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Manual Gaslighting 101 Therapists
Manual Gaslighting 101 Therapists
Manual Gaslighting 101 Therapists
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Gaslighting 101 for
Therapists
3 STRATEGIES TO HELP CLIENTS BREAK FREE FROM NARCISSISTS AND HEAL
Disclaimer
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Goals
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Recognize gaslighting in Support clients in Help clients set
your clients' lives, and asserting their right to boundaries without guilt
help them recognize it, healthy and respectful
too relationships
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Origins and current usage
Gaslighting in relationships
Erodes self-confidence.
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Why do they do that?
Gaslighting in Action
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Used to maintain a
sense of power, control,
or influence over a partner
Behaviors may include:
Intimate and Lying
Romantic Invalidating/dismissing
Infidelity
Relationships
Veiled/overt threats
Blame shifting
Mindreading
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Spotlight: DARVO
Gaslighting in Action
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The "Frenemy"
Turning a friend or work group
Friendships against the gaslightee
and the Downplaying another's
Workplace accomplishments.
Backhanded "compliments" or
veiled criticism.
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Gaslighting in Action
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Gaslighting trauma in communities
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Beginning to Heal
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Rebuilding self-compassion
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Rebuilding self-trust
Mindful
awareness of Recognizing progress,
body sensations even if steps are small
Keeping a log of Increase time with
positive responses to positive social supports
assertiveness Recognize the courage
Expressing gratitude to of changing a harmful
internal survival pattern
mechanisms
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Beginning to Heal
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Developing assertiveness: Starting
Points
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Beginning to Heal
SETTING BOUNDARIES
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Step 1: Identify the client's values.
Step 2: Define the perimeter.
5 Steps to Step 3: Identify specific, problematic
Setting behaviors and offer an alternative (if
appropriate).
Boundaries
Step 4: Identify how the client will
respond if the boundary is violated.
Step 5: Follow through on the
consequences.
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Healing is a non-linear
process
Clients may be in denial –
tread softly
The healing Fear and resistance are
process: Points normal
to remember Patience is key
Our clients are resilient, and
healing is possible
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Amy@amymarlowmacoy.com
www.amymarlowmacoy.com
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