Now, I fully understand the culture of individualism and collectivism.

These two

have a significant impact on how one thinks and behave. A person who adopts an

individualistic culture is more independent, assertive, and self-governed. At the same

time, a collective person prefers social groups and values social harmony, respectfulness,

and group needs over individual needs.

Identifying what culture our self belongs to is not that easy. Questioning our self-

identity won't give us a definite answer considering that it comprises many factors.

Analyzing my behaviors and the environment I grew up in, I recognized that I stand in the

middle of both natures. Living in the Philippines, a collectivist country that enlightens us

on the importance of family relationships, significantly impacts how I value my family. As

I grew up, I learned to prioritize the needs of the family before anything else. We need to

sacrifice our wants and desires for the sake of the family's necessity. Since I was born,

I've been with my family, and I can say that they have a vital role in shaping my

personality. The expectations and opinions of other people matter to me. That is why I

always try to strive hard to be a good daughter, sister, student, and friend.

On the other hand, there is a part of my identity that I consider as individualistic. I

am an introverted person; that is why sometimes I tend to separate myself from a group.

There are instances where I am more effective in working alone with my ideas and decide

for myself. I like being alone where I can manage and focus on my goals and be

independent.