Nowadays, it is still a fundamental dilemma in society how adults
influence young people behaviour. Especially when it comes to teenagers that tend to be reluctant to listen to grownups. However, it is part of human being development to learn with those who already have experience. On the one hand, parents, teachers, and other authority figures usually advise youngers when they experience something unknown, even though children and teenager do not always listen to them, when raised in a well- structured environment, they know there will always be someone whom they can count on. On the other hand, when exposed to good examples, infants can osmose those habits, understanding their practical results in life. When adults are seen as someone they admire, youngers consistently repeat their attitudes - according to their immaturity - they may not be able to distinguish good and bad examples. For that reason, it is crucial to care about who the children are in contact with. Adults will always be an example for young people, they usually have more acknowledgement about things and for this reason, listen to them can make the difference when allied to a great sense to decide what to apply in your own life. To sum up, both setting an example or giving advice are crucial to younger development when used positively. The advice allows thinking about the situations, whereas examples involve more of repeating something. For that reason, I believe that the better way of being a good influence is through advising.