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CWTS Final For Instructor
CWTS Final For Instructor
CWTS Final For Instructor
Tan College
Maloro, Tangub City
Name: Program/Year:
COURSE REQUIREMENTS
Consultation Time
All Alfonsos’ Students enrolled in CWTS are allowed to consult with their
respective instructors if they have questions or clarifications about the topics
given. Students may contact their instructors through social media or text
message provided that the instructor has no other business to be done or the
instructor is available to answer queries.
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General Instruction
Schedule of Exam
DISCLAIMER
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I. TOPIC 5: SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of this topic, the students must have:
1. Produced their own preventive measures about sexually
transmitted diseases, and;
2. Produced brochures/ flyers about sexually transmitted diseases.
III. TIME FRAME: 3 hours
IV. CONTENT:
Protective Factors
Communities with high levels of trust, cohesiveness, and
social capital help young people avoid risky sexual behaviors
and pregnancy. Neighborhoods of this kind are also supportive
of positive, attentive parenting styles.
Risk Factors
Neighborhoods with high rates of violence, hunger, and/or
substance use tend to have poor sexual health outcomes
among their youth.
School Factors
Protective Factors
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School connectedness -- involvement in school activities, liking
school and finding it important, bonding with teachers and peers,
feeling safe and fairly treated -- protects against sexual risk
taking.
Protective Factors
A supportive, responsive parenting style helps youth feel safe and
enables them to plan positively for the future. In turn, this orientation
toward the future makes it more likely that youth will avoid high-risk
behaviors.
Youth who live with both of their parents are less likely to engage in
certain risky sexual behaviors.
Risk Factors
Substance use in the household has a negative influence.
An over-controlling parenting style backfires, leading youth to take
more risks.
Peer Factors
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Youth have a tendency to reflect peer social norms, which may be
protective or may increase risk. For example, if they believe their
peers disapprove of sex, they are less likely to become sexually
active. If they believe their peers are having sex, they are more
likely to become sexually active.
Relationship Factors
Protective Factors
Good communication between sexual partners is associated with
girls using contraception.
When girls feel connected to a sexual partner, they are more likely
to use effective contraception.
Risk Factors
Having an older romantic partner increases the likelihood of
pregnancy and STDs.
Frequent dating and having a close romantic relationship make
sex more likely.
Individual Factors
Protective Factors
Having plans for a positive future and believing in the ability to
control one's own life are protective factors.
Spirituality and religious affiliation help youth avoid risky sexual
behavior.
Initiating sex at an older age is associated with better sexual
health.
Beliefs and attitudes about sex, condoms, and contraception can
be protective or can increase risk. For example, a positive attitude
toward condoms is protective; a permissive attitude toward sex
increases risk.
Having the skills and intention to use condoms and contraception,
as well as belief in one's own ability to successfully use those
skills, protects young people against early pregnancy and
STDs/HIV.
Risk Factors
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Being lesbian, gay, or bisexual is associated with an increase in risky
behaviors.
Youth who use alcohol and other drugs are more likely to initiate sex
at an early age and are also more likely to have multiple partners.
Use latex condoms every time you have sex. If you use a lubricant,
make sure it's water-based. Use condoms for the entire sex act.
Condoms are not 100% effective at preventing disease or pregnancy.
However, they are extremely effective if used properly. Learn how to
use condoms correctly.
Avoid sharing towels or underclothing.
Wash before and after intercourse.
Get a vaccination for hepatitis B. This is a series of three shots.
Get tested for HIV.
If you have a problem with drug or alcohol abuse, get help. People who
are drunk or on drugs often fail to have safe sex.
Consider that not having sex is the only sure way to prevent STDs.
It was once thought that using condoms with nonoxynol-9 helped to prevent
STDs by killing the organisms that can cause disease. New research shows
that doing so also irritates a woman's vagina and cervix and may increase the
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risk of an STD infection. Current recommendations are to avoid using condoms
with nonoxynol-9.
To prevent giving an STD to someone else:
Stop having sex until you see a doctor and are treated.
Follow your doctor's instructions for treatment.
Use condoms whenever you have sex, especially with new partners.
Don't resume having sex unless your doctor says it's OK.
Return to your doctor to get rechecked.
Be sure your sex partner or partners also are treated.
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c. Genital Herpes – is caused by the herpes simplex virus, which also
cause cold sores and fever blisters. It is easily spread through sexual
and other direct skin contact. Symptoms occur 2 to 30 days after
contact with an infected person. There is no known cure for herpes.
Once infected, you may have recurrent outbreaks, which are usually
shorter and less severe that the first one. Itching, burning or tingling
may occur at the place where the sores will later appear. Medication
is available that help reduce the frequency and severity of recurrent
outbreak.
(Photo of Genital Herpes
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(Photo of Genital Warts
(Photo of Hepatitis B)
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V. ASSESSMENT
Name: Month:
Date of Submission: Course:
Year: Score:
Home Address:
G-mail Account/ Address:
Facebook Account:
I. Direction: Explain and Answer the following questions. Essay (20 points)
Rubrics:
Content - 60%
Grammar – 40%
Total – 100%
1. As CWTS students, what are the things you need to do to help prevent
Sexually transmitted diseases?
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I. TOPIC 6: DRUG ABUSE AWARENESS
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of this topic, the students must have:
1. Determined the commonly abused drugs;
2. Distinguished the following characteristics of the commonly
abused drug substance, and;
3. Produced brochures/ flyers about prohibited drugs.
III. TIME FRAME: 3 hours
IV. CONTENT:
Studies over the past two decades have tried to determine the origins
and pathways of drug abuse and addiction—how the problem starts and how
it progresses. Many factors have been identified that help differentiate those
more likely to abuse drugs from those less vulnerable to drug abuse. Factors
associated with greater potential for drug abuse are called “risk” factors, while
those associated with reduced potential for abuse are called “protective”
factors. Please note, however, that most individuals at risk for drug abuse do
not start using drugs or become addicted. Also, a risk factor for one person
may not be for another.
Risk and protective factors can affect children in a developmental risk
trajectory, or path. This path captures how risks become evident at different
stages of a child’s life. For example, early risks, such as out-of-control
aggressive behavior, may be seen in a very young child. If not addressed
through positive parental actions, this behavior can lead to additional risks
when the child enters school. Aggressive behavior in school can lead to
rejection by peers, punishment by teachers, and academic failure. Again, if not
addressed through preventive interventions, these risks can lead to the most
immediate behaviors that put a child at risk for drug abuse, such as skipping
school and associating with peers who abuse drugs. In focusing on the risk
path, research-based prevention programs can intervene early in a child’s
development to strengthen protective factors and reduce risks long before
problem behaviors develop.
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The table below provides a framework for characterizing risk and
protective factors in five domains, or settings. These domains can then serve
as a focus for prevention. As the first two examples suggest, some risk and
protective factors are mutually exclusive—the presence of one means the
absence of the other. For example, in the Individual domain, early aggressive
behavior, a risk factor, indicates the absence of impulse control, a key
protective factor. Helping a young child learn to control impulsive behavior is a
focus of some prevention programs.
Risk Factors Domain Protective Factors
Early Aggressive Individual Impulse Control
Behavior
Lack of Parental Family Parental Monitoring
Supervision
Substance Abuse Peer Academic Competence
Drug Availability School Antidrug Use Policies
Poverty Community Strong Neighborhood Attachment
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Risk factors can influence drug abuse in several ways. They may be
additive: The more risks a child is exposed to, the more likely the child will
abuse drugs. Some risk factors are particularly potent, yet may not influence
drug abuse unless certain conditions prevail. Having a family history of
substance abuse, for example, puts a child at risk for drug abuse. However, in
an environment with no drug-abusing peers and strong antidrug norms, that
child is less likely to become a drug abuser. And the presence of many
protective factors can lessen the impact of a few risk factors. For example,
strong protection—such as parental support and involvement—can reduce the
influence of strong risks, such as having substance-abusing peers.
“An important goal of prevention, then, is to change the balance
between risk and protective factors so that protective factors outweigh
risk factors.”
What are the early signs of risk that may predict later drug abuse?
Some signs of risk can be seen as early as infancy. Children’s
personality traits or temperament can place them at increased risk for later
drug abuse. Withdrawn and aggressive boys, for example, often exhibit
problem behaviors in interactions with their families, peers, and others they
encounter in social settings. If these behaviors continue, they will likely lead to
other risks. These risks can include academic failure, early peer rejection, and
later affiliation with deviant peers, often the most immediate risk for drug abuse
in adolescence. Studies have shown that children with poor academic
performance and inappropriate social behavior at ages 7 to 9 are more likely
to be involved with substance abuse by age 14 or 15.
In the Family
Children’s earliest interactions occur within the family and can be
positive or negative. For this reason, factors that affect early development in
the family are probably the most crucial.
Children are more likely to experience risk when there is:
lack of mutual attachment and nurturing by parents or
caregivers;
ineffective parenting;
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a chaotic home environment;
lack of a significant relationship with a caring adult; and
a caregiver who abuses substances, suffers from mental
illness, or engages in criminal behavior.
What are the highest risk periods for drug abuse among youth?
Research has shown that the key risk periods for drug abuse occur
during major transitions in children’s lives. These transitions include significant
changes in physical development (for example, puberty) or social situations
(such as moving or parents divorcing) when children experience heightened
vulnerability for problem behaviors.
The first big transition for children is when they leave the security of the
family and enter school. Later, when they advance from elementary school to
middle or junior high school, they often experience new academic and social
situations, such as learning to get along with a wider group of peers and having
greater expectations for academic performance. It is at this stage—early
adolescence—that children are likely to encounter drug abuse for the first time.
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Then, when they enter high school, young people face additional
social, psychological, and educational challenges. At the same time, they may
be exposed to greater availability of drugs, drug abusers, and social
engagements involving drugs.
These challenges can increase the risk that they will abuse alcohol,
tobacco, and other drugs. A particularly challenging situation in late
adolescence is moving away from home for the first time without parental
supervision, perhaps to attend college or other schooling. Substance abuse,
particularly of alcohol, remains a major public health problem for college
populations.
When young adults enter the workforce or marry, they again confront
new challenges and stressors that may place them at risk for alcohol and other
drug abuse in their adult environments. But these challenges can also be
protective when they present opportunities for young people to grow and
pursue future goals and interests. Research has shown that these new
lifestyles can serve as protective factors as the new roles become more
important than being involved with drugs.
“Risks appear at every transition from early childhood through
young adulthood; therefore, prevention planners need to consider their
target audiences and implement programs that provide support
appropriate for each developmental stage. They also need to consider
how the protective factors involved in these transitions can be
strengthened.”
