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The Sexual Self: Understanding
The Sexual Self: Understanding
The Sexual Self: Understanding
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LEARNING OBJECTIVES
In this module, you will be able to:
explain the nature, concept and meaning of sexual self -concept;
identify behavior towards understanding of one's sexuality; and
demonstrate understanding and acceptance of one's sexual
self-concept.
woman? What does it mean to be lesbian
What does it mean to be a man or
domain of sexuality
or gay? module, concepts that fall within the general
In this
are important concepts among
will be explored. Sex, gender and sexual orientations
of
our younger generations. The way we think,
feel and act are shapes by the kind
bisexuals
the meaning of sex, gender and sexual orientation, we
As we try to understand
adolescent
these concepts play a crucial role in Filipino
hope to gain awareness of how
in trying to understand their own
sexual self, and manage adjustment to their everyday
life.
been
defined
as
sex.
be
females
has
defined using:
YX)
C h r o m o s o m e s
(XX o r
1.
2 . G o n a d s ( o v a r i e s / t e s t e s )
(estrogens or
hormones
Gonadal
3.
androgens/testosterone)
organs (tallopian
accessory
Internal
4. deferens/seminal
vas
uterus o r
tubes,
Concepts in gender studies include gender identity, gender roles, and gender
anatomy.
stereotypes (Sayson
& Nisperos, 2015).
the other hand, refers to the intimate
While an individual's gender identity, on
flawless complexion,
added
breasts, long legs,
wOmen, with well-developed their
intersexuality 1S discovered. It
o r a man. When they fail to menstruate,
gnt fallopian tubes or
with no uterus,
1s soon discovered that their vagina ends blindly
or labia.
buried in the groin
upper vagina. Instead, a normal testes is
letter word needing four
that sex is "a three
Otimately, however, Holmes stressed
c e t e r Words to convey its true meaning-heal, give,
take, and love" (Rappler, 2015)
Gender ldentity
Gender identity is perceived as subjective and based on self-identification (Shively
& De Cecco, 1993 as cited in Social Psychology in the Philippine Context, 2013). It is
defined as a personal conception of oneself as male or female a blend of both or
neither-how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's
gender identity can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth. Gender
identity is often assumed to match one's biological sex. However, human experience
shows proof that one's biological sex may not always match one's psychological gender
(Golden, 2009).
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Gandang Hari Rustom Padilla's legal identity
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Understanding the Self
Aiza Seguerra spoke at length about his sexual
orientation in an interview on "Aquino and Abunda
Aspects of Sexuality
several researches today the aspects of sexuality. These
that focus on
There are
sexual desire, sexual agencies and
include the sexual pleasure, sexual satisfaction,
sexual self-concept. Below are the definitions of these terms.
movement of
satisfaction that arises from the
Sexual Pleasure. The emotional
reaches its
the act of procreation. This pleasure
those organs and secretions that aid
the emission of seed or in
m a n in the pleasure that accompanies
peak in a healthy
of some secretion from
women and youth below
the age of puberty in the diffusion
2017)
the sexual glands. (Trinity Communications,
fulfilled and satisfied with one's sexual life, may
Sexual Satisfaction. Feeling
and psychological/emotional
satisfaction (Higgins, Trussel1,
include both physical
Moore, & Davidson, 2010)
attention to sexual
state that generates increased
Sexual Desire. A motivational
arousal (Basson & Schultz, 2007).
stimuli, and variable subjective and physiologic
the way that accomplishes your goals.
ability to act in a
Sexual Agency. Agency is act
in an area of your life is to have the capacity to
(Madsen, 2014) To have agency "sexual
the results you want. In sexuality, when we say
in way that can produce
a
to
of skills, rights and abilities. According
agency," it is composed of complex group
Madsen (2014), sexual agency includes:
whether that means along the
define yourself sexually
-
The ability to
the spectrum that runs from
heterosexuality/homosexuality spectrum, along
asexual to highly interested in sex, or both.
Sexual Self-esteem
The sexual self-esteemis afeeling ofself-worth
Sex isn't in sexual situations, (Buzwell and Rosenthal,
everything and you
don't need to have sex to be 1996). Confidence in the capacity to experience
in a good relationship. Just one's sexuality has a sexual self-esteem (Aubrey
find someone who you love (2007). Sexual self-esteem tends to positively
and who loves you back. Sex evaluate one's own capacity to
engage in healthy
isn't something mandatory. sexual behaviors and to experience one's
Never think that it is sexuality in a
satisfying and enjoyable way. Sub
factors are defined as follows:
Sexual behavior perceptions of one's overall
sexuality, with whom have you actually
had sex? People express their sexual self
through their intimate It relationships.
very much linked to how people from romantic
for attachment, intimacy and love relationships and meet their needs
(APA, 2008). In males, associated
virility and an innate sexual drive that is with strength,
(Connell & Messerschmidt, 2005).
typically expressed in risky sexual behavior
Sexual conduct feelings of adequacy of
behavior in sexual
partner. Individuals who conduct themselves situations and with
hegemonic masculinities and femininitiesa set of sexually in a manner
consistent with
how "normal and real" men and women should characteristics that are ascribed to
act
Cevual (Connell, 2009),
attractiveness feelings of sexual
appearance and
are vol Sexually attracted? In the desirability, with whom
PhiliPpines, Ofreneo (2003),
emotional preference affirmed person sexually. sexual attraction and
open expressions of sexuality are seen as wanna have sex with someone
shameful for women who are not married, (or who won't give me the time of
at least not strongly committed), married and day unless he wants something
strongly committed women are expected to from me.
yield to their male partners' sexual desires,
becoming capable sexual counterparts who are able to satisfy their partners. High
levels of sexual anxiety within committed relationships is seen negatively, these
women are portrayed as "frigid"; as they are unable to perform what is an important
role for traditional females (sexually pleasing your male counterpart), this ultimately
undermines their femininity. Therefore, depending on the relationship context,
sexual anxiety (as a single, virtuous woman), or not (as a committed, capable female
partner) for women endorsing traditional sex roles and thus men and women may
receive different environmental (social) feedback regarding their sexual behaviors
and conduct, which in turn may influence their sexual self-concepts (Schippers, 2007;
Reid and Bing, 2000).
Sexual Self-exploration
Scientific studies are replete with data suggesting that most teenagers admit
that they are too young to engage in sexual intercourse. But between the compelling
nature of the sex urge and immense social pressure, many teenagers succumb,
oftentimes ruining their first sexual experience (sometimes causing collateral damage
to subsequent sexual experiences as wel) on account of their inexperience and the
But much of the urge to engage prematurely in sexual intercourse would perhaps
dissipate if young people were presented with the alternatives of erotic self-exploration
and masturbation.
Children, from as early as three or four years old, if left to their own devices,
will engage in sexual play-whether in the form of playing "house" or "doctor" or a
variation thereof. And provided that all the participants are approximately of the same
amounts to little than
inexperience, such curiosity-driven play usually
more
age and
"show-and-tell" and is not only generally harmless but, arguably healthy. Then, in the
year's immediately preceding puberty, the sexes tend to naturally separate, forming
same-gender alliances, often to the exclusion of the opposite gender. In the early
pubescent years, however, boys and girls rekindle their interests in each other-only
this time, it is not to play "Mommy and Daddy," it is to be Mommy and Daddy, even
intention. So it is at that juncture that
though parenthood may not be their specific
recreational or social.
Orgies. These are parties where people
Having multiple sex partners
engage in unrestrained intimacy with each
is an emerging trend
other. It happens with both strangers and
known people.