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For good or bad, we are all bound to our families. We are born interest within the family was the mother’s influence on the
into them, work our way toward adulthood in them, start our child’s development.
own as adults, and continue to be bound to them in old age. The nuclear family typically consists of father, mother,
We are part of our families, and they are part of us. James and at least one child. Even a simple man, woman, and infant
Garbarino (1992) has gone so far as to call the family the “basic “system” can be complex. An infant interacting with her mother
unit of human experience” (p. 7). is already involved in a process of reciprocal influence: The
This chapter examines the family and its central roles in baby’s smile is greeted by a smile from Mom, and Mom’s smile
human development throughout the life span. How has the is reciprocated by the infant’s grin. However, the presence of
family changed in recent years? How do infants, children, and both parents means that we must consider husband–wife,
adolescents experience family life, and how are they affected mother–infant, and father–infant relationships (Belsky, 1981).
by their relationships with parents and siblings? How is adult Every individual and every relationship within the family af-
development affected by such family transitions as marrying, fects every other individual and relationship through reciprocal
becoming a parent, watching children leave the nest, and be- influence.
coming a grandparent? Finally, what are the implications of Now think about how complex the family system becomes
the diversity that characterizes today’s family lifestyles—and of if we add another child (or two or six) to it. We must then un-
such decisions as remaining childless or divorcing? derstand the husband–wife relationship, the relationships be-
tween each parent and each of their children, and the relation-
ships between siblings. The family now becomes a system with
subsystems—in this case the marital, parent–child, and sibling
15.1 Understanding the Family subsystems (Parke & Buriel, 2006). In addition, researchers
have begun to focus on another subsystem, coparenting, the
The family is a system—and a system within other systems. It is
ways in which the two parents coordinate their parenting and
also a changing system—and a changing system in a changing
function well (or poorly) as a team in relation to their children
world.
(J. McHale et al., 2002; Parke & Buriel, 2006). Do they talk to
each other about the children, are they consistent in the rules
they set, do they back one another up—or do they contradict
The Family as a System within Systems one another, compete for their children’s affection, and under-
Debate rages in the United States today about whether the mine each other’s parenting? Mutually supportive coparenting
marriage that forms the basis of a family must be between hus- can make a big difference in development, beyond the impact
band and wife or can be between two men or two women. This of a close marital relationship.
illustrates that it may not be possible to define family in a way Now consider the complexity of an extended family
that applies across all cultures and eras; many forms of family household, in which parents and their children live with other
life have worked and continue to work for humans (Coontz, kin—some combination of grandparents, siblings, aunts, un-
2000a; Leeder, 2004). However we define it, proponents of cles, nieces, and nephews. Extended family households are
family systems theory conceptualize a family as a system. This common in many cultures of the world (Ruggles, 1994), and
means that the family, like the human body, is truly a whole humans may have evolved to involve the whole “village,” or at
consisting of interrelated parts, each of which affects and is af- least many members of the extended family, rather than just
fected by every other part, and each of which contributes to the the mother and father in raising children (Hrdy, 2005). In the
functioning of the whole (Bornstein & Sawyer, 2006; Parke & United States, African Americans, Hispanic Americans, and
Buriel, 2006). Moreover, the family is a dynamic system—a other ethnic minorities tend to place more emphasis on ex-
self-organizing system that adapts itself to changes in its mem- tended family bonds than European Americans do (Parke &
bers and to changes in its environment (Maccoby, 2007). In Buriel, 2006). For example, economically disadvantaged
the past, developmentalists did not adopt this family systems single mothers can obtain needed help with child care and
perspective. They typically focused almost entirely on the social support by living with their mothers (Burton, 1990;
mother–child relationship, assuming that the only process of Oberlander, Black, & Starr, 2007). Even when members of the
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12 India (5)
Chao (1994, 2000), for example, was puzzled than in countries where Kenya (6)
by findings suggesting that Asian students it was widely used by
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do no better in school when their parents use mothers and perceived
an authoritative style of parenting than when as normal by parents and
they use an authoritarian style, even though children. The graph shows 4
the authoritative style is associated with higher the effects of frequent or
achievement in other ethnic groups (Steinberg, infrequent use of physical 0
Dornbusch, & Brown, 1992). Chao’s analysis punishment in relation to Infrequent Frequent
children’s average scores Use of physical discipline
led her to conclude that what Chinese parents
do is not well described by the Western con- on an aggressive behavior
cept of authoritarian parenting. These parents checklist in each of the Frequent use of physical discipline is more strongly linked
offer their children clear and specific guidelines six countries studied. In to high levels of aggression in children in cultures like
for behavior, believing that this is the best way Thailand, where physi- Thailand where the use of physical discipline is infrequent,
to express their love and train their children cal punishment is rarely than in cultures like Kenya where physical discipline is
properly. Although the style seems controlling used, there was a strong widely used and accepted as normal. Numbers in paren-
or authoritarian to European American eyes, relationship between being theses after the countries show their ranking based on how
Chinese parents and children view it as warm, physically punished and frequently mothers report using physical discipline (with 1
caring parenting and children respond well to it being aggressive, whereas being the country in which it is least normal and 6 being
as a result (see also Rothbaum & Trommsdorff, in Kenya, where physical the country in which it is most normal).