When and how does drug abuse start and progress?
Studies such as the National Survey on Drug Use and Health, formerly
called the National Household Survey on Drug Abuse, reported by the
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, indicate that
some children are already abusing drugs by age 12 or 13, which likely means
that some may begin even earlier. Early abuse includes such drugs as
tobacco, alcohol, inhalants, marijuana, and psychotherapeutic drugs. If drug
abuse persists into later adolescence, abusers typically become more involved
with marijuana and then advance to other illegal drugs, while continuing their
abuse of tobacco and alcohol. Studies have also shown that early initiation of
drug abuse is associated with greater drug involvement, whether with the
same or different drugs. Note, however, that both one-time and long-term
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surveys indicate that most youth do not progress to abusing other drugs. But
among those who do progress, their drug abuse history can vary by
neighborhood drug availability, demographic groups, and other characteristics
of the abuser population. In general, the pattern of abuse is associated with
levels of social disapproval, perceived risk, and the availability of drugs in the
community.
However, there are protective factors that can suppress the escalation
to substance abuse. These factors include self-control, which tends to inhibit
problem behavior and often increases naturally as children mature during
adolescence. In addition, protective family structure, individual personality,
and environmental variables can reduce the impact of serious risks of drug
abuse.
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Preventive interventions can provide skills and support to high-risk youth to
enhance levels of protective factors and prevent escalation to drug abuse.
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3. Prescription Drugs - There is a popular misconception that any medication
prescribed by a doctor is safe. Unfortunately, that is not always the case.
Doctors prescribe medications to alleviate symptoms of physical or mental
health issues. However, many individuals are not properly educated on the
risks that the medications may carry. Chronic pain is often managed through
opioid medications, which are highly addictive. Dependent upon the amount
used and other factors, someone may require a medical detox just to stop
using opioids. Likewise, those suffering from anxiety and depression may
be prescribed addictive medications to ease symptoms. Non-addictive
medication and/or pain recovery services are often available.
4. Loneliness - Addiction can start when an individual feels lonely or is isolated
from the friends and family. They turn to drugs and alcohol thinking that it
will fill a void that they have been living with. People lacking positive daily
interaction may choose to use substances to feel happy or content.
Additionally, users begin to alienate themselves further if they fear being
judged or that help is not available to them.
5. Peer Pressure - Peer pressure usually applies to adolescents or young
adults. The need to fit in, on some level, is built into each and every one of
us. Some people may feel the need to participate in potentially harmful
activities to do so. The pressure of being around others who are abusing
drugs or alcohol can push someone to follow suit.
6. Drugs And Alcohol Can Make You Feel Good - There is a popular quote
in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous that states: “Men and women drink
essentially because they like the effect produced by alcohol.” While this
seems obvious, some people like the effect so much that they are unable
to stop. It may be difficult to see the harm in something that makes you feel
good.
7. Mental Health Disorder - Depression, anxiety, and PTSD can put
individuals at higher risk of developing an addiction. Using substances to
cope with difficult feelings may seem like an easier path for some. Though
they may seem crippling at times, there is help available to anyone
struggling with a mental health disorder. Non-narcotic medications are often
available for most mental health disorders. It’s worth researching with a
doctor to see if there is an alternative to addictive medications.
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8. Recreation - Many people use drugs or alcohol socially with friends or to
“unwind” after a long day. They often see substances as a way to relax or
clear their minds. Recreational drug users are still at risk to become
addicted if their use becomes more frequent or they use highly addictive
substances.
9. Alcohol Isn’t Enough - For some, alcohol stops doing the trick. A few beers
after work or having drinks with friends at a local bar just doesn’t have the
same effect that it used to. Some individuals end up “chasing a buzz” that
they were once able to attain with a few drinks. This can leave someone
powerless over alcohol and unable to quit drinking.
10. Self-Medicating - People struggling with any of a multitude of ailments
may turn to drugs or alcohol to ease their pain. Mental health disorders and
chronic pain leave some seeking solutions on their own. Alcohol or other
substances can alleviate symptoms and seem like a short-term solution.
However, people should look for manageable, long-term solutions under
medical supervision to combat these issues.
1. Kinds of Commonly-Abused Drug Substance
a. Hallucinogens (psychedelics) are drugs capable of provoking
changes or cessation of thinking, self-awareness and emotion.
People under the influence of these seem far away. They might talk
to invisible people of objects and experience a bad or “High Trip”.
They might act paranoid, alternately screaming an acting catatonic.
LSD, marijuana, PCP (angel dust), mescaline and ecstasy are the
popular hallucinogens.
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most deadly drugs of all. They are highly addictive and
dangerous to the body. Opium, heroin, codein, and morphine
are the most popular narcotics.
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General Symptoms of Drug Abuse
a. Abrupt changes in school or work attendance, quality of work,
grades, work output.
b. Unusual flare-ups or outbreaks of temper.
c. Withdrawal from responsibility.
d. Change in overall attitude
e. Deterioration of physical appearance and grooming.
f. Furtive behavior regarding actions.
g. Wearing of sunglasses to hide dilated or constricted pupils.
h. Association with drug abusers.
i. Unusual borrowing of money from parents of friends.
j. Stealing small items.
CLASSIFICATION OF DRUG ABUSERS
Substance abusers can be classified according to the frequency of their
substance use.
1. Experimenters – people who abuse the drug(s) for experimental basis.
2. Occasional Users – abuse the drug occasionally/whenever there are
special occasions. They abuse the drug once every two
(2) weeks to two (2) times a week.
3. Regular Users – abuse the drug on a regular basis approximately three
(3) to four (4) times a week or every other day.
4. Drug Dependents – people who tend to abuse the drug(s) everyday
(almost every day) or about five (5) to seven (7) times a
week.
5. Mentally Ill Chemical Abuser/Substance Induced Psychosis – drug
abusers who manifest signs and symptom of psychotic
disorders caused by the effects of drugs (hallucinations,
disorientation, delusions, etc.)
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Reduced social/occupational act
How can you stay away from drugs?
Devote yourself to your studies and other productive activities
at home or in school
Stay away from people, places and events that promote drug
use
Learn to manage feelings and cope with stress without using
drugs
Develop a strong moral and spiritual foundation
Educate yourself about the effects of drug abuse
Always say NO
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COMPREHENSIVE DANGEROUS DRUG ACT OF 2002
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V. ASSESSMENT
Name: Month:
Date of Submission: Course:
Year: Score:
Home Address:
G-mail Account/ Address:
Facebook Account:
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Activity 2 – Cross Word Puzzle ( 2 points each)
Direction: Complete the crossword puzzle using the hints below.
1 5
4
Across
1. Is a chemical substance, typically of known structure, which, when
administered to a living organism, produces a biological effect.
2. Are drugs capable of provoking changes or cessation of thinking, self-
awareness and emotion.
Down
3. Is a drug that lowers neurotransmission levels, which is to depress or reduce
arousal or stimulation, in various areas of the brain.
4. Is a psychoactive drug from the Cannabis plant used primarily for medical
or recreational purposes.
5. Is a substance that dissolves a solute, resulting in a solution
III. Essay.
1. How drug abuse affect the lives of every individuals?
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2. What would be effect on the economic growth of every nations if their
citizens continue patronizing the prohibited drugs?
3. In your barangay, as an NSTP students how could you help your
barangay in implementing a drug free community?
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I. TOPIC 7 : NATIONAL SECURITY
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of this topic, the students must have:
1. Explained the importance of national security, and;
2. Appreciated their role as CWTS student in national security.
III. TIME FRAME: 3 hours
IV. CONTENT:
We recall that in 2018, the security sector was preoccupied with the following:
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The Philippines also pursued the development of its deterrence capabilities for
a credible defense posture, particularly through the increased funding
allocation by Congress. The improvement of facilities in the Philippine-
occupied features in the West Philippine Sea were also undertaken.
In the Philippines, illegal drugs have become a national security threat. The
campaign against illegal drugs has become a primary mission and the
campaign will even be more intensified to eradicate the menace. The terrorist
threat posed by local communist terrorist groups and other extremist groups
continue to threaten the lives, properties, and freedoms of the Filipino people.
They hamper the country’s potential economic gains and progress.
The threat from ISIS-affiliated groups remains despite their resounding defeat
in Marawi, which is now undergoing reconstruction and rehabilitation.
Elsewhere, in areas where there are local terrorist groups such as the Abu
Sayyaf, Maute and the BIFF, the operations will be relentless. More security
forces will be deployed, as necessary.
Only a few weeks ago, President Duterte issued Executive Order 70 (EO 70)
providing for a Whole-of-Nation approach in defeating the Local Communist
Terrorist Groups. A National Task Force to End Local Communist Armed
Conflict (NTF-ELCAC) was created to synchronize the utilization of the
government’s instrumentalities of power with the capabilities of private sector
stakeholders to finally end the 50-year long deceit, lies and atrocities
committed by the communist terrorists against the people.
The President himself is leading the way By taking the role of National Task
Force Commander, he is demonstrating resolve to fulfill his vow to provide a
better future for the Filipino people.
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The “Whole-of-Nation Approach” gives importance to inclusive and
sustainable framework towards attaining peace. In this light, the government
remained persistent in implementing the Enhanced Comprehensive Localized
Integration Program (E-CLIP), wherein rebel returnees have found alternatives
to a life of crime and violence.
Prospects are bright for an even more stable and secure nation in 2019. With
the NSS and the “Whole-of Nation Approach” in place, the security sector will
become more robust in addressing future security challenges. We are
optimistic that as we are able to provide continuing stability, more
developmental prospects, small and big – such as our Build, Build, Build
projects -- will see fruition. All these will translate to improved economic
standing and better living conditions of most Filipinos.
Since time immemorial, man has an awareness and knowledge about security.
In ancient era, man has devised means to protect himself from ferocious
animals and harsh conditions. As the society advanced, they learned to create
tools and weapons to safeguard their lives and their properties. In our country,
heroes were born because they strive to save our people from conquerors.
Currently, every country has its own way of defending and maintaining its
human and national security.
