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Boys Do (N'T) Cry Addressing The Unmet Mental
Boys Do (N'T) Cry Addressing The Unmet Mental
The Problem acterized him as being lazy. Teachers knew among all youth racial and ethnic groups.
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he was capable, but generally thought De- This finding is surprising because suicide
eShawn, a ninth-grade 14-year-
Shawn failed to apply himself. With his has traditionally been considered a White
old African American boy, was
academic failures mounting and with the phenomenon. African Americans were
burdened by a host of challenges
prospect of having a “successful” future thought not to engage in the behavior. In
in his life. His mother and father divorced
seeming more elusive, DeShawn considered fact, for all other demographic groups—that
when he was 10 years old. DeShawn never
whether he might be better off dead. These is, those more than 11 years old—Whites
seemed to recover from the separation of his
parents, and it did not help that his father thoughts became more prominent every time have higher rates of committing suicide than
had been largely absent from his life since he heard, “DeShawn, why are you so lazy?” African Americans. The Bridge study, how-
the separation and divorce. DeShawn strug- or “DeShawn, you could do so much better ever, sheds new light: African American
gled to get over the pain. He yearned for his if only you applied yourself.” boys ages 5 to 11 are the only age group
father’s attention and love. DeShawn’s cir- One day, DeShawn took a loaded gun, where the rates of suicide among African
cle of friends was largely supportive, but held the tip of the gun under his chin, and Americans are actually higher. Suicide is
they were not always involved in positive pulled the trigger. DeShawn finally took horrible for any age or racial or ethnic
activities. His grades had dipped in the last matters into his own hands and committed group, but to think that African American
year, going from Bs and Cs to Ds and Fs. suicide. Sadly, no one had ever engaged boys ages 5–11 have considered that life is
DeShawn often found his thoughts wander- DeShawn about his depression. DeShawn not worth living and are engaging in any
ing as he sat in class. He worried about his was too proud to admit his pain. He thought activities to end their lives is particularly
future, but somehow found it difficult to that it was not “manly” to let anyone know disturbing. We also know from available
express this worry to his mother or other about his pain. DeShawn was at risk for evidence that engagement in suicidal behav-
caring adults. DeShawn thought, They will committing suicide. Without knowing it, he iors has increased by triple digits among
never understand. He wished that he could had been exhibiting warning signs. He was African American adolescent boys over the
talk to his father about these things, but his talking, but no one listened. last 20 years, making suicidal behavior
efforts to reach out were met with one dis- The sad reality is that DeShawn’s story is largely a male phenomenon among African
appointment after another. DeShawn lost in- not an isolated incident. Many African American adolescents. Indeed, the circum-
terest in most activities, including sports, American adolescent boys have serious stances that African American boys endure
and spent most of his time playing video problems connecting to mental health treat- are great, especially those living in poor,
games with his friends and smoking mari- ment to address their depression and other underserved, or neglected communities.
juana. The weed took his mind off his wan- precursor issues leading to suicidal behav- If African American boys are contemplat-
dering thoughts. ior. According to the Centers for Disease ing taking their lives at early ages, the hope
Not having the energy to do simple chores Control and Prevention, from 1980 to 1995, for future generations is challenging at best.
around the house, DeShawn’s mother char- suicide rates increased 233% for African What is going on in African American com-
American youth ages 10 –14 compared to munities that there is a lack of safe spaces
120% among White adolescents in the same for boys to express their emotions and to
age group across the same span of time. A share their travails with supportive networks
Michael A. Lindsey, Silver School of Social more recent study further points to a disturb- in lieu of ending their lives? The situation of
Work, New York University; Danica R. Brown, ing trend regarding the incidence of suicide African American boys (ages 5–11) com-
Department of Sociology-City, Culture, and Com- among African American youth. A 2015 mitting suicide at higher levels—more than
munity, Tulane University; Michael Cunningham, study by Jeffrey Bridge and colleagues any other group—and the recent studies re-
Department of Psychology, Tulane University.
