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The Element How Finding Your Passion Changes Everything Sir Ken Robinson 2009 en PDF
The Element How Finding Your Passion Changes Everything Sir Ken Robinson 2009 en PDF
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The Element
CHAN G ES EVERYTHI NG
Ken Robinson,Ph.D.
with Lou Aronica
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].H E EL E M EN T
"I'here is a powerful driving force inside every human being that, once
unleaslred,can make any vision, any dream, a reality. The Element
captures that force with passion and insight'Tony Robbins, author
of Atuahen the Giant Within: How to Take Immediata Control of
Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial De*in/
A great and inspiring book . . . After tl're first page, you have to abandon
your ego and look lor your orvn gifts and graces'\Tarren Bennis,
airtl-ror of OzzBecoming a Leader: The Leadersltip Ckssir
'ln a time whcn acccpted scientific principles and facts thcmselvcs are
L-eingtossedinto the firc ofcontroversy by sonre, it is timc again, now
more than ever, to educate our educators. In Sir Ken Ilobinson's rich,
dceply entertaining and inspiring new book, he shows us in thc most
intriguing way and with humour and humility how we can look again
at how wc lcarn and how rve teach' Brian Ray, musician
'W'ritten with passion, humour and eloquence, The Elerrtent shows that
everyone has the ability to achieve their ambitions and demonstrates the
enabling mechanisms to overcome the obstaclesthat stife imagination'
'Va ter ston ei B ooks Qaarte rly
'Ken Robinson is a remarkable man, one of the few who really look at and into
you, so he makes you leel at easeand happy. I'm proud to be in his book as one
of the people he feels has attained the Element. Reading his book helps you
pinpoint the searchwe must all make to achieve the best in us'
Gillian Lynne, choreographer for Cats and Phantom ofthe Opera
His'IED lecture on creativity and education has been downloaded over 3 million
times in 200 different countries (seewwwted.com).
Lou Aronica is the author ofrwo novelsand co-author ofseveral works ofnon-fiction,
including the American bestseller The Cuhure Crtde (with Clotaire Rapaille).
To sisterand brothers,Ethel Lena, Keith, Derek, Ian,
-y and Neii; to our extraordinaryMum and Dad, Ethel
John,
and Jim; to my son, James,and my daughter,Kate, and
to my soul mate, Terry. This book is for you. For all your
many talentsand for the endlesslove and laughterwe put
into eachother'slives.It's when I'm with you and the ones
you love that i really am in my Element.
Acknowledgments
Achnowledgments uii
Introduction xi
Afterword 251
Notes 261
Index 269
Introduction
I travel agreat deal and work with peopleall around the world.
I work with educationsystems,with corporations,and with not-
for-profit organizations.Everywhere,I meet studentswho are try-
ing to figure out their futures and don't know where to start. I
meet concernedparentswho are trying to help them but instead
often steerthem away from their true talentson the assumption
that their kids have to follow conventionalroutes to success.I
meet employerswho are struggling to understandand make bet-
ter use of the diversetalents of the people in their companies.
Along the way, I've lost track of the numbers of peopleI ve met
who have no real senseof what their individual talentsand pas-
sionsare.They don't enjoywhat they aredoing now but they have
no ideawhat actuallywould fulfill them.
On the other hand, I alsomeet peoplewho'vebeenhighly suc-
cessfulin all kinds of fieldswho are passionateabout what they
do and couldn't imagine doing anything else.I believethat their
storieshavesomethingimportant to teachall of us about the na-
ture of human capacityand fulfillment. As I ve spoken at events
around the world, I ve found it's real storieslike these,at leastas
much asstatisticsand the opinions of experts,that persuadepeo-
ple that we all needto think differently about ourselvesand about
what we're doing with our lives; about how we're educatingour
childrenand how we'rerunningour organizations.
This book containsa wide range of storiesabout the creative
journeysof very different people. Many of them were interviewed
specificallyfor this book. Thesepeopletell how they first cameto
recognizetheir unique talents and how they make a highly suc-
cessfulliving from doing what they love.\What strikesme is that
often their journeyshaven'tbeenconventional.They've beenfull
of twists, turns, and surprises.Often thoseI interviewedsaid that
our conversationsfor the book revealedideas and experiences
they hadn't discussedin this way before.The moment of recogni-
Introduction tcttt
The Element
v
TLLIAN \rAs oNLy eight years old, but her future was al-
ready at risk. Her schoolwork was a disaster, at least as far as
her teacherswere concerned.Sheturned in assignmentslate, her
handwriting was terrible,and shetestedpoorly.Not only that, she
was a disruption to the entire class,one minute fidgeting noisily,
the next staring out the window, forcing the teacherto stop the
classto pull Gillian's attention back, and the next doing some-
thing to disturb the other children around her. Gillian wasn't
particularly concernedabout any of this-she was used to being
correctedby authority figuresand reallydidn't seeherselfasa dif-
ficult child-but the schoolwas very concerned.This came to a
headwhen the schoolwrote to her parents.
The school thought that Gillian had a learning disorder of
somesort and that it might be more appropriatefor her to be in a
schoolfor childrenwith specialneeds.All of this took placein the
1930s.I think now they'd sayshe had attention deficit hyperac-
tivity disorder, and they'd put her on Ritalin or something
similar. But the ADHD epidemic hadn't been invented at the
time. It wasn't an availablecondition. Peopledidn't know they
could havethat and had to get by without it.
Gillian's parentsreceivedthe letter from the schoolwith great
concernand sprangto action. Gillian's mother put her daughter
in her best dressand shoes,tied her hair in ponytails, and took
her to a psychologistfor assessment, fearing the worst.
The Element
'We
economy. know that the population will continueto grow at
'We
unprecedentedlevels. know that technologywill open new
frontiers,and that thesetechnologieswill manifestin our homes
and our officeswith stunning velocity.
This combination of things that we do know-that more
countriesand more peopleare in the game than everbefore,and
that technologyis in the processof changingthe gameitself aswe
speak-leads us to one inescapableconclusion:rn'ecan't know
what the future will be like.
The only way to preparefor the future is to make the most out
of ourselveson the assumptionthat doing so will make us asflexi-
ble and productiveas possible.
Many of the people you'll meet in this book didn't pursue
their passionssimply becauseof the promiseof a paycheck.They
pursuedthem becausethey couldn't imagine doing anything else
with their lives.They found the things they weremadeto do, and
they haveinvestedconsiderablyin masteringthe permutationsof
theseprofessions.If the world were to turn upsidedown tomor-
row, they'd figure out a way to evolvetheir talentsto accommo-
date thesechanges.They would find a way to continue to do the
things that put them in their Element, becausethey would have
an organic understandingof how their talentsfit a new environ-
ment.
Many people set aside their passionsto pursue things they
don't care about for the sake of financial security.The fact is,
though, that the job you took becauseit "pays the bills" could
easily move offshore in the coming decade. If you have never
learnedto think creativelyand to exploreyour true capacity,what
will you do then?
More specifically,what will our children do if we continue to
preparethem for life using the old modelsof education?It's very
possible that our children will have multiple careers over the
The Element 21
I Get It
their homework. You can bluff it for a while, but you know deep
down that the day of reckoningis approaching.
Until she was twelve, my daughter, Kate, thought I knew ev-
erything. This was an impressionI was very keen to encourage.
'When
shewas little, she'dask me to help if shewas stuck with an
English or math problem.I'd look up with a confidentsmile from
whateverI was doing, put my arm around her, and saysomething
like, "\7ell, let's seehere," pretending to sharethe difficulty so
she'dfeel better about not getting it. Then she'dgazeat me ador-
ingly as I swept effortlessly,like a math god, through the four-
times table and simple subtraction.