“ … first safety from such chronic threats as hunger, disease and repression
… second, it means protection from sudden and hurtful disruptions in the
patterns of daily life – whether in homes, in jobs, or in communities . Such
threats can exist at all levels of national income and development . ”
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This was supplemented by an explanation from the former UN secretary-
General Kofi Annan which states that:
“human security, in its broadest sense, embraces far more than the absence
of violent conflict. It encompasses human rights, good governance, access to
education and health care and ensuring that each individual has opportunities
and choices to fulfill his or her potential … Every step in this direction is also a
step towards reducing poverty, achieving economic growth and preventing
conflict . Freedom from want, freedom from fear, and the freedom of future
generations to inherit a healthy natural environment – these are the
interrelated building blocks of human – and therefore national – security. ”
seeks to “protect the vital core of all human lives in ways that enhance
human freedoms and human fulfillment”
requires “protecting people from critical and pervasive threats” and
"empowering them to take charge of their own lives"
“protection and empowerment are mutually reinforcing and cannot
succeed in isolation”
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Using intelligence services to detect and defeat or avoid threats and
espionage, and to protect classified information.
1. Safeguarding the Philippine’s national Unity, its democracy and its social
institutions– All citizens share one national identity that is, being Filipinos
regardless of their ethnic, religious, cultural and ideological orientation.
2. Security of the State and preserving and protecting its sovereignty,
territorial integrity and institutions – This is provided in the Constitution as
stated in the following:
Definition of national territory consistent with new international
covenants (Art. I)
Renunciation of war as an instrument of national policy (Art. II
SEC. 2)
Civilian supremacy over military (Art. II SEC. 3)
Role of the armed forces as protector of the people and the
State (Art. II SEC. 3)
Maintenance of peace and order, the protection of life, liberty
and property and the promotion of the general welfare (Art. II
SEC. 5)
Pursuit of an independent foreign policy based on national
sovereignty and national interest (Art. II SEC. 7)
Right to self-determination (Art. II SEC. 7)
Freedom from nuclear weapons (Art II SEC. 8)
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Suspension of the writ of habeas corpus (Art. III SEC. 15)
Concept of a citizen army (Art XVI SEC. 4)
3. Protection of properties, infrastructures and keeping the people safe from
all forms of threats, both here and abroad, and to the extent possible,
creating jobs in order to bring back home overseas Filipino workers where
their physical safety can be fully guaranteed by the Government.
NATIONAL SECURITY INTEREST
From the Preamble and the mandate of the President, there are eight (8)
National security interest that serve as the government strategic focus with
regard to the country’s security.
The Government may call upon the people to defend the state, and in
fulfillment thereof, all citizens may be required, under conditions provided by
law, to render personal, military or civil service.
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MANPOWER RESERVOIR FOR NATIONAL SECURITY
1. Graduates of CWTS and LTS shall belong to the National Service Reserve
Corps (NSRC) which could be tapped by the State for literacy and civic
welfare activities such assisting in disaster preparedness, mitigation,
response and rehabilitation programs.
2. Graduates of the ROTC component shall form part of the AFP Citizen
Armed Forces and AFP Reserve Force, subject to DND requirements.
THREATS TO NATIONAL SECURITY
A. Man Made Threats
a. Terrorism
b. Explosion/Bomb Threats
c. Campus Violence/Frat and Gang War
d. Kidnapping/Hostage Taking
e. Drug Addiction
f. Armed Robberies/Hold Ups
g. Snatching h. Sabotage
i. Fire
j. Technological Threats such as gambling through number games,
internet hold ups and cyber-crimes (computer hacking, computer
pilferage, ATM stealing and cyber prostitution)
B. Natural Threats
a. Earthquakes
b. Typhoons
c. Floods
d. Volcanic Eruptions
e. Tsunamis
In an article entitle “10 Ways Youth Can Make an Impact”, it provided the youth
means to contribute to the country’s national security. It emphasized that youth
engagement can bring about social change. It sends a message that the youth
don’t have to wait to become adults to be significant and active members of
the society.
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1. Know your rights. Read up, get informed and practice your right!! The
youth can maximize their rights if they are well-informed. The existing rights
are only of value to the youth if they are understood, observed and used.
2. Learn about local issues. What are the concerns plaguing your
community? How are the concerns affecting you and your immediate
environment? Knowing the problem can lead to possible solutions and the
youth’s role in the grand scheme of things.
3. Speak out. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind either online, through social
media, and offline, gatherings and meetings. Be assertive and express your
interests. Someone is bound to read or to listen to it. However, be
responsible of what you aired and support it with facts. Also, respect the
views of others regardless if it agrees or disagrees with you.
4. Network. There is strength in numbers. Reach out to them and learn their
efforts and initiatives. It could pave way to bigger things for you.
5. Spread the word. Talk to your friends and family about the concerns and
issues you see as important. You can provide a voice to unaddressed
issues, educate and influence the people around you.
6. Join campaigns. Be one with the people having the same vision and
initiative as you. Create solutions and actions that can be done in your
community.
7. Host a youth summit. Learn and share your perspectives and views with
peers as well as decision makers. Schools and local organizations can be
of great support to you in trying to create a forum for the exchange of ideas.
Bring together different communities and understand what you have in
common, as well as your differences in interests and perspectives.
8. Use your creativity. Use your passion for the arts and your hobbies into a
productive action towards your ideals.
9. Join/create a youth organization. Local youth organizations are great
places to expand your knowledge and become an active member of your
society. If your community doesn’t have an organization representing youth,
create one. Be the trendsetter!
10. Be an inspiration. Believe in yourself, and follow your passion.
Passionate youth will change the
world .
SOURCE:https://www.undp.org/content/undp/en/home/blog/2015/8/11/10-ways-youth-can-
make-an-impact.html
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V. ASSESSMENT
Name: Month:
Date of Submission: Course:
Year: Score:
Home Address:
G-mail Account/ Address:
Facebook Account:
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I. TOPIC 8: PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
Values are basic and fundamental beliefs that guide or motivate attitudes or
actions. They help us to determine what is important to us. Values describe
the personal qualities we choose to embody to guide our actions; the sort of
person we want to be; the manner in which we treat ourselves and others, and
our interaction with the world around us. They provide the general guidelines
for conduct.
Examples of Values, Beliefs & Desirable Qualities
For each column, choose the top 5 values you have and mark them with an X.
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Creativity
Determination
Devotion
Dignity
Empathy
Enthusiasm
Ethics
Fairness
Focus
Friendliness
Goals
Honesty
Inspiration
Intelligence
Involvement
Loyalty
Optimism
Persistence
Respect
Responsibility
Tolerance
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Skill is the ability to perform an action with determined results often within a
given amount of time, energy, or both. Skills can often be divided into domain-
general and domain-specific skills.
My Skills and Qualities
Creative
self---confident
Organized
learn quickly
Hardworking
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give advice to people
communicate clearly
make decisions
write
supervise
solve problems
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Setting Goals
What is your vision of success? The image is different for each of us. For one
person it's working in an office setting, for another it is being a successful
farmer.
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Steps to Setting and Achieving Goals
Setting goals is more than deciding what you want to do. It involves figuring
out what you need to do to get where you want to go, and how long it will
take you to get there.
The first step to success is knowing where you want to go. The second step
is having a plan to get there. Your goals are your road map. Follow them
and you'll be well on your way.
3. What steps must I take in order to know and be able to do these things?
Example: To improve my basic math skills, I will need to identify a math
tutor who can spend time with me each week. To participate in an evening
study group, I will need to ask my friends and teachers of existing study
groups including the days and times they meet.
4. What abilities and experience do I already have that are going to help me
take these steps? Example: I will talk to people I know who are in my
youth group, ask friends and teachers involved in on-going study groups,
etc.
5. What obstacles might be in my way and how can I deal with them?
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Example: It will be difficult to find time to participate in an evening study
group because I take care of my younger siblings. I will see if I can get
assistance from friends and see if there are any day time study groups.
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When I see something new and interesting I usually want to touch
it in order to find outmore about it.
I prefer going out with friends than staying home and reading a
book.
• Watch other people do the things that you are going to need to know
how to do. You will be able to visualize their actions later on.
• As you read something imagine what it would look like if it were
happening in real life or on TV.
• Take note of the shape and color of the things that you will want to
remember.
• Visualize telephone numbers and words in your mind.
• Use charts, graphs, pictures.
• When you read, underline and take notes as you read along.
• Take notes when listening to instructions.
• Write down the things that you need to do. Make lists. Keep a written
schedule.
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• Get a job that involves writing.
Many people aren't aware that learning preferences exist. Others are usually
not aware of what your particular learning preference is. Let them know. Feel
free to share with them what you know about your own learning style.
Reading: "Would you mind giving me written instructions of how this works?"
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Writing: "Let me write down what you are saying about how this works."
Other Considerations: It is also important to strengthen your weak learning
styles. Select a style that is weak and share ideas with classmates for
improving that learning style.
LEADER AND LEADERSHIP
To help you improve your leadership skills, here are examples of what
makes a great leader.
1) Determination
A great leader has never---ending determination. He is the first one
to initiate an idea and the last one to give up. It is because of a
leader's determination that projects are completed.
2) Flexibility
A great leader can adapt to any situation. He sees the situation
from many different angles and can adjust himself accordingly.
3) Resourcefulness
Leaders don’t always get what they want easily but they are
creative. They think of ways to get what they want.
4) Creativity
Thinking of effective ways of doing things that don’t require a lot of time,
effort or money.
5) Self---confidence
People will follow a leader who believes in him or herself.
This does not mean being arrogant; rather, it means
trusting in yourself and your abilities.
6) Positive Attitude / Optimism
A great leader has a positive outlook and tries to make the best out of
everything.
7) Responsibility
A great leader understands that whatever happens in his team
(whether good or bad) is his responsibility. He does not take all
the credit for work well done and does not blame others when
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there is failure.
8) Good Communication Skills
What makes a leader great is his ability to communicate effectively
with his team. A good leader understands that people don't
understand messages in the exact same way so is always
confirming what s/he has said or has heard is understood.
9) Consistency / Reliability / Accountability
A great leader is dependable, always does his/her best, takes action &
delivers good results.
10) Planning Ahead
A good leader plans and knows what is up ahead. He has
good judgment in predicting what may happen in the future
and can make work decisions based on that.
11) Patience
12) Being Objective
A good leader does not take sides but is open to different opinions.
13) Perceptive
A good leader has an awareness of the people s/he is leading.
So what makes a great leader? It is a mix of these qualities. You
don't necessarily have to possess all of them, but you should at
least strive to develop many of them.
Leadership Styles
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The Consulting style of leadership is most effective and/or prevalent:
• In large groups
• In motivated groups
• In organized groups
The Joining style of leadership is most prevalent and/or effective:
• In small groups
• In highly motivated groups
• In groups that can deal with a less structured
environment. There might be a lotof brainstorming, trying
things out but switching direction as needed, etc.
