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Psych. Unit 4
Psych. Unit 4
BSED-English
PSYCHOLOGY 101- TTH (3:30-5:00 PM)
ACTIVITY III
This activity has two parts that try to compare how we look at ourselves against how people perceived
us depending on how we present ourselves to them. For the first part, list ten to fifteen (10-15) qualities
or things around the left circle representing you that you think defines who you are.
Quite/aloof
Reserved
Diligent
Procrastinator
Intelligent
Unconfident
Gloomy
Pessimistic
Thoughtful
Thoughtful
Trustworthy
Trustworthy
Talented
Flexible/adaptable
Goal-oriented
Empathetic
Self-reliant
Self-reliant
Serious
Boring
Creative
Inquisitive
Frugal
Average
Competitive
For the second part, go around and ask the people around you like family, your friends, or classmates to
write on the right circle things that they see you do or hear you say.
ANALYSIS
Compare what you wrote about your “self” to those written by other people. What aspects are similar
and which are not? What aspects are always true to you? What aspects are sometimes true or
circumstantial? What aspects do you think are not really part of your personality? Write your answers
below.
-The aspects that were similar are: quite/aloof/reserved, diligent, thoughtful, trustworthy, and self-
reliant. The aspects that were not similar are: average and intelligent, boring and creative,
procrastinator and diligent, and average and talented. The aspects that were always true to me are:
quite/aloof/reserved, thoughtful, trustworthy, self-reliant, competitive, empathetic, goal oriented
and, inquisitive. The aspects that are sometimes true or circumstantial are: gloomy, self-reliant,
procrastinator, serious, frugal, and intelligent.
Do a research and list (10) things to do in order to boost self-esteem of improve your self-concept. Cite
your source. Analyze which of those tips are more likely to backfire and make someone conceited or
narcissistic and revise them in order to make the statements both helpful to the individual as well as
society in general.
- The tip that is more likely to backfire and would make someone conceited or narcissistic
is the “Love yourself” tip. “Love Yourself” is the advice dished by many self-help books and easily
quoted on pretty Instagram pictures. It is a really good advice. However, it also has it cons. When
you love yourself too much, you tend to not care about other people’s impression of you—and
that is when they say it’s “attitude.” You also tend to lose many people in your life because you
don't allow anyone to talk against you. You are most likely to face problems with friends and
relatives because when you love yourself deeply, you don’t let yourself feel low.
To put it in the briefest manner, self love when done right is excellent for self-care, self-
awareness, and growth. Lack of it will ignite self-doubt, inferiority complex, self-image issues. Too
much of it may result in superiority complex, selfishness, self-centeredness. The right tip should
have been: “Love Yourself with boundaries or limitations.”
Source: https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/self-esteem/10-tips-to-boost-your-self-confidence/
JOURNAL #3
After doing this character/self-esteem assignment, I managed to learn a lot about myself that I
didn’t know was there. Most of those things are negative ones. After completing the negative/positive
part, I noticed that are my answers are very different than my friends’ answers. I noticed that when I
evaluated myself, I put more negative traits rather than positive ones, whereas my friends put more
positive traits than negative ones. I believe I tend to see the very negative traits about myself whereas
my friends tend to see more of the positive traits about me. This was definitely an eye opener because it
made me realize that I have a lot of things about myself to work on.
This unit made me realize that happiness and contentment come from within ourselves or in our
mindset. I can choose to love and care for myself and enjoy my own company. I can choose to have
more positive thoughts, to participate in activities I enjoy. I can choose to assert myself in a healthy way
with others – to say how I feel and what I need without becoming defensive or angry.
It doesn’t matter how I look or how old I am, or what has happened in my past. It doesn’t matter
how much education I have or how much money I earn or what my title is. These things do not give me
self-esteem, and do not have to control me for the rest of my life. I have as much worth as anyone else.
We all have different starting places, different obstacles to overcome. I am part of nature, part of God or
a Higher Power, part of this mysterious, miraculous universe, and by accepting all of me, the light and
the dark, and the same in others; I can come to find wholeness and peace within.