C)neday when shewas fourteen,she came home with a page
full of quadraticequations,and I felt the familiar cold sweat.At
this point, I introduced learning-by-discoverymethods. I said,
"Kate, there'sno point in me telling you the answers.Thatt not
how we learn. You need to work this out for yourself.I'll be out-
side having a gin and tonic. And by the way, even when you've
done it, there'sno point showing me the answers.That's what
teachersare for."
The next week she brought me home a cartoon strip she'd
found in a magazine.Shesaid,"This is for you." The strip showed
a dad helping his daughterwith her homework.In the first frame,
he leancdoverher shoulderand said,"\fhat haveyou got to do?"
The girl replied, "I have to find the lowest common denomina-
tor." The father said, 'Are they still looking for that? They were
trying to find that when I was in school."I know how he felt.
For somepeople,though, math is asbeautiful and engagingas
poetry and music is for others.Finding and developingour crea-
tive strengthsis an essentialpart of becomingwho we really are.
til7edon't know who we can be until we know what we can do.
24 The Element
I Loueh
Being in your Element is not only a questionof natural aptitude.
I know many peoplewho are naturally very good at something,
but don't feel that itt their life's calling. Being in your Element
needssomethingmore-passion. Peoplewho arein their Element
take a deepdelight and pleasurein what they do.
My brother Ian is a musician.He playsdrums, piano, and bass
guitar. Yearsago,he was in a band in Liverpool that included an
extremelytalentedkeyboardplayer named Charles.After one of
their gigs, I told Charles how well I thought he'd played that
night. Then I said that I'd love to be able to play keyboardsthat
well. "No, you wouldn't," he responded.Taken aback,I insisted
that i reallywould. "No," he said."You mean you like the ideaof
playing keyboards.If you'd love to play them, you'd be doing it."
He saidthat to play aswell he did, he practicedeveryday for three
or four hours in addition to performing. He'd been doing that
sincehe was seven.
Suddenlyplaying keyboardsaswell asCharlesdid didn't seem
as appealing.I askedhim how he kept up that level of discipline.
He said,"BecauseI love it." He couldn't imagine doing anything
else.
I Want h
Where Is It?
Think Differently
v
\ f rcr Fr-Eerwoon is one of the most famousand accom-
lVlplirhed rock drummers in the world. His band, Fleetwood
Mac, has sold tens of millions of copiesof their recordings,and
rock critics considertheir albumsFleetwoodMac and Rumoursto
be works of genius.Yet when he was in school,the numberssug-
gestedthat Mick Fleetwood lacked intelligence,at least by the
definitions many of us havecome to take for granted.
"I was a total void in academicwork, and no one knew why,"
he told me. "I had a learningdisability at schooland still do. I had
no understandingof math at all. None. I'd be hard pushedright
now to recitethe alphabetbackward.I'd be lucky if I got it right
going forward quickly. If someonewere to say,'Vhat letter is be-
fore this one?' I'd break out into a cold sweat."
He attendeda boarding schoolin England and found the ex-
periencedeeplyunsatisfying."I had greatfriends,but I just wasn't
h"ppy. I was awareof being squeezedout. I was suffering. I had
no senseof what I was supposedto be becauseeverything aca-
demic was a total failure, and I had no other referencepoints."
Fortunatelyfor Mick (and for anyonewho later bought his al-
bums or attendedhis concerts),he came from a home where his
family saw beyond the limits of what they taught and testedin
schools.His fatherwas a fighter pilot in the Royal Air Force,but
when he left the service,he followed his true passionfor writing.
He took his family to live on a bargeon the river Thames in Kent
28 The Element
standingof where our limbs and the rest of our body are in space
and in relationshipto eachother. This is essentialfor getting up,
getting around, and getting back again. The senseof intuition
doesn'tseemto make the cut with most physiologists.I'll come
back to it later.
All of thesesensescontribute to our feelingsof being in the
world and to our ability to function in it. There arealsosomeun-
usual variationsin the sensesof particular people.Some experi-
encea phenomenonknown as synesthesia, in which their senses
seemto mingle or overlap:they may see sounds and hear colors.
These are abnormalities,and seemto challengeeven further our
commonsenseideasabout our common senses. But they illustrate
how profoundly our senses, however many we have and however
they work, actually affect our understandingof the world and of
ourselves. Yet many of us don't know or haveneverthought about
someof them.
Not all of us take our senseof balance or other sensesfor
granted.Take Bart, for example.'W'henhe was a baby in Morton
Grove, Illinois, Bart wasn't particularly actiye.But when he was
around six yearsold, he startedto do somethingvery unusual. It
turned out that he could walk on his hands nearly as well as he
could walk on his feet.This wasn'tan elegantsight, but it did get
him lots of smiles,laughter,and approvalfrom his family. \fhen-
ever visitors came to the house, and at family parties, people
prompted Bart to perform his signaturemove. \With no further
cajoling-after all, he quite enjoyedboth his trick and the atten-
tion it generated-he dropped onto his hands, Ilipped up, and
proudly teeteredaround upside down. As he got older, he even
trained himself to go up and down the stairson his hands.
None of this was of much practicaluse,of course.After all, it
wasn't as though the ability to walk on his hands was a skill that
34 The Element
have them. It's clear too that we all have different strengthsand
natural aptitudes.
I mentioned that I don't havea particular aptitude for mathe-
matics.Actually, I don't haveany aptitude for it. Alexis Lemaire,
on the other hand, does.Lemaire is a young Frenchdoctoral stu-
dent specializingin artificial intelligence.Ln2007, he claimed the
world record for calculating in his head the thirteenth root of a
random two-hundred-digit number. He did this in 72.4 seconds'
In case,like me, you're not surewhat this means'let me explain.
Alexis sat in front of a laptop computerthat had generatedat ran-
dom a two-hundred-figurenumber and displayedit on the screen.
The number was more than seventeenlines long. This is a big
number.
Alexis'stask was to calculatein his headthe thirteenth root of
that number (that is, the number that multiplied by itself thirteen
times would producethe exacttwo-hundred-digitnumber on the
screen).He stared at the screenwithout speakingand then an-
nounced correctly that the answer was, 2,397,207,667,966,701.
Rememberthat he did this in72.4 seconds.in his head.
Lemaireperformedthis feat at the New York Hall of Science.
He hasbeenworking on the thirteenth-root challengefor a num-
ber of years.Previously,his best time had been a sluggish77 sec'
onds.Afterward, he told the press,"The first digit is very easy,the
last digit is very easy,but the inside numbersare extremelydiffi-
cult. I use an artificial intelligencesystemon my own brain in-
steadof on a computer.I believemost peoplecan do it, but I also
have a high-speedmind. My brain works sometimesvery, very
fast. . . . I usea processto improve my skills to behavelike a com-
puter. It's like running a program in my head to control my
brain."
"Sometimes,"he said, "when I do multiplication my brain
works so fast that I need to take medication. I think somebody
46 The Element
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Deyono rmaglnlng
ThePromiseof Creatiuity
I mentionedthat I like to ask audienceshow intelligent they feel
they are.I usuallyask thesesamepeoplehow they rate their crea-
tivity. As with intelligence,I usea 1 to 10 scale,with 10 at the top.
