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Lockdown Reading To End DSM Psychiatry? - Mad in America: 23-29 Minutes
Lockdown Reading To End DSM Psychiatry? - Mad in America: 23-29 Minutes
Lockdown Reading To End DSM Psychiatry? - Mad in America: 23-29 Minutes
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“If Complex PTSD were ever given its due—that is, if the role of
dysfunctional parenting in adult psychological disorders was ever
fully recognized, the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of
Mental Disorders used by all mental health professionals) would
shrink to the size of a thin pamphlet.”
During the present pandemic, many who are in hospital, who have
lost loved ones and jobs, or who are locked down at home as
others quarantine in hotels, will be grieving an enormous sense of
loss. Though some might try to replace their loss with on-line
shopping, or with marathon mainstream and social media
consumption, others are embracing this sudden worldwide
disruption as an opportunity to join online book clubs and prayer or
meditation groups. Many more are admitting that life was already
precariously painful well before this pandemic which is forcing us to
change.
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Gibson’s definition of “who you really are” does not invoke identity
concepts derived from role-performance, but rather refers to our
core, primal feeling and emotional experiences of our world and the
people who are supposed to love and care for us. Emotionally
immature (EI) parents, however, do label their children according to
pre-conceived roles—according to a child’s actions,
accomplishments and choices. EI parents do this because they are
so self-absorbed, insecure, dominating, and controlling, that they
are unaware of their children’s inner experiences. Gibson further
describes EI parents as nervous, angry and punishing, rather than
comforting to their children. This shuts down children’s instinctive
healthy urge to reach out to their parents when they are afraid and
distressed.
Gibson then explains that our sense of “self” and feeling secure in
the world, begins in our childhood relationship with our
caretakers—our parents. If our parents are emotionally mature and
engaged, they will allow us to feel confident that we always have
someone secure to turn to. But those of us who were raised by EI
parents had no way to know that the hollow, empty and insecure
feeling inside us was a normal reaction to our parents’ emotional
immaturity. This lonely feeling is said to be a universal human
response to a lack of adequate human companionship (for which
some governments now appoint “Ministers for Loneliness”). Gibson
however, does not psychiatrically medicalize loneliness, instead
assuring her readers that it is the predictable result of growing up
(and perhaps still living) without receiving sufficient empathy.
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“Your parents gave you life and love, but only of the sort they knew.
You can honour them for that but cease to give them unwarranted
power over your emotional well-being.…”
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