SOURCE: From J. E. Lansford, L. Chang, K. A. Dodge, P. S. Malone, P. Oburu, K.
2007). Similarly, the use of physical, coercive punishment is com- Palmerus, D. Bacchini, C. Pastorelli, A. S. Bombi, A. Zelli, S. Tapanya, N. Chaud-
discipline (short of abuse) is not as strongly monly used, children who hary, K. Deater-Deckard, B. Manke, & N. Quinn, Physical discipline and chil-
linked to aggression and antisocial behavior were physically punished dren’s adjustment: Cultural normativeness as a moderator, Child Development,
76, pp. 1234–1246 (Figure 6 top graph, p. 1242). Copyright © 2005 Blackwell
among African American youths as it is among frequently were not much Publishing. Reprinted with permission.
European Americans—probably because it is more aggressive than chil-
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Summing Up
❚ Parents who adopt an authoritative parenting style (as opposed
to an authoritarian, permissive, or neglectful one) generally in-
fluence their children’s development positively.
❚ Economic hardship undermines effective parenting because of
the negative effects of family stress and limited resources.
❚ Children, through transactional effects, help influence where
their parents fall on the acceptance and demandingness dimen-
sions of parenting.
❚ Adjusting to a little sister or brother can be difficult. Involving
both closeness and rivalry, sibling relationships provide emo-
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Critical Thinking
In many societies, older siblings are major caregivers for young 1. Alison, a 16-year-old teenager who was drunk at the time, plowed
children. the family car into a Dairy Queen and is being held at the po-
lice station for driving under the influence. Her father must pick
her up. What would you expect an authoritarian, authoritative,
permissive, and neglectful father to say and do in this situation?
dren as young as 5 years are involved in meaningful ways in the What implications might these contrasting approaches to par-
care of infants and toddlers (Rogoff, 2003). enting have for this young women’s development?
Older siblings also serve as teachers. One 5-year-old was
2. How might a believer in the parent effects model, the child
aware of how much her 2-year-old sister acquired from her effects model, and the transactional model explain a relation-
through observational learning: “See. I said, ‘Bye, I’m going on ship between a mother’s warmth toward a child and the child’s
the slide,’ and she said, ‘Bye.’ She says whatever I say.” Although sociability?
older brothers and sisters are not always as skilled in teaching as
parents are (Perez-Granados & Callanan, 1997), they clearly
feel a special responsibility to teach, and younger siblings ac-
tively seek their guidance on any number of things.
Finally, siblings provide social experience. Although hav-
ing a large number of siblings has negative implications for 15.4 The Adolescent
cognitive development, most likely because each child receives
less intellectual stimulation from adults, having at least one sib- When you picture the typical relationship between a teenager
ling to interact with has positive effects on a child’s social cog- and her parents, do you envision a teenager who is out all the
nitive development and social skills (Dunn, 2007; S. McHale, time with friends, resents every rule and restriction, and talks
Kim, & Whiteman, 2006; and see Chapter 13). In their inter- back at every opportunity? Do you imagine parents wringing
actions with siblings, especially all those skirmishes, children their hands in despair and wondering if they will survive their
learn how to take others’ perspectives, read others’ minds, ex- children’s adolescent years? Many people believe that the pe-
press their feelings, negotiate, and resolve conflicts. riod of the family life cycle during which parents have adoles-
Finally, note that an older sibling can affect a younger sib- cents in the house is a particularly stressful time, with close
ling not only directly but also through the indirect effects he parent–child relationships deteriorating into bitter tugs-of-war.
has on parents. Gene Brody (2003, 2004) has discovered that, How much truth is there to these characterizations?