And, aswith intelligence,most peopleratethemselvessomewhere
in the middle. Out of perhapsa thousand people, fewer than
twenty give themselves10 for creativity.A few more will put their
hands up for 9 and B. On the other end, a handful alwaysputs
themselvesat2 or 1. I think that peopleare mostly wrong in these
assessments, just as they are about their intelligence.
But the realpoint of this exerciserevealsitself when I askhow
many peoplegavethemselvesdifferent marks for intelligenceand
56 The Element
on busy roads, get what we're looking for in shops, and wake up
with the right person. \7e knou' that in some circumstances-
through illness,delirium, or excessiveuse ofcontrolied substances,
for instance-even that assumption can be mistaken, but let's
keep rnoving forward for now.
\fe know roo that we can routinelv step outside of our imme-
ciiate sensory environment and conjure mental images of other
placesand other times. If I ask you to think of your best friends
at school, your favorite fbod, or your most annoying acquain-
tance, you can do that without having any of thosc things directly
in front of you. T'his processoFseeing "in our mind's eye" is the
cssentialact of imagination. So my initial definition of imagina-
tion is "the power to bring to mind things that are not presentto
our senses."
Your rcspronseto this might very well be, "Duh." J'hat woulcl
bc an appropriate response.but it lrelps make a critical point-
that perhapsmore than any other capacity,imagination is the one
we take for granted most. This is utrfortunate becauseimagina-
tion is vitally ir-nportant to our lives. Through imagination, we
the present, and anticipate the
can visit the past, cor.rtc,mplate
future. We can also do sornething else of profound and unique
significance.
\7e can create.
Through imagination, we not only bring to mind things that
we have experienced but things that we have never experienced.
\7e can conjecture, we can hypothesize, we can speculate, and we
can suppose.In a word, we can be imaginatiere.As soon as we have
the power to releaseour minds from the immediate here and now,
in a sensewe are free. \7e are free to revisit the past, free to re-
frame the present, and free to anticipate a whole range of possible
futures. Imagination is the foundation of everything that is
uniquely and distinctively human. It is the basis of language, the
Be.yondImagining 59
Miles Davis. And they don't meet at water holes,poring over im-
agesfrom the Hubble telescopeand trying to figure out what
thosemight mean for themselvesand all other hyenas.
\What accountsfor theseyawning differencesin how humans
and other specieson our small planet think and behave?My gen-
eral answeris imagination. But this is really about the much more
sophisticatedevolution of the human brain and the highly dy-
namic waysin which it can work. The dynamicsof human intel-
ligenceaccountfor the phenomenalcreativityof the human mind.
And our capacityfor creativity allows us to rethink our livesand
our circumslxngs5-and to find our way to the Element.
Creatiue Dynamics
thinking about love and relationships, life and death, and the
whole damn thing; but they weren't trying to write a psychology
textbook. They were thinking about these things through music.
They were h:rving musical ideas, and music is what they rnade.
Understanding the role of the media we use for creative work
is important for another reason.To develop our creativeabilities,
we also need to develop our practical skills in the media we want
to use. It's important that we develop theseskilis in the right way.
I know plenty of people who have been turned off math for life
becausethey were never helped to seeits creative possibilities-as
you already know, I'm one of those people. -Ieachers always pre-
sented math to me as aln interminablc series clf puzz-lesto which
solneoneelsealready kncw the answers,and the only options were
to get it right orwrong. This is not how ILichard Feynman tl-rought
of math.
F.qually,I know m:rnv people n'ho spent eudlesshours as chil-
drcn practicing scaleson the piano or guitar and never want to see
an instrument again becausethe whole processwas so dull and
repetitive. Many people have decided that tirey u'ere simply no
good at math or music when it's possiblethat their teacherstaught
them the wrong way or at the wrong time. Maybe they should
look again. Maybe I should. . . .
Getting It Together
My excellent Ah,
goodfriends!How dostthou, Guildenstern?
Rosencrantz! Goodlads,how do you both?
. . . whathaveyou,
My goodfriends,deserved at the handsof fortune,
That shesendsyou to prisonhither?
crantz laughs and saysthat if that's true, then the whole world is
a prison. Hamlet saysit is, and "a goodly one, in which there are
many confines,wards and dungeons,Denmark being one of the
worst." Rosencrantzsays,"\7e think not so, my lord." Hamlet's
reply is profound. "'Tis none to you for there is nothing either
good or bad, but thinking makesit so: to me it is a prison."
The power of human creativity is obvious everywhere,in the
technologieswe use,in the buildings we inhabit, in the clotheswe
wear, and in the movieswe watch. But the reachof creativity is
very much deeper.It affectsnot only what we put in the world,
but also what we make of it-not only what we do, but also how
we think and leelaboutit.
Unlike all other species,so far aswe can tell, we don't just get
on in the world. \Wespendmuch of our time talking and think-
ing aboutwhat happensand trying to work out what it all means.
\7e can do this becauseof the startling power of imagination,
which underpinsour capacityto think in words and numbers,in
imagesand gestures,and to use all of theseto generatetheories
and artifactsand all the complex ideasand valuesthat make up
the many perspectives on human life. We don't just seethe world
asit is; we interpretit through the particular ideasand beliefsthat
have shapedour own cultures and our personaloutlook. All o{
thesestandbetweenus and our raw experiences in the world, act-
ing as a filter on what we perceiveand how we think.
tVhat we think of ourselvesand of the world makesus who we
are and what we can be. This is what Hamlet means when he
says,"There is nothing good or bad, only thinking makesit so."
The good newsis that we can alwaystry to think differently.Ifwe
createour worldview we can re-createit too by taking a different
perspectiveand reframing our situation.In the sixteenthcentury,
Hamlet said that he thought of Denmark metaphorically as
a prison. In the seventeenthcentury, Richard Lovelacewrote a
82 fhe Element
poem for his love, Althea. 'faking the opposite vielv, Lovelace says
that lor him an actual prison woulcl be a place of freedom and
liberty so long as he could think of Althea. 'fhis is how he closes
h i s ooem :
In the Zone
v
TJwe LnuneNcr, is the most famousfemalebilliardsplayer
the planet.Known as "the Striking Viking," shehas been
-Don
ranked number 1 in the world, won both the Europeanand U.S.
national championships,has appearedon the cover of the New
York TimesMagazine, been featuredin People,Sportslllustrated,
Forbes,and many other publications,makesregular televisionap-
pearances,and servesas a commentatoron ESPN.
Growing up in Sweden,Ewa discoveredthe gamewhile trail-
ing after her older brother.
"Me and my best friend, Nina, we were always hanging
around, just ascloseas friendscan be. One day,when I was four-
teen, the two of us followed my brother and his friend to this
bowling alley to play and decidedto check it out. 'Wewere there
for a while and then got really bored.And then we found out that
they had goneto somethingcalleda poolroom. I had neverheard
of pool. \Wefollowed them up there and I remember,the minute
I walked in, I reactedto it right away.I loved the whole thing-
this dark room with lights over eachtableand the clicking of the
balls. I just thought it was mesmerizingright off the bat.
"There was this whole society there where everybodyknew
'Wewere
this thing about billiards and it grabbedme right away.
intimidated and curious, but just sat and watched everything.
\7hen you sit and watch it, or do it yourself,everything disap-
pears.It's easyfor that to happenwith billiards becauseeachtable
84 The Element
The Zone
Reaching Out
BeingYourself
\(hen peopleare in the zone,they align naturally with a way of
thinking that works bestfor them. I believethis is the reasonthat
time seemsto take on a new dimensionwhen you are in the zone.
