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11-12-14 - Love Forgiveness and Happiness-2 - PiramalHouseProgram Radhanath Swami
11-12-14 - Love Forgiveness and Happiness-2 - PiramalHouseProgram Radhanath Swami
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That love for God is within the heart of every living being, it is our nature, it is our essence. By
following our spiritual practices, by chanting God’s names we could awaken that love. As we
awaken that love rather than trying to find happiness by taking, taking and taking we realize the
real happiness is being an instrument in giving God’s love to the world. Not my love and your
love, my love and your love has all sorts of conditioning but God’s love is unconditional infinite
and forever, when we tap into that love the source of all love to be an instrument of that, that’s
the greatest happiness.
Quality of forgiveness
Forgiveness its one of the most difficult things to do in this world but interestingly in all great
spiritual tradition it has prominent importance, it’s not a detail of life its sacred. For any
relationship to have quality and endure over time forgiveness is crucial because people are
imperfect and people make mistake and people do things we just don’t like and people just are
not the way I want them to be. Therefore we find amongst the great souls of so many traditions
such extreme forgiveness. Jesus Christ it was one of his last lessons as he was been crucified, he
didn’t pray to God to punish this people who are torturing him; he gave a universal prayer, my
father forgive them they know not what they do. He was seeing beneath the external features of
the leprosy that Dominique was speaking about, the leprosy of the heart is an external feature.
mamaiväàço jéva-loke
jéva-bhütaù sanätanaù
Every living being is a part of God, the living force that is animating this body, the living force
that perceives through eyes and the ears and the nose and the flesh and the brain that living force
is a sacred part of God. Somehow other by conditions, by experiences, by traumas, by wronged
choices and Karma’s people develop all sorts of different mentality and emotions and reactions
and people are evil. We hate the diseased, my mother was diseased before she passed from this
world I hated the disease but I loved diseased because I relate to her. When we understand our
own relationship with God, we understand that everyone is our brothers and sisters and therefore
we are able to actually forgive people. When we hold grudges against anyone it’s like holding a
burning hot coal in our hand to through it someone, before it hurts them it burns you. When we
forgive we are actually liberated. In family situation, in social situation it’s this forgiveness that’s
very much the medicine that keeps us together.
Later on Bharata Rama’s younger brother who is the son of Kaikeyi found out what mother did
and he totally rejected her, he renounced her as a mother and he went to the forest to give Rama
the kingdom back because she did it all to make her son the king. Rama said no, you be the king;
our father has died because of his heart break due to his whole situation you be the king and then
he gave him special instruction it’s a long conversation it’s in the Ramayana, he said that you
must honor and forgive your mother Kaikeyi and take care of her with love and devotion. I have
forgiven her, I have no grudge against her it wasn’t her that exiled me to the forest it was the
envy born of ignorance that overcame her but now she realized her mistake, with all love and
care rule the kingdom and take care of your mother and take care of my mother too because she
misses me.
Forgiveness, even for somebody who have hurt you so bad this is real spirituality, if we go to
church whether we chant Japa or whether we meditate or whether we pray or whether we do
Namaz whatever our particular, if we can’t learn to be instruments of love, if we cannot forgive,
if we cannot beyond or beneath the apparent leprosy of a person’s situation or our own then it’s
not really religion at all, it’s not really spiritual at all its just something very external and
superficial.
As chanting of God’s names, this living a spiritually oriented life of seva, unselfish service is the
greatest wealth in the world because it cleanses the heart, it awakens our love for God and
empowers us to be instruments of that love to actually make real change and transformation in
ourselves, our family, our nation and the world. These are some of the beautiful messages that I
learned from great land of India, from the most incredible people of India, there all sorts of
people of India, but some of the most beautiful people I have ever met.
And I will end with Sita and Rama, they were living in the forest in Chitrakut and Sita said to
Rama, they were living in the forest and they were just serving people. Here was the most royal
king and queen with the greatest luxuries and now they are living with tree bark and little straw
hut in a forest and they would pick fruits and make flower garlands and give them to the different
Sages and Rsis and the holy people and just serve, just serve people. Sita said to Ram, I was
never happier in my whole life than this life of giving, this life of serving and Ram said yes,
these are the happiest moments of our life.
So wherever we are, Srila Prabhupada my Guru he said, happiness is not about being attached to
living in a palace or being attached to living under a tree. He told me, you are too attached to
living under a tree. Real happiness, wherever we are, to see the opportunity to be an instrument
of love and to serve and Dominique gave this beautiful story which touched our hearts because
the story of the wealth of giving, the wealth of humbling our self to recognize that God’s love is
the most precious thing in all of creation. And if I can just make that connection and just be a
humble instrument of that love, whoever I am, whatever I may have, we have infinite wealth.
So on this very special day, let us all offer our special prayers to Ajay and Swati and their
wonderful families to bless them with more and more opportunities to affect our hearts and help
to transform the world.