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SOCI1001 Term Essay
SOCI1001 Term Essay
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Essay question:
Over the past decades, intimate relationships have transformed from pre-modern to
modern society. With the generation change, the perceptions of the younger
generation toward intimacy are much different from the older generation. To explore
further into its transformation, we should first define what intimacy is. It is stated that
intimacy implies a close interpersonal relationship with one another physically and
mentally, while some may exist life-long, and some may not (Muniruzzaman, 2017).
Intimacy plays a vital role in shaping our interpersonal skills when dealing with
people. The relationship build-up may involve feelings of liking, hatred and even
sexuality. As human beings are always within groups, we are all experiencing
socialization during our growth. At different social stages, intimate relationships can
be attained, such as lifetime family members since birth, partners when becoming an
adult, stepping onto marriage if lucky, finally forming a new family if having
offspring. In the following paragraphs, this essay will explore the transformation of
modern intimacy in contemporary society in terms of changing dynamics in marriage,
family and couple relationships, and slightly discuss the underlying reasons and
impacts of such changes.
First of all, family is the closest group in our life journey as we are all born in a
family, which is the social institution for us to receive education. Then, what
constitutes a family? Sociologists usually denote that a family consists of people
playing different roles such as father, mother, son and daughter. Each role has its
expected responsibility, such as parents are obliged to socialize and take care of their
children until they reach maturity. Moreover, family are groups of people who share
material, emotions and economic resources. Kinship exists as a social bond based on
common ancestry within a family. The concept of family can be explained by
sociological theories including symbolic interactionism, critical sociology and
functionalism. Symbolic interactionism denotes that families are groups in which
through interactions in daily life, a sense of belongings and emotional ties are
developed over a long period of time. Critical sociology indicates that the economic
structures and relations of powers determine the configurations of families. In
addition, functionalists state that families provide socialization for the young and
prepare them for their future social roles, thus are indispensable for personal growth
and development (Little & McGivern, 2012).
For the gender roles in Chinese families, there is also an explicit transformation
compared to the old days. In the past, a theory of gender roles was well-defined by
sociologist Talcott Parsons in which male and female were assigned to respective
family tasks. “Men are breadwinners while women are homemakers.” For instance,
women are responsible for taking care of emotional needs of family members and
doing household chores while men are working outside to earn money as the
economic pillar (Crossman, 2019). In addition, under patriarchy, traditional families
are male-oriented in which female is only the appendage of male. Such a mindset is
deep-rooted in most traditional Chinese families. Nonetheless, in today’s society, the
gender roles are blurred as women's status is rising in recent years. With higher
education levels, female labor force participation is surging under gender equality
advocated in modern society. Gender roles can be interchanged whereas male are
willing to take the responsibility for childbearing nowadays. The male chauvinism is
no longer welcomed by females and not emphasized strongly within the family.
Family tasks can be distributed based on a person’s ability and specialty instead of
their gender (Evason, 2015). Such a phenomenon reflects that gender equality is quite
well-achieved in a positive way, altering the tradition of family division of labor.
The next step for a couple is marriage. What is marriage? Sociologists usually define
marriage as a legally recognized social contract that is based on mutual rights and
obligations between two people, traditionally based on a sexual relationship, and
implying a permanence of the union. Its definition varies in different perspectives,
such as whether a formal legal union is required (think of common-law marriage), or
whether more than two people can be involved (consider polygamy) (Little &
McGivern, 2012). Marriage is widely considered as the foundation of family. The
social norm is that the couple will produce children after marriage, that wise children
born out of marriage are often stigmatized as illegitimacy. Same as the couple
relationship, people’s attitudes towards marriage have changed a lot over the years.
From the above discussions, we can see that the couple, marriage and families'
intimacy transformation over decades are intertwined and interrelated as people are
moving from one life stage to another. Their attitudes towards family concepts since
they were born influence their intimate relationship with other individuals later on.
Though under the globalized world, people are much influenced by powerful Western
culture in a sense that present trends of human intimacy like confluent love, liquid
love, pure relationship, plastic sexuality are more visible in nowadays society. At the
same time, divorce rate is escalating and abnormal family structures such as
stepfamilies, gay and lesbian households emerge as a new wave. Such transformations
create social problems like teen pregnancy and family violence. Finally, we can say
that the negative impacts must not be overlooked by the government and social
support should be given in view of the consequences triggered.
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