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Kottman & Meany Walen (2018) - Cap 2 - Pick A Theory-1-6
Kottman & Meany Walen (2018) - Cap 2 - Pick A Theory-1-6
PLAY
THERAPY
From Building the Relationship
to Facilitating Change
Terry Kottman
Kristin K. Meany‑Walen
Icaln this chapter, we are going to focus on the “systematic use of a theoreti-
model” part of the APT definition of play therapy in Chapter 1. (We
hope everyone reading the book is interested, too, because we think it is
important.) Not being part of the committee that developed that defini-
tion, we aren’t exactly 100% sure why they included it. However, since we
also think it is essential, we thought we should explain why we believe
play therapists (and counselors who work with adults, teens, etc.) should
have a consistent method for systematically conceptualizing clients and
coming up with a “Big A agenda” (your long-term goals and objectives
for your clients) and a “small a agenda” (a plan for specific sessions). We
completely agree with Kevin O’Connor, co-founder of the APT, who in
Foundations of Play Therapy (Schaefer, 2011) said that “therapists can be
effective only when they consistently work from an organized theoretical
framework” (p. 254). The simplest way for you to work from an organized
theoretical framework (short of developing your own counseling theory,
which is possible and lovely if you are willing to do the work to consider
all of the following questions listed later and develop a consistent way
to think about clients and their issues and how to help them) is to pick
one of the established theoretical approaches to play therapy. In order to
help you consider adopting a theoretical framework for your play therapy,
we thought we would give you some information about how to go about
exploring the various frameworks.
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40 D oing P lay T herapy
1. What do you believe about the basic nature of people? Are people
inherently good (positive, self-actualizing, etc.); bad (negative, irra-
tional, evil, etc.); or neutral? Or some combination of these? If you
believe people are some combination of good, bad, and neutral, how
would you describe the configuration of these factors?
2. How are personalities formed/constructed?
a. What factors influence the formation of personality?
b. What combination of heredity/environment influences the forma-
tion of personality? Which do you believe is more important in
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After you have answered each of the questions about your philo-
sophical beliefs and how you believe counseling and play therapy can
help people, the next step in discovering the theory with which you most
closely align is to consider how each of these questions is answered by
the various theoretical approaches to play therapy. We are only experts
in Adlerian play therapy. We have done our best to research the answers
for the other approaches, and we could have gotten them wrong. So, the
ultimate method of doing this part of the quest is for you to do your own
research and figure out for yourself how each approach to play therapy
would answer the questions. (We know, you are probably thinking, “If I
wanted to answer all this stuff for myself, I wouldn’t have had to buy this
book.” Unless, of course, you had to buy it for a class.) Our ultimate goal
is to pique your interest enough so that you will be willing to investigate
further, and to help you narrow down the choices enough that it isn’t
completely overwhelming to seek out further depth to the two or three
approaches that connect with your mind and your heart. We have pro-
vided a list of references for each of the approaches in Appendix A to give
you a head start on the journey.
ADLERIAN PLAY THERAPY
1. What do you believe about the basic nature of people? Good (positive,
self-actualizing, etc.), bad (negative, irrational, evil, etc.), or neutral?
Or some combination?
Adlerians believe that people are basically positive and self-
actualizing (Adler, 1931/1958; Ansbacher & Ansbacher, 1956; Carl-
son & Englar-Carlson, 2017; Maniacci, Sackett-Maniacci, & Mosak,
2014). Adlerian theory is a very optimistic approach to conceptualiz-
ing people. Adlerians believe that all people are born with the capac-
ity to learn to connect with others (this is called “social interest” in
Adlerian theory) and that parents, schools, and society must foster
the full development of that connectedness in children as they grow.