Attraction: This Activity aims to help you understand the meaning of attraction to the opposite sex

and how feeling are expressed when you are attracted to someone.

INSTRUCTION:

Answer the following questions:

• What traits or characteristic make you attracted to someone?

(Me) - The first thing that I'm attracted to someone is His eyes, second is His attitude, and third is
His kindness to everyone. I'm attracted to someone who have principles in life, smart, and also
who's matured enough to handle a relationship. The one who embrace my flaws and the one who
understands why I'm like this. And lastly I'm attracted to someone who's way older than me.

(My Partner) - The traits that I'm attracted with is for me smart but not nerd, but you know that
he's intelligent, have a good choice in perfume and honestly I am no longer looking for handsome,
the one who's clean to their body, the one who loves me truly and He's not embarrass when He's
with me, and He'll fight for me even I'm like this.

• How did you feel when you see someone you admire?

(Me) - I feel like my heart is fluttering and its feels like I have butterfly in my stomach and I'm shy
when I'm with him.

(My Partner) - When I see the person I like, I'm suddenly being a shy person even i don't like that,
it feels like there's something wrong with me, I'm concious to my face I ask someone if there's a dirt
to my face.

• How do you express your feelings about someone you admire?

(Me) - When I'm attracted to someone actually I never did express it, I'm not that kind of person
who's desperate to have his attention, I just like them and that's enough for me, I don't express on
how I like him even through jokes I don't.

(My partner) - Actually I never did, but when I have the opportunity to express my feelings I would
tell him directly or through jokes.

• Choose a partner. Share your answer with your partner

Identify the similarities and differences of your answer using the following table.
 Feelings When you see someone you
admire.
Similarities We suddenly being a shy person
even though we didn't like that kind
of person.
Differences I don't care if I have dirt or I look
like ugly. My partner say that He's
been concious to His face.
Way of expressing feelings with
someone you admire
We never did.
I still don't express it even though
there's opportunity. He express it
through jokes.