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Author(s): Leigh A. Leslie
Source: Family Relations, Vol. 44, No. 4, Helping Contemporary Families (Oct., 1995), pp. 359-
367
Published by: National Council on Family Relations
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THE EVOLVINGTREATMENTOF GENDER, ETHNICITY,AND
SEXUALORIENTATIONIN MARITALAND FAMILYTHERAPY
Leigh A. Leslie*
The past decade has seen the field of marital andfamily therapy criticizedfor its treatment of gender, ethnicity, and sexual ori-
entation. The critiques, although emanating from different quarters, have often focused on similar problems in the delivery of
marital and family therapy. In this article, the similarities in the critiques of the treatment of women, minorities, and homo-
sexuals by marital andfamily therapists is reviewed. In addition, the impact these critiques have had on the field will be exam-
ined. Finally, attention is given to areas in which work is still needed.
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1995 FAMILY 359
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journals, the topic has been a controver- and economic resources and incorpo- is that the majority of married White
sial one and has been addressed with rate them into treatment has led to mis- women earn less than their husbands
greater frequency in marital and family understandings of couple dynamics and and are more vulnerable to a substantial
therapy book chapters (e.g., Brown & inadequate, if not potentially harmful, drop in income should the couple sepa-
Zimmer, 1986, Goodrich, Ellman, Ram- treatment for both White and racial-eth- rate or divorce. The unequal financial
page, & Halstead, 1990; Sanders, 1993). nic minority couples. However, for the consequences for men and women if a
These critiques of marital and family latter-African Americans in particular- marriage ends in divorce can greatly af-
therapy have varied in the specific as- any consideration of these factors must fect the couple's negotiations in therapy
pects of therapy that are thought to be be done in light of a third contextual fac- (Taffel & Masters, 1989). Failure to ac-
insensitive or oppressive, yet all share a tor: the experience of racism and dis- knowledge this economic reality leads
common concern that the field has per- crimination. Thus, the effects of these therapists to attribute women's stances
petuated the status quo. Three charac- contextual factors will be considered in such negotiations to personality (e.g.,
teristics of marital and family therapy separately here for White and African "She is too weak to assert herself") or
have been identified in each critique as American couples. gender (e.g., "As a woman, she is more
contributing to this maintenance of the In White couples, women are typi- likely to give in") instead of to the fact
status quo. As traditionally practiced, cally seen as the family caretakers and that individuals in the same family have
marital and family therapy (a) does not men as the primary providers, regardless different options and resources (e.g.,
take into consideration the broader so- of the actual economic contribution of "She knows taking a stand may mean a
cial context when examining family dy- each partner (Perry-Jenkins, Seery, & near poverty existence for herself and
namics, (b) ignores power differences Crouter, 1992). Family therapy has been her children").
both within the family and in the larger criticized for mirroring that cultural ex- In African American couples,
society, and (c) works from an assump- pectation by its tendency to hold moth- women are less likely to be economical-
tion of a monolithic family form. ers responsible for problems within the ly dependent on their husbands. One
family (Bograd, 1990b; Wylie, 1989). Be- outgrowth of the legacy of racism in this
Separation From the Broader cause the mother is frequently in a piv- country is that Black men have experi-
Social Context otal position in the family organization enced pervasive discrimination in em-
and frequently oversees the day-to-day ployment, which has undermined their
General systems theory, as the un- activities of the family, she has been mis- roles as providers in their families
derlying theoretical foundation for most cast as accountable for the current situa- (Franklin, 1992). Thus, Black women
models of family therapy, allows for a tion. Theoretically, mothers' and fathers' have been, and continue to be, major
focus on the impact of the larger social roles counterbalance one another; nei- contributors to the family's financial
and economic system on families. Yet, ther gender is seen as responsible for the well-being, often surpassing their hus-
in practice, systems therapists have common pattern of mothers being more bands as economic providers. This di-
often operated as if the family unit was a involved with their children than fathers. gression from the dominant cultural
complete system unto itself (Taggart, Yet, in practice, interventions focus framework of male as provider can
1985) and have ignored the legal, eco- largely on changing mothers' behavior or greatly affect couple interaction, al-
nomic, and social realities of individual constraining mothers' so-called "over-in- though not always in predictable ways.
clients' lives. In the critiques of the treat- volvement" so that the "distant" fathers Some Black men may feel hesitant to as-
ment of gender and race and ethnicity, can become more engaged with the chil- sert themselves in the couple or family,
two contextual variables-gender role dren, implicitly correcting the problem given that they are not working from the
expectations and economic resources- caused by mothers' involvement (Gold- base of economic provider, whereas
have been identified as particularly sig- ner, 1987; Luepnitz, 1988). In addition, others may work more forcefully to es-
nificant in structuring family life. Cri- the field has developed a much more ex- tablish their dominance because they
tiques of the treatment of sexual orienta- tensive language to talk about mothers' cannot fall back on economic power.
tion have addressed the importance of inadequacies than fathers' inadequacies, Similarly, some Black women may wield
the contextual variables of homophobia in effect, blaming her for what she has more power because of the economic
and secrecy in understanding family life. been socialized to do; that is, to care and balance in the relationship, whereas oth-
be responsible for family and children ers may choose a subordinate position in
Gendered role expectations and
(Bograd, 1990b). It is interesting to note, an effort to protect their partners from
economic resources. Family relation- any further insults to their self-esteem.
ships and interaction are affected daily however, that recent research using a
clinical vignette suggests that family ther- Interestingly, when Black women have
by a myriad of contextual factors, from asserted the power their economic con-
policies of the workplace to region of apists do not tend to see mothers as
more dysfunctional than fathers, or more tributions would allow, it has often been
the country in which one lives. Critiques the focal point used to characterize the
of the treatment of gender, race, and responsible for change in the family.
They do, however, see the parent, re- family with terms such as matriarchal.
ethnicity in marital and family therapy Again, the deviation from the cultural
have noted two contextual factors as gardless of gender, with the greatest con-
cern for the child as being more dysfunc- norm of female subordination can lead
particularly significant in understanding to both Black women and men being
the dynamics observed in therapy with tional (McCollum & Russell, 1992). Thus,
although therapists may no longer be pathologized. The important point for
couples or families: (a) the cultural ex- therapists is that, although couples may
pectations of how men and women are pathologizing mothers per se, the parent
who behaves as women have traditional- cope with it in a variety of ways, the in-
to fill their family roles and (b) the eco- tersection of racism, family economics,
nomic resources of family members ly been socialized to behave is still seen
as the problem. and gender expectations affects family
(e.g., Franklin, 1992; Walters et al., dynamics and must be examined if fami-
1988). These factors in combination Equally as important as role expec- ly therapy is to be beneficial for African
both structure and constrain family dy- tations in determining couple interac- American clients (Franklin, 1992).
namics. Failure to fully recognize the im- tion is the economic balance or econom-
portance of gendered role expectations Homophobia and secrecy. The im-
ic resources of the spouses. The reality
portance of acknowledging the broader