found that the rates of suicide among Black garding the rising rates of suicide among
Correspondence concerning this article should
be addressed to Michael A. Lindsey, Silver youth, particularly those transitioning to ad- African American adolescent boys (12 and
School of Social Work, New York University, 1 olescence (ages 10 –11), doubled between older) call for greater reflection and more
Washington Square North, New York, NY 10003- 1993 and 2012. The resulting rate, after dou- discourse around the mental health chal-
6654. E-mail: michael.lindsey@nyu.edu bling, represented the highest suicide rate lenges faced by this group. We must identify
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the emotional and psychological reasons African American community sheds light on iors. Important others—for example, fami-
that underlie suicidal behaviors for African untreated depression as the likely culprit un- lies, friends, teachers, and other caring
American boys and work to provide imme- derlying the increased suicide rates among adults—are key to the surveillance of symp-
diate intervention. Families, educators, and Black boys. It illustrates the need for inter- toms and help determine how and when
community workers play key roles in iden- ventions specifically designed to increase depressed youth need treatment. These key
network members, however, may miss the
warning signs.
Gendered Socialization:
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tifying signs of mental health challenges better access to care among African Amer- “Boys Don’t Cry”
such as depression and connecting African ican boys (for example, stigma reduction
American boys to mental health care ser- interventions). Many ill-conceived notions of what it
vices. In this article, we discuss specific Depression in adolescent males may also means to be a man prevail in our society. In
ways to better support boys who exhibit be misdiagnosed. Traditional characteristics fact, there have even been many discussions
early signs of depression and suicidal associated with mental health challenges regarding the gender binary of “boy behav-
behavior. may not be the same in African American iors” versus “girl behaviors.” Notwithstand-
males. In fact, antisocial behaviors and atti- ing these important discussions, the fact re-
tudes may be a “mask” for depressive symp- mains that we overwhelmingly socialize
Untreated Depression and toms. The extant literature highlights gender boys differently than girls in the United States
African American Youth differences in mental health challenges. Fe- (and in many other parts of the world). Par-
males typically use internalizing behaviors ents, other family members, peers, and even
Untreated depression is a prominent pre-
when dealing with depressive symptoms. coaches tell boys at a very early age that it is
cursor to suicide, leading to a stark increase
Males tend to exhibit externalizing behav- not manly to cry or even to express emotions.
in the rates of suicide among African Amer-
iors (for example, expression of depression Man up, Fight it off, or Be tough are all pop-
ican youth. Large-scale studies indicate that
symptoms as anger or aggression). Thus, ular refrains we relate to boys. Descriptions of
only about a third of youth who need mental
mental health professionals and school per- young males as “young men” add to the con-
health treatment actually receive it. Al-
sonnel may misinterpret antisocial behaviors fusion many adolescent males have about their
though the overall prevalence rate for men-
tal disorders is typically higher for White as conduct problems and not as signs of male identity. Applying adult labels to young
youth, the chronicity and burden associated depressive symptoms. This point is espe- males robs them of their childhood. Young
with mental illness are worse for African cially salient for African American adoles- males need supportive environments in which
Americans. In fact, African American cent boys. They are referred for conduct to experiment with notions of boyhood and
youth, relative to their White counterparts, problems more than any of their peers. manhood without having the adult label placed
are less likely to receive care. This finding is The school context is not the only place on them before they are ready, developmen-
especially true for mood disorders such as where African American males’ behaviors tally, to handle the responsibility and, in many
depression. may be misinterpreted. Many caregivers and instances, the challenges that come with the
Depression can develop from exposure to other adults who come in frequent contact label of being African American and a man.
risks in the home, school, or community. with youth may not realize that depression Boys carry these confusing messages
Difficulty in coping with these stressors can symptoms can manifest differently for into adulthood. Many do not have oppor-
lead to feelings of hopelessness, worthless- youth. Persistent sadness, sense of feelings tunities to have discussions about what are
ness, and even suicidal thoughts. For in- of worthlessness, hopelessness, aggression, developmentally and contextually appro-
stance, research has shown that substance anger, sleep disturbance (insomnia or hyper- priate behaviors and what are not, which
abuse or physical and emotional abuse in the somnia), and social withdrawal are all signs extends to decisions about their health be-
home place youth at greater risk for depres- that a child may be depressed. Irritability, haviors. The lower health-seeking behav-
sion and suicide. According to the 2004 – however, may be a more nuanced feature of iors for African American males can be, in
2013 National Survey on Drug Use and depression for youth versus adults. For ex- part, attributed to these earlier messages.
