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Speaking:: Sure If I Can Come. I Hope That You Can Make It To My Place This Evening
Speaking:: Sure If I Can Come. I Hope That You Can Make It To My Place This Evening
Speaking:: Sure If I Can Come. I Hope That You Can Make It To My Place This Evening
Speaking:
One evening while sipping coffee when Mark Twain The situation you are in; (at a friend’s party,
peeped out of his window, the sight terrified him. He at an official reception, etc.)
deserted his coffee and he dashed towards the house
The mood you are in; (angry, happy, nervous)
across the rood forced spin the door, surprising the
owner of it said, “Sir, I am Mark Twain. I and my wife The mood of the people you are talking to;
live in the house opposite to yours. We have learnt that (you will probably be careful when talking to
you’ve shifted here last week. Since then we both think a friend who is in a bad mood)
of inviting you to our place for a cup of coffee, but I am
extremely sorry as we could not do so neither drop in What you are talking about; (you will be more
to ask for any help that we can give. I sincerely careful in your choice of words if you want to
apologise for the and certainly will be pleased if you complain to a friend about his/her behaviour
drop in to our place for a coffee coming Sunday. than you would if you were inviting him for
Anyway I have right now come to tell you that the first dinner)
floor of your house is on fire. It is important to choose appropriate ways of saying
things according to the situation you are in. In many
situations it will be appropriate to use normal or neutral
Speaking is a natural mode of expression. We language. In other situations, it is necessary to use
speak more than we write. We spend our time speaking language items that are appropriate to special
to one another. The language and manner of our situations.
speech depend up on the audience and the speaking
situations. Sometimes we converse with someone, we We use tentative language when we are unsure
make an oral presentation, sometimes we instruct of our facts or of how we feel in order to be tactful
someone, sometimes we attend, sometimes we brief a and diplomatic.
team and even sometimes we speak to ourselves. The Example: It’s very kind of you to invite me, but I’m not
matter and the manner both change from one speech sure if I can come.
activity to another speech activity.
I hope that you can make it to my place this evening.
When we communicate through speaking we are
judged by the audience in terms of how well we Direct language is the opposite of tentative
communicate. We enjoy listening to a person who language; it gives the impression that the speaker
impresses us, who gives us something new, who relates is very sure. But it can sound rude and
us things and ideas properly, who imports knowledge inappropriate in many situations, like inviting a
to us, who knows how to choose words, who knows superior to a party.
what we want to listen to or what we want to learn Example: No. You are mistaken. The statistics cannot
from him or her, who knows how to bind us to himself be this high.
or herself emotionally by his or her expression and
style. It is the personality or the identity of the person We use polite language when we want to sound
that gets manifested through our speech. particularly polite without being tentative.
Example: I’m sorry, but I feel there is a mistake
somewhere. According to my calculations, the
Aids to Effective Speech: statistics should not be so high.
(i) Speech Styles: Some of these are the formal, Formal language creates the impression of social
informal, polite, blunt, tentative and direct styles. distance between people. It is used mostly in
These styles are context bases and it is important for official situations; e.g. business meetings and
speakers to strike the right attitude and choose the official receptions.
right language. As with many other languages, in Example: I’d be delighted if you could make it to the
English too, you have different ways of expressing party. We’ll all look forward to it.
the same content and message. The style you
choose will depend upon some or all of the Informal language is usually used between
following: friends, it is generally inappropriate to use it with
anyone else.
The relationship you have with the people
you are taking to (whether they are close Example: Cut it out, will you? I’ve had enough of this.
friends, strangers, people in authority and so The best style to be used while conversing is a mixture
on) of all these styles depending upon the situation and not
the dominance of any one tone.
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(ii) Audience: One has to successfully judge the historian of expressions make a speaker
audience their level of knowledge, aptitude and so his times has effective.
on. remarked for
Looking at the Audience or making
his speaking
In making a speech or even in our day-to-day an Eye-Contact: The effective
ability that
conversation the audience has a great role to speaker looks straight into the eyes
he appeared
determine the material to be used and the of the members of the audience to
2 feet taller
approach to be followed. We have to look into find out the reactions of the
when he
following factors that decide the nature of listeners. It also shows the speaker’s
stood to
audience for the speech. confidence in himself or herself and
speak among
his or her interest in the listeners. In
1. Number of members. people.
an oral presentation an effective
2. Nature of purpose.
speaker keeps on changing his or her
3. Age
eye-contact with the member of the
4. Sex
audience, becomes alert while
5. Academic background.
listening to the presentation.
