Good morning again, my name is Kryzel Anne N.

Ramiscal we’re here this

morning to talk to you about Socialization and values formation of the
filipino child. Let us start.
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- Children acquire and internalize norms, attitudes and values through the process of
socialization.
- This process formed an individual personality as well. Aside from the family,
children norms, attitudes and values ano pa yung alam yung ibang form na pasok
dito? Idea lang anyone? Yes tama, aside from the family, children’s norms, attitudes
and values are also formed with the help of school, church and other groups in
which children are exposed to.

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- Social environment affects a child's growth and development.
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- Alam naman natin guys family carries the biggest responsibility in the
socialization of children. Agree ba kayo dun ? yes naman diba I agree
that the family carries the biggest responsibility. It is because na yung
isnag pamilya o buong pamilya is the most influential social group in a
children’s life, ang mga bata natututo yan ng proper behavior and nag
dedevelop dito yung personality niula and character early on in life.
Parents are expected and bound to care for their children and to impart
to them good moral and ethical values. As they are the first significant
persons in a child’s life, they provide close emotional attachment and
the feeling of belonging. Kanino ba tayo unang natututo? Sino ba yung
mga nagtuturo sa atin ng mabubuting asal? Sino ba unang nag turo satin
mag salita? Maglakad? None other than yung mga magulang natin.
Sakanila tayong unang natututo.
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- Sabi nga nil ana PARENTS are the first teacher for children.

Nabanggit ko dito yung behavior and develop personality and character therefore Child
development happens physically, emotionally, socially, and intellectually during this time.
To make an analogy, if you were constructing a large building, you have to make sure that it
has a solid foundation so that the rest of the building can stand tall and strong for many
years to come. If the foundation is not strong, anong mangyayare? Diba the building will
have trouble standing on its own. Just like people, like us if our foundations are not solid,
we find it more difficult to be successful in our relationships with others, work, health, and
ourselves. So, it cannot be stressed enough how important the family is in development of a
child.
- Naririnig niyo ba ito sa ibang magulang or sa kahit na kanino na kapag yung bata is
hindi ganun kagandahan ang pag uugali ano yung sinasabi nila? Diba sinasabi nil ana
nag rereflect yung ugali ng bata sa magulang, dahil ito sa on how they care their
child, kung ano yung pinapakita nilang act sa mga bata.
What your child learns through the interactions between you and them is what they will
carry for the rest of their life in regards to how to treat others. So kayo baa no ba yung
mga natutunan niyo sa mga magulang niyo na mag mula ngayon ay ginagawa niyo?

- Raising children can be very difficult alam natin yan well hindi pa naman tayo mga
magulang pero yung iilan satin is tumayong magulang para sa mga kababata nilang
kapatid at dahil nakikita na rin natin yan sa mga magulang natin , but it can also be
extremely rewarding. Tandaan natin na hindi lang natin dapat turuan yung mga
bata, but make sure that you act in the way that you expect the child to act gaya
nung sinabi ko kanina na mag rereflect yan sa bata kung paano at ano yung
pinapakita mo sakanila. It’s impossible to be perfect all the time diba, but you can
always strive to be your best when it comes sa pag ro-role mo in child development.
No one is perfect and no family is perfect. Do you agree guys?

- However, alam natin kung gaano ka importante ang role ng isang pamilya in the
development of children is crucial. Parents are the first teacher for children, kaya
most of the child learnings ay nangyayare sa loob ng bahay with the family. Kaya
Creating an environment where the child can learn the appropriate skills and values
as well as learn how to socialize and be secure creates a solid foundation upon
which the child can grow.

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- So next, we have here the child and youth welfare code of 1967 sinong familiar dito?

- Child and youth welfare code of 1967 mandated parents to provide “balanced diet,
adequate clothing, sufficient shelter, proper medical attention, and education” to
their children.
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- Moreover, parents mandated to give the child “affection, companionship,
understanding, moral guidance, self-discipline and religious instruction”. Filipino
parents are dedicated to rear their children dahil ito sa community expectation and
legal prescription. It is also believed na that how the child was brought up
contributes to the reputation of the family.

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- Filipino mothers carry the bulk of childcare responsibilities. Kasi dito yung mga
nanay natin is mas madami pa yung oras nila sa atin and mas intimate pa yung
relationship nila with the child, although both parents play an active role in the
socialization of children. Sino yung maka mama dito, diba sila lagi yung maasahan
natin, kasi ang mga ina kaya nilang gawin lahat, share ko lang sainyo ito guys meron
akong kilala kasi na nanay, binigyan ng bag yung anak niya yung bag nay un is
second hand na pero maayos parin meron lang konting bakbak, then sabi nung isang
nanay ayusin mo na lang yan sabi, sagot naman niya WHAT IS MAMA, sa pag
kakasabi palang na niyan yun alam ko na kung anong ibig sabihin, na kaya niyang
gawin para lang sa anak niya, diba guys aminin natin na kahit gaano kahirap ang
buhay andyan yung mga mama natin na gagawin ang lahat para mataguyud tayo.
Share ko lang yun.

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- Filipino families allow surrogate caregivers such as grandparents, aunts, siblings,
and other relatives. dito, yung mga hindi pinalad mag buntis, or hirap sa
pagbubuntis ito yung only way nila to have a child, na in which a woman carries and
gives birth to a baby for a person who is not able to have children. Aware naman
tayo dito diba? So legal satin yank ilala niyo ba si Jennelyn mercado asawa ni denis
diba hirap siya mag buntis kaya nag decide sila nung husband niya na mag implant
sa ibang babae para lang mag kaanak sila alam niyo ba yung balita nay un? So ayun
yung surrogate.