It comesfrom a levelof effortlessness that allows for suchfull im-
mersionthat you simply don't "feel" time the sameway. This ef-
fortlessnesshas a direct relationshipto thinking styles.-When
people use a thinking style completelynatural to them, eyery-
thing comesmore easily.
It's obviousthat different peoplethink about the samethings
in different ways. I saw a great exampleof this a few yearsago
with my daughter.Kate is veryvisualin her approachto the world.
Shet extremelybright, articulate,and well read, but shelosesin-
terestquickly during lectures(of all types,not simply the onesin-
volving the need for her to clean her room). Not long after we
moved to Los Angelesfrom England,her history teacherbegana
In the Zone 97
sectionon the Civil \Var. Not being American, Kate knew little
about this period in American history,and shegot little out of her
teacher'srecitation of dates and events.This approach-filling
\With
students'headswith bullet points-had little impact on her.
a test coming up on the subject,though, she couldn't simply ig-
nore the topic.
Knowing that Kate had a very strongvisual intelligence,I sug-
gestedthat she considercreatinga mind map. Mind mapping, a
techniquecreatedby Tony Buzan, allows a personto createa vi-
sual representationof a conceptor pieceof information' The pri-
mary conceptsitsat rhecenterof rhe map,and lines,arrows,and
colorsconnectother ideasto that concept.I had the feelingthat,
as someonewho tendsto think visually,Kate would benefitfrom
looking at the Civil'War from this perspective.
A few dayslater,Kate and I went out to lunch, and I askedher
if she'd had a chanceto try out the mind map. As it turned out,
she'ddone much more than try it. Through this technique,she'd
createdsucha strongvisual representation of the Civil War in her
mind that shespent the next forty minutes telling me about the
major eventsand the consequences of thoseevents.By looking at
it from this new perspective-one that made use of one of the
primary waysin which shethinks-Kate was ableto understand
the war in a way that bullet points never would have provided.
Becauseshe'dproduceda mind map, shewasseeingthe imagesin
her mind clearly,as if shehad photographedthem.
GettingOut of theBox
There have been various attempts to categorizethinking styles,
and evenwhole personalitytypes,so that we can understandand
organizepeoplemore effectively.These categoriescan be more or
lesshelpful, as long as we rememberthat they are just a way of
98 The Element
Do the Math
FindingYourTribe
v
Mosr PEoPLE,a primarycomponentof beingin their
Eo*' Elementis connectingwith other peoplewho sharetheir pas-
I
sion and a desireto make the most of themselvesthrough it. Meg
Ryan is the popular actor bestknown for her work in suchmovies
as When Harry Met Sally. . . and Sleepless in Seattle.Her acting
careerhas been buoyant for more than a quarter ofa century,yet
she didn't imagine a lifetime in that professionwhen shewas at
school.In fact, the whole thought of acting or even speakingin
public terrifiedher.Shetold me that at schoolperformances,she'd
alwayspreferredto be on the bleachersthan on the stage.Shewas
a good student,though, and in the eighth grade,shewas valedic-
torian. Shewas thrilled at her achievementuntil sherealizedthat
shehad to give a speechin front of the whole school.
Although she practicedfor weeks,when she found herselfat
the podium she simply froze in terror. She said that her mother
had to go up onto the platform and bring her back down to her
seat.And yet she went on to become one of the most accom-
plishedcomedyactresses of her generation.This was, in part, be-
causeshefound her tribe.
Following a successfulcareerat school,Meg won a scholarship
to New York Universityto study journalism. Shehad alwaysloved
to write, and her intention was to focus on becoming a writer,
somethingsheconsideredat the time to be her true passion.To
help pay for tuition, though, she found work in the occasional
104 The Element
not. Itt just not who I am. I really don't feel comfortablein that
spotlight."
Brian Ray is an accomplishedguitarist who hasworked with
Smokey Robinson, Etta James,and Peter Frampton and toured
on bills with the Rolling Stonesand the Doobie Brothers. He
cameto his domain early,and it ultimately led him into the inner
circle of a hero that as a child he neverdreamedhe would meet.
Brian was born in 1955,in Glendale,California, the year that
Alan Freedcoinedthe term rockand roll. He wasone of four kids,
including a half sister,Jean,who was fifteen yearshis elder.
"Jeanwould take me over to her girlfriend's house,and they
would be playing Rick Nelson,Elvis Presley,and Jerry Lee Lewis
while poring over photosof theseguys. It had such a visceralim-
pact on me, the reactions of these girls to this music that
was pouring out of the radio and their responseto thesephotos.
There was a part of me that just got the whole thing, right then
and there at age three. My dad playedpiano, and we had a little
phonograph-makingkit. It had a microphone,and you could cut
a record and put this other needleon it to play the record. I re-
member sitting, at two or three, with my dad at the piano and
cutting records.
"Right out of high schoolJeanstartedgetting into music,and
she joined a folk band called the New Christy Minstrels. They
did a tour throughout the country. She'dtell us storiesand would
be glowing from this life shehad grown into. Jeanimparted to me
her love and joy of music and sealedthat by bringing me to clubs
and concertswhen I was nine and ten yearsold. I would seeand
meet peoplethat I worshipped.
"My brotherwasgiven a really nice Gibson guitar plus lessons.
He didn't havea big desireto play music, and while he was busy
not caring about the lessons,I was busy practicing on his guitar.
Then I was given a $5 nylon string guitar by my sisterJean that
Finding Your Tiibe tt3
'As a young child," shetold me, "very young, four or five years
old, I can rememberputting on my pink shiny bathing suit and
tying a towel around my neck, climbing a tree, and dancing on
the roof of my house performing to the birds and the clouds. I
was alwaysdancing as a little girl; I was inspiredby the beautiful
pictures of ballerinas.BecauseI was black and lived in Texas,I
hadn't seen a dance performancebut I watched musical films,
ShirleyTemple, Ruby Keeler,the Nicholas Brothers.
"\(/hen the Ringling Brothers Circus came to town, when I
sawthe spectacle,the peoplein beautiful costumesand the danc-
ersflying in the air, toespointed, I just thought it was amazing!I
was so inspired by movies.Margot Fonteyn and Rudolf Nureyev
were the most incrediblethings I had everseen.
"As a young girl, I couldn't go to seriousdanceschoolsbecause
everything was segregated.I joined Debato Studios. I got a full
grant scholarshipand attendedten danceclasses a week.I still re-
membermy first dancerecital-I wore a white shiny satin skirt, a
white jacketand orangeblouse,white tap shoesand was playing a
triangle. The feeling of performing was like being on top of the
world! I was alwayswearing leotardsas a child. In fact, at my fif-
tieth birthday party one of my aunts brought a picture of me at
agefive in my leotard.I knew I was a dancervery early on.
"I first sawthe Alvin Ailey Company at ageseventeen. I knew
then that I wasgoing to throw awaymy point shoes,put on high
heelsand long white skirts, and dance to that kind of music. I
identified myselfwith them so much onstage.It was glorious.
"One summer I went to the Spoleto Dance Festival in the
Carolinas.That was when it all fell into placefor me. I had ideas
as a child but I was challengedby segregation,and so this oppor-
tunity to be taughtby Dudley \Williamsin thoseclasses was amaz-
ing. Alvin Ailey was there, the resident dance company taught
RevelationsDance Classes,and I iust shone.They wanted me in
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Circlesof Influence
Tribesarecirclesof influence,and they can take many forms.They
may be scatteredfar and wide or huddled closelytogether.They may
be presentonly in your thoughtsor physicallypresentin the room
with you. They may be alive or dead and living through their
works.They may be confinedto a singlegenerationor crossover
them.
