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Chapter II
Chapter II
This chapter presents the literature and studies which are found to have a direct
Interpersonal Relationship
ability to build rapport with individuals having similar interests and goals as they do. In a
workplace, interpersonal relationship skills allow us to share a special bond with our co-
workers such that trust and positive feelings for one another are maintained.
individuals spending, on average, seven to eight hours of their day at work, it is irrational
to believe they can work all by themselves. So we all ought to have healthy interpersonal
the job as well as career success of individual employees. Following are some of the tips
that can help you improve you interpersonal relationship skills and achieve the ultimate
success you desire: Interact with your colleagues or subordinates more often. Greet your
colleagues every day you see them even if they are from a different team. Also, provide
an open platform for everyone to discuss any issue at hand and encourage honest
feedback. Hiding things from a co-worker or ignoring him may spoil your relationship
with him. Arrange picnics as well as off-site meetings for team members. Meeting outside
the office, in an effort to change the ambience, gives team members a special opportunity
to open up to each other and build strong bonds of friendship over time. (Cleverism,
2021c)
According to Tarver (2021), Interpersonal skills are the behaviors and tactics a
person uses to interact with others effectively. In the business world, the term refers to an
communication and listening to attitude and deportment. Everyone has a personal style
and an interpersonal style, but some are more successful than others. While interpersonal
skills may be based in part on personality and instinct, they can also be developed.
Although interpersonal skills can be developed, they cannot be learned solely from a
textbook. They come naturally to some people, while others have to work at cultivating
them and this is often done through continuous interaction with other individuals.
In many organizations, Employees with strong interpersonal skills are valued for
their pleasant demeanor and positive, solution-oriented attitude. These employees are
seen as team players, who work well with others to achieve a goal. In more human terms,
everyone likes being around them, and that never hurts. (Tarver, 2021a)
customs, whether learned or acquired. People with the strongest interpersonal skills
adjust their tactics and communications on the fly depending on the reactions of others.
(Tarver, 2021b)
In addition, having poor interpersonal skills can be a detriment. Even if an
employee is able to do their work correctly and well, having poor interpersonal skills can
People want to work with individuals that they like and whose personality improves their
According to Schmitz (2016), all great leaders are assertive. They realize they
have a lot to offer and that they have a duty to lead. They are masters of interpersonal
assertion, or the ability to insist on one’s own rights without taking away the rights of
others. Great leaders use interpersonal assertion to stand up for what they think is right
Now that you know what it means to be assertive, it can probably think of at least
one person who uses an assertive communication style. They say the right thing at the
right time, they navigate stressful situations with ease and, most importantly, they don’t
allow others to take advantage of them. While this person you are thinking of might make
it look easy, the truth is that everyone has to work to become assertive. (Schmitz, 2016a)
As per Schmitz (2016b) point out that assertion is especially important in stressful
situations. That’s because pressure or stress usually brings out the worst in people.
Practicing the skills of assertion will enable you to use them in stressful situations.
all the company does is have its leaders speak at employees, it’s incredibly hard to
generate engagement. Instead, ask for employees to share their wins and experiences with
More often Solomon (2020) stated that employees are hungry for opportunities to
engage, ask questions and offer feedback on how we could improve. That said, they're
equally hungry, if not hungrier, to have their voices heard and their feedback actioned.