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Critical Thinking
1. At age 13, Miki moved from Japan to the United States with her
family and now finds her relationship with her parents strained.
Drawing on the material in this section, how would you analyze
what is going on?
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From Nick Galifianakis, Don’t get discouraged. Developmentally, all parents progress at a different
pace, for The Washington Post. Copyright © 2006 The Washington Post Writers Group. Reprinted
a second child is born (Dunn, 2007). However, the mother
who is raising multiple children as a single parent or the mother
whose partner is not very involved may find herself without a
moment’s rest as she tries to keep up with two or more active,
curious, mobile, and dependent youngsters.
Additional challenges sometimes arise for parents when
their children enter adolescence. As you saw earlier, parent–
child conflicts become more frequent for a while as children
enter adolescence. In addition, there is intriguing evidence
that living with adolescents who are becoming physically and
sexually mature and beginning to date may cause parents to
engage in more than the usual amount of midlife questioning
about what they have done with their lives and what they can
expect next (Silverberg & Steinberg, 1990). Middle-aged par-
ents are clearly affected by how well their children are doing
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Caring for Aging Parents. Elaine Brody (1985, 2004) uses the
term middle generation squeeze (others call it the sandwich
generation phenomenon) to describe the situation of middle-
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In many Asian societies, daughters-in-law are the first
choice. Aging parents are often taken in by a son, usually the
oldest, and cared for by his wife (Youn et al., 1999). In our so-
ciety, where most aging parents do not want to have to live with
their children, much elder care is provided from a distance Caring for an ailing parent can result in middle generation
(Bengtson et al., 1996). Either way, families are the major pro- squeeze and caregiving burden.
viders of care for the frail elderly today. We see little support
here for the view that today’s families have abandoned their
elders or that adult children have failed to meet their filial re-
sponsibility, a child’s obligation to his parents (E. Brody, 2004; ters helped their aging mothers out of love (“I feel lonely when
Conner, 2000). I don’t see my mother often”) or out of a sense of duty (“I feel
Middle-aged adults who must foster their children’s (and that I should do my part in helping”). Both daughters who were
possibly their grandchildren’s) development while tending to highly motivated to help based on a strong attachment to their
their own development and caring for aging parents sometimes mothers and daughters who were motivated by a sense of obli-
find their situation overwhelming. They may experience care- gation spent more time helping than women whose motiva-
giver burden—psychological distress associated with the de- tions to help were weaker. However, those who helped out of
mands of providing care for someone with physical or cognitive love experienced helping as less stressful and burdensome
impairments. Although caring for an aging parent can be re- than those who helped mainly out of a sense of duty (see also
warding, many adult children providing such care experience Lyonette & Yardley, 2003).
emotional, physical, and financial strains (Hebert & Schulz, So, the caregivers most likely to experience psychological
2006; Pinquart & Sorensen, 2006). A woman who is almost distress are those who must care for parents or spouses with
wholly responsible for a dependent elder may feel angry and behavioral problems, who lack coping skills and social support,
resentful because she has no time for herself. She may experi- and whose assistance is not motivated by love. Interventions
ence role conflict between her caregiver role and her roles as such as behavior management training, anger management
wife, mother, and employee that undermines her sense of well- training, and cognitive-behavioral therapy can help them
being (Stephens et al., 2001). She is at risk for depression. sharpen their caregiving skills, learn to react less negatively to
Caregiver burden is likely to be perceived as especially the difficult behavior often shown by elderly adults with de-
weighty if the elderly parent engages in the disruptive and so- mentia, and cope with the stress associated with their role
cially inappropriate behaviors often shown by people with de- (Gallagher-Thompson & Coon, 2007; Hebert & Schulz, 2006).
mentia (Gaugler et al., 2000; Pinquart & Sorensen, 2003). The
caregiver’s personality also makes a difference; caregivers who
lack a sense of mastery or control may have difficulty coping Summing Up
(Li, Seltzer, & Greenberg, 1999). Cultural factors also enter in:
for example, white caregivers devote fewer hours but feel more ❚ Marital satisfaction declines soon after the honeymoon period
burdened than do African American caregivers, possibly be- and again in response to new parenthood—a rewarding but also
cause of differences in feelings of filial responsibility (Kosberg stressful transition especially if the baby is difficult, the parent is
et al., 2007). Finally, the strain is likely to be worse if a caregiv- ill equipped to cope, and social support is lacking.
