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Astrological birth charts offer valuable information about your dating style, choice of
partner and love life. The relationships between the planets and the houses they
occupy (twelve designated departments that comprise your astrology wheel) provide
additional clues. Once you understand your true needs, satisfying relationships are
easier to come by. While a single article cannot do justice to this very complex topic,
today’s focus is on “revolving door romances.” Unfamiliar with the term? Read on!
This condition is a frenetic episode where love rushes in and out like a comet.

Love Today, Gone Tomorrow

Have you ever wondered why some individuals attract love partners every time they
turn around, while others put years of distance between relationships? Individuals
with the former condition may attract numerous unsuitable partners in rapid
succession, while those who stay unattached tend to avoid recreating painful
relationship experiences. The optimum path lies somewhere in the middle, but
getting there can be a challenge.

All the planets play a part in shaping your life script. Those most associated with love
are the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars, known as the personal planets.
Placement of these planets in the houses, particularly in the zone of intimacy could
trigger a string of romances. The zone of intimacy or relationships includes the Fifth
(dates and lovers), Sixth (co-workers and business contacts), Seventh (personal and
business partners) and Eighth (sex and intimacy). Although the zone of intimacy is
important when examining relationship patterns, a cluster of three or more personal
planets in any house or sign could make you vulnerable to random love encounters
or stimulate these conditions when the planets’ current positions are making contact
with your own.

The Energy in Your Chart

A significant number of personal planets in mutable signs (Gemini, Virgo,

Sagittarius and Pisces) lends a restless quality to your feelings and emotions. Your
group plays the field when you aren’t in a committed relationship—but sometimes
you can be downright fickle even when you are. Current interests or hobbies bring
eligible prospects your way. Moods drive your preferences for socializing and meeting
new people even though expression by sign varies significantly. The range of
exchange is broad because you are masters when it comes to opening lines. With
your easygoing communication style, dates find you romantic and attractive. You
won’t linger unless you feel the connection.

At times you are drawn to opposite types who are amused by your wit and wisdom.
Since you may tend to talk too much, you miss compatibility cues and body
language. Individuals who may have recently ended long-standing relationships need
someone to talk to rather than a new commitment. You mistake their focused gaze
for blatant passion. While your heart is beating faster because this “admirer” takes in
every word, your practical side is begging for a reality check. Bam—out comes your
day planner—you want the newcomer’s name on all your open dates. You are so sure
this one has possibilities. Throw Neptune into the equation with Venus, Mars or both
and you have the illusion of love—the premature kind. Good thing you’re the flexible
type. Soon you’ll be asking yourself what that was all about. In truth, the rush into
love didn’t give you enough time to figure out whether you like each other as friends
let alone lovers.

Planets in predominately cardinal signs (Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn) take on

that runaway love scenario when they cluster in mutable houses in the chart (Third,
Sixth, Ninth and Twelfth) or in the zone of intimacy (Seventh and Eighth Houses). If
you have this pattern, you facilitate an active social life when you are looking for a
relationship. You know that if you don’t get out and circulate you won’t find romance.
While your sign elements draw partners for different reasons, you are mesmerized
by the devoted individuals you attract into your life. You prefer emotional investment
in relationships or you bail out.

Broken engagements, separations and multiple marriages are the norm. Although
some of you have a selfish streak, it’s not unusual for you to give much more in a
relationship than you receive. Once you realize your needs are never going to be
met, you’re bored and out of there. After a breakup, Aries and Libra clusters
generally return quickly to the dating scene in search of someone who appreciates
them for who they are. The lonely-hearts club is not their thing. Cancer and
Capricorn clusters almost always need more time to figure out what went wrong. If
this is you, don’t be shy about reconnecting with eligibles. Just avoid the greedy
ones and stay away from the altar for a while.

Yes, It’s Me and I’m in Love Again

Don’t worry, I didn’t forget about the fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and
Aquarius), who attract runaway love cycles in houses Two and Eleven as well as the
intimacy zone. I hear “I’m in love again” repeatedly these days from several clients
with predominantly fixed placements. The love problems with these individuals are
complex since they don’t usually care for fleeting relationships. Bonding with the
wrong person at the worst possible time leads the list. Most can’t figure out how they
got into the relationship, even though they did the chasing. Some hang on to broken
hearts and anger when the relationship ends, while others look for immediate
bonding with another. Addiction to partners or enabling them to get away with some
very bad behavior are prominent issues.

So what’s going on here? Right now, the fixed signs in particular are experiencing
the effects of rebellious Uranus and dreamy Neptune in Aquarius. Encounters in the
form of trysts, seductions, chases, jealous rages and the illusion of love keep the
heart center vulnerable. Shakeups result in separations, divorce and breakups in
many a relationship, yet the fixed group keeps drawing addictive attachments during
this phase.

If you are the type who falls in love easily, only to have the relationship dissolve, it’s
time to assess the facts. After reading this article, have you identified your Achilles’
heel? Break the runaway love cycle and take the time to heal.