• In groups which have a relatively high need for independence
• In groups where the members have the necessary
knowledge and experience to deal with the problem
• In groups where the members expect to share in decision-making
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As a leader you can do the following to develop team spirit:
Work with the team to develop a common goal
Nurture a sense of belonging; focus on what team members have
in common
Make all team members feel that they have something to contribute
Help team members work together to efficiently solve problems
Encourage members to set aside personal goals and desires for
the benefit of the team
Treat team members fairly and equally
Structure the work of the team in a simple & logical fashion;
distribute work fairly
Manage the team efficiently so that every member is able to
deliver his/her tasts and work proceeds in a timely manner
Create an environment that supports and rewards
openness, creativity, trust, mutual respect and a
commitment to provide high quality services.
Working as a team means that team members:
Consult each other
Help each other
Complement each other
Encourage and motivate each other
The following strategies can be used by the leader to support the
effectiveness of the team:
Encourage discussion
Ensure all team members understand that their ideas & opinions
are equally important & relevant
Encourage everyone to participate fully
Model respect towards everyone
Encourage people with different abilities & personalities to work
together
Use positive feedback
Remain calm
Teams can work independently (if leader is not there) if team members:
Are aware of strengths & weaknesses
Are able to set their own goals
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Are able to act according to goals
Take responsibility for their action
Are able to avoid opinions and behavior that block
change
As a leader you need to support members in helping them to
understand their own individual strengths and find support
from the people around them.
1. Define the problem: keep emotions aside and state the problem
2. Get more information about the problem: at work –
from supervisor, colleagues, written materials
3. Generate many ideas on how to solve the problem: there is
often more than one solution!
4. Choose a solution: should be acceptable to all involved
5. Implement the solution
6. Evaluate the solution: Has the problem been solved?
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Problem Solving Tips
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V. ASSESSMENT:
1. Think about someone you respect and who served as your role model.
What made that person so special to you?
2. Write a list of all the personal strengths and weaknesses you have.
4. Think about the values and skills you have identified from the previous
page, how can you apply these values and skills to your future?
5. How do you think what you learned today can help you plan for your
work in the future? For your career in the future?
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6. When planning for your work or career in the future, how important do
you think are your skills, qualities, and values?
II. In this activity, write down your plans in the next one year. Indicate when
will be achieved and what need to do to achieve that goal.
1.
3.
4.
5.
1. Draw a large tree that includes the roots, trunk, major branches,
smaller branches, leaves, flowers and thorns. The growth of a tree is
like the growth and development of a person. The parts of the tree
represent the following:
Roots: their values and skills
Trunk: areas in their lives that give them strength – friends,
family, church, mosque, work place
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Branches: goals in the near future (what they want to do or
accomplish soon) Thorns: obstacles they might meet along
the way
Leaves: resources that they will need to reach goals (people,
information)
Flowers: goals in the far away future or future achievements
-Label the tree with your information.
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3. Which of the characteristics describe the best you as a leader of the
community? Consider only two-character traits and explain.
1. Alice and her siblings are orphans. As the head of the family, she
has been raising her younger sisters. She has small part time
jobs. She sells vegetables and cleans houses. Alice is worried
because she does not earn enough money to pay for rent and for
school fees for her younger sisters.
Help Alice solve her problem.
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2. You work at El Manuel Construction site. You notice that
tools are disappearing from the worksite on a regular basis.
What will you do?
If you were in Anna’s situation, how will you handle this problem?
4. Bob, Mark, Gina and Gerry are neighbors and they often go out together
to have fun. Lately, they noticed that Gerry has been avoiding them and
has been hanging out with a gang of young men who are known in the
neighborhood as trouble makers and suspected as drug pushers.
If you were Gerry’s friends, how will you handle the situation?
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5. Nilda is new in her work as a salesperson in a department store. She
noticed that a group of salespersons in her station keep on talking and
not minding the customers, so she often ends up attending to so many
customers. She is afraid to complain to the supervisor because she is
still new in the job.
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Rubrics/ Assessment Criteria
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Individuals in an interpersonal relationship must respect each other’s
views and opinions. A sense of trust is important.
Individuals must be attached to each other for a healthy interpersonal
relationship.
Transparency plays a pivotal role in interpersonal relationship. It is
important for an individual to be honest and transparent.
1. Passion
2. Intimacy
3. Commitment
If any of the above factors is missing from a relationship, love fades away in a
short span of time giving rise to troubles and sorrows.
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An understanding of Transactional Analysis can give hope for the person in
that they can change their script and choose the way they want to re-write their
own life plan, without hanging on to inappropriate behaviors of the past.
For example, spontaneous feelings, compliance and rebellion are all features
of the child ego state and may be activated by the individual at any time
throughout his life.
Berne recognised that three such ego states must be in everyone and that
together they make up the unique individuals Personality.
For Berne the ego states are not roles but are phenomenological realities.
Each ego state is concerned with what actually happened in the past for that
person and how they acted will determine how they act in the here and now.
The decisions that they made then will determine the decisions and behaviours
they now make in the present.
Bob was the leader of his group of friends and it was he who always set the
time that they should meet, where they should go and what they ‘should do’.
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He often shook his finger at his friends reprovingly. People in his circle of
friends eventually got fed up of him and many left the group.
Mary and Joan were good friends and they went everywhere together. When
Joan’s mother died it was Mary who looked after her and often put her arm
around Joan saying such words as ‘Don’t worry about things. I will help you
with all your work; I love you a lot you know’.
The parent ego state contains the attitudes and behaviours that are observed
and copied from the individual’s caretakers and figures. In other words the
spoken and unspoken rules. The “shoulds’ and the ‘oughts” of life. The
individual’s early parent is formed in the child from birth to approx five years
and in Transactional Analysis terms is called the parent in the child or the P1.
The complete parent ego state or the P2 is formed between the ages of five
years to approx twenty years as a result of even more external stimuli from
their authority of caretaker figures.
When the P2 is activated in later life, the person will be acting in the ways that
their authority figures will have acted, indeed this is the model that the
individual will have incorporated into his own parent, though it must be noted
that each individual will have a different parent ego state and will act in their
own unique way.
James decided to go and see his aunt who lived in the next town – as he had
never left his town before, he had to get his map out to work out how he would
get there – this he did successfully and he got to his aunt’s house at the time
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he said he would. Thus we can see that James used his adult ego state to
work out logically, given the facts, how to solve a given problem.
The Adult Ego State emerges around six months in the child and is concerned
primarily with appraising facts, reasoning, thinking, evaluating and responding
to available data.
However, I think this position is some what misleading and I prefer Berne’s
commentary, which describes that adult as coming from an integrated stance
which does not mean that when the person activates their adult ego state he
is coming from just a rational position, but that he also has access to feelings,
thinking and attitudes. Indeed the person will be part of the ‘here and now’ and
experiencing and coming from an integrated adult stance.
When john’s mother died when he was three years old, he was too young to
really understand what had happened, he just felt hurt that his mother had
gone away. When he was fifteen years of age, John had a hard time trusting
women – he often complained that women left him and let him down a lot when
he most needed them. Other people felt that women were really good to him
and helped him a lot.
Fiona when a small girl could get her father to do anything she really wanted.
Indeed as she grew up she was very good at managing to get men to do what
she wanted. Later, she was fired from several jobs by her bosses who said
they felt she was manipulating them.
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As a child, Freda’s parents argued a lot and her major method of defense was
to withdraw and spend a lot of time alone going for long walks. At eighteen she
got sacked from many jobs for daydreaming and fantasizing. In her personal
life, she would withdraw mentally if her friends argued with her. They got fed
up with her and left.
People who spend a lot of time operating from a child ego state usually are
acting as they did when they were a child. For example, Freda lost a lot of jobs
because she daydreamed when she should have been concentrating on her
work. Fiona attempted to manipulate men in her life with the expectation that
she would get what she wanted as she had from her father when a child.
Being in your child ego state does not mean that you are being childish. It
simply means that you are acting out as you did when you were a child.
The Child Ego State is primarily concerned with feelings though that does not
mean that when in the ‘here and now’ experience the person does not have
access to attitudes and thinking, but it simply means that when activated
feelings are usually the executive energy force.
The child ego state is the part of the personality, which is preserved from actual
childhood; it also contains all the impulses a person was born with. The child
ego state is, as said above, primarily about spontaneous feelings, needs and
wants of the child. It is also important to note that the child ego state contains
‘recordings’ of childhood memories and experiences. Therefore, when the
person feels and acts as they did when they were very young, they are
experiencing their child ego state.
The personality can be subdivided further into the Nurturing and Controlling
parent and the Free and Adapted child. An example of the nurturing side of the
parent ego state would be the person who lovingly takes care of the dog who
go injured whilst crossing the road. An example of the controlling parent being
activated would be in the person who might say ‘all dogs should be kept on
leads and not allowed to roam free’ and do nothing to look after the injured
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dog. From this particular example we can see how the same ego state can act
in different ways according to people past messages.
An example of the difference between the free and adapted child ego state
would be for example, the person who complies to almost anything and
perhaps may automatically say ‘thank you’ whilst repressing other feelings as
opposed to the free child stance of free and spontaneous feelings, according
to the situation. The free child is naturally inquisitive, curious and often does
act without thinking of the consequences.
Again I think it is important to mention here that different people will respond
differently to situations and thus different ego states will be activated according
to their past messages in life. But, almost certainly, most people will have
access to all parts of their personality if they wish, though according to their
particular pathology, certain ego states may well dominate their personality in
may situations of their lives.
Structural Pathology
This is the part of TA theory that deals with when we get, “stuck” in one Ego
State or part of the Self.
He will often describe a ‘stuck’ feeling within his personality. A lot of work in
Transactional Analysis is around alleviating this ‘stuck’ sensation or de-
contamination, as it is known. An example of a child/adult contamination from
a child stance would be a person stating,
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‘If I believe my mother is not dead for long enough, she will not be’
Or
These examples are obviously prejudiced and occur when the person acts or
behaves as though something he believes in is the absolute truth and valid for
all time. It often comes directly from their own authority figures and is not
necessarily true, thus the person, instead of moving to check out the belief by
using his adult ego state instead takes it straight on board into his own parent.
So far, I have described the structure and function of the different units of the
personality and how you might be aware of which part you may be operating
from in you life experiences. To enable you to identify even more specifically
which ego state you are coming from in a specific situation, there are certain
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clues, which will help you. There are many ‘behaviours ‘which are typical of
each ego state.