Nobel laureateRichard Feynman spokeof ultra-miniaturized
machineslong before anyone had any thought of creating such
things. Yearslater, Marvin Minsky, inspired by Feynman'sidea,
becamethe founding father of artificial intelligenceand movec
the conversationforward. Then K. Eric Drexler approachedMin-
sky at MIT, and askedthe esteemedprofessorto sponsorhis the-
FindingYour Tiibe 121
TheAlchemyof Synergt
The most dramatic exampleof the power of tribes is the work of
actual creativeteams. In Organizing Genius: The Secretsof Crea-
tiue Collabordtizn,\Tarren Bennis and Pat \iZard Biederman write
of what they call "Great Groups,"collectionsof peoplewith simi-
lar interestswho createsomethingmuch greaterthan any of them
could createindividually-who become more than the sum of
the parts. 'A Great Group can be a goad, a check, a sounding
board, and a sourceof inspiration, support, and even love," they
say.The combinationof creativeenergiesand the needto perform
124 The Element
early age, Connolly loved music and taught himself to play the
guitar and the banjo. Like Bob Dylan, growing up at the same
time and an ocean away,he was captivatedby folk music and
spentwhatevertime he could listening and playing at folk clubs
around Scotland.He also loved the pubs and the banterof Glas-
gow nightlife, and made regularvisits to the cinema,to Saturday-
night dances,and to occasionallive theater.
One night Connolly was watching the comedian Chick
Murray on television.For more than forty years,Chick Murray
had been a legendof comedyand music hall. His droll, acerbic
wit epitomizedthe laconic take on life that typifies Scottish hu-
mor. Billy took his seat,readyfor a riotous sessionwith the great
man. He had all of that. But he had somethingelse-an epiph-
any.As he rolled around in his seat,he was acutelyawareof the
hystericalpleasure,the emotionalrelease, and the laceratingin-
sightsthat Murray was detonatingaround himself.For Billy in
Glasgow,this wasasmuch of a turning point aslisteningto \Woody
Guthrie wasfor Bob Dylan in GreenwichVillage. He realizedthat
it waspossibleto do this, and that he wasgoing to do it. He began
to separatefrom the crowd and to mergewith his tribe.
Billy had alwaystalked to his own small audiencesbetween
songs.Increasingly,he found himself talking more and singing
less.He found too that the audienceswere getting bigger. For
many comediansof his generation,he went on to become the
doyen of freewheelingstand-upcomedy.His work hastaken him
far from the shipyardsof the Clyde into packedtheatersaround
the world, into award-winning moviesas an actot and into the
minds and affectionsof millions of people.
Like most of the people in this book, he found his way not
only when he found his Element but also when he found his
tribe.
CHAPT ER SIX
v
youn EIEvENT can he challengingon avarietyof
Et*DrNG
I levels,severalof which we've alreadydiscussed.Sometimes,
the challengecomes from within, from a lack of confidenceor
fear of failure. Sometimesthe peopleclosestto you and their im-
age and expectationsof you are the real barrier. Sometimesthe
obstaclesare not the particular peopleyou know but the general
culture that surroundsyou.
I think of the barriersto finding the Elementasthree concen-
tric "circlesof constraint."These circles are personal,social,and
cuhural.
Given the way his life hasworked out, it's interestingthat several
of Chuck Close'steachersand classmates consideredhim a slacker
when he wasa child. The kids thought so becausehe had physical
problemsthat made him poor at sportsand even the most rudi-
mentary playground games.The teachersprobably thought so
becausehe testedpoorly, seemedlazy, and rarely finished his ex-
ams. It turned out later that he was dyslexic,but the diagnosisfor
this didn't existwhen he wasyounger.To many outsiders,it didnt
seemthat Chuck Closewas trying very hard to do anything with
his life, and most thought that he wouldn't amount to much.
On top of his learning disorder and his physical maladies,
\X/hatlYill TheyThink? 133
Close also faced more tragedy than any young boy should ever
encounter.His father uprootedthe family regularlyand then died
when Chuck was eleven.Around this time, his mother,a classical
pianist, developedbreastcancer,and the Close family lost their
home when the medical bills overwhelmedthem. Evenhis erand-
mother becameterribly ill.
\What got Close through all of this was his passionfor art. "I
think early on my art ability was something that separatedme
from everybody else,"he said in an interview. "It was an area
in which I felt competentand it was something that I could fall
back on." He even devised innovative ways to use art to over-
come the restrictionsof his conditions.He createdpuppet shows
and magic 2615-q7[x1he called"entertainingthe troops"-to get
other kids to spendtime with him. He supplementedhis school-
work with elaborateart projectsto show teachersthat he wasn't"a
malingerer."
Ultimately, his interestin art and his innate gifts allowedhim
to blossominto one of the singulartalentsin Americanculture.
After graduatingfrom the University of \Washingtonand getting
his MFA at Yale-several of his earlierteachershad told him that
collegewould be out of the questionfor him-Close set off on a
careerthat was to establishhim as one of America'smost cele-
brated artists. His signaturestyle involved a grid systemhe de-
vised to create huge photorealistic images of faces alive with
texture and expression.His method has drawn widespreadatten-
tion from the media, and his paintings hang in top museums
around the world. Through ceaseless dedication to his passion
and his craft, Chuck Close overcameconsiderableconstraintsto
find his Elementand rise to the pinnacleof his profession.
But that'sonly the beginning of the story.
In 1988, Chuck was making an award presentationin New
York when he felt somethingwrong insidehis body. He made his
The Element
they had a hard time trusting that what they had to say was
worthwhile, even establishedwriters. . . . So often, I think, we as
women stop ourselvesfrom trying becausewe don't want to risk
failing. \Weput such a premium on being approvedof,,we become
reluctantto take risks.
"\fomen still havean uneasyrelationshipwith power and the
traits necessaryto be a leader.There is this internalizedfear that
ifwe arereally powerful, we aregoing to be consideredruthlessor
pushyor strident-all thoseepithetsthat strike right at our femi-
ninity. \7e are still working at trying to overcomethe fear that
power and womanlinessare mutually exclusive."
Huffington saysthere were two key factors in pursuing her
early dream. The first was that shedidn't really understandwhat
shewas getting herselfinto. "My first tasteof leadershipcame in
a situation in which I was a blissfully ignorant outsider.It was in
college,when I becamepresidentof the CambridgeUnion debat-
ing society.Since I had grown up in Greece,I had never heard
of the Cambridge Union or the Oxford Union and didn't
know about their place in English culture, so I wasn't weighed
down with the kinds of overwhelming notions that may have
stoppedBritish girls from even thinking about trying for such a
position. . . . In this way, it was a blessingthat I startedmy career
outsidemy home environment.It had its own problemsin that I
was ridiculed for my accentand was demeanedas someonewho
spoke in a funny way. But it also taught me that it is easierto
overcomepeople'sjudgmentsthan to overcomeour own self-judg-
ment, the fearwe internalize."
The secondfactorwas the unwaveringsupport of her mother.
"I don't think that anything I've done in my life would havebeen
possiblewithout my mother. My mother gaveme that safeplace,
that sensethat she would be there no matter what happened,
whether I succeededor failed. Shegaveme what I am hoping to
142 The Element
Groupthinh
Positivelyor negatively,our parentsand families are powerful in-
fluenceson us. But even stronger,especiallywhen we're young,
are our friends. \Wedon't chooseour families, but we do choose
our friends,and we often choosethem as a way of expandingour
senseof identity beyond the family. As a result, the pressureto
conform to the standardsand expectationsof friends and other
socialgroupscan be intense.