Health, African American children and ad- ample, a child who is experiencing depres- For example, studies show that African
olescents are consistently less likely than sion may stay in bed all day wishing to American males—relative to African
their White peers to receive treatment for avoid social interaction. Lack of attunement American females, White males and fe-
depression. Moreover, African American to these more nuanced symptoms, because males, and Latino/a males and females—
adolescents with major depression disorders they may be interpreted as being more be- suffer from more completely preventable
are 87% less likely to have ever received nign, may creep into a deeper level of de- diseases. They also face greater morbidity
mental health services relative to their White pression, which then leads to suicidal and premature mortality from these pre-
counterparts. This lack of treatment in the thoughts and engagement in suicidal behav- ventable and treatable conditions.
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Notions of masculinity even influence African American families also often de- to low pay as a reason for teachers leaving the
how men and boys with depression concep- lay mental health help seeking for their chil- profession. For good reason, then, externaliz-
tualize their problems, whether they will dren. African American youth share some ing behavioral problems warrant concern in
admit to being depressed, and whether they responsibility in this situation. In the same schools.
will seek treatment. Thus, any attempt to 2012 study by Lindsey and colleagues, the The problem, however, is that while much
attention is given to externalizing issues,
schools give less attention to internalizing be-
haviors (i.e., depression, anxiety). Addition-
Applying adult labels to young males robs them of ally, externalizing issues in males may be in-
their childhood dications of depressive symptoms and anxiety
behaviors. In fact, children with behavioral
problems receive higher rates of referral to
school mental health services than youth with
understand and redress the matter of suicidal researchers found that African American ad-
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Although the data provide evidence of sex have positive influences on African Amer- parents from being “emotionally there” for
differences in the rates of disciplinary ac- ican males when they provide them with their children. When parents do not respond
tions, with African American males as one social support and have high expectations with care and concern to the developmental
of the most reported groups, the corrective for student behaviors. For example, needs of their adolescent children, youth are
approaches do not fully address these sex Charles Corprew and Michael Cunning- left to figure out their problems themselves.
The result could be a sense of hopelessness
and could lead to depression and suicide
among African American boys. Teachers,
African American males are 3 times more likely to parents, and other family members need to
be suspended than their White male counterparts be aware of the role that they play in the
emotional development of African Ameri-
can boys.
Families and educators play a critical role
differences. Instead, expectations for Afri- ham demonstrated that support from
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ity to distinguish behaviors from one an- culturally and developmentally appropriate sion is key. Many of the concerns that Af-
other makes them prime to be trained on and geared toward the specific needs of the rican American caregivers have about
what depression looks like, how it mani- students. Third, staff must cultivate a safe services not being helpful are based in their
fests, and the course it might take. Second, space for students to discuss the content of lack of understanding of those services and
given the time teachers spend with youth, the program if they so desire. Fourth, staff related treatment processes. Lack of under-
standing leads to fear. Psychological con-
cepts like the limited sick role can help
families become more aware—and thus sen-
Families can buffer the extent to which negative peer sitive—to depression symptoms exhibited
sentiments impact help-seeking behaviors by their children. This concept suggests that
depressed youth should be given the idea
that depression is just like having any other
illness in that it affects day-to-day function-
they are likely to be the early identifiers of members must secure a listing of mental
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Bring Interventions Into the Lindsey, M. A., Barksdale, C., Lambert, S. F., & Ialongo, N. (2010). Social network influences on
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Real World service use among urban, African American youth with mental health problems. Journal of
Adolescent Health, 47, 367–373.
Increasingly and across a range of diag- Lindsey, M. A., Brandt, N. E., Becker, K. D., Lee, B., Barth, R., Daleiden, E. L., & Chorpita, B. F.
noses, we know the treatments and interven-
(2014). Identifying the common elements of treatment engagement in child mental health
tions that are efficacious. We know less
services. Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review, 17, 283–298.
about effective, or generalizable, treatments
Lindsey, M. A., Chambers, K., Pohle, C., Beall, P., & Lucksted, A. (2012). Understanding the
and interventions that are applicable to di-
behavioral determinants of mental health service use by urban, underresourced Black youth:
verse populations and settings. To meet the
Adolescent and caregiver perspectives. Journal of Child and Family Studies, 22, 107–121.