When coming from a Child Ego State, your tone may be one of laughing,
screaming, angry, rebellious, whining, helpless, stubborn or playful. Your
words may be ‘wow! I love you. Brill. I hate you. Ace. Amazing. Incredible, I
never do it right. Sorry!
The tone of voice may be measured, clear, precise, crisp, rational, and logical.
Words may well be very factual. ‘I see you are well, how long it is to London,
what time is it, it is a fact it is cold today!
All the above words and behaviors, will then give you some clue as to what
ego state that person is operating from and thus what you can do to change
the situation for yourself. However, it must be remembered that these are only
some of the clues for exact ego analysis, you will need more evidence or
information for a positive and accurate diagnosis. You may need to ask more
historical questions and certainly, you will need to see the person in the ‘here
and now’ to be certain of you analysis.
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To talk about the ego structure and not to mention the innovation of the Ego
gram by Jack Dusay in the early 1970s would be a disservice in my opinion to
Transactional Analysis. An Ego gram is simply defined as:
‘a bar graph showing the relationship of the parts of the personality to each
other and the amount of psychological energy emanating outward.’
The Ego gram is a bar graph showing the amount of energy within the ego
structure of the person and how he will re-distribute his energy within the
different egos at one given time. Thus the most important aspect for the use
of the Egogram in modern psychotherapy is that, it gives an evaluation of the
distribution of energy in the personality, and it can be used by the individual to
show how much energy is needed to be re-distributed to other parts of the
personality to make positive change. It is simple to construct and use, for
example, firstly, draw a horizontal line on a piece of paper. Underneath, label
the five ego states – adapted child, free child, adult, controlling parent and
nurturing parent.
Think of yourself at this particular time or at a specific moment in the past, draw
whatever you feel is the most energized part of your personality, and draw it
with a vertical line. (This will be your highest column.)
Now, using your intuition, draw the lowest energized part of your personality
as it is in comparison with the other. (This will be the lowest column.)
Then fill in the other states as you see them in comparison with the above.
Having done the exercise, you should have now an egogram of the distribution
of your energy within your personality at a given time. This will help you see
where you might need at certain times to re-distribute your energy to help solve
problems in life or therapy.
1. I am OK You are OK
1. I am O.K., You are O.K.: This life position shows that an individual has
several O.K. experiences with others. This means, an individual
encountered no severe problems or issues with others in his childhood
and had a normal relationship with them. People with such life positions
about themselves and others around him can solve any problem very
easily and realizes the significance of others being in his life. This
position is based on the adult ego.
2. I am O.K., You are not O.K.: This life position is created when an
individual was too much ignored when he was a child. Here, an
individual believes that he is right, and all the others around him are
wrong. These are the individual who possesses the rebellion child ego
and put blame on others for anything that goes wrong with them.
3. I am not O.K., you are O.K.: This life position gets created when an
individual feels that others do things better than him. He feels inferior
to others and believes that others can do many things which he cannot
do by himself. These kinds of people always complain about one thing
or the other and remain highly dissatisfied with their lives.
4. I am not O.K., you are not O.K.: This kind of life position is created by
those who lacks interest in living. They feel life is not worth living and
are the ones who have been neglected by their parents in their
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childhood and were brought up by the servants. Such kind of people
commits suicide or homicide to end their lives.
Thus, the life positions talk about the individual developing his identity, sense
of worth and perception about others during his childhood and believing it to
be true until and unless some major experience changes it.
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V. ASSESSMENT:
3. What are the types of Life positions? Explain and cite a real-life
situation.
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I. TOPIC 10: COMMUNICATION
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
Introduction to Communication
A communication therefore has three parts: the sender, the message, and the
recipient.
The sender ‘encodes’ the message, usually in a mixture of words and non-
verbal communication. It is transmitted in some way (for example, in speech
or writing), and the recipient ‘decodes’ it.
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In face-to-face communication, the roles of the sender and recipient are not
distinct. The two roles will pass back and forwards between two people talking.
Both parties communicate with each other, even if in very subtle ways such as
through eye-contact (or lack of) and general body language. In written
communication, however, the sender and recipient are more distinct.
Categories of Communication
There are a wide range of ways in which we communicate and more than one
may be occurring at any given time.
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involves participants who negotiate their roles with each other, whether
consciously or unconsciously.
The skills of Active Listening, Clarification and Reflection may help but the
skilled communicator also needs to be aware of the barriers to effective
communication and how to avoid or overcome them.
There are many barriers to communication and these may occur at any stage
in the communication process. Barriers may lead to your message becoming
distorted and you therefore risk wasting both time and/or money by causing
confusion and misunderstanding.
There are many things that get in the way of listening and you should be aware
of these barriers, many of which are bad habits, in order to become a more
effective listener. Barriers and bad habits to effective listening can include:
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You are not interested in the topic/issue being discussed and become
bored.
Not focusing and being easily distracted, fiddling with your hair,
fingers, a pen etc. or gazing out of the window or focusing on objects
other than the speaker.
Feeling unwell or tired, hungry, thirsty or needing to use the toilet.
Identifying rather than empathising - understanding what you are
hearing but not putting yourself in the shoes of the speaker. As most of
us have a lot of internal self-dialogue we spend a lot of time listening
to our own thoughts and feelings - it can be difficult to switch the focus
from 'I' or 'me' to 'them' or 'you'. Effective listening involves opening
your mind to the views of others and attempting to feel empathetic.
Sympathizing rather than empathizing - sympathy is not the same
as empathy, you sympathize when you feel sorry for the experiences
of another, to empathize is to put yourself in the position of the other
person.
You are prejudiced or biased by race, gender, age, religion, accent,
and/or past experiences.
You have preconceived ideas or bias - effective listening includes
being open-minded to the ideas and opinions of others, this does not
mean you have to agree but should listen and attempt to understand.
You make judgments, thinking, for example that a person is not very
bright or is under-qualified so there is no point listening to what they
have to say.
Previous experiences – we are all influenced by previous experiences
in life. We respond to people based on personal appearances, how
initial introductions or welcomes were received and/or previous
interpersonal encounters. If we stereotype a person, we become less
objective and therefore less likely to listen effectively.
Preoccupation - when we have a lot on our minds, we can fail to listen
to what is being said as we're too busy concentrating on what we're
thinking about. This is particularly true when we feel stressed or worried
about issues.
Having a Closed Mind - we all have ideals and values that we believe
to be correct and it can be difficult to listen to the views of others that
contradict our own opinions. The key to effective listening and
interpersonal skills more generally is the ability to have a truly open
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mind - to understand why others think about things differently to you
and use this information to gain a better understanding of the speaker.
Lack of eye contact with the speaker – listeners who are engaged
with the speaker tend to give eye contact. Lack of eye contact can,
however, also be a sign of shyness.
An inappropriate posture - slouched, leaning back or ‘swinging’ on a
chair, leaning forward onto a desk or table and/or a constantly shifting
posture. People who are paying attention tend to lean slightly towards
the speaker.
Being distracted - fidgeting, doodling, looking at a watch, yawning.
Inappropriate expressions and lack of head nods - often when a
listener is engaged with a speaker, they nod their head, this is usually
an almost subconscious way of encouraging the speaker and showing
attention. Lack of head nods can mean the opposite – listening is not
happening. The same can be true of facial expressions, attentive
listeners use smiles as feedback mechanisms and to show attention.
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to avoid
time‐zone barriers
You want to solve a
You want to avoid You want to avoid
problem
miscommunication miscommunication.
or make a decision
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V. ASSESSMENT:
b.
c.
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d.
e.
II. Identify the items/ format in the left whether it is verbal, written or
electronic. Write X of your answer.
Format Verbal Written Electronic
Face‐to‐face conversation
Phone (landline)
Mobile phone
Interview
Meeting
Training
Presentation
Letter
Memo
Report
Proposal
Email
Fax
Voicemail
Webinar
Conference Call
Video Conference
Project Management Website
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Instant Messaging (Skype)
Email Mailing List
SMS / Text Message
Sticky
Scenario:
Renovations are complete and the new office space is ready for people to
move into. A group of co‐workers has been called together to plan the move.
A leader has been selected but everybody else’s roles need to be determined.
This is the first time you have met as a group. You need to discuss the location
of people’s desks, the photocopier, printers, etc. and decorate so the office will
attract customers. You all need to determine the steps necessary to
accomplish the task and the roles and responsibilities of those in the group.
Roles:
Group leader: You are a strong leader who tries to speak clearly and listen
effectively. You need to clearly explain the objectives to the group and keep
the group on task. Try to involve all in the
discussion. You are responsible for developing the plan.
Quiet / shy person: You have a lot of very good ideas but you won’t say
anything until someone asks you directly.
Domineering person: You want to take over the discussion and lead the
group. You think you have all the answers and do not want to waste time
having everybody share their ideas.
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Disagreeable person: You have a negative attitude and are resistant
towards all ideas.
Harmonious person: You always try to make people feel relaxed and are
constantly trying to smooth things out between people who are disagreeing.
Encouraging person: You want to make sure that everybody is heard,
regardless of their background or ideas. Pull group members into the
conversation.
Ideas person: You get very excited in the group and love to brainstorm and
share extravagant ideas that aren’t always realistic.
Task master: You are always very organized and like to stay focused on the
task at hand. You keep bringing the group back to the practical actions that
need to be taken to accomplish the task.
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I. TOPIC 11: STRESS MANAGEMENT
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
Stress is a feeling of emotional or physical tension. It can come from any event
or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous.
Considerations
When you have chronic stress, your body stays alert, even though there is no
danger. Over time, this puts you at risk for health problems, including:
If you already have a health condition, chronic stress can make it worse.
Feelings of stress are normally triggered by things happening in your life which
involve:
There might be one big thing causing you stress, but stress can also be caused
by a build-up of small pressures. This might make it harder for you to identify
what making you feels stressed, or to explain it to other people.
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Why do certain things make me feel stressed?
The amount of stress you feel in different situations may depend on many
factors such as:
We're all different, so a situation that doesn't bother you at all might cause
someone else a lot of stress. For example, if you're feeling confident or usually
enjoy public speaking, you might find that giving a speech in front of people
feels comfortable and fun. But if you're feeling low or usually prefer not to be
the center of attention, this situation might cause you to experience signs of
stress.
"I get stressed when things get out of perspective – too much work, thinking
too far ahead."
Personal
illness or injury
pregnancy and becoming a parent
bereavement
long-term health problems
organizing a complicated event, like a group holiday
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everyday tasks such as travel or household chores.
Housing
Money
"My breakdown [...] was due to having a stressful job as a project manager
and dealing with a marriage break up and subsequent divorce."
