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Win Friends & Influence People (Dale Carnegie)
Win Friends & Influence People (Dale Carnegie)
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INFLUENCE PEOPLE
DALE CARNEGIE
During World War I, Carnegie served in the U.S. Army spending the time at Camp Upton.
By 1916, Dale conducted a sold out lecture at Carnegie Hall, which influenced his decision
in 1919 to change the spelling of his last name in honor of the steel magnate, Andrew
Carnegie, and easier for others to remember. Dale Carnegie began his career not as a writer,
but as a teacher of public speaking.
INTRODUCTION
Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn, but it takes character and
self-control to be forgiving and understanding. Instead of criticizing people, try
to understand them. Try to figure out why they behave the way they do. This is
much better than condemning. It breeds tolerance, sympathy, and kindness.
Appreciation and praise rarely find expression in our daily lives. We must
not forget that we are all human, and we crave appreciation. People need
recognition!
Leave a trail of gratitude in your wake. Like a river that is constantly
flowing, you will pass through this situation and point in time only once. So take
advantage of it! Show kindness and strive to do good now because you may not
have the opportunity in the future.
You Can't Win an Argument
“If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory
sometimesl but it will be an empty victory because you will never
get your opponent's goodwill." -Ben Franklin
“Three-fourths of the people you will ever meet are hungering and thirsting for
sympathy. Give it to them, and they will love you."
“A person usually has two reasons for doing a thing: one that sounds
good and a real one."
-J. Pierpont Morgan
People have two motivations: the real one and the one
that sounds good. They want to be seen as idealists.
Refer to the nobility of your Interlocutor and don't suspect him of the worst but
of the best.
“We're really proud of you, Johnny, for raising your grades this term.
But if you had worked harder on your algebra, the results would have
been better."
“Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.”
“Always make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.” -Edward M. House
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