Activity 5

I. Research on the dynamics of attraction, love and commitment.

Love relationships are a close bond with another that goes deeper than affection,
attraction, lust, or friendship. It is a deep mutual expression of respect, trust, honesty,
integrity, intimacy, partnership and chemistry. Is any force that draws together people
together. Commitment is the conscious decision to stay together, it is an
interpersonal relationship based upon agreed-upon commitment to one another
involving love, trust, honesty, openness, or some other behavior. This includes close
friendship, long-term relationship, engagement, marriage and civil unions.

II. Check whether you agree or disagree on the following statements about ROMANTIC
RELATIONSHIP.

Agree Disagree

1. It is part of my developmental milestone. /

2. I am a particularly conscious of the changes I am /

experiencing on my physical, emotional, and social aspects
of my person.

3. I feel more interested in how I look at myself /

4. I feel more conscious on my body. /

5. I desire for more independence from my parents. /

6. I desire for more space and privacy. /

7. The comfort and love communicated to me will create an /

impact on my ways of relating later.

8. I find it interesting to discuss topics related to /

relationships.

9. There is no commitment in a casual relationship. /

10.I like to be in this kind of relationship /

11. it is fine to explore this kind of relationship from time to /

time

12. There is no risk in this kind of relationship. /

13. I can still build a healthy relationship after a series of /

casual ones.

III. Complete the table on the acceptable and unacceptable ways of expressing attraction, love
and commitment as perceived by you. (Use another sheet of paper if needed)

Concept Acceptable Expression Unacceptable Expression

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 1. Attraction Write a letter and mail it to Stalk them on their social media.
someone your attracted with.

2. Love Tell someone how much you love Don’t exert your effort to tell
them and how much they mean to them how much you love them,
your life. since they already know it.

3. Commitment Understand your partner on a Control your partner for them to

deeper level and express yourself to stay with you.
them.

IV. Essay. (Not less than 200 word each number)

1. How do you feel about expressing attraction, love and commitment?

● Expressing your attraction to someone you like is not that easy especially when a
person you are attracted with is not that fond of you. When I express how attracted I
am with someone I would be nervous and I would feel the pressure, but all in all it is
the best feeling since you already told to a person how much you like her/him.
Expressing your love to someone is not just for someone who you really like, but to
the people you love and care especially to your parents, at first it will be awkward
since a lot of us don’t really tell to our parents how we love them but seeing them
smile while I say those words to my parents will also makes me smile. Expressing
your commitment for someone is like a promise that you should fulfill a promise that
you will love him and you will stay with them that is why before you commit with
others you should know him fully, I think if I ever commit myself to a person I will
be happy since there will be a person who will stay by my side in my ups and downs
and will love me for who really I am.

2. How could you strengthen the acceptable expressions? How will you apply this in your
life?
● In this activity there are some expressions we must do and we must practice
especially when we are in a relationship. In a relationship we cannot avoid having a
fight because it is just normal in one’s relation, but having a fight everyday will make
your relationship toxic that is why we have acceptable expression, and this is a
positive expression how we express our feeling to the person we love. Like telling
someone how you love them and how much they makes you happy every day, and
how much you want them in your life, how beautiful a person is, and understand each
other in a deeper level. We should strengthen this kind of expression as it was
important in one’s expression by practicing it and by normally say it to a person you
love. I will apply this acceptable expression when my partner are felling down I
would tell him that I will stay by his side until he fell okay, if ever he fell insecure
about him I would tell him as he is. Moreover, as a person who already have a partner

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 I must trust him, I must stay faithful I should understand him, I should support him to
whatever he is doing and respect him.

3. What learning/s can you derived from the activity? How will you apply this in your life?
● This activity talks about love, commitment and attraction, and what I learn in this
activity are, Love is one of the most important in everyone life, it is the most common
things that every one of us feel with someone, may be our friends, family or someone
we cherish. Attraction, every one of us feels it, it is when you like someone or
something and the main reason why you are attracted to someone is because you find
them pretty or that someone is familiar to you. While commitment is the main goal of
relationship for each party to feel secured. It is like agreeing to stay together as a
partner for now and in the future. What are the expression/ thing that you must avoid
and you must do when you are in relationship with someone. This 3 may be a
different feeling to each other but are related to each other as this 3 is like a step in
your relationship. I think I will apply this expression by doing this acceptable
expression like I shouldn’t control my partner, I should tell him how happy I was with
him, and we should understand each other and most importantly respect, love, trust
and be faithful to each in order for our relationship to grow.

4. Give at least one aspect to the family (from your family) that could affect your sexual
behavior?
● Sexual behavior is a process by which human demonstrate and express sexuality,
it is also the manner in which human experience and expresses their sexuality. People
engaged themselves in a variety of sexual activities for a wise reason. There are many
aspects in the family that could affect your sexual behavior and one of those is
parents. Parental support is a parent-child relationship and includes involvement and
encouragement in their child activities. But those children who don’t have parent-
child interaction and have a greater involvement in their peers are most likely to have
a sexual behavior. While the children do not get the attention, the support of their
parents they tend to find someone who will give them the attention and support, that
their parents can’t give that is the start of why children change their sexual behavior
because there is no parents who cares for the and no one is telling them if their action
is right or wrong.

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