ing daughter is unmarried and, therefore, does not have a hus- ❚ The empty nest transition is generally smooth, and middle-
band to lean on for practical and emotional support (E. Brody aged adults enjoy playing a companionate grandparental role.
et al., 1992); if her marriage is an unsupportive one; or if her Women are especially affected by family life cycle transitions.
family life is otherwise conflict ridden (Scharlach, Li, & Dalvi, ❚ Family relationships evolve. Marital satisfaction is more strongly
2006). influenced by personalities than by stage of family life but tends
Do the caregiver’s motivations matter? In an interesting to drop until the nest empties. Adult siblings continue to be both
attempt to find out, Cicirelli (1993) assessed whether daugh-
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couples report that their child has two equally involved parents
(Goldberg & Perry-Jenkins, 2007). Generally, gay and lesbian
relationships evolve through the same stages of development,
are satisfying or dissatisfying for the same reasons, and are typi-
Dual-career families work best when partners share the workload. cally as rewarding as those of married or cohabiting heterosexu-
als (Kurdek, 1995, 2006; Peplau & Fingerhut, 2007).
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entirely? for The Washington Post. Copyright © 2003, The Washington Post Writers Group. Reprinted
Nick Galifianakis, Interesting, what about that, Phil? How do you feel about becoming someone else
profile of the couples at highest risk for divorce. Generally, they
are young adults, in their 20s and 30s, who have been married
for an average of 7 years and often have young children. These
days, only about 70% of marriages make it to the 10-year mark
(Teachman, 2002). Couples are especially likely to divorce if
they married as teenagers, had a short courtship, conceived a
child before marrying, or are low in socioeconomic status—all
factors that might suggest an unreadiness for marriage and un-
usually high financial and psychological stress accompanying
new parenthood.
Contrary to the notion that today’s couples do not give
their marriages a chance to work, research suggests that most
divorcing couples experience a few years of marital distress and
conflict and often try separations before they make the final
decision to divorce (Kitson, 1992). They typically divorce be-
with permission.
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How do children fare when their custodial parent re- adolescents from complex reconstituted families blending chil-
marries? The first few years are a time of conflict and disrup- dren from more than one marriage, like children of divorce
tion as new family roles and relationships are ironed out living in single-families, are less well adjusted and show more
(Hetherington & Stanley-Hagan, 2000). Interviewed 20 years problems such as depression and antisocial behavior on
after their parents divorced, about one-third of the adults inter- average than adolescents from intact two-parent families
viewed in one study recalled the remarriage as more stressful (Hetherington, 2006). Children in reconstituted families in
than the divorce (Ahrons, 2007). The difficulties are likely to which all the children came from one parent fare much better.
be worse if both parents bring children to the family (or the Outcomes are also better if children develop positive relation-
couple has children of their own) than if only one parent does ships with their fathers—both their noncustodial biological fa-
(Hetherington, 2006). Girls are often so closely allied with thers and, even more importantly, their new stepfathers (King,
their mothers that they may resent either a stepfather compet- 2006). As Mavis Hetherington concludes, though, “It is family
ing for their mother’s attention or a stepmother attempting to process rather than family structure that is critical to the well-
play a substitute-mother role and can become sullen and hos- being of children” (p. 232); children and adolescents can thrive
tile. Although most children adapt and fare better with time, in any type of family if they receive good parenting.
returned one afternoon, hit her, and shot and killed both her
and her mother before turning his gun on himself (St. George,
2001, p. A21).
Child abuse is perhaps the most visible form of family vio-
lence. Every day, infants, children, and adolescents are burned,
bruised, beaten, starved, suffocated, sexually abused, or other-
wise mistreated by their caretakers (Miller & Knudsen, 2007).
Accurate statistics are hard to come by, but in 2005 almost
900,000 children in the United States were determined to be
victims of child maltreatment, a rate of about 12 of every 1000
children (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Child abuse occurs in all ethnic and racial groups.
2007). Of the 900,000 children, 63% were neglected, 17%
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concern in this situation. Instead, abused toddlers were likely to look at the ground and began vocalizing very strongly, “Cut it
become angry and attack the crying child, reacting to the distress of out! CUT IT OUT!,” each time saying it a little faster and
peers much as their abusive parents react to their distress (Main & louder. He patted her, but when she became disturbed by his
George, 1985, p. 410; see also Klimes-Dougan & Kistner, 1990): patting, he retreated, hissing at her and baring his teeth. He then
began patting her on the back again, his patting became beating,
and he continued beating her despite her screams.
