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100 Sfaturi Pentru Minimalism
100 Sfaturi Pentru Minimalism
by Joshua Becker
I recently asked a question on social media I thought would be fun, “If you had the
chance, what advice would you give your 18-year-old self about minimalism?”
The responses were brilliant! So much so, I decided to collect the highlights here.
The wisdom contained in these responses goes beyond 18-year-olds. There is wonderful
truth contained here for all of us to hear—whether for the first time or the hundredth time.
2. I promise Starbucks isn’t worth it. You’re going to need the money, trust me.
4. Don’t promise anyone you will keep or treasure their possessions. It results in too much
guilt.
8. You won’t remember the things you bought at 18, but you will remember the trip you
took with your friend who later died of cancer.
10. Just because it’s on sale doesn’t mean you need it.
11. You don’t need to buy an outfit every time you go out.
12. Don’t let anyone (even mom and grandma) convince you that buying a house and
filling it full of family heirlooms is normal and what everyone does.
13. Experiences with loved ones will be what you cherish throughout life, not the stuff you
accumulate.
16. Don’t feel embarrassed by the hand-me-down 1977 Oldsmobile Omega. It’s a
wonderful gift.
17. Don’t buy clothes to make yourself feel happy, it just doesn’t work.
18. Don’t use credit cards to buy more junk you don’t need.
20. Filling your new apartment with all the pretty things from Target doesn’t give you
worth or your life meaning.
23. Everything you buy is an anchor. Someday when you want to pull up that anchor,
you’ll find you’re stuck and can’t go anywhere.
25. Patience, not instant gratification, is the gateway to a more joyful life.
27. That outfit won’t hide the fact that you’re unhappy and need to make big changes.
29. Sell your used college textbooks. You’re never going to look at them again.
30. Don’t get busy “keeping up with trends.” Buy what you like, but keep it simple and
classy.
31. Buy less, donate your time and money to those less fortunate.
32. All those VHS tapes and CDs are going to be obsolete in a short period of time.
33. Having more doesn’t equal happiness and stuff can actual be a cause of stress.
34. I know right now you really want to fit in. But your friends will love you and appreciate
you for who you are.
35. Try extreme minimalism (for the thrill of it) while you’re still single and free.
36. A house becomes a home when you add love, not stuff.
37. Most people are buying things they don’t need with money they don’t have to impress
people they don’t like.
38. It might be in style today, but give it a few months and no one will want it. Not even
Goodwill.
39. Regarding clothes: By the time you lose enough weight to fit into it, it will be out of
style.
40. It may have been a gift to you, but you don’t have to keep it for the rest of your life.
41. You’re going to get everything you ever wanted, and it still won’t be enough.
42. Don’t register for those special occasion dishes, glassware, and other fancy items
when you get married.
44. Appreciate the little things. They are the big things, and more valuable than any
material thing you’ll ever own.
45. If you can’t use it now, give it a new home to someone who will.
46. Don’t build a huge house, you don’t need it and it costs more than you think to
maintain.
47. The $10.00 wallet holds money as well as the $300.00 one, with an extra $290.00
inside!
48. Be happy you’re poor. Nothing helps you be a minimalist better than just not being
able to afford things.
49. Learn some budgeting skills! Your paycheck doesn’t have to be all spent before the
next one arrives.
50. There would be a lot less cleaning to do if you got rid of stuff!
51. Forget the materialistic stuff and focus on nurturing the relationships around you
instead.
52. Your self-worth has nothing to do with what you have or how clean your house is.
54. Never take into account the salary you might make tomorrow to justify an
expenditure today.
55. Do not buy a house early until you’re 100% about living in an area.
56. You do not need all this crap—your credit is way more important!
57. Instead of making Christmas lists of stuff you want, ask for adventures like tickets and
passes to shows, concerts, state parks, museums, zoos, and theme parks.
59. You don’t need as much as you think you need. You can retire in your 50’s if you don’t
waste so much.
60. You are never going to make a scrapbook. Stop hoarding junk.
63. The opinions of others cost you money. So learn to not care and save a fortune.
64. Do everything you can to save now for a down payment on your house.
66. Just because your mother hung onto things doesn’t mean you have to.
67. It’s much easier to never start with bad habits than to end them.
69. It is possible to get through life without buying every issue of Cosmopolitan magazine.
70. Things won’t fill the holes in your life and heart.
78. Don’t buy anything on impulse. Write down what you want, walk away, and give it a
couple of days.
79. Your dreams should include something better than a really big house.
80. Understand the difference between your real self and your fantasy self.
82. Minimalism is not about denying yourself pleasure, it’s about removing dead weight.
84. The bigger the wedding does not mean it’s better.
85. Don’t bother with jewelry. No one bothers to tell you that when you get older, you can’t
stand having it on.
87. We don’t buy things with money, but with hours of our lives.
90. Develop the habit of living on less money than you make.
91. It’s not how much you acquire, it’s what you do with what you have.
94. Most people spend half their life acquiring things, and the other half getting rid of
those things. Just skip the acquiring part.
100. Just because it’s free doesn’t mean you need it.
What would you add to the list? What advice would you give your 18-year-old self about
minimalism?