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Ed Midterm
Ed Midterm
Ed Midterm
Laney Hermsen
Dr. Sullivan
11 October 2019
diversity is what makes us different. Whether it be individuals race, class, ethnicity, etc. we all
have things that make us different and with that comes acceptance. In the essays “How to do
Gender” and “Guys’ Club: No Faggots, Bitches, or Pussies Allowed”, many topics of
explored. These topics include but are not limited to emotional expression, display rules, framing
The first topic talked about in the book is emotional expression. Emotional expression is
talked about as “a way that many people rely on when they do not know how to say that they are
feeling (Wahl 154).” In relation to the other reading the author writes about a man at a bar who
drinks a beer while watching sports but when he is pulled over turns into a polite man and how
these are two different types of masculinity seen in men. When talking about men emotions are
not usually of topic of interest because due to this masculinity man are told by society to hide
their emotions as it is not manly to show them. In reality emotional expression should be able to
be felt by all genders but society has created a stigma around emotional men.
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Next in the book is display rules and these are defined as “prescriptions for what kinds
and amounts of emotional expression are appropriate (Wahl 157).” In addition, also defined in
the book is Framing Rules, meaning “the standards taught to us by society or a culture or a
society that help us define what certain situations are supposed to mean to us emotionally (Wahl
157).” In the chapter the idea of feeling rules is also talked about and defined as “refers to what
people should feel or have the right to feel in a given situation (Wahl 158).” For example, when
we graduate or get married society has this view that an individual should be happy and if they
feel any other emotion people become concerned. When looking at society it is amazing to think
about the amounts of jobs that require us to have specific emotional demeanors. One idea is
being a doctor, being a doctor requires you to keep a very professional attitude because if you
were giving a patient a check up and started laughing you would most likely lose patients
quickly.
In relation to our reading “Guys’ Club: No Faggots, Bitches, or Pussies Allowed” the
author opens the essay by talking about a personal experience. In this recollection of a vivid
memory the author writes about a trip where he witnessed his sister painting her nails and he was
mesmerized by the pretty colors, leading him to want his nails painted. Immediately he recalls
his aunt laughing and blowing off this silly request until he whined so much that she gave in to
teach him a “lesson”. This interaction with his aunt was meant to be a way to show him that nail
polish is for girls and many people would assume that this would be the lesson that he took away
but in reality the author went against framing rules and took a different lesson away. He was able
to learn about societies stereotypes and it gave him fire to write this essay standing up to them.
As for display rules and feeling rule in this situation this little boy was not reacting as society felt
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he should and he was showing emotions and a want for something that others felt he shouldn’t
want.
The final idea talked about in the reading is hate speech which is defined as “insulting
discourse, phrases, terms, cartoons, or organized campaigns used to humiliate people based on
age, gender, race, ethnicity, culture, sexual identity, social class, and more (Wahl 118).” Hate
speech is seen in the essay “Guys’ Club: No Faggots, Bitches, or Pussies Allowed” when a
classmate calls the author a faggot on the playground. This instance is a reminder that not all
speech is good and not all words are uplifting. Hate speech is witnessed an unimaginable amount
of times throughout our day to day lives to the point where we have become immune to it.
Constantly in today’s society name that are demeaning to certain groups are used as insults when
joking around. These insults are used so much individuals are desensitized to them.
Topics of emotional expression, display rules, framing rules, feeling rules, and hate
speech are seen in the essays “How to do Gender” and “Guys’ Club: No Faggots, Bitches, or
Pussies Allowed”. Many factors come into play when looking into disconnects in society. People
need to remember to be conscious of diversity and differences when being around other.