Judith Rich Harris is a developmentalpsychologistwho has
looked at the influenceson young peopleoftheir friendsand peer
groups.Shearguesthat three main forcesshapeour development:
personaltemperament, our parents,and our peers.The influence
of peers,sheargues,is much strongerthan that of parents."The
world that children share with their peers,"she says,"is what
shapestheir behaviorand modifies the characteristicsthey were
born with, and hencedeterminesthe sort of people they will be
when they grow up."
Children get their ideasof how to behaveby identifying with
the group and taking on its attitudes,behaviors,speech,and styles
of dressand adornment."Most of them do this automaticallyand
willingly. They want to be like their peers,but just in casethey
haveany funny ideas,their peersare quick to remind them of the
penaltiesof being different. . . . The nail that sticks up getsham-
mereddown."
Sincebreaking the rules is a sureway to find ourselvesout of
the group, we may deny our deepestpassionsto stay connected
WhatVillThqt Think? r43
Culture:Rightand Thong
Beyond the specificsocial constraintswe may feel from families
and friends, there are othersthat are implicit in the generalcul-
ture. I define culture as the values and forms of behavior that
characterizedifferent socialgroups.Culture is a systemof permis-
sions. It's about the attitudes and behaviorsthat are acceptable
and unacceptablein different communities, rhose that are ap-
provedof and thosethat are not. If you don't understandthe cul-
tural codes,you can look just awful.
I'll alwaysremembera man I sawwho got it miserablywrong
on a beachin Malibu in California.He struttedslowlyinro our
midst, a vision of the unexpectedthat causeda beach full of
strangersto form a deep bond of helplesscamaraderie.He was
about forty. My guesswas that he was somesort of executive,and
I could imagine that in certain setringshe cut a distinguishedfig-
ure. But here,he did not. In a land of physicalculture and tread-
mills, he waspale,hairy, and inhabiteda saggingbody that clearly
spentits daysat a deskand its nights on a barstool.One can for-
give a man for all of thesethings. But not for wearing a nylon,
leopard-printthong.
The thong clung to his groin like an oxygen mask. A stretch
of elasticheld it in place,skirting his waist and threading tightly
betweenhis bare buttocks. He paradeddown the length of the
beach,apparentlydelighted that every eye was turning to him
in a slow Mexican wave of amazement.He gave the impression
of a self-appointedrole model of physical attraction and sexual
magnetism bathing in the bright sunlight of popular acclaim.
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Do You FeelLucky?
v J
don hell, and we still had to come in with our nails clean, our
trouserspressed,and our shoespolished. Those two yearswith
him definitely gaveme the structure I neededin my life: the in-
convenienceof discipline.
"I took sometime out after that becauseI still wasn'tsureif I
wanted to be a hairdresser.I lovedfootball so much. In the end, I
supposeit was the prospectof all the pretry girls and, of course,
my mother that swung it for me. At first I couldn't ger a proper
job in the \fest End of London at a big salonlike Raymond'sbe-
causeI had a cockney accent.That's the way it was in those
days."
For three years, he took voice lessonsto improve how he
soundedso he could get a job at one ofthe better salons."I knew
I had to learn how to projectmyself so I got a job teachingin dif-
ferent salonsin the evenings.I usedmy tips to take a bus to the
West End and go to the theater.I'd catch the matinee and see
great Shakespearean actorslike LaurenceOlivier and John Giel-
gud and try to copy their voices."
He went regularlyto London'smany art museumsand began
to educateand inspire himself with the history of painting and
architecture."l really think that waswhat serme on my course.I
was developingmy own vision for hairdressing.The shapesin my
headwerealwaysgeometric.I havealwaysbeenworking toward a
bone structureso as to definea woman rather than just make her
'pretty pretty.'I knew hair dressingcould be different, but it took
a lot of work and nine yearsto developthe sysremwe usein our
salons."
In \954, he and a partner openeda very small salon on rhe
third floor of a building in London's fashionableBond Street.
"Bond Streetwas magic to me becauseit meant the \WestEnd. It
was whereI couldn't get a job earlier.The \WestEnd meant I was
going to make it. I was determinedto changethe way things were
166 The Element
designing some kind of gear that would get him back onto a
mountain. \With the help of severalpeople,including his father,
he createda devicewith two largewheelsat the top and a smaller
one on the bottom. Seatedin this rig, he usesa pulley systemwith
his shouldersand thumbs that allows him to scaleabout a foot at
a time. The techniqueis excruciatinglyslow,but Zdanivsky'sper-
sistencehasbeenrewarded.Beforehis injury, his goal had beento
climb the two-thousand-footStawamusChiel one of the largest
granite monoliths in the world. In July 2005, he reachedthat
goal.
We all shapethe circumstancesand realitiesof our own lives,
and we can also transform them. Peoplewho find their Element
are more likely to evolvea clearersenseof their life's ambitions
and set a coursefor achievingthem. They know that passionand
aptitude are essential.They know too that our attitudesto events
and to ourselvesare crucial in determinine whether or not we
find and live our livesin the Element.
CHAPT ER EIGHT
SomebodyHelp Me
v
pollo, I went to a specialschoolfor the
/\ rren I ceucur
A.physically handicapped. This wasstandardprocedure back
then in Britain; the educationauthoritiesremovedany children
with disabilitiesfrom mainstreamstateschoolsand sent them to
one of thesespecialschools.So I found myselffrom the ageof five
travelingby specialbus everyday from our working-classareaof
Liverpool acrossthe city to a small schoolin a relativelyaffluent
area.The Margaret BeavanSchoolhad about a hundred or so pu-
pils aged from five to fifteen with various sorts of disability, in-
cluding polio, cerebralpalsy,epilepsy,asthma,and, in the caseof
one of my bestfriends there,hydrocephalus.
\(/e weren't especiallyconsciousof each other's disabilities,
though many of us wore braces,usedcrutches,or were in wheel-
chairs.In that setting, the nature of anyone'sdisability was more
or lessirrelevant.Like most kids, we formed our friendshipsbased
on people'spersonalities.One of my classmates had cerebralpalsy
and severespasticity.He couldn't use his hands and spokewith
tremendousdifficulty. The only way he could write was by grip-
ping a pencil betweenhis toes and arching his leg over the desk.
For all of that, he was a funny and entertainingguy onceyou got
used to his strained efforts at speaking and could understand
what he was actually saying.I enjoyedmy time at the schooland
had all the childhood excitementsand frustrations that I knew
my brothersand sisterwere having at their "normal" schools.If
170 The Element
"For the first time I really wanted to learn more and over the
next two yearssheguided me to a love of Dickens and E. M. For-
ster to Wilfred Owen, Shakespeare, and Synge.\fle were a small
tutorial group and every one of us was intenselyengagedin her
classes.Sheencor.rraged my writing, shemade me give of my best
and with her guidanceI was ableto challengeothersintellectually
and to shine.
"These books openedme to a world of possibilitiesand what
intrigued me most was how open-mindedshewas. After all, she
was a Catholic nun and herewe were discussinglove and sexand
the occult. No subjectwas taboo.\Wewould spendhours discuss-
ing any themethat was thrown up, from the Oedipus complexin
Coriolanusto the infidelity in HoutardsEnd. For a girl who had
rarely beenout of Liverpool this was headystuff.