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Can happy events cause stress?
Some of the situations listed above are often thought of as happy events – for
example, you might feel expected to be happy or excited about getting married
or having a baby.
But because they can bring big changes or make unusual demands on you,
they can still be very stressful. This can be particularly difficult to deal with,
because you might feel there's additional pressure on you to be positive.
"I've never been more stressed in my life than the 6 months leading up to my
wedding... everyone kept asking me if I was happy and expecting me to be
excited all the time, but I just couldn't feel it. I ended up getting really ill."
Effective stress management helps you break the hold stress has on your life,
so you can be happier, healthier, and more productive. The ultimate
goal is a balanced life, with time for work, relationships, relaxation, and
fun—and the resilience to hold up under pressure and meet challenges
head on. But stress management is not one-size-fits-all. That’s why it’s
important to experiment and find out what works best for you. The
following stress management tips can help you do that.
Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life.
To identify your true sources of stress, look closely at your habits, attitude, and
excuses:
Do you explain away stress as temporary (“I just have a million things
going on right now”) even though you can’t remember the last time you
took a breather?
Do you define stress as an integral part of your work or home life
(“Things are always crazy around here”) or as a part of your personality
(“I have a lot of nervous energy, that’s all”)?
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Do you blame your stress on other people or outside events, or view it
as entirely normal and unexceptional?
Until you accept responsibility for the role you play in creating or maintaining
it, your stress level will remain outside your control.
It’s not healthy to avoid a stressful situation that needs to be addressed, but
you may be surprised by the number of stressors in your life that you can
eliminate.
Learn how to say “no.” Know your limits and stick to them. Whether in your
personal or professional life, taking on more than you can handle is a surefire
recipe for stress. Distinguish between the “shoulds” and the “musts” and,
when possible, say “no” to taking on too much.
Avoid people who stress you out. If someone consistently causes stress in
your life, limit the amount of time you spend with that person, or end the
relationship.
Take control of your environment. If the evening news makes you anxious,
turn off the TV. If traffic makes you tense, take a longer but less-traveled route.
If going to the market is an unpleasant chore do your grocery shopping online.
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The four A’s – Avoid, Alter, Adapt & Accept
Pare down your to-do list. Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily
tasks. If you’ve got too much on your plate, drop tasks that aren’t truly
necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely.
If you can’t avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Often, this involves
changing the way you communicate and operate in your daily life.
Create a balanced schedule. All work and no play is a recipe for burnout.
Try to find a balance between work and family life, social activities and solitary
pursuits, daily responsibilities and downtime.
If you can’t change the stressor, change yourself. You can adapt to stressful
situations and regain your sense of control by changing your expectations
and attitude.
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The four A’s – Avoid, Alter, Adapt & Accept
Look at the big picture. Take perspective of the stressful situation. Ask
yourself how important it will be in the long run. Will it matter in a month? A
year? Is it really worth getting upset over? If the answer is no, focus your time
and energy elsewhere.
Don’t try to control the uncontrollable. Many things in life are beyond our
control, particularly the behavior of other people. Rather than stressing out
over them, focus on the things you can control such as the way you choose
to react to problems.
Look for the upside. When facing major challenges, try to look at them as
opportunities for personal growth. If your own poor choices contributed to a
stressful situation, reflect on them and learn from your mistakes.
Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that
people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from
negative energy by forgiving and moving on.
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The four A’s – Avoid, Alter, Adapt & Accept
Share your feelings. Expressing what you’re going through can be very
cathartic, even if there’s nothing you can do to alter the stressful situation.
Talk to a trusted friend or make an appointment with a therapist.
When you’re stressed, the last thing you probably feel like doing is getting up
and exercising. But physical activity is a huge stress reliever—and you don’t
have to be an athlete or spend hours in a gym to experience the benefits.
Exercise releases endorphins that make you feel good, and it can also serve
as a valuable distraction from your daily worries.
While you’ll get the most benefit from regularly exercising for 30 minutes or
more, it’s okay to build up your fitness level gradually. Even very small activities
can add up over the course of a day. The first step is to get yourself up and
moving. Here are some easy ways to incorporate exercise into your daily
schedule:
While just about any form of physical activity can help burn away tension and
stress, rhythmic activities are especially effective. Good choices include
walking, running, swimming, dancing, cycling, tai chi, and aerobics. But
whatever you choose, make sure it’s something you enjoy so you’re more likely
to stick with it.
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While you’re exercising, make a conscious effort to pay attention to your body
and the physical (and sometimes emotional) sensations you experience as
you’re moving. Focus on coordinating your breathing with your movements, for
example, or notice how the air or sunlight feels on your skin. Adding this
mindfulness element will help you break out of the cycle of negative thoughts
that often accompanies overwhelming stress.
There is nothing more calming than spending quality time with another human
being who makes you feel safe and understood. In fact, face-to-face interaction
triggers a cascade of hormones that counteracts the body’s defensive “fight-
or-flight” response. It’s nature’s natural stress reliever (as an added bonus, it
also helps stave off depression and anxiety). So make it a point to connect
regularly—and in person—with family and friends.
Keep in mind that the people you talk to don’t have to be able to fix your stress.
They simply need to be good listeners. And try not to let worries about looking
weak or being a burden keep you from opening up. The people who care about
you will be flattered by your trust. It will only strengthen your bond.
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Of course, it’s not always realistic to have a pal close by to lean on when you
feel overwhelmed by stress, but by building and maintaining a network of close
friends you can improve your resiliency to life’s stressors.
Beyond a take-charge approach and a positive attitude, you can reduce stress
in your life by carving out “me” time. Don’t get so caught up in the hustle and
bustle of life that you forget to take care of your own needs. Nurturing yourself
is a necessity, not a luxury. If you regularly make time for fun and relaxation,
you’ll be in a better place to handle life’s stressors.
Set aside leisure time. Include rest and relaxation in your daily schedule.
Don’t allow other obligations to encroach. This is your time to take a break from
all responsibilities and recharge your batteries.
Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities that bring
you joy, whether it be stargazing, playing the piano, or working on your bike.
Keep your sense of humor. This includes the ability to laugh at yourself. The
act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.
Poor time management can cause a lot of stress. When you’re stretched too
thin and running behind, it’s hard to stay calm and focused. Plus, you’ll be
tempted to avoid or cut back on all the healthy things you should be doing to
keep stress in check, like socializing and getting enough sleep. The good
news: there are things you can do to achieve a healthier work-life balance.
Prioritize tasks. Make a list of tasks you have to do, and tackle them in order
of importance. Do the high-priority items first. If you have something
particularly unpleasant or stressful to do, get it over with early. The rest of your
day will be more pleasant as a result.
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In addition to regular exercise, there are other healthy lifestyle choices that can
increase your resistance to stress.
Eat a healthy diet. Well-nourished bodies are better prepared to cope with
stress, so be mindful of what you eat. Start your day right with breakfast, and
keep your energy up and your mind clear with balanced, nutritious meals
throughout the day.
Reduce caffeine and sugar. The temporary “highs” caffeine and sugar
provide often end in with a crash in mood and energy. By reducing the amount
of coffee, soft drinks, chocolate, and sugar snacks in your diet, you’ll feel more
relaxed and you’ll sleep better.
Get enough sleep. Adequate sleep fuels your mind, as well as your body.
Feeling tired will increase your stress because it may cause you to think
irrationally.
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manage your stress levels right now. That’s where quick stress relief comes
in.
The fastest way to reduce stress is by taking a deep breath and using your
senses—what you see, hear, taste, and touch—or through a soothing
movement. By viewing a favorite photo, smelling a specific scent, listening to
a favorite piece of music, tasting a piece of gum, or hugging a pet, for example,
you can quickly relax and focus yourself. Of course, not everyone responds to
each sensory experience in the same way. The key to quick stress relief is to
experiment and discover the unique sensory experiences that work best for
you.
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V. ASSESSMENT:
I. Direction: Read and answer the questions. Encircle the letter of your
answer.
1. The physical and mental response that our bodies go through when
exposed to challenges or perceived threats is .
a. Eustress b. Distress c. Trauma d. Stress
2. A real or perceived threat or challenge that causes the body to produce a
response is a(n) .
a. Frustration b. Phobia c. Stressor d. Injury
3. Josiah is a full-time student who is captain of the football team,and vice
president of the biology club. He also works part-time. The primary
stressor in his life would be .
a. overload b. eustress c. exhaustion d. conflict
4. Anger can develop in response to all of the following, EXCEPT a .
a. series of minor frustrations
b. reaction to injustice
c. sense of safety and well-being
d. perceived threat
5. Which of the following is a time-management tip that can help reduce
stress?
a. Take a day off to relax even if you have assignments due immediately.
b. Make a list of tasks, prioritize, and budget time to handle them.
c. Don't open your bills right away if you know you are behind on
payments.
d. Don't bother cleaning up clutter until you have time to do it correctly.
6. Exercise reduces stress by .
a. improving aerobic capacity
b. suppressing immune function
c. raising levels of endorphins
d. decreasing energy
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7. Stress management is about learning
a. Weather b. Traffic
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I. TOPIC 12: SELF-AWARENESS AND SELF-MANAGEMENT
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
The following are examples of great individuals who dared to dream and
dared to be:
1. Beethoven was totally deaf, yet he produced musical masterpieces.
2. Milton was blind, poor and sick, yet he wrote Paradise Lost and
Paradise Regained.
3. Abraham Lincoln failed several times in his political career, before he
was elected to become one of the greatest US Presidents.
4. Burt Reynolds washed dishes for a living before he became a well-
respected actor.
5. Helen Keller struggled to overcome her handicap to become an
inspiration to both the blind and the seeing.
1. You as You
o Nosce te ipsum is Latin for “Know thyself”
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o Let’s begin to know yourself, since the essential formula for
achievement is self-analysis.
a. Know the difference between your biological or inherited
traits and you environmental or acquired traits.
b. Self-awareness is an awareness of one’s own personality
or individuality
Self- oneself/himself/herself/myself
Belonging to oneself
A person in prime condition
Entire person as an individual
Awareness – having or showing realization, perception
or knowledge
Be your own best friend and believe in yourself,
so that you can become the person you want to
be.
You are you and you are what you think. You are
unique in your own way. Only you can control
your destiny and make difference in your life.