6. Present knowledge in the subject
Drooping head and a slouched and
of the talk.
fidgety stance hint at sloppiness.
7. Interest
The quizzical gaze and the lifting of
8. State of mind.
eyebrows also influence the
9. Physical state.
audience. Furtive glance show
10. Expectations
nervousness.
Speak to 11. Cultural background-religious
the and regional. Hand Movements: The hand
people. 12. Social background-community, movements indicate both
caste and class. psychological states of one’s being
13. Biases and prejudices. highly emotional and animated or
relaxed and carefree. An efficient
(iii) Body Language: The audience gets as much speaker gives an indication about his
information from our body language as from our
other relaxed state or animated
verbal means. We keep on making body pictures
state depending, upon the subject
of what we feel or thing at the time of speaking.
matter of the speech in an oral
When our visuals match our verbals we make an
presentation. The free use of
authentic presentation of what we speak. Body
gestures through hands reflects a
language is highly individualized. Our first
positive attitude towards the
impressions are bases of non-verbal
listeners. The efficient speaker
communication. Body language is helpful when a
shows his or her neutral thinking or
problem is complex; it also speeds up the
evaluation by stroking or rubbing of
problem-solving in an oral presentation. Some of
the chin or forehead. Sagging hands
the significant means of body language are as
display nervousness effecting low
follows:
credibility.
Smile: The smile is a very powerful Standing Posture: The comfortable
gesture. If it is used appropriately it posture for standing is to stand erect
may hide the inner nervousness and with the hands out of pockets and
make the audience response with a the feet slightly apart. One should
smile. When we smile we relax our not stand behind a desk.
vocal cords which, in effect, make
An upright posture indicates
our voice much interesting.
confidence. Walk among the
However, not only smiling but other
audience generates caution among
facial expressions showing anger,
listeners.
Napoleon interest, happiness, disgust,
Bonaparte, contempt, surprise, fear and love
(iv) Attention: The attention of the audience during a
the 5 feet can be effective in communicating
presentation generally goes through an attention
tall French information. It is very difficult for
curve. It starts on a high, drops a little first and
emperor is many to communicate false
more steeply later. It rises again towards the end
known in information through contrary facial
and further up for the last few minutes. Some of
history for expressions. Positive expressions
the ways the audience can be kept interested are
his speeches. like interest, happiness, surprise etc.
the following;
A French too communicated by facial
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I. Look into points where the attention curve (iii)The end: The way a presentation
drops and consider ways of varying the ends is again very important,
texture, (If your presentation has been largely Primarily, this is what the audience
oral, bring in an audio visual slide or have an will remember the presentation as.
interactive session that will ensure
participation.) (vi) Language: Other than style language should have at
least two more qualities:
II. Divide speech into parts a sections keep each
section short. Word Order: There should be a logical and systematic
order of words in our speech. We should an order
III. Involve audience into your speech; decide of words so that our speech is both relevant and
what you want from them. good, largely this use can be studied in two heads
relevance; important words come first or at the
(v) Prepare in Advance:
beginning. Decoration to enrich what we write by
Researching the subject: It is important to be clear using words – this can be done by a fitting use of
about the objectives of the presentation to the synonyms and antonyms.
audience you are presenting to.
Use similar words with different
Selecting the content: Once the information has been antonyms.
gathered, it is necessary to filter out the non-
Use synonyms combined by
essential points. One has to then group the ideas
‘and’ or ‘to’
under separate headings; classify the information
depending on the available time and keep the Use opposite words together.
matter strictly to the point.
Signposting: We should have several signposts in our
Planning for the talk: speech. Signposts mean certain marks in our
speech that we refer to again and again. We
To get the message effectively normally have such marks when.
across, one has to carefully draw out
We introduce an example or a
a presentation layout. A well-
typical explanation
planned presentation is always a
well-received one. The important We refer to a quotation,
Opening
factors to be considered at this reference or a part or section of
should so
stage are the following: our speech.
arouse
interest and (1) The beginning: During a It can be between different parts
curiosity of presentation one is always sure of of speech or between your
the reader the first few minutes of the present and previous speech. It
that it takes audience’s attention. One therefore may also be used to relate your
him to the has to be very careful about the speech with some other speech.
middle, beginning. Make an impression that
Signposts are useful to a large
which will hold the attention of the people.
extent. They enrich and bring
should be One can start with a quotation, a
variety in our speech.
so web that question, a dialogue or even an
it lads him anecdote, a fable or a parable. A By using signpost we avoid
to the end joke, an unusual definition or a repetition of words thoughts and
startling statements or statistics too examples. We rather use
can be an effective beginning. signposts to refer to an example
quoted earlier.