When rolling out engagement and communication plans, put equal focus on your plan to
the information exchanged when you have time together. Believe in having real talk with
the team members, honest feedback and coaching in the moment. (Tesa Aragones, 2020)
ongoing development. Feedback clarifies expectations, helps people learn from their
mistakes and builds confidence. Positive feedback is easy it’s not hard to find the right
words to tell someone they’ve done a good job, or congratulate them on meeting a sales
target. When things are going well it can be easy to become complacent about giving
praise but stopping and smelling the roses is important to build employee confidence and
difficult conversations or to try and soften the blow however the problem with doing this
is that the issue is not addressed, the problem compounds and eventually you find
yourself dealing with a much bigger problem. Constructive feedback is one of the best
things managers can provide to their employees. When delivered properly it can,
reinforce positive behavior, correct any negative performance and ensure a strong culture
remains in your team. Some managers, however, are reluctant to provide constructive
feedback, thinking that it may turn negative or be perceived as a harsh criticism by the
employee.
involving two or more people. It’s different from an intrapersonal conflict, which refers
to an internal conflict with you. Also, he explains that mild or severe, interpersonal
work or interact with someone who doesn’t share your opinions or goals, conflict can
result. Conflict isn’t always serious, though. Nor is it always negative. Learning how to
important skill that can help you have better relationships in your day-to-day life.
any type of conflict that involves two or more people. In the workplace, interpersonal
conflict in the workplace is defined as a person or group of people who interfere with
another person’s attempts at achieving goals or completing assignments. Resolving this
form of conflict in the workplace can help repair working relationships, boost morale and
employer and employee will eventually encounter. In an effort to mitigate the presence of
that can be found in the workplace and how to effectively address them. Analyzing
employee may offset the challenges that present themselves and contribute to these sorts
receives a raise while another doesn’t latter could feel animosity toward the other
employee as well as their supervisor if they feel they work harder at their job than the one
who received the raise. In this ego-related interpersonal conflict, the employee’s pride has
been affected and they could feel that their boss favors the other employee. It is possible
the employee’s jealousy or feelings of animosity have been building through the years
and that their sentiments could lead to spiteful action on their behalf. Under these
circumstances, it’s best to address the underlying issue in order to resolve any hurt
there are so many personality characteristics, leadership styles, job responsibilities and
ways in which people interact with one another, interpersonal conflicts will always be
According to Hargie (2011), there are four main categories for disclosure includes
observations, thoughts, feelings, and needs .Observations include what we have done and
experienced. For example, He could tell you that he live in a farmhouse in Illinois. If he
told you his relocation from the city to the country was a good decision, it would be
sharing his thoughts, because it included a judgment about his experiences. Sharing
the recipient of the disclosure reacts, and the original discloser processes the reaction.
How the receiver interprets and responds to the disclosure are key elements of the
process. Part of the response results from the receiver’s attribution of the cause of the
Let’s say your coworker discloses that she thinks the new boss got his promotion because
of favoritism instead of merit. You may make a dispositional attribution that connects the
cause of her disclosure to her personality by thinking, for example, that she is outgoing,
inappropriate for the workplace, or fishing for information. If the personality trait to
which you attribute the disclosure is positive, then your reaction to the disclosure is more
trusting and intimate relationship. Interpersonal reasons for not disclosing include fear of
losing the relationship or deeming the information irrelevant to the particular relationship.
Your decision to disclose an affair in order to be open with your partner and hopefully
work through the aftermath together or withhold that information out of fear he or she
will leave you is based on interpersonal reasons. When the cycle of disclosure ends up
going well for the discloser, there is likely to be a greater sense of relational intimacy and
self-worth, and there are also positive psychological effects such as reduced stress and
According to Stange (2021a), emotions can take a toll on our day. Some may
disengage from their work and some may miss work altogether. Our research shows some
addressing emotions at work. Burying emotions hurts engagement, but so does being in a
toxic environment. When the people around you are frequently and openly expressing
potential outcomes of negative emotions. Yet, they are more close-minded when it comes
filter. At the same time, it promotes positivity bias. Bottom line highly engaged
But it’s also possible that disengaged employees have a harder time coping with
mechanisms to handle stress at work. When left unchecked, employee emotions can have
a serious impact on the workplace. Make sure you understand each of these unique
emotions and strive to find the right balance of supporting and preventing them at work.
employees to acknowledge, feel, and express more positive emotions in the workplace.
(Stange, 2016c)