2. You as a Filipino
o Being aware of and remaining constantly on guard against the
Filipino tendency towards negativism, you can eventually
propel yourself into positivism.
o Use your “lakas at tibay ng loob” (courage and strength) to
move away from the fatalistic “gulong ng palad” (wheel of
furtune) and “bahala na” (come what may) attitude.
o Begin by getting involved with your own life. Makialam ka sa
Buhay mo! Cooperate, makisama ka, by first initiating a change
in yourself.
o Begin without expecting instant miracles. You have got only one
real friend and one worst enemy and that is yourself.
o Believe in your abilities and work unyielding to reach your
objectives.
3. You and Your Faith
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Filipino worship is directed towards God as a Father-figure who
takes care of all- “Bahala na ang Diyos”, significantly that Devine
Providence is responsible for our destinies. Thus, whenever
problems confront us, we tend to turn against God and blame Him
for all the misfortunes.
4. Your “Self-help” Concepts (Morell R.W. - 1999)
You may or may not be of the self-help or self-improvement
teachings, but if you want to be more successful, you should:
Believe in Yourself
Keep Your Priorities Straight
Take Responsibility for Yourself
Create Your Own Future
Focus On What You Want
Learn to Visualize the Outcome of your Goals
Never let anyone control your destiny for you
Be creative
Control stress
Be aggressive and assertive
Think positively
Chart your own course
Set specific goals and review them often
Spend some time each day improving your mind
Review your results and readjust as necessary
Be tolerant
Do everything with love
Don’t hate
Have courage
Recognize that most of what we believe about life is an
illusion
Be honest
Work hard
Believe money is good and it will come to you and so on,
and on, and on
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5. A Self- Made Wall of Negative Self-Talk (Helmstetter, S. 2000)
Here are few example of frequently-used negative talk. As you road
them, see if you know someone who says something similar, or if
you have said something like any of these yourself:
I can’t remember names
It’s going to be another one of those days!
It’s just no use
I just know it won’t work!
Nothing ever goes right for me
That’s just my luck
I’m so clumsy!
I don’t have the talent
I’m just not creative
Everything I eat goes right to my waist
I can’t seem to get organized
Today just isn’t my day!
I can never afford the things I want
I already know I won’t like lit
No matter what I do can’t seem to lose weight
I never have enough time
I just don’t have the patience for that
That really makes me mad!
When will I ever learn!
I get sick just thinking about it
Sometimes I just hate myself
I’m just no good!
I’m too shy
I never know what to say, and so on, and on, and on
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V. ASSESSMENT:
Instructions: the following are though, often pretentious questions. Figure out
the question’s real meaning and fire back a crisp, insightful answer. (Select
only 10 questions and right your answer on the space provided following the
list).
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18. Are you a member of your Barangay Organization? What is the
nature of the organization?
19. How do you handle conflict?
20. If you could change something about your work style, what would it
be?
Answers
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
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3. Select at least ten (10) negative self-talk, and change these negative
self-talk to positive.
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
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I. TOPIC 13: THE SELF-MANAGEMENT SEQUENCE
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
IV. CONTENT:
THE SELF-MANAGEMENT SEQUENCE (HELMSTETTER, SHAD, 2000)
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find that most of us have a combination of attitude- some good, some
not so good.
o Our attitudes play a very important part in helping us become
successful. Good attitudes are created, controlled or influenced entirely
by our beliefs.
4. Beliefs
o What we believe about anything will determine our attitudes about it,
create our feelings, direct our actions, and help us to do well or poorly,
succeed or fail. The belief that we have about anything is so powerful that
it can even make something appear to be something different than what
is really is! Belief does not require that something be the way we see it to
be. It only requires us to believe that it is. Belief does not require
something to be true. It only requires us to believe that it’s true!
5. Programming
o We believe that we are programmed to believe our conditioning from the
day we were born has created, reinforced, and nearly permanently
cemented most of what we believe about ourselves and what we believe
about most of what goes on around us. Whether the programming was
right or wrong, true or false, the result of it is what we believe. It is our
programming that sets up our beliefs, and the chain of reaction begins.
What we believe determines out attitudes, affects our behavior, and
determines our success or failure.
Programming creates beliefs
Beliefs create attitudes
Attitudes create feelings
Feelings determine actions
Actions create results
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V. ASSESSMENT:
Put
Personality Chec Who am I? Self-estimate of your characteristics
Dimensions k features
Mark
s
A Brilliant, creative, a thinker, highly-informed
Intellectual B Bright, studious, school-minded, well-informed
C Average, conscientious, adequately-informed
D Below average, indifferent, easy-going, hardly-
informed
A High achiever, outgoing, very active leader
Leadership B Above average achiever, independent, moderately
active leader
C average achiever, conventional, active follower
D Below average achiever, conforming, indifferent
follower
A Strongly law-abiding, strongly disturbed with
Conscience misdeeds committed, strictly conventional
B Somewhat law-abiding, somewhat disturbed with
misdeeds committed, somewhat conventional
C May disobey rules or law as long as no one else
sees; not disturb by misdeeds, indifferent to
convention
D Delights in misdeeds that flaunt-rules and law; does
not care about conventions
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A Performing outstandingly in school; recipient of
Achievement awards and honors
B Performing well in school; better than most students
C Performing satisfactorily; as good as half the class
D Performing barely satisfactorily; among the poorest
in the class
A Very physically active, athletic, energetic
Physical B Somewhat physically active, takes to athletics
regularly
C Physically inactive, shuns athletics; too weak to do
physical exercise
D Hardly physically active, joins athletics only when
required, lacking of energy
A Highly artistic, connoisseur of art; avid consumer of
Aesthetic artistic commodity like records and tapes, art
exhibits, plays, concerts, etc.
B Somewhat appreciative of art, has some artistic
talent, regular consumer of artistic commodity
C Likes certain forms of art; attends artistic
performances if there is time
D Don’t care about art; don’t understand art
A Very lively, cheerful, very enthusiastic, fun to be
Emotional with
Warmth B Somewhat lively, pleasant, somewhat enthusiastic,
relaxing to be with
C Hardly lively, occasionally pleasant, with little
enthusiasm, quiescent
D Grouchy, irritable, unenthusiastic, unexcitable,
tense
A Very accommodating, empathetic, adaptable,
Personal affiliates with others
Relations B Somewhat accommodating, considerate,
cooperative
C Hardly accommodating, somewhat self-directed
D Stand-offish, hostile, insensitive to others, whishing
harm done to others
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A Very enduring, responsible, enterprising,
persevering, playful
Work B Somewhat enduring, prefers to execute ready-made
plans, accepts but does not seek responsibility
C Hardly enduring, short-lived effort; seldom makes
plans; if possible, accepts no responsibility
D Unenduring, does not work up to completion of task,
irresponsible, adverse to planning
A Eloquent, forceful, assertive, persuasive, effective in
Communicati communication
ng B Somewhat eloquent, somewhat assertive,
somewhat effective
C Hardly skillful and effective in communication
D Faltering, awkward, ineffective in communication
A Very religious, give much time to church work,
Religious contemplative, very benevolent
B Somewhat religious, gives some time to church
work, somewhat benevolent
C Hardly religious, seldom engages in church work,
hardly performs benevolent acts
D Irreligious, does not perform church work, performs
no benevolent acts or work
A Very ambitious, very highly aspiring, very optimistic,
Outlook on and hopeful of the future
life B Somewhat ambitious, somewhat highly aspiring,
quite hopeful of the future
C Hardly ambitious, uncertain about life goals and
vague as to the future
D Lacking in ambition, makes no projection about the
future; lives by the day
A Very loving and worthy of love, indispensable peer
Self-worth in attainment of goals, most highly regarded by
family; recognized as leader in civic/ social work
B Somewhat loving and lovable; seem by peers as
cooperative; appreciated by commonly for
civic/social work
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C Hardly loving and lovable; seen by peers as passive
follower; unnoticeable in civic/social work
D Unloving and unlovable; seen by peers as
obstructive of group goals; uncivic-minded
How to Score your self-assessment
Score A x10 = 130 points
Score B x10 = 104 points
Score C x10 = 78 points
Score D x10 = 52 points
*Summation of all the points = points
*Refer to the following table for your rating score
Score (pts.) Personality Dimension Grade
110-130 Excellent 90%
89-109 Above Average 85%
68-88 Average 80%
47-67 Below Average 75%
26-46 Poor 60%
If you got a poor personality dimensions, after knowing who you are, you
need not worry,. Instead you must challenge yourself in improving your
personality dimensions by applying the five steps of self-management
sequence. This will help you in controlling your success and failure in life.
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I. TOPIC 14: HUMAN PERSON AND VALUES DEVELOPMENT
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
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5. Approach by way of people who had the greatest impact on you
6. Approach to self through severe trails
7. Approach by way of deep and not yet fulfilled aspirations\
4. The “I”
o The “I” has 3 different aspects.
1. The Intellect
2. The Freedom
3. The will
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on the kind of stimulus, concept or situations that will greatly affect
the human person.
Insert picture
C. Ten Commandments of Human Relations
1. Speak to people. There is nothing as nice as a cheerful word of
greeting.
2. Smile at people. It takes 65 muscles to frown and only 15 to smile.
3. Call people by name. The sweetest music to anyone’s ear is the
sound of his/her own name.
4. Be friendly and helpful. If you would have friends, be friendly.
5. Be cordial. Speak and act as if everything you do were a genuine
pleasure.
6. Be genuinely interested in people. You can like everybody if you try.
7. Be generous with praise – take caution in criticizing.
8. Be considerate with the feelings of others. It will be appreciated.
9. Be thoughtful of the opinion of others. There are three sides to a
controversy – yours, the others fellow’s, and the right one.
10. Be alert to give service. What counts most in life is what we do for.
D. Mission Possible Team (I Can Win)
1. Successful people have a positive mental attitude.
2. Successful people are courageous people who take risks.
3. Successful people choose well.
4. Successful people persist.
5. Successful people adhere to the power of prayer.
6. Successful people know how to pace themselves and journey
through life with enthusiasm.
7. Successful people govern themselves with discipline.
8. Successful people the best to whatever they do.
9. Successful people align their sense of purpose with the common
good.
10. Successful people keep a positive count by responding positively to
any person or situation.
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11. Successful people harmonize with encouragement.
12. Successful people are decisive people who make things happen.
V. ASSESSMENT:
Write your answers/ reaction on the pace provided or indicated in each item.
1. Approach by Way of Self-Image/ Self-Inventory (Pag-analisa sa Sarili)
A. How do I see myself? (paano ko tinitingnan ang aking sarili?)
Positive Negative Limitations
B. What do people say of me? (Ano ang sinasabi ng ibang tao tao
tungkol sa akin?)