Martin (an abused boy of 32 months) tried to take the hand of
the crying other child, and when she resisted, he slapped her on Remarkable as it may seem, many other neglected and
the arm with his open hand. He then turned away from her to abused children turn out fine. What distinguishes these chil-
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16.1 what makes development
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abnormal?
DSM-IV Diagnostic Criteria
Developmental Psychopathology
16.2 the infant
Autism
Depression
Psychopathology Depression
Nature and Nurture
Continuity and Discontinuity
16.4 the adolescent
Storm and Stress?
Eating Disorders
Depression and Suicidal Behavior
16.5 the adult
Depression
Aging and Dementia
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We do not all have as many problems as Peggy, but it is the DSM-IV Diagnostic Criteria
rare person who makes it through the life span without hav-
ing at least some difficulty adapting to the challenges of liv- Professionals who diagnose and treat psychological disorders
ing. Each phase of life poses unique challenges, and some of use the more specific diagnostic criteria in the Diagnostic and
us inevitably run into trouble mastering them. This chapter is Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, published in 1994 by
about psychopathology or psychological disorder—about the American Psychiatric Association (with an update, or text
some of the ways in which human development can go awry. revision, DSM-IV-TR, in 2000). The fourth edition of this
It is about how development influences psychopathology manual, known as DSM-IV, spells out defining features and
and how psychopathology influences development. By apply- symptoms for the range of psychological disorders. Because we
ing knowledge of life-span human development to the study will be looking closely at depression in this chapter, we will use
of psychological disorders, we understand them better. And it here as an example of how DSM-IV-TR defines disorders.
by learning more about abnormal patterns of development, Depression is a family of several affective or mood disorders,
we gain new perspectives on the forces that guide and some relatively mild and some severe. One of the most impor-
channel—or block and distort—human development more tant is major depressive disorder, defined in DSM-IV-TR as at
generally. least one episode of feeling profoundly depressed, sad, and
hopeless, and/or losing interest in and the ability to derive plea-
sure from almost all activities, for at least 2 weeks (American
Psychiatric Association, 2000). To qualify as having a major de-
16.1 What Makes Development pressive episode, the individual must experience at least five of
Abnormal? the following symptoms, including one of the first two, persis-
tently during a 2-week period:
Clinical psychologists, psychiatrists, and other mental health
1. Depressed mood (or irritable mood in children and ado-
professionals struggle to define the line between normal and
lescents) nearly every day
abnormal behavior and diagnose psychological disorders, often
2. Greatly decreased interest or pleasure in usual activities
using three broad criteria to do so:
3. Significant weight loss or weight gain (or in children, fail-
1. Statistical deviance. Does the person’s behavior fall ure to make expected weight gains)
outside the normal range of behavior? By this criterion, a mild 4. Insomnia or sleeping too much
case of the “blahs” or “blues” would not be diagnosed as clini- 5. Psychomotor agitation or sluggishness/slowing of behavior
cal depression because it is so statistically common, but a more 6. Fatigue and loss of energy
enduring, severe, and persistent case might be. 7. Feelings of worthlessness or extreme guilt
2. Maladaptiveness. Does the person’s behavior interfere 8. Decreased ability to concentrate or indecisiveness
with adaptation or pose a danger to self or others? Psychologi- 9. Recurring thoughts of death, suicidal ideas, or a suicide
cal disorders disrupt functioning and create problems for the attempt
individual, other people, or both.
By these criteria, a man suffering from major depression
3. Personal distress. Does the behavior cause personal an-
might, for example, feel extremely discouraged, no longer seem
guish or discomfort? Many psychological disorders involve
to care about his job or even about sexual relations with his wife,
personal suffering and are of concern for that reason alone.
lose weight or have difficulty sleeping, speak and move slowly as
Although these guidelines provide a start at defining ab- though lacking the energy to perform even the simplest actions,
normal behavior, they are vague. We must identify specific have trouble getting his work done, dwell on how guilty he feels
forms of statistical deviation, failures of adaptation, and per- about his many failings, and even begin to think he would be bet-
sonal distress. ter off dead. Major depressive disorder would not be diagnosed if