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Shame & Sexual Brokenness: Ssive-Role-In-Porn-Use
Shame & Sexual Brokenness: Ssive-Role-In-Porn-Use
BROKENNESS
by Jay Stringer (Abridged and adapted by Alan Gingery
from)
https://www.covenanteyes.com/2019/03/25/shames-ma
ssive-role-in-porn-use/
Facing Shame
Now that we’ve established that shame drives
(behaviors and attractions), how do we begin to reduce
its power? Believe it or not, the Discovery Channel’s
Shark Week holds a clue for how we can disarm and,
eventually, overcome our unwanted sexual behavior.
Disarming Shame
The core beliefs we hold about ourselves in our shame
(those toxic beliefs that we’re not worthy of love or
belonging) are not random. They are direct reflections
of the stories we’ve encountered in life.
For Reflection
1. What is your core shameful belief about
yourself?
2. What stories are connected to this belief?
3. Recall a time where being ashamed of yourself
drove you to (acting out sexually such as)
viewing pornography (sexting, hook ups, sexual
chats, etc.)
4. What sexual behavior or fantasy do you find the
most difficult to extend kindness to?