176 The Element
"I was her top pupil that year and I passedmy English exams
cum laude.At her suggestionI went on to study drama and litera-
ture at college.From then on I never doubted my ability to de-
bate. I had friends for life in the writers we studied and I know
that without her wonderful mentoring I would still be looking for
Elvis."
Mentors often appear in people'slives at opportune times'
though, as we sawwith Eric Drexler and Marvin Minsky, some-
times "mentees"take an activc role in choosing their mentors.
\Tarren Buffett, a man who hashimself inspiredlegionsof inves-
tors,points to Benjamin Graham (known asthe fatherof security
analysis) as his mentor. Graham taught Buffett at Columbia
University-giving Buffett the only A-plus he ever bestowedin
twenty-two yearsof teaching-and then offered Buffett a iob at
his investmentcompany.Buffett stayedthere severalyearsbefore
heading off on his own. In his book Buffitt: The Making of an
American Capitalist, Roger Lowenstein writes, "Ben Graham
openedthe door, and in a way that spoke to Buffett personally.
He gaveBuffett the tools to explorethe market'smanifold possi-
bilities, an approachthat fit his student'stemper. Armed with
Graham'stechniques,Buffett could dismisshis oraclesand make
useof his native talents.And steeledby the exampleof Graham's
character,Buffett would be able to work with his trademarkself-
reliance."
In a different domain entirely,the singer Ray Charleswas a
guiding light to countlesspeoplefor his remarkablemusical tal-
ent and his ability to overcomeadversity.His story starts,though,
with a man who taught him to tap into the music that was deep
insidehim.
In an interview with the Harvard Mentoring Project posted
on www.\ThoMentoredYou.org,Charles recalled, "\il/iley Pitt-
man, he wasa cat. I mean,if it hadn't been for him, I don't think
SomebodyHelp Me 177
Is It Too Late?
J
-V;.
..?,
the right say,'Can I help you?' I walked in and blurted out, 'I'm
hereto teacha courseabout fear.''Wherethat camefrom, I hadn't
a clue!Shelooked at me in shockand said,'Oh my goodness,I've
been searchingfor someoneto teach a courseon fear and this is
the last day to put it in the catalogueand I haveto leavein fifteen
minutes.'Satisfiedwith my credentialsshesaid, 'Quickly write a
coursetitle and a seventy-five-word coursedescription.\Without
any forethought,I titled the course'Feelthe Fearand Do It Any-
way' and wrote the coursedescription.Shewaspleasedand placed
my courseinformation on her assistant's desk with a note to in-
clude it in the catalogue.She thanked me profuselyand quickly
exited.Alone, I stood thinking to myself,'\Whatjust happened?'
I believestrongly in the Law of Attraction, but to me this was
mind blowing."
Susanwas nervousas shefacedthe first sessionof the twelve-
week course.The two hours went well, but she then was con-
fronted with a new fear. "I thought, 'That's it. That's all I know
about this subject.So what am I going to teach next week?And
the ten more sessionsto follow?' But every week I found I had
more to say.And my confidencelevelgrew.I realizedI had learned
so much over the yearsabout pushing through fear.And my stu-
dents were drinking it up. Ultimately, they were amazedat how
shifting their thinking really changedtheir lives. Teaching this
courseconvinced me that the techniquesthat had transformed
my life were the same techniquesthat could transform anyone
regardlessofage, sex,or background."
Susaneventuallydecidedto write a book basedon the course
shehad taught. Shefacedmany roadblocks.And after four agents
and fifteen rejectionsfrom variouspublishers,shereluctantlyput
the proposalin a drawer.One of the worst rejectionlettersshere-
ceived said, "Lady Di could be bicycling nude down the street
giving this book away,and no one would read it!"
190 The Element
Is It Tbo Late?
\7e all know people who feel locked into their lives. They sin-
cerelywish they could do something more meaningful and ful-
filling, but at age thirty-nine or fifty-two or sixty-four, they feel
that the opportunity has passed.Perhapsyou feel that it's too
Is It TooLate? 19r
KeepingThingsPlastic
tWhat this really comes down to is our capacity to continue to
EngagedI'-orauer
There\ Time
\Whateveryonefrom Susan
Jeffersto Julia Child to the book bud-
dies teach us is that remarkable,life-enhancingthings can hap-
pen when we take the time to stepout of our routines,rethink our
paths,and revisitthe passionswe left behind (or neverpursuedat
all) for whateverreason.\7e can take ourselvesin freshdirections
at nearly any point in our lives.\7e havethe capacityto discover
the Element at practically any age. As the actor Sophia Loren
oncesaid,"There zi a fountain of youth: it is your mind, your tal-
ents,the creativityyou bring to your life and the livesof the peo-
ple you love. tVhen you learn to tap this source,you will truly
have defeatedage."
CHAPT ER T EN
v
f ennlel Tnop is an accomplished academicscholar.'$?'hen
Ut met him, he was at Berkeley studying for a Ph.D. in Ger-
man literature.This work meansa greatdeal to him, but it is not
the only thing about which he is passionate.He alsohas an over-
whelming attraction to music. "If I were to lose the use of my
hands,"he said to me, "my life would be over."
Yet Gabriel has neverentertainedthe thought of becoming a
professionalmusician.In fact, for a long time he didn't want to be
involved in music at all. In his first yearsof high school,Gabriel
would look pityingly at the music students,struggling acrossthe
campuswith their bulky instrumentcases,turning up at school
fbr rehearsalshours before anyone else had to be there. That
u'asn'ta life for him, especiallythe part about getting to school
extra early.He vowed secretlyto avoid music.
However, one day, in the music classthat was part of his
school'sstandardcurriculum, he was tinkling idly on the piano
and reaiizedthat he found it easyto pick out tunes.\7ith a sink-
ing feeling,he realizedtoo that he actually enjoyeddoing it. He
tried to disguisehis obviouspleasurefrom the music teacher,who
had wanderedover to listen. He must not havedone this particu-
larly well, becausethe teachertold Gabriel that he had a good ear
and suggestedthat Gabriel go into the music storeroomto seeif
any of the instrumentsthere appealedto him.
A friend of Gabriel'splayedthe cello, and for this reasonand
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and the stakesare far lower. By the time I'd made up my mind
about the car, my salesman,Bill, and I had bonded and were
planning our annualreunion.
Vhile we were waiting for the final paperwork-another
lengthy process-l askedhim what he did when he wasn'twork-
ing. \Without missing a beat, he said he was a photographer.I
asked him what he photographed,assuming he meant family
weddingsand pets.He said he was a sportsphotographer.I asked
him what sports he covered."Just surfing," he said. I was in-
trigued and askedhim why. He said that he'd beena surferwhen
he was younger and simply loved the beauty and dynamics of
the sport. He rvent to the beachat Maiibu after work, weekends,
holidays-whenever he could-just to take pictures.He'd been
doing this for yearsand had accumulatedthousandsof dollars'
worth of cameras,tripods, and specializedlenses.Over longer
holiciays,he traveledto Hawaii and Australia to catch the big surf
on canlera.
I askedhim if any of his pictureshad beenpublished.He said
they had, and pulled open the drawer of his desk. It was full of
high-production,glossysurfing magazines.He had picturesin
everyone of them. His work was very,very good.
I askedhim if he'd ever thought of doing this type of work
for a living. "I'd love to," he said, "but there isn't enough money
in it." Nonetheless,surfing photographywas his passion,and one
of the things that rnade his life worthwhile. As I leafedthrough
these amazing, professionalimages.I asked him what his boss
at the deaiershipthought of them. "He doesn't know anything
about them," Bill told me. "It's not really relevantto how I do my
job, is it?"
