
Department of Agriculture cooperating. Printed and distributed in
furtherance of Acts of Congress of May 8 and June 30, 1914. Oregon State University, Corvallis
The family life cycle begins with marriage For example, during the first two years a
and ends with the death of both partners. But, baby learns to speak in his parent's language,
a family never ends—it goes on through the to walk, to respond to "no" "no", to feed him-
generations. Each family sends out its satellites self—he learns many things. At each stage of
during the launching stage to insure its con- his development through the years he learns
tinuity. certain things and accomplishes certain tasks
The typical young couple starting marriage because his body has developed to the point
today can predict about a two-year interval be- where he can manage these activities and be-
fore the birth of the first child. The last baby cause his parents and others have certain ex-
will probably be born about six years after pectations.
marriage. This youngest child will be married The same concept of developmental tasks
shortly after the parent's 25th wedding anni- applies to families. At each stage, certain tasks
versary. More than half of the married years should be accomplished to enable the family to
will be spent after the children are grown and move ahead to the next stage.
away from home. The husband is likely to pre-
The birth of children moves a couple into
cede his wife in death, leaving the wife a widow the various stages. There is overlapping at
for approximately 16 years of the family cycle. each stage and the family is "moved along"
No two families will follow exactly the with the oldest child. Any one family may be
same pattern, but the concept of a family life in several stages at any one time.
cycle offers a helpful approach to managing
Outside forces—social and economic fac-
family resources.
tors—affect the family and its tasks at various
An understanding of the various stages and stages.
the approximate time couples can expect to
spend in each stage will help you and your
family develop your family spending and sav- Developmental Tasks
ing plan. This understanding is important in
planning your housing, recreation, insurance, at Different Stages
and other resources. It influences your home
management and all your planning for the 1. Family founding
future. ■r Establish a home.
Each stage has its beginnings in the stages i Become emotionally dependent on one an-
which have gone before and its fulfillment in other ; emotionally independent of parents.
the future. Wherever an individual is at the i Work out ways of handling differences.
moment, he has his roots in the past and is i Learn homemaking skills.
moving toward the next stage of life. 2. Child bearing
At each stage of development, families i Learn about pregnancy, childbirth, and
have certain tasks to accomplish. The concept children.
of family developmental tasks can be under-
stood by comparing them to developmental i Gain understanding of new husband-wife
tasks of individuals. Each child goes through relationship.
various stages, depending on his age and what i Develop philosophy of child rearing.
is expected of him. At each stage a child has i Accept responsibilities of parenthood.
certain tasks to accomplish. ■r Understand the role of grandparents.
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Child rearing
i Continue to learn about children. You and the Family
i Adjust financial plans and housing to meet
needs of children.
y Assume responsibility for school and com-
Life Cycle
munity betterment. ROBERTA C. FRASIER
i Become alert to particular needs of chil- Extension Family Life Specialist
dren at different ages.

Child launching
i Discard folklore about love and marriage;
gain insight and knowledge to help chil-
o NE WAY to look at yourself and your family
is through the concept of the family life cycle.
dren. The family life cycle denotes the stages a
i Enlarge child's vocational choice by learn- family goes through during its lifetime. Mod-
ing about new opportunities. ern day families have a life span of 50 to 60
/ Give emotional support to children as they years.
leave home for work, military service, Most families go through five stages: 1)
school, or marriage. family founding; 2) child bearing; 3) child
y Release children to live their own lives. rearing; 4) child launching; and 5) empty nest.
If you imagine your life in the family as an
Empty nest on-going cycle, it looks about like this. The cir-
y Adjust to life as a couple after years as cle represents a life span of about 50 years.
parents.
i Accept the reality of your life's accom- •"Family founding
plishments.
" Child bearing
y Learn about modern methods of child
rearing to improve skills as grandparents.
y Prepare for and adjust to retirement.
y Prepare for living alone.
-t-Child rearing

Information about various stages of the family life


cycle and developmental tasks for each stage is available
from your County Extension Office.
--Child launching
Empty nest
Extension Circular 709
Reprinted January 1963
Cooperative
F. E. Price,
Extension work in Agriculture and Home Economics,
director, Oregon State University, and the United States
Cooperative Extension Service
Department of Agriculture cooperating. Printed and distributed in
furtherance of Acts of Congress of May 8 and June 30, 1914. Oregon State University, Corvallis

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