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Jonnah Walters

Mrs. Smith

ENG 113

7 Mar. 2021

Married life vs Single life

Social Norms and fairytales have us believing that marriage is fundamental and you need

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the big wedding, white picket fence, two kids, a dog, and a mortgage in order to truly live out

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your happily ever after. Many believe being married can be more fulfilling because of financial

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stability and security, being able to rely on a partner's help with finances, companionship, and all
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the lifestyle changes that come about when you say “I do.” Certainly some prefer to be coupled

up, nevertheless, there are others who find complete fulfillment in being single, living a life of
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solitude, relying solely on themselves for their happiness. Single men and women would rather
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yield the financial responsibilities solely rather than be accompanied by a companion, prioritize

their own career goals over opting to plan a future alongside someone, and reap the benefits of
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independence and freedom their single lifestyle freely brings.. It goes without saying that

although poles apart, single or married, both sides possess future plans, goals, and objectives
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with a desire to see each come to fruition. It's imperative you have a clear understanding of what
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you want out of life and the elements that bring you bliss. Separating ourselves from society's

pressure placed on locking in love can assist us in deliberating if we are prepared to execute the
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fundamentals of complete selflessness and sacrifice marriage demands of those choosing to walk

down the aisle.

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One of the most essential types of support in a union is financial support and security.

Marriage comes with several monetary benefits such as tax breaks, insurance rates, retirement,

and credit building opportunities. Although most people claim to marry for love and not financial

gain, modern research and studies have shown financial security is considered to be a

‘prerequisite’ for marriage. On the other hand, money can’t always buy one happiness. To

emphasise, financial stability in a marriage is a nice cushion to have, but it does not come

without risk. It comes as no surprise that if money is mismanaged, or one partner is engaging in

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risky spending without consulting their spouse first, or if someone within the marriage is secretly

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seeking ill-gotten gains, these problems will eventually lead to disruptions and disputes in the

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matomony. Money-related issues in marriages are frequently noted to be one of the main causes
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for divorce filings. Consequently, couples have to be in sync and keep constant communication

about each other's budget limits and spending habits. Meanwhile, someone unaccompanied by a
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partner has the gift of financial freedom. Fancy-free living means you are only responsible for
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yourself, unless of course you financially support your parents or other family members in some

way, or you happen to be a single parent. For the most part, there’s never a worry about what
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others want, and there is no need for compromise. Singles have no one directly impacted within

their financial decisions, therefore, most are able to choose their own career paths at their own
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pace. In fact, due to having freed time to devote to their careers, singles tend to hold high
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positions in the workplace.

In a healthy marriage, companionship flourishes and grows amongst listening closely to

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your partner, and learning to align your passions, dreams, and skills parallel with theirs in such a

way that you both grow closer to one another. However, some consider it egotistical to place

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such a burden on a spouse to fulfill their partners happiness requirements. In most relationships,

affirmation, validation, motivation, communication, and emotional support are given

expectations. When these expectations or presumptions can not adequately be met,

dissatisfaction follows suit. Depending on our partner to make us chronically happy, not only

places a huge burden on them, but in the end it creates strain and burden within the relationship.

Couples then find themselves guilty of conforming to society's standards, and you

subconsciously measure your partner against a fairy-tale ideology of great expectations they

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simply can not measure up to. In comparison, those that choose to stay unwed, do not rely solely

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on another's companionship to set a bar bringing them happiness, neither does companionship

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reflect their views or definition on what true love is. Undoubtedly, true love can come in the
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form of self love. Additionally, single bachelors and bachelorettes spend adequate time alone,

searching for contentment within themselves, ultimately leading them to an understanding that
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happiness doesn't come from a companion, it lies within. To emphasize, those that choose to stay
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single are not always alone. Some singles reach out within their social circle composed of close

family and friends to achieve their emotional or mental support and needs. Alot of single
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individuals often find joyous fulfillment and companionship in devoting their spare time to

spoiling their pets. In contrast, marriage may cure the sting of loneliness for a little while, but not
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prior to selflessly putting another’s needs, wants, fears, and expectations far before your own.
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Nonetheless, marriage is composed of compromise. From baseball games to baptisms,

almost every event is now spent as a duo. Holidays are spent with in-laws, co workers, and your
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partner’s social circle. You may be settled into your career by now, or you may be a stay at home

parent; either way, your time is in great demand and no longer your own guilt free. Relationship

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or not, it’s of the utmost importance you have your own interests and hobbies you engage in for

yourself. Without a form of self itentity, you may lead to feelings of loneliness even in a

companion's company. If you prefer being single, chances are, you’ve spent a decent amount of

time alone figuring out what activities and creative outlets make you uniquely happy. Single, you

have the freedom to travel and spend time exploring anything and everything you never gave

yourself the chance to do, or possibly wouldn’t be able to do if you were in a relationship.

In comparison, married life vs single life is no battle of the heart. Although they both may

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seem to be on opposite ends of the spectrum, the two certainly share a commonality aiming to

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achieve goals and seek nirvana. Whether you are tying the knot vs flying solo, chasing money vs

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chasing your dream, finding acceptance in another or having complacency in your own
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company, the world's definition of the fulfillment of a meaningful life will always be full of

contrasting opinions. Perception is everything, let it lead and guide you in the direction you
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should take. Obtaining said bliss and happiness is your own responsibility to navigate and your
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personal journey to pursue. Perhaps the true essentials of happiness have been a personal

endeavor all along, despite anyone’s personal characteristics and opinions or what social
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tendencies perceive.
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