Who? (Sino?) Says What? Do I Experience
(Anong Sinabi) Myself To Be Like
that? Why? (Ganito
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Ba Talaga Ako?
Bakit?)
C. What can I say about myself in the following categories? (Ano ang
masasabi ko tungkol sa aking sarili sa mga sumusunod na
kategorya?)
Categories Explaination
My heart
(ang aking Puso)
My Sensibility /
Emotion
(damdamin)
Intelligence
(kakayahan sa
pag-iisip)
My will
(kagustuhan)
Action
(ksyon/galaw)
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Interpersonal
Relationship
(pakikitungo sa
kapwa)
Relationship with
GOD
(Relasyon sa
Panginoon)
1. Parents
2. Spouse/Children
3. Friends/Neighbor
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4. Curch
5. Co-Worker
2. Single-Blessedness
3. Participation in Civic
Organization
G. Severe trials encountered in life (mga grabeng pagsubok na
naranasan)
How did it affect you? What did
Trials (mga pagsubok) you do to overcome it? (Paano
it nakaapekto sa iyo:? Paano
ito nakakaapekto sa iyo?
Paano m ito nalampasan?)
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H. Not yet fulfilled aspirations
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I. TOPIC 15: VALUES DEVELOPMENT
II. LEARNING OUTCOMES:
A. Value defined
o Derived from the Latin word, valere, to be worth, be strong- something
intrinsically valuable or desirable. A thing has value when it is perceived
a good and desirable. To develop is to acquire gradually, by successive
changes, to move from the original position – to one providing more
opportunity for effective use. Thus, values development is the act,
process or result of developing the values for a Human Dignity.
o Values are the bases of judging what attitudes and behavior are correct
and desirable and what are not, it is therefore crucial that there be an
appropriate framework as well as strategy for providing the context and
operational guidelines for implementing a values education program
(DECS Values Education Program Framework, Values Education for
Filipino, 1998).
B. Value Systems: Various Views
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The meaning of values
According to Clyde Kluckholm: “ A value is a conception, explicit or
implicit, distinctive of an individual or characteristics of a group, of the
desirable which influences the selection from available modes means
and ends of action”.
According to Cornelius Van Der Poel: “Value refers to the understanding
of a certain good for an individual or society which is considered worthy
of realization”.
According to Brian Hall, Michael Kenny and Maury Smith: Something
that is freely chosen from alternatives and is acted upon, that which the
individual celebrates as being part of the creative integration in
development as a person.
A value is something or someone who is considered good or worthy and
desirable or useful. It is something considered worthy by a person or
group. It can be one-word standard of conduct (respect) or a policy
everyone in an organization adheres to and believe in. society depends
on certain values like cooperation and honesty. To function values may
also be concepts considered important by a select group, and not by
others. It may be explicitly stated as they are more and more in
organizations. Or they may be unspoken, yet recognized by all.
C. Values Education
Values education is the process by which values are formed in the learner
under the guidance of the teachers and parents as he/she interacts with
his/her environment.
1. Values are subject matter must have a direct and immediate relevance
to the personal life of the learner.
2. The process must involve all the faculties of the learners. It must not
just be cognitive. It must appeal not only to the mind but to the heart,
recognizing the total human person.
3. The teacher’s and parent’s personal values play an important role in
values learning.
D. The Why, When, Where, Who, What, and How, in Teaching Values
1. Why teach values?
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Because our parents tried to teach them to us
Because they are what makes our society safe and workable
Because it helps develop a sense of autonomy, independence and
confidence
Because it is the most significant and effective thing to attain happiness
2. When? Value should be taught to all ages with different agendas and
changing emphasis as one gets mature. Teach values now and always.
3. Where? Values are best taught in the home, in either the positive or
the negative sense. It can be far more influential than what is taught in
school.
4. Who? Parents are the crucial examples and instructors of values. They
are the general contractor. The teachers, the institution and
organizations are considered as subcontractors serving as
supplement, support and back up of parents.
5. What? Decide which values to teach. Choose a teaching system that
will help you decide what to teach.
6. How? There are methods especially designed in teaching values to
pre-schools, elementary ages, adolescents and community people.
E. Importance of Teaching Values
1. Values are extremely powerful. They guide people and identify what
behavior acceptable and what behavior is not. It is a principle that either
accomplishes a well-being or prevents harm or does both. It is
something that helps or something that prevents hurt.
2. Values have to do with being and with giving. It is who we are and what
we give rather than what we have that make up our truest inner selves.
3. The values of being (who we are) are honesty, courage, peaceability,
self-reliance, discipline and fidelity. These are given as they are gained
and practice on the “outer” as they are developed in the “inner”. The
values of giving (what we give) are respect, love, loyalty, unselfishness,
kindness and mercy. There are gatherd and develop as they are
practiced.
F. The Values of Being and Giving (Linda Eyre, et.al; 1993)
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A true and universally acceptable “value” is one that produces behavior
that is beneficial both to the practitioner and to those whom it is practiced.
A value is a quality distinguished by:
a. Its ability to multiply and increase in our possession even as it is given
away
b. The fact (even the law) that, the more it is given to others, the more it
will be returned by others and received by others.
1. On Values of Being. The following are the values of Being:
Honesty
Honesty must be practiced with other individuals, with institutions, with
society and with self. The inner strength and confidence are bred by
exacting truthfulness, trustworthiness, and integrity.
Courage
This means daring to attempt difficult things that are good. It is the strength
not to follow the crowd, to say no and mean it and influence others by it. It
means being true to convictions and following good impulses even when
they are unpopular or inconvenient. It means boldness to be outgoing and
friendly.
Peaceability
This means calmness, peacefulness, and serenity. It is the tendency to
accommodate rather than argue. It is the ability to understand how offers
feel rather than simply reacting them. It means the control of temper.
Self-Reliance and Potential
This means individually, awareness and development of gifts and
uniqueness. It means taking responsibility for one’s own actions. It means
overcoming the tendency to blame others for difficulties. It is commitment
to personal excellence.
Self-Discipline and Moderation
This refers to physical, mental and financial self-discipline. It means
moderation in speaking, in eating and in exercising. It also means the
controlling and bridling of one’s own appetites and understanding the limits
of body and mind. It means avoiding the dangers of extreme, unbalanced
viewpoint.
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Fidelity and Chastity
This refers to the value and security of fidelity within marriage and of
restraint and limits before marriage. It is the commitment that go with
marriage and that should go with sex.
2. On values of Giving. The following are values of Giving:
Loyalty and dependability
This refers to loyalty to family, to employees, to country, to church, to
schools and to other organization and institutions. It means reliability and
consistency in doing what you say you will do.
Respect
This means respect for life, for property, for parents, for elders, for nature,
and so for the beliefs right so for others. It refers to courtesy, politeness
and manners. It means self-respect and the avoidance of self-criticism.
Love
This means individual and personal caring that goes beneath and beyond
loyalty and respect. It means love for friends, neighbors even adversaries,
and a prioritized, lifelong, commitment of love for family.
Unselfishness and Sensitivity
This means becoming more extra-centered and less self-centered. It
means learning o feel with and for others. It refers to empathy, tolerance,
brotherhood, sensitivity to needs in people and situations
Kindness and Friendship
This refers to awareness that being kind and considerate is more admirable
than being or strong. The tendency to understand rather than confront, and
be gentle, particularly toward those who are younger and weaker. It is the
ability to make and keep friends. It means helpfulness and cheerfulness.
Justice and Mercy
This refers to obedience to law, fairness in work and play. It is an
understanding of the natural consequences and the law of the harvest. It
refers to the grasp of mercy and forgiveness and an understanding of the
futility (and bitter poison) of carrying a grudge.
G. Value Formation
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The Christian Value-Formation is a lifelong process of growing which gets
its strength from Jesus’ sermon on the amount. Factors affect one’s value
formation:
1. Two (2) Factors Affecting Value Formation
o Influences – these depend on a person’s internal influence such as
intellectual and emotional capabilities.
o Experience Factor – like good influences, good experience are needed in
value formation.
2. There are four (4) types of experiences that will influence or affect the
formation of values
o Liturgical Experience
o Bible Experience
o Learning Experience
o Human Experience
H. Value Clarification – Value Clarification is a difficult task
1. There are three basic steps that are useful in Value Clarification
a. Choice
b. Value
c. Action
2. Values are better than rules
Forward-thinking – the organization promotes values to guide people.
Doing this serves time because organizations need not write rules, and
need not refer to rule books or organization manual.
3. Values serves as outline goals
An explicit set of values shall from form the foundation of any
organization because the endure
4. Value send a message
A good value teachers and guides the members of the organization. A
symbolic act affirms the value over and over.
5. Values shape an organization
Value manifests itself in various ways. It trusts members to produce
quality good products. Values can shape and animate an organization.
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DEVELOPING GOOD HABITS FOR EFFECTIVENESS
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4. Think Win/Win
o The habit of effective interpersonal leadership is Think
Win/Win. Win/Win is not a technique; it is a total philosophy
of human interaction. In fact, it is one of the six paradigms
which include Win/Lose, Lose/Win, Lose/Lose, Win and
Win/Win or No Deal.
5. Seek First to Understand then to be Understood
o “Seek first to understand” involves a very deep shift in
paradigm. We typically seek first to be understood. Most
people do not listen with the intern to understand; they listen
with the intent to reply. They are either speaking or
preparing to speak. They are filtering everything through
their own paradigms readings their autobiography into
others people’s lives.
6. Synergize
o Means that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. It
means that the relationship which the parts have to each
other is a part in and of itself.
o Synergy is the highest activity in all life –the true test and
manifestation of all of the other habits put together. It is the
essence of principle-centered leadership and parenting.
7. Sharpen you “Saw” of Self-Principles of Balanced Self-
Removal
o Habit is taking to sharpen the saw. It is the habit that makes
all the others possible. It is preserving and enhancing the
greatest asset you have- you. It is reserving the four
dimensions of your nature- physical, spiritual, mental, and
social/emotional.
C. Dimension (core) and Related Values
Dimensions of Self-You! Values
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1. Physical Health, Physical Fitness,
Cleanliness, harmony with the
Materials, Universe, Beauty, Art
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V. ASSESSMENT:
1. Explain the four dimensions of self in terms of your attitudes and behavior
leading to their corresponding values.
2. How will you able to actualize these values in your family, school and
community? Explain how each of these values affect your personhood.
3. Explain each of the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People with respect to
your own experiences. Which of the 7 Habits do you consider most effective?
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4. Explain how knowledge, skill and desire interest with each other in forming
a good habit in your life?
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