needs of African American boys who are
depressed or exhibiting suicidal behaviors, Lindsey, M. A., Joe, S., Muroff, J., & Ford, B. E. (2010). Social and clinical factors associated with
we need to meet them where they are—that psychiatric emergency service use and civil commitment among African American youth.
is, schools, afterschool programs, recreation General Hospital Psychiatry, 32, 300 –309. http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.genhosppsych.2010.01
centers, and churches—with interventions .007
that we know will work. Professionals also Lindsey, M. A., Joe, S., & Nebbitt, V. E. (2010). Family matters: The role of social support and
need to understand the social experiences mental health stigma on depressive symptoms and subsequent help-seeking among African
African American males have within their American boys. Journal of Black Psychology, 36, 458 – 482.
respective communities that expose them to Lui, X. S., & Meyer, J. P. (2005). Teachers’ perceptions of their jobs: A multilevel analysis of the
challenging situations such as exposure to Teacher Follow-Up Survey for 1994-95. Teachers College Record, 107, 985–1003.
community violence and chronic negative U.S. Department of Education. (2014). Guiding principles: A resource for improving school climate
events. Research by Cunningham and col- and discipline. Washington, DC: Author.
leagues has indicated that the challenging
experiences that African American males
have within their communities have long- which is why partnerships among settings
term effects on their antisocial attitudes. are optimal. Tackling the disparaging unmet mental
These challenging experiences outweigh health needs that exist demands that
challenges they may have within their schools, as the largest provider of mental
homes and schools. Thus, partnerships Conclusion health services to youth, be more proac-
among families, schools, and community- tive as change agents in educating teach-
based organizations are needed. The current rate of diagnosis and treat- ers, students, and parents on the signs of
The challenges of addressing the mental ment of mental disorders among African mental health disorders (i.e., depression or
health needs of African American males American youth poses a significant problem anxiety) and in taking immediate action to
have not been fully implemented in com- not only in the lives of this population but refer students for care. Early detection and
munity settings. In fact, too few of these also in the future of our nation as a whole. intervention can lead to better academic,
interventions have been implemented in With racial or ethnic minorities projected to behavioral, social, and emotional out-
communities, and when they are, too few make up the majority (64%) of the U.S. comes for African American boys and can
African American youth are partici- adolescent population by 2060, serious mea- lessen the chances of suicidal ideation tak-
pating in them. To be fair, communities sures must be taken to address the mental ing place.
can be complex in terms of being ideal to health needs of vulnerable populations such At school, African American boys need
host evidence-based interventions. Urban as African American boys and adolescents. a space to express how they feel on a
schools, for example, face high staff turn- The heightened rates of suicide among Af- consistent basis, not just when conflict
over and too few resources to support the rican American male youth call for action arises. This will help African American
implementation of such interventions in among all stakeholders, especially educa- boys and school officials recognize the
the ways they were designed. These real- tors, parents, and community-based profes- early signs of depression before it esca-
ities, however, should not be daunting in sionals who have the most frequent access to lates to suicidal thoughts. Programs in
our efforts to reach those most in need, and interaction with youth. schools and in the community should be
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designed to serve the developmental needs youth to feel a sense of belonging within of mental disorders need to meet problems
of children. For example, faith-based or- those groups. In doing so, young males where they are—in communities with prox-
ganizations, through youth ministries, can express their frustrations and receive imity to those most in need. We must take
should establish caring relationships that support and guidance to help them under- these next steps in the change process be-
allow African American boys and adoles- stand their daily experiences. cause African American boys are suffering
cents to speak out on issues that matter to The suggestions offered do not come at increased rates and should not be left to
them. These spaces should be a safe place without significant challenges. Years of cope with depression, suicidal thoughts, and
for males to discuss the challenges they stigma and negative beliefs among many other mental illnesses on their own. African
encounter by virtue of being African African Americans suffering from a mental American boys are crying for help. Are we
American and male in the United States. It illness show that perceptual barriers to for- listening?
is not just important to be a part of a group mal treatment will not be eradicated over- Keywords: African American boys; suicide;
or to have relationships—it is also vital for night. Resources for diagnosis and treatment depression; treatment
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