(ii)The middle: After making
impressive beginnings one has to be We not merely speak less but
able to deliver the contents also make the impression of our
effectively. The contents should be more grouted in the listener.
well structured, be logically
We keep the audience interest in
connected and effectively lead
our speech by signposts.
towards a specific goal. To sustain
the interest of the audience, it is Signposts help the audience
important to include examples and recall what is said earlier thus
personal experiences, which will catching their attention and
make the material authentic and holding their involvement in the
interesting. speech.
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Pitch of the Voice: The speaker can make his or her Learn in advance to use on OHP.
speech or an oral presentation effective by
Rehearse thoroughly, so that you get used to
starting deep down the notes. According to
placing and removing the slides without any
the nature of the text he or she should
awkward movement.
modulate his or her voice between high and
low. The speech becomes more meaningful Take care to see that you use colours that are
when the speaker makes use of tonal bright and aid clarity.
variations. For effective speaking a speaker
Organise the information you have to give
needs practice in increasing the range of his
under heads and subheads. Remember that
or her voice. None likes a monotonous tone.
the organization you give will help organize
Power of the voice: The speaker should vary the power the matter in the participant’s mind.
of his or her voice. For thought provoking
Power point presentations: They are today the most
passages he or she should drop the power
common form of presentations. Power Point operates
as it has a surprisingly greater influence on
through slides which have to be prepared vary carefully
the listeners than raising power.
as they can make or mar a presentation. Power Point
Pausing: An efficient speaker does not rush through the creates a lot of interest and brings in variety and life
speech while making an oral presentation. into a presentation.
He or she makes pauses to give the audience
Body language: As we communicate more through our
adequate time to collect and digest the
body we should cultivate the language of our body too.
contents of the speech.
Body movements: need to be monitored. They
should rather show our confidence and
Aids to Effective Presentation: preparation.
Audio-visual Aid: Audio-visual aid supplements our Gestures, expressions & eye contact: Assertive
message making our speech vivid and interesting. An attitude with right postures of gestures is
effective speaker with right use of these instruments required eye contact helps in forming a
can make a presentation effective arresting the rapport with the audience.
attention of the audience. Use of these aids leads to a Space: Depending upon the situation make
better effect on the audience. It helps them remember use of the space between you and audience.
the contents better and assimilate the matter more Preferably commute this space or decrease it
effectively. Sometimes visual aids save presentation by standing close to audience. Public space
time and also make the presenter’s work easier. Some denotes lot of distance. Social space brings in
of the commonly used visual aids are: familiarity.
Flip charts Language: This section has been dealt with detail in
Overhead projectors writing (chapter) while in presentation special
attention should be paid to the following.
Slides
Words: Choice of words is demanded in all
Power Point presentations spoken exercises. Avoid vague words. Prefer
Flip charts: These are the blank or prepared sheets of using active voice. Use second person pronoun
charts that are put up during a presentation as visual in speech rather than I and always instead of
aids. They can be used to generate ideas or quickly III person pronoun.
record the responses that can be later organised and Brevity: Use simple & clear language as it can
ordered. be understood by all. Ease of language and
Overhead projectors (OHP): Like the flip chart, the understanding can be maintained by
OHP, can be used in two ways. It can either be prepared observing brevity.
in an advance or written during the presentation as an Organise: Your speech well. Divide it into
alternative to using the flip chart, like writing in the flip parts. It should have an opening elaborate the
chart, the transparency sheet too has to be carefully definition you laid at the onset of your speech
prepared. Some of the factors to be kept in mind while and always conclude with what you began.
making an OHP presentation are:
Use transparencies to show only the
important points.
Do not crowd the transparency sheet with too
many points on a single sheet.
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Ensure that everyone not merely gives his Look at the topic from all possible angles
views but they are also incorporated with and viewpoints.
yours when a final outlook is being accepted.