I'm not surehe was right about that. I actually think it might
havehad a greatdealto do with how Bill did his job, asis likely the
casewith all peoplewho discoverthe Element in a pursuit other
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Transformation
Beyond Leisure
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Coffirmi4t or Creatiuity
Public educationputs relentlesspressureon its studentsto con-
form. Public schoolswere not only createdin the interestsof in-
dustrialism-they were createdin the imageof industrialism. In
many ways,they reflectthe factory culture they were designedto
support.This is especiallytrue in high schools,where schoolsys-
temsbaseeducationon the principlesof the assemblyline and the
efficientdivision of labor. Schoolsdivide the curriculum into spe-
cialist segments:someteachersinstall math in the students,and
othersinstall history.They arrangethe day into standardunits of
rime, marked out by the ringing of bells,much like a factory an-
nouncing the beginning of the workday and the end of breaks.
Studentsare educatedin batches,accordingto age,as if the most
irnportant thing they have in common is their date of manufac-
Making the Grade 231
ReformingEducation
The child
is madeof one hundred.
The child has
a hundred languages
a hundred hands
a hundred thoughts
a hu n d re dw a y so f th i n k i n g
of playing, of speaking.
A hundred alwaysa hundred
ways of listening
of marveling of loving
a hundred.ioys
for singing and understanding
a hundred worlds
to discover
a hundred worlds
to invent
a hundred worlds
to dream.
The child has
a hundred languages
(and a hundred hundred more)
but they stealninety-nine.
The schooland the culture
separatethe head from the body.
They tell the child:
to think without hands
to do without head
to listen and not to speak
to understandwithout joy
Mahing the Grade 243
Elemental Education
with the big ones at the top and smaller onesat the bottom. In
another room, there are beetlessimilarly arrangedby type and
size,and in anotheg thereare spiders.Organizing thesecreatures
into categoriesand putting them in separatecabinetsis one way
of thinking about them, and it's very instructive. But this is not
how they are in the world. 'S7'henyou leavethe museum, you do
not seeall the butterfliesfying in formation, with the large ones
in the front and the small onesar the back. You don't seethe spi-
ders scuttling along in disciplined columns with the small ones
bringing up the rear,while the beetleskeep a respectfuldistance.
In their natural state,thesecreaturesare all over eachother.They
live in complicated,interdependentenvironments,and their for-
tunes relateto one another.
Human communitiesare€xactlythe same,and they arefacing
the samesorts of crisesthat are now confronting the ecosystems
of the natural environment.The analogyhereis strong.
The relationshipsof living systemsand our widespreadfailure
to understand them was the theme of Silent Spring, Rachel Car-
son'shard-hitting book publishedin Septembe r 1962.Sheargued
that the chemicalsand insecticidesthat farmerswereusing to im-
prove cropsand destroypestswere having unexpectedand disas-
trous consequences. As they drained into the ground, thesetoxic
chemicalswere polluting water systemsand destroying marine
life. By indiscriminatelykilling insects,farmerswere also upset-
ting the delicateecosystemson which many other forms of life
depended,including the plants the insectspropagatedand the
countlessbirds who fed on the insectsthemselves.As the birds
died, their songsweresilenced.
RachelCarsonwas one of a number of pioneerswho helpedto
shift our thinking about the ecologyof the natural world. From
the beginning of the industrial age,human beingsseemedto see
nature as an infinite warehouseof useful resourcesfor industrial
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production and material prosperity. mined the earth for coal
and ore, drilled through the bedrock for oil and gas,and cleared
the forestsfor pasture.All of this seemedrelativelystraightfor-
ward. The downsideis that, three hundred yearson, we may have
brought the natural world gaspingto its knees,and we now facea
major crisisin the useof the earth'snatural resources.
The evidenceof this is so strong that somegeologistssaywe
areenteringa new geologicalage.The last ice ageendedten thou-
sandyearsago.Geologistscall the period sincethen the Holocene
epoch.Someare calling the new geologicalperiod the Anthropo-
cene age, from the Greek word for human, anthropos.They say
the impact of human activity on the earth'sgeologyand natural
systemshas createdthis new geologicera.The effectsinclude the
acidificationof the oceans,new patternsof sediments,the erosion
and corrosionof Earth'ssurface,and the extinction of many thou-
sandsof natural speciesof animals and plants. Scientistsbelieve
that this crisisis real,and that we haveto do somethingprofound
within the next few generationsif we'reto avoid a catastrophe.
One climate crisis is probably enough for you. But I believe
there'sanotherone,which is just asurgentasand hasimplications
just as far-reachingas the crisiswe'reseeingin the natural world.
This isn't a crisisof natural resources.It is a crisis of human re-
sources.I think of this as the otherclimatecrisis.
Aiming High
A few hundred miles awayfrom my home in Los Angelesis Death
Valley,one of the hottest,driestplaceson earth. Not much grows
in Death Valley,hencethe name.The reasonis that it doesn'train
very much there-about two inchesa yearon average.However,
in the winter of 2004-5, somethingremarkablehappened.More
than seveninches of rain fell on Death Valley, something that
had not happenedfor generations.Then in the spring of 2005,
something evell more remarkablehappened.Spring flowerscov-
ered the entire floor of Death Valley. Photographers,botanists,
and just plain touriststraveledacrossAmerica to seethis remark-
able sight, something they might never see again in their life-
times. Death Valley was alive with fresh,vibrant growth. At the
end of the spring, the flowers died away and slipped again be-
neath the hot desertsand, waiting for the next rains, whenever
they would come.
tVhat this proved, of course,was that Death Valley wasn't
dead at all. It was asleep.It was simply waiting for the conditions
of growth. \7hen the conditionscame,life returned to the heart
of Death Valley.
Human beings and human communities are the same.\(e
need the right conditions for growth, iu our schools,businesses,
and communities,and in our individual lives.lf the conditions
are right, peoplegrow in synergywith the people around them
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James,\filliam, 82 MagellanicCloud, 65
Janis,Irving, 143 Malaguzzi,Loris,242
Jay-Z (Carrer), 143 poem,242-43
Jeffers,Susan,187-90, 206 Mandela,Nelson,185-86
Feelthe Fear and Do It Anyway@, MargaretBeavanSchool,169
13 6,1 87 ,19 0 Mary Columba,Sister175-76
Jenksschooldistrict, Tirlsa,203-6 Maslow, Abraham,223
Johnson,Craig,122 Mayall,John,29
Jones,JamesEarl, 183-84 McCartney, Paul,10*11,113,125,
182-83, 2r7, 227-28, 240-4r
Katzman,lohn,42 McVie, John,29
Kelly,Vynton, 124 rneditation,161, 198,202
kinestheticsense(proprioception), Megaraschool,121
32*33 memory,79
Kuhn, Maggie,192, 19t mentors,174-85,249
encouragement, 18 1*82
language,149*50, 199-200 facilitating,182
Laurance,Ewa,83-86, 90,96,102, life-changingconnections,174-7 9
11 6 aspersonalheroes,lB5-86
Leadbeater, Charles,210-l I recognition,I79-8I
Lemaire, Alexis,45-46 roleso[ 179-85
Lennon,John,5, 10, 125, 182-83 stretching,183-84
Leonard,Dorothy, 122 rwo-waystreetof, 184-85
life-changingconnections. I 74-79 Ir{ichelangelo, 260
life expectanry,192-93 Michelin model,250
Lincoln,Abraham,126-27 Miller, Paul,210-11
Lipski,Don, 105-8, 116,248 mind mapping,97
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