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If that’s the case, you’ve got to think “OK, that means I’ll
probably have to put in a little more time into each
friendship. That means I’m going to have fewer
friendships. Then I’ll put more energy into them, but I’ll
get even more out of them.”
Missing Opportunities
Point number three is: you’re ruining opportunities.
This means you are coming into contact with people.
Maybe you even have friends in your life, but then
you’re losing them. It’s like you’re actually doing
something to repel people.The reason that is is because
you’re ruining the opportunities for building lasting
friendships.
Have Confidence
The fourth point is the reason that people don’t’ have
friends is because they’re very shy, and they’re very
unconfident in social situations, even if they’re out and
about. They’re just very shy, in their shells, or they are
fake in their conversations.
You can’t expect the other person to do all the work for
you. You have to share yourself too. You have to put
yourself on the line. You have to take your own ideas
and the things that you love about life, and you have to
share those. The other person can’t read your mind.
They don’t know what you’re into.
Your life right now, it’s like this pattern, this habit of just
going to work or going home, or doing stuff that’s very
isolated and insulating. Instead, you want to open that
up. That means you need to go join some new group.
Join a club, join an organisation. Go hang out with the
people that are at work.