Reported Questions

S + asked + whether/if + statement form of the Question

Examples:
Why didn't you phone me?

John asked Anne whether she hadn’t phoned him.

Are you coming to my party?

Paul asked Sarah whether she was coming to his party.

Reported Requests
S + asked + O + to do something
Examples:
"Please turn the music down."
Sybil asked her sons to turn the music down.
“Don’t forget to lock the door”
James asked Jessica not to forget to lock the door.

Reported Imperatives
S + told + O + to do something
Examples:
"Stop being silly!"
The teacher told the children to stop being silly.
“Slow the car down”
My father told me to slow the car down.