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Government Opposition
1. Prime Minister 1. Leader of the
opposition
2. Minister of the
Crown (or 2. Member of the
Member of the Opposition
Government)
Telephone these days is the most widely used Do not ramble while talking.
means of oral communication. We seldom realise that Do not exploit the condition that caller on the
a telephonic talk also needs to be planned. Planning a other side cannot see you and you can
telephonic talk not only saves time and money: but simultaneously execute some other talk or
brings the much needed clarity in the process of task.
information exchange following are the invited
Answer calls promptly, quickly and in time.
qualities for a good telephonic conversation.
Avoid talking on Bad lines and cross
Concise: Avoid lengthy talks and discussions on phone
connections.
as our memory doesn’t allow us to remember
everything.
Talk only purposeful or relevant matter.
Exchange appropriate & needed information.
Do take down notes if the talks involve a
message to be transferred to a third person.
Summarise all talks towards the end of
discussion.
Always exchange greetings while starting and
when ending a telephonic discussion.
Clarity of language: This also is a barrier to all
telephonic discussion. If the language is not clear no
communication can take place.
Always be courteous while talking on phone.
Use largely formal language and completely
avoid the use of slang and colloquial words.
Speak legibly with proper intonation and
pronunciation.
Do not rush up with words instead talk
patiently and politely.
Avoid distractions whatsoever they be. These
distractions lift us from what we our talking.
There should not be ambiguous and confusing
expressions in our conversation.
Accessories:
A pen and writing pad to take down notes
whenever needed.
Always take notes of messages to be
transferred to someone else.
Always note down telephone numbers,
addresses, reference and similar parts of
information being exchanged.
Voice modulation: We should ensure that our
voice reaches clearly and lucidly to the other
end and should modulate our voice as needed.
Avoid:
Before initiating a conversation we should at
first confirm the identity of the person we
intend to talk with.
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Effective speaking forms the crux of The conclusion of the speech leaves the final
communicative skills; it is striking the impression on the minds of the listeners. A well-
right attitude and the right language at conceived conclusion not only signals the end of the
the right place. speech but also reinforces the central idea in the mind
of the listeners. A goods speech may lose all its impact
Developing a positive attitude to if the conclusion is loose. A strong ending leaves the
speaking increases the confidence level. audience brooding and cogitation over the speech they
Researching the subject, selecting the have just heard. The techniques to draw an ending of
content, planning for the talk is vital the speech are:
before a presentation. By giving verbal clues like “Let
Remember to divide your presentation me end by saying”, “Before I
into short sections. This will ensure Conclude”, “One Last Point”, “
audience attention. In conclusion”, “To sum up”, “To
conclude” etc.
An effective presenter should prefer
‘social space’; avoid ‘public space’ and By our manner of delivery
use body language, eye contact and decreasing the pitch of the tone
intonation effectively. to lower notes.
Good visual aids can immensely improve By slowing down the articulation
the quality of the presentation. of words and phrases.
Good listening forms an important part The speech should not end with the
of group discussion. expressions like “I think that’s all I had to say”. In fact
the conclusion should make it clear to the audience
An effective chairperson of a meeting has what they should do next. The conclusion should
to be firm but sensitive to individual generate the last though in the mind of the listeners
speakers and listeners. regarding the issues taken up in the speech.
2) What is the importance of stress and intonation in 15) A successful telephone conversationalist takes care
speaking? of a few aspects consistently. Discuss.
3) What are the effective skills of speaking? 16) What are the essentials of a goods leader?
4) What role does a proper planning and organizing of 17) Discuss the trek of Group Discussion?
the subject matter have in effective speaking? 18) What role does Body language has in a Group
5) What are visual aids? Reflect on different kinds of Discussion?
visual aids. 19) What preparations are necessary for an effective
6) The non-verbal language of the speaker is as meeting?
important as the verbal language”. Explain. 20) What are the skills required for conducting a
7) How does the knowledge about the audience meeting effectively.
effect speaking? 21) What is Agenda? How do the agenda of a meeting
8) What are the different factors one has to be indicate the prospects of a meeting?
sensitive to, to become an effective speaker? 22) Compare the trek of a meeting with that of a group
9) During a presentation, how does a speaker ensure Discussion.
audience involvement? 23) Discuss the skills useful for a telephonic
10) What preparations are necessary before giving a conversation.
presentation? 24) Discuss the utility of negotiation in a Group
11) What are the factors crucial to an effective group Discussion.
discussion?