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- Filipino children are taught to be obedient and respectful; to older persons as soon
as they are old enough to understand. “Pagmamano” ( reaching for the hand of the
elder and pressing it to child’s forehead) is one traditional sign of respect for elders.
Hindi naman nab ago sa atin ito at dahil until now ay ginagawa parin natin ito, I
know na nararansan na din natin ito na meron nag mamano satin lalo na kapag may
mga inaanak tayo, ako lagi ko nae experience to sa simbahan na yung mga ka
member kong server ay nag ble bless sakin before and after mass. So children are
also taugh t use the word “po” at the end of each sentence as a sign of respect. Kung
minsan naririnig natin ito mga matatanda na kapag hindi nag po po at opo yung mga
bata anong sinasabi nila? WALANG ASIN kunana diba. As young as 4 years old,
 children were taught help out at home and run some simple errands. But you thinks
guys meron parin pa kayang mga 4 years old na gumagawa nito? I don’t think so lalo
na sa panahon natin ngayon na yung mga bata e tutuk na lang sa mga gadgets nila
kung minsan ayaw pa nila mag pa istorbo kasi nag lalaro or nanonood sila sa
cellphone nila. But don’t tolerate your child, pinsang niyo bata or mga kapatid
niyong bata na masanay sa ganung set up, bigyan niyo sila ng oras para sa ganung
bagay at ilimit niyo sila sa patutok sa mga gadgets. By the age of 6 or 7 naman, they
are expected to be disciplined, and should be able to care for their own personal
needs. Dito naman minsan kapag kaya naman na natin hindi na tayo mag papatulong
sa mama at papa natin. Kahapon lang meron akong napanood sa facebook
tinuturuan niya yung anak niya mag drive ng kotse and then yung anak niya sigaw
ng sigaw ng papa then sabi ng papa niya. “PAPA KA NG PAPA PAANO KA
MATUTUTO” well diba merong point yung father niya. Kailangan matututo din tayo
tumayo sa sarili nating mga paa, kasi hindi naman habang buhay is makakasama mo
yung mama at papa mo diba? Ganyan lagi yung sinasabi sakin ni mama ko kapag
mama ako ng mama, di ko pa nga nasusubukan tapos nakatawag na ko sakanya. So
next Older siblings are usually assigned to babysit their younger sistes/brothers.
Ayan alam ko maraming makaka relate dito, yung nag babantay ng kanilang mga
kapatid or pinsan na nakakabata, na experience ko ito dati pinsan ko naman yung
inalagaan ko ako yung nag papakain sakanyan nag titimpla ng gatas minsan ako pa
yung nag papaligo at nagpapatulog kaya madalas lalo na sa mga talagang bata pa
imbis na si mama or papa nila ang hinahanap is ikaw pa yung hinahanap or mas
gusto.

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- Filipino children are also commonly reared in a nurturing and indulgent manner.
Dito na papasok yung mga medyo strict ang parents at sobrang strict ng parents.
- Parents are concerned about the safety and health of their children, which
sometimes lead to being overprotective. As the children become a little older,
stricter discipline is enforced.

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- The most common, believed to be the most effective form of discipline, is corporal
punishment. Sino mga nakaranasa mapalo ng stick? Ng hanger? Nung mga bata pa
sila dahil pasaway, somehow naniniwala ako na mas nagiging ma disiplina ang mga
bata kapag nararanasan nila yung corporal punishment lalo na sa kabataan ko dati
dahil na experience ko din mapalo dahil sa tigas ng ulo ko pero dahil dun hindi ko na
ulit maging pasaway lagi ko na sinusunod utos ni mama, pero sa tingin niyo guys
effective parin ba yun until now?
- For me sa panahon ngayon parang hindi na kapag pinaranasa mo ngayon sa mga
bata yun, lumalaban pa sila e mas lalong di nagiging disiplinado lalo na iba na yung
takbo ng mundo, iba na din ugali ng mga bata.
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- Discipline is instilled early on in a child’s life. kasi dito generally believed na kapag
yung wrong ways and habits are more difficult to change when the child is older.
Agree ba kayo dun? In some case yes diba, kasi yung iba hindi na yan makikinig
sayo, meron kang sinasabi pero lumalabas sa kabilang tenga nila.

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- Parents are stricter to daughters than to sons. I AGREE PO SA STATEMENT NA ITO
TESTED AND PROVEN HAHAHA, girls alam niyo na to mahirap kapag may anak na
maganda diba strict ang parents haha biro lang. Ang mga lalaking anak ok lang kahit
late umuwi, pero tayong mga kababaihan dapat nakauwi kana bago lumubog ang
araw minsan meron pang oras na ibibigay yung mga magulang natin sa paguwi
natin. O kaya naman na, na experience niyo bai to girls na hindi ka papayagan
lumabas ng bahay niyo kung hindi kasama kapatid or pinsa, kailangan meron kang
kasama para makalabas ka ganun ka sigurista ang mga magulang natin hahahaha. So
next

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- Play activities for filipino children are also stereotypical. Na kapag ikaw ay lalaki
hindi ka pwedeng mag laro ng mga laruang pang babae, at kapag naman ikaw ay
babae hindi ka pwede mag laro ng mga rough games. Boys umamin kayo sino nag
lalaro ng barbie sainyo dati hahaha biro lang. so guys this led to girls being modest
and refined, and sa boys naman to be strong and active.

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-socialization
AGE, GENDER, BIRTH ORDER, CULTURE AND TRADITIONS ALL MAKE UP
THE VALUES OF A FILIPINO CHILD.