Stranger: I am here to help. You: YEAH Stranger: My name is Tyler. What is yours? You: how would you know? You: hey You: by the way You: whats your name? You: TYLER/ You: tyler durden ha? Stranger: I know a Tyler Durden.. Stranger: Are you in California? You: so are you tyler durden? You: NO...im from a big city with many2 traffic Stranger: You aren't? I really know a Tyler Durden. Stranger: A sign from the Good Lord. You: so You: are you a tyler durden or not? Stranger: I am not. You: okay im lonely now You: fuckin lonely actually You: how supposed i do? Stranger: The Good Lord can help. You: okay You: how he can help me? Stranger: Eh, I'm not sure man. I'm not a Christian, I'm a New Ager. But if you're really lonely I'd be glad to talk about it with you. You: wow You: New ager You: okay im get interest You: what shoul i do new ager? You: i broke with my GF You: So im fuckin lonely You: se fucked with another guy Stranger: Man, that's rough bro. How long were you guys together? You: 8 mont You: 8 month in same university You: we had spent a lot of time togethere Stranger: Shit man, I know how it is. I recently broke up with my fiancee, my high school sweetheart. You: yeah and this my fuckin 2 month almost actually You: i have broke with her Stranger: Damn bro. You must have really loved her. You: YEAH You: but shit i asked her to stay with me You: but she wont You: she lied to me You: fucked Stranger: Bro, you want my advice? You: do you have a opinion how to forget her? You: okay Stranger: I do. It's pretty generic though... It sounds to me like you have a whole lot of love for her, which means you can have a whole lot of love for someone else, honestly, if she didn't return the feeling, it sounds like she didn't love you NEARLY as much as you loved her. My advice would be to move on man. Don't go out and look for a girl, but let it happen naturally. There's a girl out there worthy of the love you can give. You just gotta wait it out, and find the right one. You: you do it and it is work for you dont it? Stranger: What's that? You: your advice You: you told me you had same exp with me You: so You: let it happen naturally Stranger: Ah, yes, but during the time I have spent alone, I truly found myself. I took some time and set it aside, dedicated it to me. That way I could better myself, and truly be ready to settle down with the right girl. You: ow You: i try your advice tyler You: my mind is like a mess now You: it has ruined my day You: most of time You: most of my day You: yeah Stranger: Don't let it man. This is hard to do, but don't think about her. Stranger: Don't think about what happened. You: how can man? Stranger: Try to take it as a learning experience. You: wew Stranger: Occupy yourself. Stranger: Personally, when my mind is conflicted I meditate. Stranger: It helps me clear my head, and my stress levels go way down. You: tell me how to meditate You: what i supposed to do? Stranger: Well, first off, what kind of meditation are you interested in? You: i dont know Stranger: Hold on one second buddy, I'm going to run to the restroom. Keep on typing. You: oke You: i dont know about meditate actually You: can u give me your recommendation about what meditation i should take Stranger: Sure man, but can I ask how old you are first? You: 19 Stranger: Alright, well I have studied and practiced a few different types of meditation. I would recommend something really basic at first... Stranger: Want me to walk you through? You: what do you mean? You: Want me to walk you through?<--- i dont understand this Stranger: Like, shall I tell you how to do it step by step? You: okey Stranger: Well, this is a basic relaxation technique, Robert Monroe uses this before he projects (we'll get to that later), but you start by laying on a bed. Stranger: Close your eyes. Stranger: Lights very dim, maybe cover a lamp with a dark towel. Stranger: Relax your body entirely, and take 100 deep breaths. Stranger: In your nose, and out your mouth. Stranger: Slowly. Stranger: Focus on nothing but the void in front of you. Stranger: If thoughts come into your head (which they will), do not address them, let them pass on their own. Stranger: Don't do it when you're super tired, or you'll end up falling asleep (it is a good way to fall asleep if you have trouble sleeping though). Stranger: Oh, and I forgot, do this on your back. You: on my back? You: what do you mean? Stranger: Lay on your back. Stranger: In your bed. Stranger: Face up. You: ow Stranger: You know what I mean? You: yeah You: usually meditate is sit You: but you teach me to lay on my bed Stranger: Do you want to do sitting meditation? That's abit harder. Stranger: I am teaching you a Western meditation. You: oke just tell me the next step You: hey You: i want to try lay meditate You: do you have any messenger? Stranger: Sure, my MSN is conditiond@live.com. You: okey You: wait You: aprove me Stranger: Okay, hold on. You: i'll practice meditate right now so if i get any problem i'll tell you Stranger: Got you, boss. You: oke Stranger: Okay, just take it nice and slow. Let the meditation happen on its own. Tell me of any sensations you come across. You: okey You: nice to meet you You: my name is rickz anyway You: :) You: see ya You: thx for your advice You: it rockz men You: heh