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Top 5 Secrets of A Beautiful Relationship
Top 5 Secrets of A Beautiful Relationship
Over time I discovered some principles that worked for me and I hope to help build a solid relationship
based on love and sincerity.
1. Be yourself
In a world where we are educated to be like the other, or compare to someone else, being yourself is one of
the greatest provocations we have in life. Do not change yourself just to make someone like you.
Compromises like this do not take place in a relationship. In my opinion that a relationship is long-lasting,
be it of friendship or love, the people involved must be themselves. So we realize the easiest if we are on
the same wavelength or not. Do not try to force yourself or lie that everything goes well when the reality is
actually different. We all can act or wear a mask for a period of time, some longer and some less, but in the
end, you will show your real you and you will not be able to pretend anymore, so why don t give a try to a
relation by being you from the start?
2. COMPARISON
Do not compare with anyone and compare no one with you. The best relationships are those in which
comparisons are not made, and each is happy to achieve the other. When the comparison occurs, the
jealousy also appears with its sense of superiority. Each is unique in its own way.
As they are past, how comfortable and wonderful is it to remember the past relationships?
The past does not take place in a relationship, we only live today. Stay at this time, just so you can fully
enjoy everything else you have to offer.
In romantic relationships, one of the partners (in my opinion, who is the weakest) is always trying to give
an uncertainty to the relationship. He actually defends himself from a possible failure. This uncertainty
creates the impression that it has control. Valuable relationships are those in which there are no such
games of mind. Both know who else is, they are themselves, and for this, they love each other.
5. Be aware that everything can end
Do not make an obsession with this, I know it does not sound beautiful, but I really believe that the best
relationships are those in which both people recognize and are embraced by the fact that everything can
end at some point. Thus the relationship can be based on sincerity, fairness, love, and will become more
and more profound every day.
Whether you agree or disagree with all of the above, I hope at least I have managed to give you a theme of
thinking. If you have other opinions, I invite you to comment below.